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Ephemmm:
It all depends on your choice bros. While some men has one wife and fornicates, other prefer marrying more than one instead of fornicating. By the way, where did you get the assurance that the man has not made his money before marrying his first wife?

If you know the history of this family in terms of wealth, you won't be saying this.

kandiikane:
Hypocrisy indeed. Wait until you are in your 50s before you begin to pass such judgment. The same ones talking rubbish about this, will be the same ones running after small girls when they grow older.

Ephemmm:
How does marrying a younger lady becomes tastelessness in African setting if I may ask? The man has made his decision with which he is comfortable with: if you like marrying Metusella, it is your choice.

Every human being tries to use his money to get the best thing in life: leave the man joorr

Clone2020:
Typical response from silly people... Everything someone says has to be based on jealousy. The main thing distasteful about this union is the age gap between the man and the lady, the fact that he's a billionaire just adds icing to the cake is indicative of an ulterior motive. Sure it appears as though she's an adult and made the decision on her own, but you would be ignoring the fact that most marriages in Nigeria are influenced by the parents of the bride or groom. This lady didn't just walk into the midst of this old man and suddenly fell in love, it was most likely arranged.

daretodiffer:
Don't be silly too. Stop being sentimental and use your reasoning faculty. I can't believe I once assmed that men think rationally.



Do you mean broke single guys and disadvantaged ladies? No one cares about their opinions

Age is nothing but a number. They are adults and they have the right to freedom of choice. Many unfourtunate things happen everyday and this is certainly not it.

Protein as in animal protein

neocortex:
What is the "right" gap for marriage partners ?
Who made you the universal judge over marriage affairs ?
Will it have been okay by you if the man was 100 and she was 60 ?

Again you assumed the marriage was arranged with nothing
to back up your assertion. You narrate the myth as if you are
one of those who arranged the marriage.
If you are as smart as you claim you will realize that scenarios
aren't equal to event.

Clone2020:
"Broke guys" really? I'm sorry but you sound like the kind of girl who wouldn't try to better herself but wouldn't hesistate to elope with a rich man all in hopes of living a more comfortable life. If you haven't learned anything about men, if you don't bring any value to his home, he will treat you like a worthless item in his treasure chest. You must prove to a man that you are more than just beauty and you aren't just trying to be a parasite or he will cheat on you with the best ladies money can afford. Get a job, be independent and don't wait for a filthy rich old billionaire to come knocking on your door.

Clone2020:
It is distasteful to see a young lady marrying a man 3 times her age, just as it is equally tasteless when 18yr olds have children out of wedlock, both are adults. You are here defending something you know is abnormal. How would you feel if you met your 20yr old daughter or sister eating a 58yr old man? Will you allow it? Wouldn't you frown on the thought and probably caution her? This is the height of hypocrisy being displayed by people, all of a sudden, it's ok to sleep around with men 3 X your age but if the girl was 17 and had sex with a 52yr old man it would be called rape.

daretodiffer:
Yes, I will if he is a good man. It is her business .

You are so illogical

Clone2020:
Hahaha you should've warned me that I was arguing with a gold digger, I wouldn't has wasted valuable time.

sukkot:
listen man, you are the typical black man. this is a black man trait. he does not use his brain, does not know how to use his brain, his brain is dormant all the time so all he thinks about is sex sex sex. if you had a lot going on in your head, the last thing you want is to dishonor the woman who has been with you from day one, and the last thing you want is conversating with a woman 30 years your junior. what kinda conversation can you have with this kinda person ? she is only there to reduce your IQ, but like i said the black man has no IQ to lose anyway. look at all the top world movers and shakers ? they stick to their wives and dont go around chasing minors because they have so much going on in their head. the bill gates, george bush, obama, tony blair etc etc etc. men of dignity and sophistication. the black man is just a human animal. FACTS. All he thinks about is sex sex sex. life is a lot more than sex you know ?

