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Her fans are really so stupid, sorry to say, how can she advice you to end your relationship with a cheating partner and you foolishly obliged, must you listen to celebs advice whose married life is always shit? Smh to those people saying she ruined their relationships, don't worry, she'll still advice you to forgive your partners, rubbish

Fkforyou:
I've nothing to say cos honestly I don't care about toke or any of them, I just want book space as per FTC tins and probably hunt for likes.....

Do u eat likes? What's so special about them?

Why would she keep telling her gullible readers not to go bck to a cheating spouse only for her to do d direct opposite, that's the bone of contention here. Act what u preach

Toks2008:
I have always maintained that its a waste of time discussing this issue with some ladies.

Only a foolish woman from the land of dummies will vouch for her hubby when it comes to cheating even when we know some men are faithful and the fact that your man respects you enough to do it far from you or becauyse you have not caught him yet is no ground to vouch for him.

But let me leave you all with this advice..If ever you catch your man cheating on you,please do as you just threatened and dumb his ass and choose one of these 3 options...

1.Remain celibate for life
2.Keep dumping and trying new men if you find yourself with another philanderer.
3.Don't bother remarrying and start sleeping around with different men.
4.Remain in your matrimony and build your life and that of your children.

I repeat,leaving your marriage because a man cheats on you is not a wise decision because that is exactly what the mistres wants you to do..to leave so that she can come in and when you leave,don't expect to be received like a super star by another man as you may likely be leaving into the greatest frustration of your life.

No man is worth the stress because 8 out of 10 guys will cheat on you and you better get this straight or go jump into the lagoon.

I am not looking for a date on nairaland so im very comfortable telling every lady this hard truth. I have never cheated on any lady i have evr been with not because i love her but because i love Christ nevertheless i can not vouch for myself but by the grace of GOD so yes some men will not cheat on you because they love GOD and not because they love you and a man can still cheat on you even if he can die for you.

Polygamy is not a sin in anyway so if you are a lady who wants to die because your man sleeps with or decides to marry another lady then start practicing how to commit suicide. This is why i love the core islamic doctrines and you will hardly see any core muslim woman writes all thes nonsense some ladies are writing here.

You are a very sick man, you have crass mentality, I bet you don't even have a girl friend let alone a wife, with that said I can understand ur unbelievable idiotic mentality on issues pertaining to infidelity. Get that into your thick skull, CHEATING IS BAD AND NO WOMAN SHOULD BE MADE TO BELIEVE ITS SOMETHING THEY HAVE TO PUT UP WITH. So called men cannot put up with it, why should women. And women are undeniably more intelligent and focused than men, then why put up with their mess when they cannot reason at all.

Just shut up and jump back into your baby cot immediately, and someone needs to deactivate your internet so you don't keep poisoning people with your unreasonable trash.

Boys like you should are the reason why the sanctity of marriage has been defiled because they think cheating is a normal. Well small boy, it is not. And if you intend cheating may you find someone that will castrate you and hang your balls on a tree.
Jungle beast.

andromida:
I see why you are confused you love christ and love core islamic doctrines. Hehehehehe married women call you for advice you say?

Which hard truth? hehehehehe Toks oooooo

I for no reply you again but for that Islam wey you join put...Please what on earth is wrong with the islamic doctrines as regards marriage? Is it because it allows polygamy? Abeg park well. I wish you well with your monogamous dream..

mikron:
Why would she keep telling her gullible readers not to go bck to a cheating spouse only for her to do d direct opposite, that's the bone of contention here. Act what u preach

This is exactly where i faulted her IF THIS IS TRUE.

Philpham:
You are a very sick man, you have crass mentality, I bet you don't even have a girl friend let alone a wife, with that said I can understand ur unbelievable idiotic mentality on issues pertaining to infidelity. Get that into your thick skull, CHEATING IS BAD AND NO WOMAN SHOULD BE MADE TO BELIEVE ITS SOMETHING THEY HAVE TO PUT UP WITH. So called men cannot put up with it, why should women. And women are undeniably more intelligent and focused than men, then why put up with their mess when they cannot reason at all.

Just shut up and jump back into your baby cot immediately, and someone needs to deactivate your internet so you don't keep poisoning people with your unreasonable trash.

