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Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by mamagee3(op): 10:15pm On Jan 05, 2016
[color=deeppink]Hi all, my Nigerian neighbors are friendly with my mother and brother but ignore me.

I haven't done anything wrong but for some bizarre reason, they've chosen to completely ignore me. Even their son who is friends with my brother came into my house few days ago and greeted my mother but ignored me.

And I am left wondering if they will ever speak to me?[/color]
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by Miami11: 2:05am On Jan 06, 2016
If they ignore you just ignore them back, I wonder why you worry much about this neighbors, how old are they
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by mamagee3(op): 2:33am On Jan 06, 2016
Miami11:
If they ignore you just ignore them back, I wonder why you worry much about this neighbors, how old are they
[color=deeppink]They are an entire family and they all ignore me.[/color]
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by Nobody: 2:45am On Jan 06, 2016
mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]They are an entire family and they all ignore me.[/color]
Does your happiness depend on them? I think you have posted similar threads in the past. Please, try and work on your self-esteem and stop worrying about what people think.
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by mamagee3(op): 3:09am On Jan 06, 2016
Yieldings:
Does your happiness depend on them? I think you have posted similar threads in the past. Please, try and work on your self-esteem and stop worrying about what people think.
[color=deeppink]My happiness doesn't depend on them but as someone that is new to the area, I feel weird when my family is spoken to and I'm ignored.[/color]
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by Nobody: 3:59am On Jan 06, 2016
mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]My happiness doesn't depend on them but as someone that is new to the area, I feel weird when my family is spoken to and I'm ignored.[/color]
Have you ever tried speaking with them yourself? It seems you're expecting them to talk to you first. The next time you see them, say "Hello" with a smile, and see if they reply you back.
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by mamagee3(op): 4:08am On Jan 06, 2016
Yieldings:
Have you ever tried speaking with them yourself? It seems you're expecting them to talk to you first. The next time you see them, say "Hello" with a smile, and see if they reply you back.
[color=deeppink]I don't speak to people who treat me badly for no reason.

I don't think I'll ever speak to them.[/color]
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by Karlebolu(m): 6:01am On Jan 06, 2016
mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]I don't speak to people who treat me badly for no reason.

I don't think I'll ever speak to them.[/color]
And you want them to speak to you?
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by Nobody: 6:13am On Jan 06, 2016
mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]They are an entire family and they all ignore me.[/color]
If u're worried with what they think of u, then begin d gesture. Be more friendly. Cus with this worry u can't repay them by ignoring them too, u don't have d mindbuild for that. I see friendship in u but u're having challenge to let it out.
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by SAMBARRY: 10:05am On Jan 06, 2016
grin

Is this a thread grin
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by OutOnBail(m): 10:10am On Jan 06, 2016
Peeps really have time giving advice oooo. The OP is one unserious funny troll
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jan 06, 2016
SAMBARRY:
grin

Is this a thread grin
I don't even know why I bothered replying. No logical sense in any of her posts. Tried to advice her but she is clearly a troll.
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by SAMBARRY: 12:05pm On Jan 06, 2016
Yieldings:
I don't even know why I bothered replying. No logical sense in any of her posts. Tried to advice her but she is clearly a troll.
that's because you are encouraging her wink
Re: Would My Unfriendly Neighbors Ever Speak To Me? by GraceBestowed(f): 12:51pm On Jan 06, 2016
[color=#CD3700] I believe it would do you good to approach them. Tell them you have noticed that they ignore you and ask if something is wrong. Don't lose your cool and see what they say. It might be that you guys sort it out but on the flip side it might not be sorted out. If it isn't sorted out, you can walk away knowing that you've done your bit. [/color]
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