Clone2020:
Hahaha you should've warned me that I was arguing with a gold digger, I wouldn't has wasted valuable time.

daretodiffer:
There is hardly any rich man wouldn't mind havig his ‘daughter' as a wife or mistress.

sukkot:
listen man, you are the typical black man. this is a black man trait. he does not use his brain, does not know how to use his brain, his brain is dormant all the time so all he thinks about is sex sex sex. if you had a lot going on in your head, the last thing you want is to dishonor the woman who has been with you from day one, and the last thing you want is conversating with a woman 30 years your junior. what kinda conversation can you have with this kinda person ? she is only there to reduce your IQ, but like i said the black man has no IQ to lose anyway. look at all the top world movers and shakers ? they stick to their wives and dont go around chasing minors because they have so much going on in their head. the bill gates, george bush, obama, tony blair etc etc etc. men of dignity and sophistication. the black man is just a human animal. FACTS. All he thinks about is sex sex sex. life is a lot more than sex you know ?

daretodiffer:
Maybe I am gold digger, maybe not. It is my business, stop hurting.

I knew I was arguing with an unreasonable guy but I assumed I could make you think logically.

Clone2020:
Huh?? Are you insinuating most rich men enjoy in.cest or were you trying to say most rich men would like wives their daughter's age?? In either case, when did you become the mouth piece to most rich men?? Why are you obsessed with marrying into wealth that you no longer see the very purpose of marriage?

daretodiffer:
I did not know that the word 'Sugar daddy' was coined from an African language. MAny rich and powerful men regardless of race risk everything to chat with a younger model. (Try using Google)

How would you know if their first wife really suffered with them, what if she made life a living hell before they could make it or what if she already knew what and who they are going to be. I do not support married rich men chains young women nor encourage taking as second wives but please lets apply logic and avoid sentiments.

Ephemmm:
I don't know where you get your points, but it is the fallacious statement of the day. Why rushing to the haste conclusion when you don't have the atom of information about what the has contributed to the man's life. What if the man's wife has died or if the lady has some skills that have been of invaluable contribution to the mans life? How you categorize all African ladies as parasitic if she marries a wealthy man, is indeed ironical to me.

If Gates, Bush, Obama, Tony blair are having sex with dogs will they be publicizing it for the whole world to see? You attributed sex as if it only pertains to Africa, which IQ did you possess which no African has? If whites are contented with their wives, why do they have the highest number of divorce and separation more than any other continent in the world?

I wonder how people like you allows your decision and opinions to be influenced by stereotyping and pre-matured evaluation. Argument is about reasoning and fact's presentation: it is not about beating about the bush.

Get the fact.

daretodiffer:
You are too young to grasp realities of life, holla when you clock 40

Clone2020:
There's no point arguing with a lady who believes she is a play thing for the rich, i already lost the debate before it started. At least you were honest enough to admit that your loyalty and body belongs to the highest bidder.

Clone2020:
Right it is a reality of life to aspire for an old filthy rich man. By your logic, prostitution is justifiable... It's all about using what you have to get what you want, hey at least both parties happy.

daretodiffer:
And why is that wrong? What if I see myself as a plaything at least I am not forcing it down other people's throats? Or Is it because you think otherwise? Well, it is my life and I get bear the consequences


You are too young to on Nairaland if you cannot argue without getting personal. If you cannot tackle issues without sentiments, please stop quoting me

sukkot:
This what donald trump said about you africans. very apt. he says you dont use your brain and all you think about is sex. its a good read. enjoy

https://www.nairaland.com/2691720/donald-trump-africans-lazy-fools

sukkot:
This what donald trump said about you africans. very apt. he says you dont use your brain and all you think about is sex. its a good read. enjoy

https://www.nairaland.com/2691720/donald-trump-africans-lazy-fools

Clone2020:
Stop whinning, you bit more than you can chew and still refuse to see the fallacies in your arguments. You need not take it personal, your opinion is yours and I have mine as well.

daretodiffer:
It is a reality of life to be greedy, money greedy. It is a reality of life to be selfish. It is a reality of life to use what you have to get what you want (like yur everyday bus transportation or marrying an intelligent woman because you are sapiosexual or because you want intelligent kids). However there are things you do out of the benevolent of your heart but marriage is not one of it. It is too precious to get into if it cannot help with your aspirations (like looking beautiful and high maintenance every second of your life )

Why are you so personal? Did you lose your gf to an old filthy rich man?

Clone2020:
Lol you just confirmed that marriage isn't the sacred matrimony it was meant to be. There are greedy and selfish people around the world, does it mean this is acceptable? If your 10yr old daughter or niece is seen sleeping with men 3times her age, will u say this is a reality of life and it should be accepted? Afterall it is a man's desire to sleep with young girls and he has the means to?

Please don't come online to display this level of ignorance, you will look silly.