Boys like you should are the reason why the sanctity of marriage has been defiled because they think cheating is a normal. Well small boy, it is not. And if you intend cheating may you find someone that will castrate you and hang your balls on a tree.
Jungle beast.

I really pity your unfortunate hubby who was not wise enough to discern the type of lousy lady you are because trust me,you are just displaying a quality of a ravaging nunatic online and i strongly sense you have either been kicked out of your marriage or presently frustrated...For petes sake can't you just communicate without getting abusive? must we be on same page? what happened to freedom of opinion?

All your responses to other people's post here is filled with abuses and i wonder. Are you sure you are not one ill mannered pepper seller who managed to read and write.

Your moronic attitude made me do a quick due diligence on your past 43 comments on nairaland and i can confidently say that you need help fast because apparently your crassness is unequivocal and a quick help is sacrosanct for you to avoid total mental retardation.

You want to make me puke right now GAWD! i pity your hubby seriously and i think you need urgent psychological and mental evaluation. Lady yii o gbadun at all. Confirm were alaso...GOD FORBID I RESPOND TO YOU AGAIN.

Toks2008:
I for no reply you again but for that Islam wey you join put...Please what on earth is wrong with the islamic doctrines as regards marriage? Is it because it allows polygamy? Abeg park well. I wish you well with your monogamous dream..

Thank you for the well wishing.

How do you reconcile your love for Christ concerning marriage with core Islamic doctrines.

Do you have a problem with polygamy in Islam?

Why did you say this? I am shocked especially when its coming from a woman. What if it is the other way round? If you have a brother whose wife cheated on him, would you advice him the same way?

Lilimax:
Only a fool will leave/divorce her cheating husaband

andromida:
Thank you for the well wishing.

How do you reconcile your love for Christ concerning marriage with core Islamic doctrines.

Do you have a problem with polygamy in Islam?

Do you want to see a comprehensive bible pasages that supports polygamy?

Answer yes and i will present them to you right away.

Polygamy is not advisable yet not a sin. And this is the way i see it.If your husband can actually marry another woman,why kill yourself because he is having an affair? Please think about this.

I repeat, i dont even know how to cheat on a lady but must i hide the truth about what goes on?

I had a brother who called me to say he impregnated a lady while still married to another amd he loves the new lady...i simply told him, sorry you now have two wives.

Wil i tell him to leave the new girl to her fate and go back to the first wife? or will i ask him to divorce the first one and be with the second one?

Many ladies dont want to think idealistically and realistically.

I once asked some ladies...if they are asked to chose between their hubby being polygamous or philanderer which one wil they choose? To me i believe it makes more sense for a lady to zero her mind.

Lilimax:
Only a fool will leave/divorce her cheating husaband

Please all the ladies in the house should leave me for once and face this lady..maybe she will explain more as a lady.

Philpham:
You are a very sick man, you have crass mentality, I bet you don't even have a girl friend let alone a wife, with that said I can understand ur unbelievable idiotic mentality on issues pertaining to infidelity. Get that into your thick skull, CHEATING IS BAD AND NO WOMAN SHOULD BE MADE TO BELIEVE ITS SOMETHING THEY HAVE TO PUT UP WITH. So called men cannot put up with it, why should women. And women are undeniably more intelligent and focused than men, then why put up with their mess when they cannot reason at all.

Just shut up and jump back into your baby cot immediately, and someone needs to deactivate your internet so you don't keep poisoning people with your unreasonable trash.

Boys like you should are the reason why the sanctity of marriage has been defiled because they think cheating is a normal. Well small boy, it is not. And if you intend cheating may you find someone that will castrate you and hang your balls on a tree.
Jungle beast.

well, i disagree with may of the things he said but i think your insulting him is necessary.

And for the "women are undeniably more intelligent than men" part, wouldn't you like to reconsider that statement?

NB: it is importamt we keep in mind that women are as unfaithful as men especially when they are still dating. They keep many boyfriends and sleep with all of them. Their reason is...they can't keep all their eggs in one basket; just incase one fails, the other will work

Toks2008:
I really pity your unfortunate hubby who was not wise enough to discern the type of lousy lady you are because trust me,you are just displaying a quality of a ravaging nunatic online and i strongly sense you have either been kicked out of your marriage or presently frustrated...For petes sake can't you just communicate without getting abusive? must we be on same page? what happened to freedom of opinion?

