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| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Gboliwe: 1:12pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
stag:Matter closed. The instinct of man, what some call gut feeling is a very strong part of man. Most wahala can be avoided if we listen to and sharpen our instinct. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Yankybabyface: 1:14pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Guy run for ur dear life i be confirm wafi guy dat tin na scam notin like dat dey hpn,and mke i tel u no ever trust ur frnd reach dat extent,work no dey warri my guy |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by tforever(m): 1:14pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Sylver247:my advice don't do it there are better things you can do with 65k and be glad you did.. But all the same it still your decision. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Sylver247(op): 1:16pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
obinnajr:Calm down now, u are talking from a distance u dont know how things are for me. I repeat that the guy is a nice person but u know people can always change. its not just abt the money but the stress and dashed hope plus the bad memory it will leave me with. And u dont have to insult to pass ur message ok |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by bobkezel(m): 1:16pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
I had a similar experience but i used delay tactics to discover i was about being scammed and i played along but didn't pay a dime. Guy you are about to be scammed. That your friend doesn't work in shell. The 40k he promised to pay on your behalf is just a bait, don't fall for it. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Sylver247(op): 1:19pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
WhiZTiM:Thanks but I really do not want this to affect him in anyway. Just want to know if this sort of thing happens. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by chukslawrence(m): 1:19pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Only if you knw what happen to me, I bet you'd run for your life. Someone i took as my uncle defraud me of #160,000 in the name of selling his car. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Sylver247(op): 1:20pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Dyt:No thanks, I dont want him investigated. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Sylver247(op): 1:21pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
menix:Touching story...thanks |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by chukslawrence(m): 1:22pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Sylver247:Only if you knw what happen to me, I bet you'd run for your life. Someone i took as my uncle defraud me of #160,000 in the name of selling his car. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Sylver247(op): 1:22pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
EbolaParasite:This is just what I wanted to confirm...Thanks. And I will do as youve adviced. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Sylver247(op): 1:24pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
9jatriot:This is what I wanted to confirm...Thanks |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Nobody: 1:27pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Sylver247:25k.... Pay it,give it a try! You won't die if u lose 25k |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Sylver247(op): 1:28pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
lastpage:Thank u sir for this comment. I emphasized clearly in my post that this guy is someone I trust. Will I trust him if hes not a good person? But u know NIgerians will always be Nigerians. Reading wrong meanings into everything |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by obinnajr(m): 1:28pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Sylver247:AM SORRY, MAYBE I SOUNDED HARSH BUT I KNEW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO HELP SOMEONE.. THE ONLY THING I CAN DO FOR MY FRIEND BOTH REAL AND FAKE IS TO GET THEM FIXED WITH A JOB IF I HAVE ONE COS IF U DONT, THEY CANT STOP ASKING YOU FOR MONEY.... LIFE IS ALL ABOUT SACRIFICE.. HAVE FAITH AND TRY... BUT RISK TRYING COS EVERY SUCCESFUL MAN HAD A STORY LINE LIKE YOURS. THANK YOU FRIEND |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by jomoh: 1:36pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
[quote author=Sylver247 post=38688229][/quote]I understand that you know him personally but "people change" is the main problem. 1. Everyone has friends they used to trust very well but due to distance and time you don't know what they've been up to. Until you see them in person to assess the kind of person they are lately, their present life style matters a lot. That is why I asked if you've met one on one lately. 2. Are you sure he really works with shell and not a contract staff, labourer or security. Be sure of his position in the organisation. 3. Even if its been a long time, you can still take the risk. Through your conversation, you can still determine little of what he is capable of. As in, is he really living comfortable to be able to give 40k or more than? If truly he can afford such and you've confirmed the existence and price of the course then you can take the risk and go ahead but don't stake too much on it and always be prepared for disappointment. If he now fvcks up then just accept it as what God has ordained. If you refuse to take the risk and it turns out to be true, you might live to regret the missed opportunity for life but what you loose if it turns out false will only be for a short time(maximum 6months) |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by divinelove(m): 1:49pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Sylver247:ok tell him u have run around and could only raise 22k but the ppl promised to give you tha money at months end (find out the deadline and time this to be after that) plead with your frnd to help you pay up everything that you will balance him the 22k at months ends. now if he pays for you continue to give him stories of hw those ppl disappointed you until u r certain the job is for real then balance him and move on ![]() just use your brains, brain man meet super brain man. jst drive dt guy for 911 way sand full joor ![]() i kw this is a scam we cant be too sure therefore show him u ve super strong brain cells (make him pay for u using superior tactics if he backs out then its confirmed scam) |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Lesgupnigeria(m): 1:53pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
