₦airaland Forum

one of the reasons why women postponing their careers is frowned on (especially by many women), is because you need to get your foot in the door career wise in order to gain the advantages and advancement which comes with years of experience.

So, the debate over family versus career is a constant one.

Op is just confused!

Cutehector:
Op is just confused!

absolutely... if i b Woman, Family First sha

donpata:
absolutely... if i b Woman, Family First sha

At the rate with which you Nigerian bred men don't live long going by the large percentage of widows in Nigerian society, I cannot blame women who seek to earn a decent living just in case you Nigerian bred men kick bucket suddenly. Nigerians don't have life insurance and its heart breaking to see all the poverty stricken Nigerian widows looking emaciated while they figure out how to feed their battalions of children with their husbands gone. I see them struggling for bags of rice and yam in this festive period to feed all their hungry mouths at home.

When the average life expectancy rate in Nigeria goes from a current 52 years - according to the United Nations - to 80 years or more, then we can discuss choosing family over career. After all, it takes money to raise a family and provide the children with a decent standard of living. Or would you prefer more Nigerian girls grow up to be runz girls and Nigerian boys grow up to be 419 scammers and ritualists due to their poverty stricken background?

dont type rubbish on the thread, thanks.

Preach it

Nothing more to add

dasparrow:
At the rate with which you Nigerian bred men don't live long going by the large percentage of widows in Nigerian society, I cannot blame women who seek to earn a decent living just in case you Nigerian bred men kick bucket suddenly. Nigerians don't have life insurance and its heart breaking to see all the poverty stricken Nigerian widows looking emaciated while they figure out how to feed their battalions of children with their husbands gone. I see them struggling for bags of rice and yam in this festive period to feed all their hungry mouths at home.

When the average life expectancy rate in Nigeria goes from a current 52 years - according to the United Nations - to 80 years or more, then we can discuss choosing family over career. After all, it takes money to raise a family and provide the children with a decent standard of living. Or would you prefer more Nigerian girls grow up to be runz girls and Nigerian boys grow up to be 419 scammers and ritualists due to their poverty stricken background?

dasparrow:
At the rate with which you Nigerian bred men don't live long going by the large percentage of widows in Nigerian society, I cannot blame women who seek to earn a decent living just in case you Nigerian bred men kick bucket suddenly. Nigerians don't have life insurance and its heart breaking to see all the poverty stricken Nigerian widows looking emaciated while they figure out how to feed their battalions of children with their husbands gone. I see them struggling for bags of rice and yam in this festive period to feed all their hungry mouths at home.

When the average life expectancy rate in Nigeria goes from a current 52 years - according to the United Nations - to 80 years or more, then we can discuss choosing family over career. After all, it takes money to raise a family and provide the children with a decent standard of living. Or would you prefer more Nigerian girls grow up to be runz girls and Nigerian boys grow up to be 419 scammers and ritualists due to their poverty stricken background?

Perfect.

Case closed.