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Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Nobody: 6:27pm On Oct 22, 2015
In my class we've attended about 7 condolences in 5 years,
Of these condolences , we just attended the first for the mother of one of us today, the rest were the fathers of my classmates including my own dad,
The woman that was interred today lived 78 years, all the fathers we went for their condolences died before their 70th birthday including my dad, all except one died of heart disease, my dad inclusive.
The disturbing question then is............... WHY ?
It has been proven that estrogen protects against certain heart diseases but predisposes to venous thromboembolism. It takes about 10 years postmenopausal for women to equate men for the risk of developing heart diseases, In fact, one of the risk factors for developing heart diseases is MALE SEX, I mean XY CHROMOSOME.
My Opinions,
1.Men die earlier due to neglect from the wives who become too preoccupied with the children that the men will become just an access to train the children, at the detriment of his health. This factor is constant, not affected by education, achievements or popularity
2.The women during their obstetric visits are diagnosed of their chronic diseases or risks earlier than men who present usually late after the vital organs must have decompensated
3. Men unlike the women from their youths do not access health facilities prompting more women in the hospital wards and unfortunately more men in the mortuary
4. Many other factors including lifestyles, adventures, risk taking etc all which do not worth dying for because we have many days to spend in the grave that there's no reason whatsoever to rush down to embrace it since it's certainly our last resort center.

I've given my own opinions, i still want to hear from Nlanders especially the ladies on what they think because I strongly believed that the major reason for this phenomenon is NEGLECT by the WOMEN (wives)
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Beesluv: 6:28pm On Oct 22, 2015
Because Adam came before Eve ..... and it's First Come First Go

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Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Juxtified(m): 6:30pm On Oct 22, 2015
Beesluv:
Because Adam came before Eve ..... and it's First Come First Go
lol.
Simple truth is...
Na men be the bus conductors, hanging with one hand and one leg on d bus...
Na man be the engineer,climbing dangerous heights with rickety ladders & scaffolds...
Na man be the manual labourer, carrying 4,5 heavy bags of cement at once just to make ends meet...
The president of Nigeria na man, with the problems of the whole country on his head...
95% of the Nigerian police, army, navy na men, facing the risk of bullets everyday..
The woman's office is the kitchen, getting fatter everyday while the poor man faces hard labour and insults daily in the name of fending for his family.
Little wonder why men die earlier

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Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by uncleUPRIGHT: 6:30pm On Oct 22, 2015
Nagging and loss of protein (vital life force) is a major cause
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by ikubch(m): 6:30pm On Oct 22, 2015
tony4life58:
In my class we've attended about 7 condolences in 5 years,
Of these condolences , we just attended the first for the mother of one of us today, the rest were the fathers of my classmates including my own dad,
The woman that was interred today lived 78 years, all the fathers we went for their condolences died before their 70th birthday including my dad, all except one died of heart disease, my dad inclusive.
The disturbing question then is............... WHY ?
It has been proven that estrogen protects against certain heart diseases but predisposes to venous thromboembolism. It takes about 10 years postmenopausal for women to equate men for the risk of developing heart diseases, In fact, one of the risk factors for developing heart diseases is MALE SEX, I mean XY CHROMOSOME.
My Opinions,
1.Men die earlier due to neglect from the wives who become too preoccupied with the children that the men will become just an access to train the children, at the detriment of his health. This factor is constant, not affected by education, achievements or popularity
2.The women during their obstetric visits are diagnosed of their chronic diseases or risks earlier than men who present usually late after the vital organs must have decompensated
3. Men unlike the women from their youths do not access health facilities prompting more women in the hospital wards and unfortunately more men in the mortuary
4. Many other factors including lifestyles, adventures, risk taking etc all which do not worth dying for because we have many days to spend in the grave that there's no reason whatsoever to rush down to embrace it since it's certainly our last resort center.

I've given my own opinions, i still want to hear from Nlanders especially the ladies on what they think because I strongly believed that the major reason for this phenomenon is NEGLECT by the WOMEN (wives)




Why does the tyre wear faster than the steering?
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by uncleUPRIGHT: 6:31pm On Oct 22, 2015
Women are too troublesome
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by tpiander: 6:31pm On Oct 22, 2015
Nigeria has more widowers than widows, don't know about other places.
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Nobody: 6:32pm On Oct 22, 2015
Lol
It's really disturbing.
when i raised the issue on the bus, my class girls were dumbfounded, they only affirmed the fact that we've attended more male condolences and most died of heart diseases.
Currently one of us lost his dad again last Monday because of CVA.
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Captainswag225(m): 6:36pm On Oct 22, 2015
Coz God made it so. From Adam to Solomon, they all died before their wives
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Nobody: 6:39pm On Oct 22, 2015
tpiander:
Nigeria has more widowers than widows, don't know about other places.
Verify your source
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by libertyfather(m): 6:40pm On Oct 22, 2015
98% were killed by the wives
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by tpiander: 6:40pm On Oct 22, 2015
Captainswag225:
Coz God made it so. From Adam to Solomon, they all died before their wives

Adam died at nine hundred and something years. Do you have any record of when Eve died?

