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Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by 1trillionlikes: 6:37am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Aya omode ni were disi, pasan ni a fi ma le jade.... spare the rod and spoil the child.... na una know y una allow Oyinbo to control una lives.... all our good cultures have been dumped for oyinbo's owns..... 1 Like |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by hustler86(m): 6:44am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Na my Mother be ur mother? |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by CandyBar: 6:45am On Oct 08, 2015 |
One word... K O B O K O That will make him swallow his grieviance & wash it down with bobo juice Next time. |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Omobolaji01: 6:52am On Oct 08, 2015 |
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Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by cruzyteejay(m): 6:56am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Hei,kai kai kai,why didn't this happen in Nigeria?,spare the rod and spoil the child,i do even use the iron bender if the rod is not enough............... to those who are saying the child is too small to know the value of the money,i wonder how you guys reason,if the child don't know the value then why is it an option to punish his/her mum for not watching tv with him/her?,didn't she see other things like destroying the microwave or water tap,very heartless child,you can't spare a thief that stole #5,000 but you are here spewing trash like(find another measure to punish the child) for a child that you know flushed down 162,000 xo as to punish her mum,when has a child got a right over his/her parents,i swear if it were me,that child will go through military training before i get appeased,nonsense how much do you get as monthly pay?,ok lets say 50k,your savings from that salary maybe 30-35k per month and you had already saved for about five months now flush the money,and you are here talking about controlling anger,wush anger you wan control?,abi you think say that kind anger na radio volume?you never jam shaa.............seriously burning with rage from the comments my nigerian bro and sis are dropping here,incase if you don't know,everything is not about civilization,this is why we are still better than them when it comes to child education and home training let me just drop my pen cus am taking this too personal like if it were me |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by ismex4real: 7:01am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Will ask bricklayer 2 open d soak-away nd gt d money bak wt roughly 20K, bt as 4 d child ehn....I reserve my comment |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by redcliff: 7:03am On Oct 08, 2015 |
bigfrancis21: Whoasked you this one now |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by menxer: 7:03am On Oct 08, 2015 |
It's a typical case of "spare the rod and spoil the child". The child has never had any form of discipline from the parent, which explains the child's audacity to flush away the money knowing the mother won't bat an eye, but she did this time; and being that the mother prolly never disciplined the child, doesn't know where to draw the line between correction and abuse. In my part of the world, Dem no born u well make u break plate while washing, talk less of flexing with ur school fees; flushing that amount of money down the drain is unimaginable. It can't happen for Naija, even if the pikin chop witch. Ps: Though I know of a case, I ask a child in my neighborhood why he was giving the mother attitude, he replied "mother doesn't beat me or give me something to do as punishment". Single motherhood is a challenge. |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Blackfire(m): 7:05am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Pls dont take my advice:. Find visa enter naija with the pikin, choose any of this markets(oje market in ibadan, or ochanja market in onitsha) to table the matter. Dont thank me later.. . *runs out of thread* |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Excuzeme: 7:12am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Ishilove:First: I will kneel down and ask God for FORGIVENESS because it shows that l have FAILED IN MY PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITIES. You said "child" so l am assuming that the child is "between 4 and 9yrs of age". The good Book said "TRAIN your child... and he/she will give you REST"! The corollary is that "if you fail to train your child, he/she will cause you a lot of grief and heartache". So, who do you blame for the grief that Mother is going through? Most children in the "WEST" (a.k.a Abroad) are over-pampered, untrained (common to greet elder sef, na so dem go open thattheir big lips dey look you like otondo! ), disrespectful, lacking in spiritual and moral values and spoilt to the core! Okay, ask your neighbour in Ajegunle or Nnewi or Rumour Okere ...what he wil do if he or she is annoyed and sees a wad of Naira Notes? Answer: God don butter my bread be dat, l go buy Coke, l go buy Blead, I go buy Ice-Cleam, l go hide the res tunder my Mama Bed take buy Cloth during Christmas! That is Naija child for you.... unlike those "Agric Chickens" we rear abroad! On a serious note, If that Parent has been instilling "morals and values" into her child, that child wont be so wayward. To now beat her to the stage of bloodshed.... that is unacceptable! I dont wish she is jailed and her child siezed but she need to be taught a lesson: Dont ever scold your child ...IN ANGER! That is child abuse! Let the anger subside first (Wooh, l go kill this child o! )..... then "Lovingly like a loving parent", talk some sense into that child.. and you may add some cane, mildly for "effects"! But if your child has become "panaky", talk from today till next year, as e dey enter left ear, na so e dey commot through right ear! Train your child, from an early age, in the way of the Lord. when they grow up, they will not depart from it. In other stories, l will quickly go and buy digger and dig that money out of the Shyte, no matter how smelly! 1 Like |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Obas101(m): 7:13am On Oct 08, 2015 |
