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Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by bellong: 10:48pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: OK.. So na John Thomas una dey talk about... I see If oga waka, no be anybody's fault but him because he wan waka. Although, some wives are so bad that they pushed their husbands beyond his elastic limit to seek succour outside. The case is not a straightforward issue. Life is not always in black and white. Every case must be addressed with its peculiarity and detail. 2 Likes |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Ewuro4: 10:51pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
MusingsOfALady: @bold. Actually It's best kept classified from people like you. @ Red, like already outlined , you don't have to live in misery to live with the father of your children because you have a plan in place. Some people only have one chance @ loving someone coz of the emotional process it entail , some have room for many chances and emotionally strong. Loving and dedication to sharing ones life with another person is an unconditional sarifice there is. And no , it's not a waste of life. There's no such thing as such. Life's what you make of it. It's a choice. What people don't need is judgemental folks sneer at whatever life choices they make- Good or bad or screwing younger lads @55. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by MusingsOfALady: 11:07pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Ewuro4:People like me? What art thou afraid of? As per judgmental folks sneering, well any lady who plans to spend her latter years screwing younger lads should grow a thick skin. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Ewuro4: 11:19pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
MusingsOfALady: Still Classified Why grow a thick skin for useless scrutiny after the whole sham has finally fallen on its face and both parties gone their ways ALIVE? What's wrong with screwing younger lads @ 55, Seems that part really is a bother? Pain am |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by MusingsOfALady: 11:31pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
[quote author=Ewuro4 post=39563770] Still Classified Why grow a thick skin for useless scrutiny after the whole sham has finally fallen on its face and both parties gone their ways ALIVE? What's wrong with screwing younger lads @ 55, Seems that part really is a bother? Pain am [/quot Lol. Wetin concern me? Nah May God keep us all and all that is ours. Thanks & goodnite. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by freecocoa(f): 11:38pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Mindfulness:Sholly? BABE? |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by babygirlfl: 11:40pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
MusingsOfALady: Lol. I totally understand you. Whether or not is a great idea is a decision for the woman concerned to make. The concerns I usually have with people is not usually if a woman decides to stay with a cheating man or not. My issue is that women should be able to make their choices. I believe women who want to stay can stay while those who want to leave can also do that. Even those who want to do abandonment should also be able to. I do not actually care. I do care however when that choice is taken away from the woman. For example when she is told that she is supposed to do this this this. I personally would not be that patient. I am someone that deals with issues as they come after which I forget about it. On the issue of side chicks, I do believe that a girl who knows a man is married and goes for the man deserves to be punished. However, I am yet to see or hear of any punishment which will solve the problem. As such, I would not personally go fighting a mistress. I would concentrate on the man. 2 Likes |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by bukatyne(f): 11:42pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
iykedare: Hehehehe! So what's the karma for a cheating husband? 1 Like |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by freecocoa(f): 11:45pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
How anyone can think the other woman, is to blame ,is a mystery to me, the only scenario where I can understand getting mad at the other woman is,if she was a friend, but even then, all you need do is realize she never was your friend. 1 Like |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by babygirlfl: 11:46pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Ewuro4: I have heard that. I have also heard they hate divorce as much as women do. 1 Like |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by bukatyne(f): 11:47pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
bellong: You are welcome [size=2pt]What is the next moniker we need back? jennykadry, moca and MarvellousGod[/size] |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by cococandy(f): 12:23am On Nov 01, 2015 |
Before we agree to disagree ( as we will) Let me clear that I'm not literally comparing a husband to an object. I do know that only one willing to be snatched can be snatched. So the blame is one him. As far as that marriage goes, he's to blame. That example was to show you the wrongness of the belief that oneself always come first even when it comes to thing that belong to others. And that is for the consumption of the sidegirl. She should be able think about what she's doing. If she can't find anything wrong with that on her own end, then she's morally bankrupt. Mindfulness: |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Burntpalace: 2:41am On Nov 01, 2015 |
bellong: Thanks! |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by edwife(f): 9:42am On Nov 01, 2015 |
