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I married a soldier as husband and he was posted to Maiduguri to serve and fight against the boko haram.
We have 3 children including 1 had before I married him.
So had left so many years but we do chat and talk on even night calls but suddenly, sometimes the network are bad so our conversation are not like before..

In the street where we are living, thieves and arm robbers are disturbing us often and often and so this is becoming so worst for me and my children especially me cause am staying alone in the flat in Ibadan and u know what may happen if one day they visit me.

So in lieu of this, I decided to pack out and change the location..

So I will call my husband and he doesn't picked it and sometime his response is not good...
finally he told me to sell all our properties and come with the children and stay with him in Maiduguri where killing is ongoing..

when I told his parent they said they can't render any help as they are also looking forward to my husband to feed...

So they advise me to go and stay with him there...
and now no house rent, money to feed, I don't also know the place in Maiduguri and also with children and here arm robbers which may lead to rape..

pls what should I do?

should I go there or stay here?

and lastly I perceived my husband is not trustworthy again.

pls what should I do?

As a soldier I'll ask some questions. (1) Why are you not in the barracks? (2) Has your husband not come for pass even once? (3) Have you complained to his CO? (4) Which part of Borno is he?

Don't be like those northerners who shakes hands with DEATH. Find a means of relocating to somewhere not north or go back to your family.
This is what I don't like about most soilders wife, Most of them are jobless. U can crucify me.
If you go there and b you got killed, whose fault is that

SFSNIPER:
As a soldier I'll ask some questions. (1) Why are you not in the barracks?
(2) Has your husband not come for pass even once?
(3) Have you complained to his CO?
(4) Which part of Borno is he?

Oga, you sef get time dey reply this Baggar !

Firstly, the moniker appears to be male.

Secondly, ask him/her the husband's unit, rank, corp and any other related question. I bet he/she would fail it.

Which sane man would ask his family to come to NE ? Besides which accomodation is available for them there ?

Souljaboi1:
Oga, you sef get time dey reply this Baggar !

Firstly, the moniker appears to be male.

Secondly, ask him/her the husband's unit, rank, corp and any other related question. I bet he/she would fail it.

Which sane man would ask his family to come to NE ? Besides which accomodation is available for them there ?

Na white fowl. Compliments of the season my man!

SFSNIPER:
As a soldier I'll ask some questions. (1) Why are you not in the barracks?
(2) Has your husband not come for pass even once?
(3) Have you complained to his CO?
(4) Which part of Borno is he?

good questions,
am a blogger, so I was asked to write it out to seek for an advice.
of cause she complain to the Superior but its like all is to no avail..
and also her husband ask her not to bother so he always send #200,000 (#150000 for house rent and #50000 for feeding)
sometimes, procedure might not help because u know Nigeria... and
lastly,
I don't know why people always take the writer or speaker instead of approaching the issues.
remember, all must have being tried before a person will concluded on coming online...
well its your help she needs if u will advice pls do...