EfemenaXY:


Lol!

Okay, lemme see... some people dey talk say if oga waka, im girlfriend dey blameless. Others dey talk say blame oga + girlfriend. Some dey even gist say madam must to hold oga's wrapper with, "you go kill me today".

Damiso, Burntpalace - Oya translate into Yoruba.

Edwife and Cococandy - do the Igbo version.

OK.. So na John Thomas una dey talk about... I see

If oga waka, no be anybody's fault but him because he wan waka.

Although, some wives are so bad that they pushed their husbands beyond his elastic limit to seek succour outside.

The case is not a straightforward issue. Life is not always in black and white. Every case must be addressed with its peculiarity and detail.

MusingsOfALady:



Ok so how does the abandonment plan go?

Live with him in misery till 55 and then go screwing young boys around town

Isn't that a waste of life?

@bold. Actually It's best kept classified from people like you.

@ Red, like already outlined , you don't have to live in misery to live with the father of your children because you have a plan in place.

Some people only have one chance @ loving someone coz of the emotional process it entail , some have room for many chances and emotionally strong. Loving and dedication to sharing ones life with another person is an unconditional sarifice there is.

And no , it's not a waste of life. There's no such thing as such. Life's what you make of it. It's a choice. What people don't need is judgemental folks sneer at whatever life choices they make- Good or bad or screwing younger lads @55.

Ewuro4:


@bold. [/b]Actually It's best kept classified from people like you. [b]

@ Red, like already outlined , you don't have to live in misery to live with the father of your children because you have a plan in place.

Some people only have one chance @ loving someone coz of the emotional process it entail , some have room for many chances and emotionally strong. Loving and dedication to sharing ones life with another person is an unconditional sarifice there is.

And no , it's not a waste of life. There's no such thing as such. Life's what you make of it. It's a choice. What people don't need is judgemental folks sneer at whatever life choices they make- Good or bad or screwing younger lads @55.

People like me? What art thou afraid of?

As per judgmental folks sneering, well any lady who plans to spend her latter years screwing younger lads should grow a thick skin.

MusingsOfALady:

People like me? What art thou afraid of?

As per judgmental folks sneering, well any lady who plans to spend her latter years screwing younger lads should grow a thick skin.

Still Classified

Why grow a thick skin for useless scrutiny after the whole sham has finally fallen on its face and both parties gone their ways ALIVE?

What's wrong with screwing younger lads @ 55, Seems that part really is a bother?

Pain am

[quote author=Ewuro4 post=39563770]

Still Classified

Why grow a thick skin for useless scrutiny after the whole sham has finally fallen on its face and both parties gone their ways ALIVE?

What's wrong with screwing younger lads @ 55, Seems that part really is a bother?

Pain am

[/quot

Lol. Wetin concern me? Nah


May God keep us all and all that is ours.

Thanks & goodnite.

Mindfulness:
@MusingsOfALady

You try to approach the topic using reason, the other ladies approach the topic emotionally. Nothing is wrong with any of these approaches but the differences between the two are the reason why you won't be able to find common ground.

I find it amusing that some ladies will expect some stranger to feel responsible for them when even their own HUSBAND shi.ts on them.
Sorry for my choice of words, I couldn't help it.

Sholly? BABE?

MusingsOfALady:


This abandonment thing in my opinion is not a great idea, except you are like 2decades younger.

I mean you spend your youth suffering and smiling then when he is 60 and you are 55 you leave him and start life all over,?
Start living alone or being a burden to your kids.

If a woman wants to leave, leave now whole you have your youth.

My opinion though

Lol. I totally understand you. Whether or not is a great idea is a decision for the woman concerned to make. The concerns I usually have with people is not usually if a woman decides to stay with a cheating man or not. My issue is that women should be able to make their choices. I believe women who want to stay can stay while those who want to leave can also do that. Even those who want to do abandonment should also be able to. I do not actually care. I do care however when that choice is taken away from the woman. For example when she is told that she is supposed to do this this this.

I personally would not be that patient. I am someone that deals with issues as they come after which I forget about it.

On the issue of side chicks, I do believe that a girl who knows a man is married and goes for the man deserves to be punished. However, I am yet to see or hear of any punishment which will solve the problem. As such, I would not personally go fighting a mistress. I would concentrate on the man.

iykedare:
To all those girls that ever slept with married men,your husbands will cheat on you too. Fvck vow.

Karma is real.


See them trying to shift the goal post to suit them.

Hehehehe!

So what's the karma for a cheating husband?

How anyone can think the other woman, is to blame ,is a mystery to me, the only scenario where I can understand getting mad at the other woman is,if she was a friend, but even then, all you need do is realize she never was your friend.

Ewuro4:


Yeserie



Lol.

Most folks don't know but It's a known and true fact (from real experiences) that men's worst nightmare is loneliness in their old age. That's why they are in their best behaviour and very respectful in their mid forties.

