akike:


You are just sentimental.

If my brothers wife slapped my mum for something she should not done, I won't call for her head.

Some mothers in law tend to take it too far all because they are your husband's mother. If my mum insulted my husband, I will ask her to go back to her husband's house and I expect my husband to either do the same or control the situation.

There is no excuse for treating a human being like shit. Be it a mother, mother in law, wife, husband etc

Oohhhhh and you had to quote me twice to buttress your point.
Don't call me sentimental, I hold my parent in high esteem and wouldn't take any form of unwarranted assault on them from any body, so dnt call me sentimental again you should learn to accrue such respect and love for you parent instead , cause they worth it.
Or maybe, your sons wife might slap you one day, and when he does nothing about it I hope you won't take it as a serious issue

akike:


She can slap your mum if she slapped her first

If it happened in that context, she should be divorcing you instead. Because your mum have no right to slap her for whatever reason and if she could slap her then she must have married a wussy.

I don't think any sensible woman would want to be married to one.

Sorry but maybe you grew up in a family where ppl assault themselves. My mum wnt do that.

faith551:


Sorry but maybe you grew up in a family where ppl assault themselves. My mum wnt do that.

I did not. And if your mum won't do that then there is no way she would slap your mum

faith551:



Oohhhhh and you had to quote me twice to buttress your point.
Don't call me sentimental, I hold my parent in high esteem and wouldn't take any form of unwarranted assault on them from any body, so dnt call me sentimental again you should learn to accrue such respect and love for you parent instead , cause they worth it.
Or maybe, your sons wife might slap you one day, and when he does nothing about it I hope you won't take it as a serious issue

What on earth will I do that will warrant a slap from my son's wife? If she does not like me, I will stay in my house or my husband's house? I don't get into their business. I will respect myself and if I don't and she slapped me, I would be wise enough to understand that it was my lack of respect for my son that caused it.

akike:


I did not. And if your mum won't do that then there is no way she would slap your mum

Hmmmm, looks like you're judging this issue from one direction alone, read the topic of the post first.
Btw I've made my stand clear, so whatever rocks your boat.

faith551:



Hmmmm, looks like you're judging this issue from one direction alone, read the topic of the post first.
Btw I've made my stand clear, so whatever rocks your boat.

Read the topic again too

You are the one judging it from one perspective

You are not looking at other factors that could have warranted the slap

akike:

Read the topic again too
You are the one judging it from one perspective
You are not looking at other factors that could have warranted the slap

The topic said what will you do if your wife slaps your mother. It didn't say the reason, you are the one reading different meanings to it

faith551:



The topic said what will you do if your wife slaps your mother.
It didn't say the reason, you are the one reading different meanings to it

You are the one who has decided to put himself in a box. The question is ambiguous and incomplete.

What would you do? he first question that should come into a discerning mind is WHY.

A reasonable person's reaction would be based on what has transpired before and probably after.

akike:


You are the one who has decided to put himself in a box. The question is ambiguous and incomplete.

What would you do? he first question that should come into a discerning mind is WHY.

A reasonable person's reaction would be based on what has transpired before and probably after.

Come on .... , what did I do this evening??. I made my own comment you come carry the matter for head.
Sorry if I offended you pls. I dnt really have strength to argue

faith551:


Come on .... , what did I do this evening??. I made my own comment you come carry the matter for head.
Sorry if I offended you pls. I dnt really have strength to argue

You haven't done anything but please learn to take a step back to look at the whole picture

akike:


You haven't done anything but please learn to take a step back to look at the whole picture

you are the one misinterpreting the question. it didn't say the mother slapped first. its a direct question you make it seem difficult.

wareva

AngelsAndStars:
you are the one misinterpreting the question. it didn't say the mother slapped first. its a direct question you make it seem difficult.

wareva

It is not a direct question

It is an ambiguous question

Consider this: what will you do if your child came home dirty?

It will take a **** to give an answer.

INTROVERT:
hmmm

madam welcome back.

akike:


You are the one who has decided to put himself in a box. The question is ambiguous and incomplete.

What would you do? he first question that should come into a discerning mind is WHY.

A reasonable person's reaction would be based on what has transpired before and probably after.

no matter what transpired, are u telling me u can slap ur mother back if she slaped u even when she was d 1 @ fault?

akike:


You are the one who has decided to put himself in a box. The question is ambiguous and incomplete.

What would you do? he first question that should come into a discerning mind is WHY.

A reasonable person's reaction would be based on what has transpired before and probably after.

no matter what transpired, are u telling me u can slap ur mother back if she slaped u even when she was d 1 @ fault?

