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godguy:
Hello House,

my wife just out to bed about 3 weeks ago through CS. i will like to asked couples in the house the best or right time to resume sexual activities with my wife (based on your experiences), i noticed that she is most dry during fore play, thinking of giving her more time.

thanks

give her an additional two/three weeks,for a better healing.meanwhile feed her on more fruits to energize her enough to meet up the "sexual exercise".coming out strong from a CS related delivery is usually not that easy,tho depends on the kinda woman,her state of mind and inward strength.

Mutuwa:
give her an additional two/three weeks,for a better healing.meanwhile feed her on more fruits to energize her enough to meet up the "sexual exercise".coming out strong from a CS related delivery is usually not that easy,tho depends on the kinda woman,her state of mind and inward strength.

thanks for you advise

godguy:
Hello House,

my wife just out to bed about 3 weeks ago through CS. i will like to asked couples in the house the best or right time to resume sexual activities with my wife (based on your experiences), i noticed that she is most dry during fore play, thinking of giving her more time.

thanks

Bro pls check the title!

lecturerdabo:
Bro pls check the title!

thanks

lecturerdabo:
Bro pls check the title!

LOL

Oga give her more time oo bcoz according to u she gave birth through CS, she needs more time 2 heal, tnk u n congrats on ur new baby.

Sleekbaby:
Oga give her more time oo bcoz according to u she gave birth through CS, she needs more time 2 heal, tnk u n congrats on ur new baby.

What is more time? Just give specifics...more time could be two years or five months...people sha!

You need to read this https://www.nairaland.com/2631626/moms-diary-he-killed

godguy:
Hello House,

my wife just out to bed about 3 weeks ago through CS. i will like to asked couples in the house the best or right time to resume sexual activities with my wife (based on your experiences), i noticed that she is most dry during fore play, thinking of giving her more time.

thanks

6-8 weeks to be on the safe side. You don't want to loosen any stitches or cause pain. CS is a major surgery. You wouldn't want to have se.x when your lower abdomen is opened and poked to extract a 3.5 kg tumor. Youve to heal first. Meanwhile, use of mouth and hand will be advisable.

3 weeks after birth and you're jumping her body, and it was CS. Na wa for you o... I'm sure the doctor/OBGYN mentioned it was a standard 6 weeks AFTER birth. They always tell the couple (so as to let the woman's body heal).

And even after that 6 weeks, please go and buy KY gel for lubrication (it is cheap, gwan buy am before you cause another wahala medically by using body lotion or Vaseline ). Hormones will make the place dry for a while.

Sleekbaby:
Oga give her more time oo bcoz according to u she gave birth through CS, she needs more time 2 heal, tnk u n congrats on ur new baby.

thanks

thanks all for your advise,

please i will like to hear from mothers in the house, based on experience.

please mods, Lalasticlala, help me move this to where i can get more opinions

You are hearing from mothers. Give it more time. If it those stitches open up due to any excessive exercise (sex is exercise), it won't be funny.
Use this time of celibacy to build a stronger marriage: help out with the baby and chores, even if you go to work. Feel free to cuddle your wife (she will be so exhausted and her hormones will be driving her crazy). Do your baby research online so when she has any fears (a lot will pop up especially if she's breastfeeding), both of you can discuss it together with information at hand. I promise you, do all these and when. sex resumes, she will be so willing. Because. you've acted like a husband and a leader.

Onegai:
You are hearing from mothers. Give it more time. If it those stitches open up due to any excessive exercise (sex is exercise), it won't be funny.
Use this time of celibacy to build a stronger marriage: help out with the baby and chores, even if you go to work. Feel free to cuddle your wife (she will be so exhausted and her hormones will be driving her crazy). Do your baby research online so when she has any fears (a lot will pop up especially if she's breastfeeding), both of you can discuss it together with information at hand. I promise you, do all these and when. sex resumes, she will be so willing. Because. you've acted like a husband and a leader.

thanks alot for the words.

godguy:
Hello House,

my wife just out to bed about 3 weeks ago through CS. i will like to asked couples in the house the best or right time to resume sexual activities with my wife (based on your experiences), i noticed that she is most dry during fore play, thinking of giving her more time.

thanks

why are you asking nlers?

don't you have gumption you can use?

When she gives you permission to do so.

tpiander:
why are you asking nlers?

don't you have gumption you can use?

because i want to hear from mothers based on their experiences

godguy:
because i want to hear from mothers based on their experiences

what is there to hear?

use your common sense or don't you have any?

tpiander:
what is there to hear?

use your common sense or don't you have any?

Oh shut up you foolish old slu....tpot!
Like you have any bloody senses yourself....... Were agbalagba!

tpiander:
what is there to hear?

use your common sense or don't you have any?

sorry Mr, there is no sense that is common.

godguy:
Hello House,

my wife just out to bed about 3 weeks ago through CS. i will like to asked couples in the house the best or right time to resume sexual activities with my wife (based on your experiences), i noticed that she is most dry during fore play, thinking of giving her more time.

thanks

godguy:
because i want to hear from mothers based on their experiences

With this few point of ours, I hope we have been able to convince and to confuse you. Tanchu

godguy:
sorry Mr, there is no sense that is common.

oh, if you already know, then try to acquire some.

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tpiander:
oh, if you already know, then try to acquire some.

this thread is meant for adults and married couples

godguy:
this thread is meant for adults and married couples

like I said, use your common sense to figure out your answer.

tpiander:
like I said, use your common sense to figure out your answer.

Just imagining why u didn't seek advice n counsel from the same doctor dat delivered your wife

use dis ur free period dey gada money 4 baby dedication joor

My wife gave birth through normal delivery, the doctors told us that we should wait for six weeks before we can do anything. Also, she had an appointment with her gynecologist after six weeks to make sure everything was okay. Everything was okay according to the doctor, but I added additional two weeks before we had intercourse. I think you should give her more time before making love with her because it wasn't a natural delivery. Three weeks is too small in my opinion.

d25:
My wife gave birth through normal delivery, the doctors told us that we should wait for six weeks before we can do anything. Also, she had an appointment with her gynecologist after six weeks to make sure everything was okay. Everything was okay according to the doctor, but I added additional two weeks before we had intercourse. I think you should give her more time before making love with her because it wasn't a natural delivery. Three weeks is too small in my opinion.

thanks for the advice