Ladies who are married to much older men will confirm this.

I have heard that. I have also heard they hate divorce as much as women do.

bellong:


Bukatyne,

Thanks for the "gossip"...

Welcome back Ile, I thought Coogar arranged snipers for you, been looking for how to arrest him..


Efe, the moniker may need to proof she is Ile but her " Tennis buddy" line to me sounds convincing. She is the only one that calls me that.

Bukatyne, your "gossip" resurrected the handle, I guess.

You are welcome

[size=2pt]What is the next moniker we need back?

jennykadry, moca and MarvellousGod[/size]

Before we agree to disagree ( as we will)

Let me clear that I'm not literally comparing a husband to an object.
I do know that only one willing to be snatched can be snatched. So the blame is one him.
As far as that marriage goes, he's to blame.

That example was to show you the wrongness of the belief that oneself always come first even when it comes to thing that belong to others. And that is for the consumption of the sidegirl. She should be able think about what she's doing. If she can't find anything wrong with that on her own end, then she's morally bankrupt.

Mindfulness:


Your husband belongs to you for as long as he decides to and can't be compared to an object that does not enjoy the human rights that are called free will and liberty.

If I choose to - and anyone who puts him or herself first has my support. We should do it much more often.

My well-being is more important to me than anyone else's. Am I selfish? YES!

bellong:


Bukatyne,

Thanks for the "gossip"...

Welcome back Ile, I thought Coogar arranged snipers for you, been looking for how to arrest him..


Efe, the moniker may need to proof she is Ile but her " Tennis buddy" line to me sounds convincing. She is the only one that calls me that.

Bukatyne, your "gossip" resurrected the handle, I guess.

Thanks!

bukatyne:


A second wife will be insulted because she is the one posting.

If a guy opens a thread that his babe is sleeping with a married man, the married man is NONE of the guy's business; his cheating girlfriend is and I do not care if the married man chased her or jazzed her.

If a side chic attacks you/the kids first, then she has made herself your business (God forbid)

Your first two points were addressed already,no need revisiting them for me.

Why God forbid eh? Well it happens so many times especially if you are married to a rich man and the mistress is not ready to let go.

@topic,most of you forgot that your "logic" isn't necessary everybody "logic".Just like you think things other people do are mystery to you,so do other people think same about you.

The way i see some of you with razor mouths attack anyone that provoke you on a faceless forum and you think y'all leave a woman who walk into your home to attack you walk away. na for internet only?

Like bellong said,life is not always black and white.Just like i watch snapped and tell myself,why didn't she just leave?Why cheat on a man and still kill him?Why kill a man who has been abusive to you and end up spending the rest of your life in jail?why why why

Many people deal with their issues differently,sometimes it doesn't have to make sense to us.

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Affairs never end well.For some they were lucky,for some not so much.A mistress killed a wife's child because the husband broke up with her.The wife asked for a divorce and the man fought to save his marriage.After many months of harassments from the mistress,she finally fulfilled her promises to wife that she will suffer.Assuming she didn't take those threats likely,maybe just maybe her son would have been alive.

Some wives are evils and hoodlums,yes so don't go messing around people thinking your "logic" will work on them.E no dey show for face.

Genevieve run to Ghana when Atiku wife came for her,o boy did she leave Atiku alone(some say it's rumour but there is no smoke without fire).I have heard in a Luxurious saloon in Abuja how many women went that way,especially those rich men wives.They were saying they don't mind that their husbands sleep around but when a particular girl becomes her husband favourite,they go extra miles to eliminate them.Yes it doesn't make sense to you but to them it does.

The case is not a straightforward issue. Life is not always in black and white.Every case must be addressed with its peculiarity and detail bellong 2015

Personally,i don't go physical.I even go mad for a little scar on my body,so out of question.I can't talk for everyone so my only problem will be the husband.

cococandy:
Before we agree to disagree ( as we will)

We don't have to do it this time as we agree here pretty much, don't we?

Let me clear that I'm not literally comparing a husband to an object.
I do know that only one willing to be snatched can be snatched. So the blame is one him.
As far as that marriage goes, he's to blame.

See.

That example was to show you the wrongness of the belief that oneself always come first even when it comes to thing that belong to others. And that is for the consumption of the sidegirl. She should be able think about what she's doing. If she can't find anything wrong with that on her own end, then she's morally bankrupt.

I encourage selfishness not stealing. The reason why an extramarital affair can't be compared to an object and the act of stealing it is that no side chic can steal a husband unless she kidnaps him. An extra marital affair takes place with the husband's consent.

freecocoa:
Sholly? BABE?

I am that I am.

Mindfulness:


I am that I am.

Lol, l now know.