For Solomon, he had 1000 wives and concubines, what were the chances of his outliving them?
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by tpiander: 6:41pm On Oct 22, 2015
tony4life58:

Verify your source

the records are yet to be officially made public.
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by libertyfather(m): 6:43pm On Oct 22, 2015
ikubch:


Why does the tyre wear faster than the steering?
this is what kill the remaining 2%

libertyfather:
98% were killed by the wives
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by tpiander: 6:46pm On Oct 22, 2015
tony4life58:


I've given my own opinions, i still want to hear from Nlanders especially the ladies on what they think because I strongly believed that the major reason for this phenomenon is NEGLECT by the WOMEN (wives)



how can a grown man complain of neglect by women when it comes to his health?

Monitor your own health nah, if you don't take care of yourself, who will?

The woman will only do so much, but you should be responsible for monitoring your own health primarily.

of course I could be wrong, but careful how you place your destiny in people's hands, especially when it concerns something you are supposed to do yourself.

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Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by tpiander: 6:47pm On Oct 22, 2015
where is that picture of the starving man being fed some concoction by a very well fed woman though.


I wonder how you folks arrange these things with no conscience.
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Captainswag225(m): 6:48pm On Oct 22, 2015
tpiander:


Adam died at nine hundred and something years. Do you have any record of when Eve died?

For Solomon, he had 1000 wives and concubines, what were the chances of his outliving them?
Adam died before eve. U and I know this. As for Solomon he died before his main wife

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Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 22, 2015
Juxtified:

lol.
Simple truth is...
Na men be the bus conductors, hanging with one hand and one leg on d bus...
Na man be the engineer,climbing dangerous heights with rickety ladders & scaffolds...
Na man be the manual labourer, carrying 4,5 heavy bags of cement at once just to make ends meet...
The president of Nigeria na man, with the problems of the whole country on his head...
95% of the Nigerian police, army, navy na men, facing the risk of bullets everyday..
The woman's office is the kitchen, getting fatter everyday while the poor man faces hard labour and insults daily in the name of fending for his family.
Little wonder why men die earlier
Nice opinion
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Khd95(m): 7:00pm On Oct 22, 2015
Cos men ve wives
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Rukkydelta(f): 7:01pm On Oct 22, 2015
libertyfather:
98% were killed by the wives
and please pray that you won't marry a wife that will kill you
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by tpiander: 7:09pm On Oct 22, 2015
Captainswag225:
Adam died before eve. U and I know this. As for Solomon he died before his main wife


post links to where you saw the information, since I don't know.
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by obinnanelson4(m): 7:27pm On Oct 22, 2015
The women cause the men to develop high BP.
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Rukkydelta(f): 7:36pm On Oct 22, 2015
[quote author=tony4life58 post=392496
1.Men die earlier due to neglect from the wives who become too preoccupied with the children that the men will become just an access to train the children, at the detriment of his health. This factor is constant, not affected by education, achievements or popularity

I strongly believed that the major reason for this phenomenon is NEGLECT by the WOMEN (wives)
[/quote] I agree with the write up except this If it's the wife responsibility to take care of the husband, then who'll take care of the wife ? Every adult should be able to take care of him/herself Husbands die quickly than thier wives since the old should die before the young

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Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by Acidosis(m): 9:23pm On Oct 22, 2015
Men who marry women within the same age range live longer, same with men who marry older women.


However because our society believes a man must marry a woman 5 or 10 years younger, they're bound to die before the woman.


Normally, women have more lifespan, so its just normal for the man to die.


If you marry a woman 10 years younger, be rest assured your woman will live 20 years after you're gone.

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Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by tpiander: 10:39pm On Oct 22, 2015
tpiander:
Nigeria has more widowers than widows, don't know about other places.
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by crackhaus: 10:56pm On Oct 22, 2015
tpiander:
Nigeria has more widowers than widows, don't know about other places.
tpiander:

post links to where you saw the information, since I don't know.

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Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by pamcode(m): 11:05pm On Oct 22, 2015
Men get too worked by things and dont have easy means of letting out frustration, their only means puts their health out further problems unlike women whom when frustrated weep thereby reducing the tension in them.
Besides most men marry younger women.So it expected
This last one get as e be sha but men are more prone to dangerous habits like drinking excess alcohol,smoking,hooliganisim,low spirituality(if you dont blive me on this one try and do a coun-rate of people in your church during services and you would find more women than men, when you are ready to live everything to God your way would be less stressful hence you live long.)
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by cococandy(f): 12:20am On Oct 23, 2015
Number 1 is totally off point.

Anyway define what you mean by 'neglect from the wives' before we misunderstand you.
Who's then taking care of the women that they are not dying of neglect from their husbands?

The rest sounds plausible.

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Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by tpiander: 1:58am On Oct 23, 2015
tpiander:
Nigeria has more widowers than widows, don't know about other places.


.
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by virginboy1(m): 6:37am On Oct 23, 2015
The THINKING alone can kill. To be a man in Naija is never a day's Job.
Re: Why Do Men Often Die Before Their Wives by virginboy1(m): 6:37am On Oct 23, 2015
The THINKING alone can kills. To be a man in Naija is never a day's Job.

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