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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Melsan: 11:01pm On Nov 24, 2015
[quote author=blessedbeads post=40372081]May our sleep be sweet tonite ,good night @all[/quote)Amen,good night dear
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Melsan: 11:03pm On Nov 24, 2015
ddshow:


Hian...you are heading the committee, please appoint a secretary.



Melsan heads it actually. embarassed embarassed embarassed
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 12:34am On Nov 25, 2015
halexito:

Attack you personally? No! I only responded to your post here. Because I don't agree with SOME of your ideas and methods, does that mean that I'm against you personally?
Prof, we warmly welcome intelligent and enlightening posts here. But if you're one of those guys who always think those who disagree with some their 'intellectual' views are against them personally.
Then I think you should try to keep YOUR MIND to yourself.

I made some points in my quoted text. If you are sincerely going to respond, then, address what I actually wrote instead of slithering around it.

I made it particularly clear in my quoted text , what I was getting at. You now spun my comment to enable you put the spin on it you wanted to enable you make your conclusion.

I have never said or implied that a difference in opinion means an attack. You may want to step back a little before forging ahead. Your focus was to be dismissive and you found a way to get there.

Sonofananimal made his response made his take on the discourse without taking things out of context to drive home a preconceived notion. You can.learn from him.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 1:03am On Nov 25, 2015
magneto:


Bro the above bolded is not entirely correct. Of cos u can control how u want to be perceived; its not by WHAT ur saying but HOW ur saying it. Using expressions like "low hanging fruit" and "barren expeditions" may be realistic reasoning, but the choice of words is poor. Emotions cannot be ruled out from these kind of interactions, u know. U can't be all efficient and logical about hookups and dating. Ur just gonna rub some ppl off d wrong way and u don't want dat bro, trust me. Ur suggestion is not bad at all, but u could've presented it in a more "acceptable" way...hope u get my drift.



MY MIND

That's the biggest disadvantage of written discourse. I am not saying it, i I'm writing it and people are reading it and will definitely interpret things their own way leading to different reactions.

Just the way you deemed those words as poor choice some will see nothing wrong with it. Now matter how good someone's intentions are, no one can be sure how people will self interpret especially in a public forum.

It's like a basketball game. I focused on the delivery of my shot and not how it Will go in or how I will celebrate if it goes in before I even take the shot! Emotion is driving this and while I acknowledge it cannot be ruled out, it ensures animosity rather than reason drives responses where applicable. The emotion should be saved for romance.

Nigerians like to hear what they want to hear. If you don't give it to them, then, you have to be sidelined while others aligned are carried along.

What is going on here is a smaller version of what goes on in the outside world hence, very few in Nigeria speak up on matters without fear or favour because the desire to be accepted is much greater than the desire to be heard and nothing changes. I will stop here.

Btw, why don't u put up d link to ur thread so some of us can't comment there as well. One luv bro.

I may dig it up at some point...

Nice discourse. Remain blessed.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by stinggy(m): 7:50am On Nov 25, 2015
missbronze:
Babes, you no try here.

for crying out loud, is ordinary pm, the least you could have done is to reply back, and ask him this question in private.


This public announcement is uncalled for.


Hope your day was great.
...
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by klassic(m): 8:30am On Nov 25, 2015
Having a difficult time lately. Then I saw this, guess what it got me back on mi feet man.
If she can do her homework on a street selling groundnut at time on a busy road using a street light. Who in God's name is we not to succeed? Deep but real spiff man.

Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 8:30am On Nov 25, 2015
Good morning to all my darlings. wishing you all a great day.


Myminder honey, hope your night was good? I dreamt of you. Did you dream of me too?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by klassic(m): 8:31am On Nov 25, 2015
I gotta be more careful.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Melsan: 8:54am On Nov 25, 2015
missbronze:
Good morning to all my darlings. wishing you all a great day.


Myminder honey, hope your night was good? I dreamt of you. Did you dream of me too?
Good morning dearie,wish you a great day too
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 9:02am On Nov 25, 2015
missbronze:
Good morning to all my darlings. wishing you all a great day.


Myminder honey, hope your night was good? I dreamt of you. Did you dream of me too?

Dreams are of different types. Care to shed more light?

I dreamt of you in relation to your response to mssparkle003. I like the way you stood up to be counted even as a fellow female like her. Have a nice day. It's Hump day; make sure you enjoy it.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by matrix199(m): 9:40am On Nov 25, 2015
Closed

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by blessedbeads(f): 10:11am On Nov 25, 2015
matrix199:
So no one dreamt of me here shey?