bukatyne: Your first two points were addressed already,no need revisiting them for me. Why God forbid eh? Well it happens so many times especially if you are married to a rich man and the mistress is not ready to let go. @topic,most of you forgot that your "logic" isn't necessary everybody "logic".Just like you think things other people do are mystery to you,so do other people think same about you. The way i see some of you with razor mouths attack anyone that provoke you on a faceless forum and you think y'all leave a woman who walk into your home to attack you walk away. na for internet only? Like bellong said,life is not always black and white.Just like i watch snapped and tell myself,why didn't she just leave?Why cheat on a man and still kill him?Why kill a man who has been abusive to you and end up spending the rest of your life in jail?why why why Many people deal with their issues differently,sometimes it doesn't have to make sense to us. Mistress kidnapped her lover's wife then murdered her before turning the gun on herself after being caught in high-speed Alabama police chase Affairs never end well.For some they were lucky,for some not so much.A mistress killed a wife's child because the husband broke up with her.The wife asked for a divorce and the man fought to save his marriage.After many months of harassments from the mistress,she finally fulfilled her promises to wife that she will suffer.Assuming she didn't take those threats likely,maybe just maybe her son would have been alive. Some wives are evils and hoodlums,yes so don't go messing around people thinking your "logic" will work on them.E no dey show for face. Genevieve run to Ghana when Atiku wife came for her,o boy did she leave Atiku alone(some say it's rumour but there is no smoke without fire).I have heard in a Luxurious saloon in Abuja how many women went that way,especially those rich men wives.They were saying they don't mind that their husbands sleep around but when a particular girl becomes her husband favourite,they go extra miles to eliminate them.Yes it doesn't make sense to you but to them it does. The case is not a straightforward issue. Life is not always in black and white.Every case must be addressed with its peculiarity and detail bellong 2015 Personally,i don't go physical.I even go mad for a little scar on my body,so out of question.I can't talk for everyone so my only problem will be the husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 10:00am On Nov 01, 2015 |
cococandy: We don't have to do it this time as we agree here pretty much, don't we? Let me clear that I'm not literally comparing a husband to an object. See. That example was to show you the wrongness of the belief that oneself always come first even when it comes to thing that belong to others. And that is for the consumption of the sidegirl. She should be able think about what she's doing. If she can't find anything wrong with that on her own end, then she's morally bankrupt. I encourage selfishness not stealing. The reason why an extramarital affair can't be compared to an object and the act of stealing it is that no side chic can steal a husband unless she kidnaps him. An extra marital affair takes place with the husband's consent. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 10:01am On Nov 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: I am that I am. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by freecocoa(f): 10:06am On Nov 01, 2015 |
Mindfulness:Lol, l now know. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 01, 2015 |
PresVA: Trust is a positive expectation but it is in the nature of expectations that you may get something else than you expected. Positive expectations do not hurt but dependency on them does. If your husband abuses your trust, is it your fault? Will it help you to feel bad about it even though it is not your fault? Why would you feel bad over something you have not done? You shouldn't and you don't deserve to feel bad. So here is what to do, you decide to feel good no matter what. You have no control over other people but you have a lot of control over your attitude and your feelings and your feelings should not depend on how other people choose to behave or not behave. You give people way too much control over yourself if you allow them to be in charge of your feelings and well-being. You're saying trusting your husband and not depending on him will prevent you from getting hurt when he cheats on you? Yes, once you decide that your feelings depend on how YOU treat yourself and not upon how others do. If you learn to love yourself unconditionally, the actions of others will be secondary because the love that you have inside of you trumps everything as it is unconditional and as it is the most beautiful feeling you can ever experience. My opinion is that either way, you'll still feel hurt and betrayed. .. It is a matter of choice, you see. EfemenaXY, I have gotten your message. EfemenaXY come and discuss this post with us. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: Maybe you do, maybe you don't. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 10:11am On Nov 01, 2015 |
Ewuro4: I love your positive energy. Keep it up. Shine bright. 1 Like |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by freecocoa(f): 10:12am On Nov 01, 2015 |
Mindfulness:l so do, been wanting to talk to you since. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 10:13am On Nov 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: Talk to me. It will be fun. I have to go now but I will be back later. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by freecocoa(f): 10:17am On Nov 01, 2015 |
Mindfulness:Lol, Why do I think you are going to church? laters. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 10:19am On Nov 01, 2015 |
edwife: Edwife, nice one, FINALLY. @red She will have to let go if the husband decides to stay true to his wife. She is not forcing him to stay, is she? She is enjoying the advantages, why would she let go of such an offer? |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 10:21am On Nov 01, 2015 |
freecocoa: I am not. Churches irritate me. I have a very close relationship with God, closer than most people who go to and work in churches. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by freecocoa(f): 10:32am On Nov 01, 2015 |
Mindfulness:Great, Maybe sometime, we'll talk about "God" the way you see him. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Chillis: 3:00pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
byvan03: Hi babe. You just dey chop your money alone . Chop clean mouth. I just dey look you . Diaris.... |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Chillis: 3:02pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
12 pages on top blokos matter Nigerian women, Ndi Nne mama, I dey hail oh. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by babygirlfl: 3:04pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
Chillis: |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Chillis: 3:15pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: I'm fine. How your side . Did you go to church. Hope you prayed for me I wan buy mansion for banana island |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Chillis: 3:17pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
babygirlfl:Na dia kin thing dey sweet you Happy Sunday |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by babygirlfl: 3:20pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
Chillis: Hehehe happy Sunday dear. 1 Like |
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