PresVA:
So how can I not get hurt when a husband who I trust cheats on me? Or are you saying trust doesn't hurt people? Only dependency does? I really don't the difference btw the two as regards the issue we're talking about. ..

Trust is a positive expectation but it is in the nature of expectations that you may get something else than you expected. Positive expectations do not hurt but dependency on them does. If your husband abuses your trust, is it your fault? Will it help you to feel bad about it even though it is not your fault? Why would you feel bad over something you have not done? You shouldn't and you don't deserve to feel bad. So here is what to do, you decide to feel good no matter what. You have no control over other people but you have a lot of control over your attitude and your feelings and your feelings should not depend on how other people choose to behave or not behave. You give people way too much control over yourself if you allow them to be in charge of your feelings and well-being.

You're saying trusting your husband and not depending on him will prevent you from getting hurt when he cheats on you?

Yes, once you decide that your feelings depend on how YOU treat yourself and not upon how others do. If you learn to love yourself unconditionally, the actions of others will be secondary because the love that you have inside of you trumps everything as it is unconditional and as it is the most beautiful feeling you can ever experience.

My opinion is that either way, you'll still feel hurt and betrayed. ..

It is a matter of choice, you see.

EfemenaXY, I have gotten your message.

EfemenaXY come and discuss this post with us.

freecocoa:
Lol, l now know.

Maybe you do, maybe you don't.

Ewuro4:

Dami is that you?







Fun fun fun!
You too dear.

I love your positive energy. Keep it up. Shine bright.

Mindfulness:


Maybe you do, maybe you don't.

l so do, been wanting to talk to you since.

freecocoa:
l so do, been wanting to talk to you since.

Talk to me. It will be fun. I have to go now but I will be back later.

Mindfulness:


Talk to me. It will be fun. I have to go now but I will be back later.

Lol, Why do I think you are going to church? laters.

edwife:


Your first two points were addressed already,no need revisiting them for me.

Why God forbid eh? Well it happens so many times especially if you are married to a rich man and the mistress is not ready to let go.

@topic,most of you forgot that your "logic" isn't necessary everybody "logic".Just like you think things other people do are mystery to you,so do other people think same about you.

The way i see some of you with razor mouths attack anyone that provoke you on a faceless forum and you think y'all leave a woman who walk into your home to attack you walk away. na for internet only?

Like bellong said,life is not always black and white.Just like i watch snapped and tell myself,why didn't she just leave?Why cheat on a man and still kill him?Why kill a man who has been abusive to you and end up spending the rest of your life in jail?why why why

Many people deal with their issues differently,sometimes it doesn't have to make sense to us.



Affairs never end well.For some they were lucky,for some not so much.A mistress killed a wife's child because the husband broke up with her.The wife asked for a divorce and the man fought to save his marriage.After many months of harassments from the mistress,she finally fulfilled her promises to wife that she will suffer.Assuming she didn't take those threats likely,maybe just maybe her son would have been alive.

Some wives are evils and hoodlums,yes so don't go messing around people thinking your "logic" will work on them.E no dey show for face.

Genevieve run to Ghana when Atiku wife came for her,o boy did she leave Atiku alone(some say it's rumour but there is no smoke without fire).I have heard in a Luxurious saloon in Abuja how many women went that way,especially those rich men wives.They were saying they don't mind that their husbands sleep around but when a particular girl becomes her husband favourite,they go extra miles to eliminate them.Yes it doesn't make sense to you but to them it does.

The case is not a straightforward issue. Life is not always in black and white.Every case must be addressed with its peculiarity and detail bellong 2015

Personally,i don't go physical.I even go mad for a little scar on my body,so out of question.I can't talk for everyone so my only problem will be the husband.

Edwife, nice one, FINALLY.

@red

She will have to let go if the husband decides to stay true to his wife. She is not forcing him to stay, is she? She is enjoying the advantages, why would she let go of such an offer?

freecocoa:
Lol, Why do I think you are going to church? laters.

I am not. Churches irritate me. I have a very close relationship with God, closer than most people who go to and work in churches.

Mindfulness:


I am not. Churches irritate me. I have a very close relationship with God, closer than most people who go to and work in churches.

Great, Maybe sometime, we'll talk about "God" the way you see him.

byvan03:



Hello babe..

Hi babe.
You just dey chop your money alone . Chop clean mouth. I just dey look you . Diaris....

12 pages on top blokos matter
Nigerian women,
Ndi Nne mama,
I dey hail oh.

Chillis:
12 pages on top blokos matter
Nigerian women,
Ndi Nne mama,
I dey hail oh.

EfemenaXY:




Long time Chilli. Howdy?

I'm fine. How your side . Did you go to church. Hope you prayed for me
I wan buy mansion for banana island

babygirlfl:

Na dia kin thing dey sweet you
Happy Sunday

Chillis:

Na dia kin thing dey sweet you
Happy Sunday

Hehehe happy Sunday dear.