All your responses to other people's post here is filled with abuses and i wonder. Are you sure you are not one ill mannered pepper seller who managed to read and write.

Your moronic attitude made me do a quick due diligence on your past 43 comments on nairaland and i can confidently say that you need help fast because apparently your crassness is unequivocal and a quick help is sacrosanct for you to avoid total mental retardation.

You want to make me puke right now GAWD! i pity your hubby seriously and i think you need urgent psychological and mental evaluation. Lady yii o gbadun at all. Confirm were alaso...GOD FORBID I RESPOND TO YOU AGAIN.

You are a raving lunatic, you will still reply to my posts cos you are as guilty as hell in pushing the agenda that married men should cheat on their wives. What slowpoke says that. I bet the woman that makes the mistake of getting to know should be be classified as unluckiest woman ever cos not only will she suffer emotional abuse but you will definitely give her all your STD's as you can't keep it in your pants.

Hopeless monkey that is not even In a relationship let alone married, is here talking about how men should be given a pass to cheat.
You sound like a child from a broken home, and a highly dysfunctional one at that. Go and check your roots and make sure you are not cursed.

If you were not raised to value marriage and respect women then you are a failed product from your family.

Shut up fool and crawl into your hole.

Like I said cheating is bad and no woman should tolerate a cheating man cos no man will tolerate a cheating woman.

Don't go parading your imbecility and chavinism into thinking that women should take men's stupidity. Gone are those days.

Jobless fellow.

Toks2008:
Do you want to see a comprehensive bible pasages that supports polygamy?

Answer yes and i will present them to you right away.

Polygamy is not advisable yet not a sin. And this is the way i see it.If your husband can actually marry another woman,why kill yourself because he is having an affair? Please think about this.

I repeat, i dont even know how to cheat on a lady but must i hide the truth about what goes on?

I had a brother who called me to say he impregnated a lady while still married to another amd he loves the new lady...i simply told him, sorry you now have two wives.

Wil i tell him to leave the new girl to her fate and go back to the first wife? or will i ask him to divorce the first one and be with the second one?

Many ladies dont want to think idealistically and realistically.

I once asked some ladies...if they are asked to chose between their hubby being polygamous or philanderer which one wil they choose? To me i believe it makes more sense for a lady to zero her mind.

The comprehensive passages please.

The idea that once a man marries another woman then the wife's choices is limited to suicide or a life of loneliness or reckless sex life is what i find odd in all your write ups you speak of ladies thinking realistically but its you who seem not grounded in the real world. Women have divorced and remarried. Some don't even want to remarry they are happy to be rid of the man so the bleak picture you paint for a woman who leaves a cheating husband is just scare tactics for gullible women.

Yes you should have told your brother to leave the girl and mind his marriage the biblical standard is to leave the girl and mind your marriage we have Sarah to thank for that.

Why are there only polygamists and philanderers in your world? yet you are the most decent guy on the block why are you not encouraging men to be decent like you? your story is not adding up does it not follow that if you decent Toks exist there must be numerous decent men who exist how can you be the only decent man on NL. What is going on Toks?

Will you ask a man to zero his mind that his wife will most likely cheat on him?

Again how do you reconcile your love for Christ concerning marriage with core Islamic doctrines.?

Celebrities and their social media life..fake people!

Philpham:
That black monkey is slowly damaging her career with her being seen with him. She preaches about being a strong woman on her vlogs but going contrary by taking an unrepentant dog that clearly violated their marriage consciously. It takes more than one night stand to impregnate a girl. He must have been sleeping with her for years.
Now this is the fool she is exposing herself with in public.
I cannot see anything in that cheap cheater, Toke was even the one that brushed him up otherwise he would pass for a keke driver.
She should stick to her guns, hold her head up high and move on with someone that will value and respect her cos she is a very smart, successful rich woman.
I think she should learn from Tina Knowles before that dirty fool gives her STD. Who knows where he has been sticking it in recently.

it takes more than one night stand? Hope you know an egg is not fertilized twice?

Anyway, you've got some point there.

craziebone:
Why did you say this? I am shocked especially when its coming from a woman. What if it is the other way round? If you have a brother whose wife cheated on him, would you advice him the same way?