Rashe:
no matter what transpired, are u telling me u can slap ur mother back if she slaped u even when she was d 1 @ fault?

She is not my mother

She is like a mother to me and I am like a daughter to her

If she were asked to choose between me and my husband

She won't think twice before choosing him.

Stop being sentimental and look at it logically

akike:


She is not my mother

She is like a mother to me and I am like a daughter to her

If she were asked to choose between me and my husband

She won't think twice before choosing him.

Stop being sentimental and look at it logically

answer my question. Can u slap ur mother cos she slaps u first? considering d fact that she is at fault

Rashe:
answer my question. Can u slap ur mother cos she slaps u first? considering d fact that she is at fault

I can't slap mum because she is my mum

You cannot compare my mum to my mother in law because she is not my mother and she can never be my mother

akike:


I can't slap mum because she is my mum

You cannot compare my mum to my mother in law because she is not my mother and she can never be my mother

i rest my case....

Rashe:
i rest my case....

You should

akike:


What if your mum slapped her first and she just reacted?

what if the mother in law slapped her first? and so, whatever happened to walking away till her hubby returns. what if it was her own mother that slapped her first? will she slap her mother back asides the fact that she is her mother in law or they are related, she should try slapping an elderly stranger due to bad temper and see the reaction of the elderly person children. an elderly person is an elderly person.

@op that's certainly the end of that marriage. no amount of tears, am sorry or kneeling can erase such impudence. EOD.

akike:


I can't slap mum because she is my mum

You cannot compare my mum to my mother in law because she is not my mother and she can never be my mother

so if you had a chance to hurt her in secret you would SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE IS NOT YOUR MOTHER AND CAN NEVER BE YOUR MOTHER

taryour:


so if you had a chance to hurt her in secret you would SIMPLY BECAUSE SHE IS NOT YOUR MOTHER AND CAN NEVER BE YOUR MOTHER

You are mixing things up.

If she slapped me, and I slapped her back in reflex. I am innocent.

Why will I hurt her in secret. I live life on do unto others as you wish to be done unto you. I am not going to be hypocritical about it act like I am a superwoman.

She is not my mum......fact

She can never be my mum...fact

I will treat her with utmost respect and I expect to be treated as such. her status does not give her right to slap an adult regardless of who she is and what she is. And there is no possible way that I will slap her first.

taryour:


what if the mother in law slapped her first? and so, whatever happened to walking away till her hubby returns. what if it was her own mother that slapped her first? will she slap her mother back asides the fact that she is her mother in law or they are related, she should try slapping an elderly stranger due to bad temper and see the reaction of the elderly person children. an elderly person is an elderly person.

@op that's certainly the end of that marriage. no amount of tears, am sorry or kneeling can erase such impudence. EOD.

I can't even go back to a man that his mother has the effrontery to slap me.

i wont speak to my wife or eat her food for 2 weeks.

Snowangel4:
That will be d last thing I will ever do....unto wetin nah

We have seen you,the advertisement would soon yield needed result

prettysassygirl:

We have seen you,the advertisement would soon yield needed result

Meaning wat .....busy body

akike:



I can't even go back to a man that his mother has the effrontery to slap me.

U are a worthless b!tch! Arrogant, proud and self centred. I just sorry for any weak man that finally ends up with u. I'm pretty sure u don't greet elders, u don't accord due respect to the aged, probably because they are not your mum. Worthless silly hoe...

Snowangel4:

Meaning wat .....busy body

You know what it means now,but don't worry,you would soon get what you want

prettysassygirl:

You know what it means now,but don't worry,you would soon get what you want

Attention seeker...got no time for dat .
Carry it somewhere else.

And wat is it dat I will get? Some people sef

U are just looking for trouble my dear but d badnews for u ,is dat I am not in anyway ur level.
Get dat into ur empty brain

God forbid bad thing

Snowangel4:


Attention seeker...got no time for dat .
Carry it somewhere else.

And wat is it dat I will get? Some people sef

U are just looking for trouble my dear but d badnews for u ,is dat I am not in anyway ur level.
Get dat into ur empty brain

Ehen,even if I wanna get someones attention,I would look for someone with enviable charisma and someone that have something good to impact and not a nonentity like you,you say I have an empty brain,no wahala,but lemme let you know something,my empty brain has more to offer the society for its benefits than your whole generation,didn't insult you earlier so you better be careful,last warning,next time you throw me an insult,I would retialate more,I have a lot to give you,so zoom off