bigfrancis21:U no know b4? |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Excuzeme: 7:18am On Oct 08, 2015 |
hustler86: My own Mother nor even need to beat you! She get one kin "winch eye" like this ....so tey if she take am look you from one side of her face..... NA DIE you go just die there! I been try use "the same kin eye" look my own children say "make dem fear", the silly things just dey laugh ... "Dad, you're making funny faces"! Abi dem swear for this nowadays pikins ni? |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Excuzeme: 7:22am On Oct 08, 2015 |
1trillionlikes: You ahev no choice, if you decide to live among them, in their backyard! That is their own LAW, you cant even spank a child. Even if you "strong eye" too much for your child and the child begin cry, just go hide telephone o! before you know it, dem go come knock your door say you dey "harass and intimidate, causing distress to a minor"! Yoru offence don reach like three be dat, ... just like dat! You cant cope? Just get out of that Oyinbo land otherwise .... JAIL is knocking o! |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 7:28am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Kolade354:Yes!! A child of age 2 wouldn't know how to flush something out through the toilet. The child should be at least 5 or 6 and when I was that age, hell yea!! I already knew that 5 kobo can get me 5 sweets. That's how they spoil children with the idea that he/she is still a child. 1 Like |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by franklingud(m): 7:33am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Mehn!!.. that's why white kids are spoilt brats, rotten to the core. If na naija, hmmn, dat child no go him body again. And someone said the child doesn't deserve enough beating, BTW think of it... That child did not think of any other thing to do but to flush down the money?? Chai!! I go punish dat child well well. |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Fredzy7(m): 7:34am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Flushed $720 for toilet? you see the beating wey the mama give the boy for that one, na the same beating wey my mama for give me if I talk say make she let me watch TV when she wan count rent money, I pretty sure I turned out well as a result. Anyways my signature sha |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by treachiz(m): 8:00am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Ishilove:Boy dis one is strong ooo!! Chai i cn imagine d anger of d woman oo. Even wen my 100# ws torn, i stil dey vex,den imagine dis amount.... Madam i feel ur pain |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by MayhorE(m): 8:01am On Oct 08, 2015 |
I will pray 2 God 4 intervention and drink GARRI |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by heffem(m): 8:03am On Oct 08, 2015 |
This kain tin sabi vex me for white people ehn...... Why pikin go flush my rabah throway? Wetin she chop?......
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Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by ogawisdom(m): 8:09am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Ishilove: Y shld I leave such amount where children will see it. I am nt careless. If it happens then dt child will regret d day he was born. Rubbish |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by libracares: 8:16am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Na to fly next available flight to naija with d child to beat am well.dress am well arrange am go back d following week |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by fmzzy(m): 8:22am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1: intelligent contribution. |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by samplegirl(f): 8:30am On Oct 08, 2015 |
olu4life: I am a mother and a Christian. My Bible empowers me to flog my erring child. Proverbs 22:15, in other to save him and I do flog. The result is that no child of mine will flush down five naira in protest of anything whatsoever. |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Forwetinnah: 8:31am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Tallesty1: The bolded is what I keep telling my elder brothers concerning their kids |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by bukatyne(f): 8:39am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Ishilove: |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by bukatyne(f): 8:48am On Oct 08, 2015 |
moshoodn: @Bold: Word! That child knew what he/she was doing and that beating will reset him/her to the default settings |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 8:48am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Ishilove: Leave story joo... Black Kids no dey carry gun Upon all the beatings and home training we still no fit fix our country |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Damilare5882(m): 8:48am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Lol""""... The kid is just trying to prove that " inu igbe lowo wa" |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by Rushna(f): 8:56am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Speechless...... Actionless............ Dump....... Mute....... Helpless... Don't know what to do exactly... Infact, confused!!! |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by tasceige(m): 8:59am On Oct 08, 2015 |
He/she won't even see the money talkless flushing it... But just incase that happens aaaargh!!!!! Nah school fees e flush so... |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by MbashrexBashir(m): 9:00am On Oct 08, 2015 |
Na police station I go de stay ooo koz if dem police release mi dat child don die again. For 162 days na him go de beat d child. Pls na when Nigeria turn USA wey I no fit discipline my child d way I lyk so far I no kill am... 1 Like |
Re: What Would You Do In This Situation? by lexy2920(m): 9:02am On Oct 08, 2015 |
I will beat the hell out of him and he will go to heaven |
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