I never said cheating wife what I'm talking about is a cheating husband.
Can I ask you some questions: Are you married? Are you a male of female?
Having answered this, I'll take it up from there.

I wonder y her fans are angry and blaming her for broken relationships or marriages. Anyone old enough to be in a relationship is old enough to make decisions. Leaving someone because he/she cheated is a personal decision; decision means 'cutting off choices.' This means dt der was option(s) or alternative(s) through which the decision was made. The person taking up the option of forfeiting a relationship cos of any reason shld bear the responsibility and not blame it on anyone. Again, some of these ppl looked up to as relationship role model make speeches based on their personal experiences and not through researches so be careful of who u look up to. Also all those insulting her should just take a break cos u dnt knw their (she and her husby)story; u are not living their lives with them, all u knw is the little she and others share on d media. Take charge of ur life and relationship, be d 'influencer' and not the 'influenced.'

andromida:
The comprehensive passages please.

The idea that once a man marries another woman then the wife's choices is limited to suicide or a life of loneliness or reckless sex life is what i find odd in all your write ups you speak of ladies thinking realistically but its you who seem not grounded in the real world. Women have divorced and remarried. Some don't even want to remarry they are happy to be rid of the man so the bleak picture you paint for a woman who leaves a cheating husband is just scare tactics for gullible women.

Yes you should have told your brother to leave the girl and mind his marriage the biblical standard is to leave the girl and mind your marriage we have Sarah to thank for that.

Why are there only polygamists and philanderers in your world? yet you are the most decent guy on the block why are you not encouraging men to be decent like you? your story is not adding up does it not follow that if you decent Toks exist there must be numerous decent men who exist how can you be the only decent man on NL. What is going on Toks?

Will you ask a man to zero his mind that his wife will most likely cheat on him?

Again how do you reconcile your love for Christ concerning marriage with core Islamic doctrines.?

I can now see my many guys dont bother discussing issues with ladies because at the end these ladies will twist whatever they hear to their own strange understanding n i really dont have time to rewrite all i wrote so whichever way u understand it is left to you.

Talking about biblical doctrines,i dont use human logic or philosophy so your explanation of sera issue is not applicable.

However,you can read this lengthy biblical references to polygamy.

There was never a place in the bible where polygamy was mentioned as a sin.

Some Bible Verses about Polygamy

Exodus 21:10 ESV
If he takes another wife to himself, he shall
not diminish her food, her clothing, or her
marital rights.
...
Deuteronomy 21:15-17
“If a man has two wives, the one loved and
the other unloved, and both the loved and
the unloved have borne him children, and if
the firstborn son belongs to the unloved,
then on the day when he assigns his
possessions as an inheritance to his sons, he
may not treat the son of the loved as the
firstborn in preference to the son of the
unloved, who is the firstborn, but he shall
acknowledge the firstborn, the son of the
unloved, by giving him a double portion of
all that he has, for he is the firstfruits of his
strength. The right of the firstborn is his.

2 Chronicles 24:1-3
Joash was seven years old when he began to
reign, and he reigned forty years in
Jerusalem. His mother's name was Zibiah of
Beersheba. And Joash did what was right in
the eyes of the Lord all the days of Jehoiada
the priest. Jehoiada got for him two wives,
and he had sons and daughters.

Isaiah 4:1 ESV
And seven women shall take hold of one
man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own
bread and wear our own clothes, only let us
be called by your name; take away our
reproach.”

2 Samuel 12:8 ESV
And I gave you your master's house and your
master's wives into your arms and gave you
the house of Israel and of Judah. And if this
were too little, I would add to you as much
more.

1 Chronicles 3:1-9 ESV
These are the sons of David who were born
to him in Hebron: the firstborn, Amnon, by
Ahinoam the Jezreelite; the second, Daniel,
by Abigail the Carmelite, the third, Absalom,
whose mother was Maacah, the daughter of
Talmai, king of Geshur; the fourth, Adonijah,
whose mother was Haggith; the fifth,
Shephatiah, by Abital; the sixth, Ithream, by
his wife Eglah; six were born to him in
Hebron, where he reigned for seven years
and six months. And he reigned thirty-three
years in Jerusalem. These were born to him
in Jerusalem: Shimea, Shobab, Nathan and
Solomon, four by Bath-shua, the daughter of
Ammiel; ...