No wahala, my mama called me and told me she dreamt of me! tongue
good mrn ,thank God ur mama dream of u @all good morning and a stress free day ,luv you all
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:18am On Nov 25, 2015
MYMINDER:

Dreams are of different types. Care to shed more light?
.
, Dreamt we were running about in Elugushi beach.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:19am On Nov 25, 2015
matrix199:
So no one dreamt of me here shey?





No wahala, my mama called me and told me she dreamt of me! tongue
Lol. you sef.

Hope you slept well?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by MYMINDER(m): 10:21am On Nov 25, 2015
missbronze:
, Dreamt we were running about in Elugushi beach.

Quoting Shaggy: it wasn't me
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:20am On Nov 25, 2015
MYMINDER:

Quoting Shaggy: it wasn't me
. Lol.
it's all good.
Nice day for ya.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by matrix199(m): 11:29am On Nov 25, 2015
Closed
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 1:08pm On Nov 25, 2015
MYMINDER:


Dreams are of different types. Care to shed more light?

I dreamt of you in relation to your response to mssparkle003. I like the way you stood up to be counted even as a fellow female like her. Have a nice day. It's Hump day; make sure you enjoy it.
uhmmm
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 1:17pm On Nov 25, 2015
Now i feel the issue with zubby should be dropped please.
your opinions,thoughts and advices or corrections have all been seen and read by me thank you.
so please move on to other issues

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by sisisioge: 2:15pm On Nov 25, 2015
Are you guys fighting?


Hi everyone, I'm qualified as per topic. On the left side of the number( dreadful number to be alone) I would love to mingle with both genders. I love beautiful minds. I love real people. I'm interested in taking the mingling to the next level(applicable to men alone especially those tending towards the right side of the number) I love a good laugh. I love a good time. I respond to PMs...so hit me with it wink

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 5:01pm On Nov 25, 2015
sisisioge:
Are you guys fighting?


Hi everyone, I'm qualified as per topic. On the left side of the number( dreadful number to be alone) I would love to mingle with both genders. I love beautiful minds. I love real people. I'm interested in taking the mingling to the next level(applicable to men alone especially those tending towards the right side of the number) I love a good laugh. I love a good time. I respond to PMs...so hit me with it wink
you are welcome sisi baby.


Well, as for the pm....?, sonofananimal, will do the needful.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by BluePearls(m): 5:13pm On Nov 25, 2015
Hello from the other side smiley
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by BluePearls(m): 5:32pm On Nov 25, 2015
It seems im all alone here undecided i can hear my HELLO echoing back at me grin
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by sisisioge: 5:59pm On Nov 25, 2015
missbronze:
you are welcome sisi baby.


Well, as for the pm....?, sonofananimal, will do the needful.


grin grin grin grin that handle is super funny!

Thanks for welcoming me. What's cooking?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by sisisioge: 6:00pm On Nov 25, 2015
BluePearls:
It seems im all alone here undecided i can hear my HELLO echoing back at me grin

Hello blues... You're not alone.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 6:04pm On Nov 25, 2015
sisisioge:


grin grin grin grin that handle is super funny!

Thanks for welcoming me. What's cooking?
cheesy


which means I made the right choice for you.


Well. If you fancy any guy here, go ahead and make a move. that's what's cooking.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 6:06pm On Nov 25, 2015
BluePearls:
It seems im all alone here undecided i can hear my HELLO echoing back at me grin
Oga. hope you have paid your condolence to your vivi?

wad up?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by BluePearls(m): 6:11pm On Nov 25, 2015
missbronze:
Oga. hope you have paid your condolence to your vivi?

wad up?

what happened to my vivi? embarassed
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by sisisioge: 6:11pm On Nov 25, 2015
missbronze:
cheesy


which means I made the right choice for you.


Well. If you fancy any guy here, go ahead and make a move. that's what's cooking.

Thanks Sis...I will observe the community. I'm sure me and the Bobo will find each other wink Fingers crossed!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by BluePearls(m): 6:13pm On Nov 25, 2015
sisisioge:


Hello blues... You're not alone.

hey you..sent you a pm wink
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 6:17pm On Nov 25, 2015
sisisioge:


grin grin grin grin that handle is super funny!

Thanks for welcoming me. What's cooking?
lolzz! You are super welcome!

Feel free to mingle! And if you got anything on ya mind which need sorting out, do let us know and we will take care of it just in time.

@missbronze please show her through!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by sisisioge: 6:21pm On Nov 25, 2015
BluePearls:


hey you..sent you a pm wink


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