400billionman:you dey here? |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by 247Dior(m): 1:59pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
bro since u said he's working with shell.. and u need a job, truth is if u must succeed in life u have to take bold step, with only 25k for a job. it's a risk worth taking... just be positive and pay the money and leave the rest to God..... |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by yuppieman(m): 2:10pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
@OP, you have to be very careful about friends you have not seen in a while; People change a lot these days. Sometimes in 2011, I was scammed of 50k by a very close friend of mine, mind you, I lived with this friend in the same flat for 2yrs. This is my story, this friend was my flatmate while I was working in port harcourt. While in port harcourt, I did virtually everything with this my friend and he was a very honest person....fast forward to 2yrs later, I got married and had to relocate to the branch of my company in lagos but I kept in constant touch with this friend of mine through telephone. Then he told me he has quit paid employment and is now a contractor in the oil sector, he asked if we can pull resources together and execute contracts he gets thereafter share the profits on agreed sharing formula. After a few weeks, he called and said there's a contract he's expecting and he needs to let me know so I can start getting my own part of the money ready, I told him no wahala. Two days later, he called and said he needed to come to the head office of the company in lagos to do PR and that if he gets to lagos we can meet and discuss the contracts details. Then the day he was expected to come to lagos he called and said that he spoke to the guy in lagos and the guy said there was no need for him to come all the way to lagos, all he needed was N150k and the contract will be his. My friend told me that he has only N100k with him and ask if I could send the balance of 50k for the PR, I didn't hesitate because this was a friend I lived with and trust with my life. I sent the money to his account and from then on it was one story to another to another and uptil this day, contract, I no see, 50k I no seem I had to let it go after a while for friendship sake but I became wiser never to trust anybody that I haven't seen in a while. My advice, if you know a mutual friend of both of you that's still very close to him try to get the persons opinion and if the person confirms his integrity, you can take the risk of sending the 25k to him. Afteral, life's all about risks. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by 123papas(m): 2:14pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
please pay on his behalf. you wont die, believe me IHate9ja1: |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by 123papas(m): 2:16pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Some businesses go bad. yuppieman: |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by ngaal7: 2:33pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Hello friend, Your present situation without a job is temporal. HUET is required for shallow water/swamp location while BOSIET is needed in Deep water operations. Aside this requirement, comprehensive medical test certificate are required before you can work in oil & gas coy. So, you may ask him if this is a requirement too. My advise is let him loan you this money and be faithful to pay back once your dream is actualized. For God's intervention, make your way right with Him. Commit your ways in His Hand and God will fulfill your heart desire. Promise and behold God continually. God bless you as you obey. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by dlex21(m): 2:34pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Eyepencil:why wont he?? how much is 65k for a shell worker? knowing fully well he is hustling. I mean what are friends for? |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Inspectahdeck(m): 2:35pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Please you have to be careful with such. Shell will never collect money to employ any individual for a contract or project job. Infact project jobs are sub-contracted to EPC companies who take full charge of employment, administration etc. They can only get referrals from senior project staff (e.g. Project manager) which shell as a company has no knowledge about. Finally, no IOC waits for minister's appointment before implementation of a project. What he would have said was they (shell) are waiting for finance or approval from NNPC to mobilise for the project. My advise please be careful. If you trust your friend you can go ahead but I will advise you against such as it is a common medium to defraud innocent people. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by xest(m): 2:38pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
J Sylver247:My dear I understand ur fears vividly well,but u see in life we must take risk n bold steps. Due to d happenings in this country no one trust anyone again. But I can assure u truly that ur friend cannot scam u abt this, HUET is a professional course (Helicopter Undersea Escape Training) is arnd 80-100 K if u r not a staff,but if u r a staff d training is free of charge. So in other to work in offshore n so forth u wil hav to acquire it. Give it a try bro,and mind u buhari's delay in electing cabinet members hav hindered a lot of things,so d earlier u start d training the better. Thnks |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by IndianaJay: 2:38pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
LOL....Anyone who advises the poster to pay then trust in God that he won't be scammed....is a Scammer. Yes....I said it. ![]() |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by sunsewa: 2:43pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Sylver247:Listen to coolfm 95.9 portharcourt,this ur issue is been discuss now in their midday call in program right now. |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by Geniero: 2:57pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
YOUR ADVICE IS PRICELESS ngaal7: |
| Re: Am I Being Scammed? Please Advice! by gidiboy1(m): 3:06pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
so 25k na small money for ur side? smh ![]() |
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