Judges 8:30 ESV
Now Gideon had seventy sons, his own
offspring, for he had many wives.

2 Chronicles 13:21 ESV
But Abijah grew mighty. And he took
fourteen wives and had twenty-two sons and
sixteen daughters.

2 Chronicles 11:21
Rehoboam loved Maacah the daughter of
Absalom above all his wives and concubines
(he took eighteen wives and sixty concubines,
and fathered twenty-eight sons and sixty
daughters).

Genesis 4:19 ESV
And Lamech took two wives. The name of the
one was Adah, and the name of the other
Zillah.

2 Chronicles 24:3 ESV
Jehoiada got for him two wives, and he had
sons and daughters.

Genesis 30:9
When Leah saw that she had ceased bearing
children, she took her servant Zilpah and
gave her to Jacob as a wife.

1 Chronicles 4:5 ESV
Ashhur, the father of Tekoa, had two wives,
Helah and Naarah;

2 Samuel 5:13 ESV
And David took more concubines and wives
from Jerusalem, after he came from Hebron,
and more sons and daughters were born to
David.

1 Samuel 1:1-2
There was a certain man of Ramathaim-
zophim of the hill country of Ephraim whose
name was Elkanah the son of Jeroham, son of
Elihu, son of Tohu, son of Zuph, an
Ephrathite. He had two wives. The name of
the one was Hannah, and the name of the
other, Peninnah. And Peninnah had children,
but Hannah had no children.

Ezekiel 23:1-4
The word of the Lord came to me: “Son of
man, there were two women, the daughters
of one mother. They played the LovePeddler in
Egypt; they played the LovePeddler in their youth;
there their breasts were pressed and their
virgin bosoms handled. Oholah was the name
of the elder and Oholibah the name of her
sister. They became mine, and they bore
sons and daughters. As for their names,
Oholah is Samaria, and Oholibah is
Jerusalem.

Genesis 30:4
So she gave him her servant Bilhah as a wife,
and Jacob went in to her.

Deuteronomy 25:5-10 ESV
“If brothers dwell together, and one of them
dies and has no son, the wife of the dead
man shall not be married outside the family
to a stranger. Her husband's brother shall go
in to her and take her as his wife and
perform the duty of a husband's brother to
her. And the first son whom she bears shall
succeed to the name of his dead brother,
that his name may not be blotted out of
Israel. And if the man does not wish to take
his brother's wife, then his brother's wife
shall go up to the gate to the elders and say,
‘My husband's brother refuses to perpetuate
his brother's name in Israel; he will not
perform the duty of a husband's brother to
me.’ Then the elders of his city shall call him
and speak to him, and if he persists, saying,
‘I do not wish to take her,’ then his brother's
wife shall go up to him in the presence of
the elders and pull his sandal off his foot and
spit in his face. And she shall answer and
say, ‘So shall it be done to the man who
does not build up his brother's house.’ ...

1 Kings 11:1-4 ESV
Now King Solomon loved many foreign
women, along with the daughter of Pharaoh:
Moabite, Ammonite, Edomite, Sidonian, and
Hittite women, from the nations concerning
which the Lord had said to the people of
Israel, “You shall not enter into marriage
with them, neither shall they with you, for
surely they will turn away your heart after
their gods.” Solomon clung to these in love.
He had 700 wives, princesses, and 300
concubines. And his wives turned away his
heart. For when Solomon was old his wives
turned away his heart after other gods, and
his heart was not wholly true to the Lord his
God, as was the heart of David his father.

Song of Solomon 6:8
There are sixty queens and eighty
concubines, and virgins without number.

Genesis 25:6 ESV
But to the sons of his concubines Abraham
gave gifts, and while he was still living he
sent them away from his son Isaac, eastward
to the east country.

Lilimax:
I never said cheating wife what I'm talking about is a cheating husband.
Can I ask you some questions: Are you married? Are you a male of female?
Having answered this, I'll take it up from there.

my identity is male, in 20s and certainly unmarried. Won't consider it at any point in time.

I am really interested in hearing your own part as it concerns cheating wives.

NB: i am ANTI-FEMINISM. its just that i feel we should not be close minded always so we don't mak a mockery of ourselves as that could switch public opinion against us and in favour of feminists.

dorleey:
I wonder y her fans are angry and blaming her for broken relationships or marriages. Anyone old enough to be in a relationship is old enough to make decisions. Leaving someone because he/she cheated is a personal decision; decision means 'cutting off choices.' This means dt der was option(s) or alternative(s) through which the decision was made. The person taking up the option of forfeiting a relationship cos of any reason shld bear the responsibility and not blame it on anyone. Again, some of these ppl looked up to as relationship role model make speeches based on their personal experiences and not through researches so be careful of who u look up to. Also all those insulting her should just take a break cos u dnt knw their (she and her husby)story; u are not living their lives with them, all u knw is the little she and others share on d media. Take charge of ur life and relationship, be d 'influencer' and not the 'influenced.'

This does really explain my opinion in detail, which is, anyone that is gullible and stupid enough to be basing his/her relationship on what a 3rd party, especially one without a credible, tested and trusted, encouraging history in relationships and their management has to say, then that person probably doesn't have any business whatsoever being in a relationship. And if anyone is married but is still depending on what a spinster says via an online podium on how to deal with the idosyncrasies of his/her partner or the challenges of one's marriage, then that person needs to get tested for toxic levels of foreign cells in the blood that might be causing an acute drop in mental processing and capability.

@Toks2008

The cop out is you can't talk with a woman because her logic is twisted. Lol you should have known this before you started prescribing for us and selling untruths that all men minus you are cheats.

As per the lengthy passages why do you want to return to the law? Are you interested in Judaism or Christianity? But if you choose to marry as a Christian then this is the standard.

Jesus he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” matt 19:4-6 in Vs 19 after their complaints Jesus let's them know he who is able to accept it let him accept it.

Note the male and female not females or wives so there was no room for divorce and polygamy which is why Jesus referred them to the original institution of matrimony preceding law of moses and if christianity is about restoration to the original plan then you cannot cop out of the parts you find inconvenient. He who is able to accept it, let him accept it.

andromida:
@Toks2008

The cop out is you can't talk with a woman because her logic is twisted. Lol you should have known this before you started prescribing for us and selling untruths that all men minus you are cheats.

As per the lengthy passages why do you want to return to the law? Are you interested in Judaism or Christianity? But if you choose to marry as a Christian then this is the standard.

Jesus he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” matt 19:4-6 in Vs 19 after their complaints Jesus let's them know he who is able to accept it let him accept it.

Note the male and female not females or wives so there was no room for divorce and polygamy which is why Jesus referred them to the original institution of matrimony preceding law of moses and if christianity is about restoration to the original plan then you cannot cop out of the parts you find inconvenient. He who is able to accept it, let him accept it.

Issorite

janellemonae:
True story. She needs to stop those agony aunt vlogs.

exactly. She needs to clean up. She's a mess.

Nigerians get bad mouth I tire for una

Toks2008:
This is exactly where i faulted her IF THIS IS TRUE.

it is. Go to her blog and see for yourself

Philpham:
You are a cheap hypocrite, listen to yourself, olodo.
No lady should leave a repentant cheating hubby abi. Cheating is cheating. Get that into your thick skull, and as men are dogs they should be kicked out as soon as it happens.
I wish you get a repentant cheating wife so I can see what you will do. Fool.
Shut up and go back to your baby cot if you don't have any reasonable thing to say.

What happened to civility?

Philpham:
That black monkey is slowly damaging her career with her being seen with him. She preaches about being a strong woman on her vlogs but going contrary by taking an unrepentant dog that clearly violated their marriage consciously. It takes more than one night stand to impregnate a girl. He must have been sleeping with her for years.
Now this is the fool she is exposing herself with in public.
I cannot see anything in that cheap cheater, Toke was even the one that brushed him up otherwise he would pass for a keke driver.
She should stick to her guns, hold her head up high and move on with someone that will value and respect her cos she is a very smart, successful rich woman.
I think she should learn from Tina Knowles before that dirty fool gives her STD. Who knows where he has been sticking it in recently.

How do you know she was the one that brushed him up? Were you there when they were dating?