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Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by aluko360(m): 1:28pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
This happened in first quarter of 2008. I was supposed to be one of the groom's men but I could not attend due to work related issues. The couple met in church; both are workers in different departments within the church. The courtship was the holy type devoid 0f any intimacy as Sister C***a was a virgin. Na the wedding night wahala start: The wife didn't want to go naked before her man. After so much struggles, the groom realised the following : *. Wife is not a virgin as claimed * she already had 2 kids back in the days * the pointed SRS airbags that attracted my friend in the first place were fake- all na Mouka foam padded bras. * the wife senior am wella. ( 6 year +) The guy no get time for divorce, they parted ways by mutual consent after 3 months 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ayusco85:my mistake |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by keishablack(f): 1:32pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
charlsecy:Am not a man so I don't really know. Am just saying |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
There is this one of a couple that were given gifts of a house in the mainland (by the groom's father) and a house on the Island (by the bride's father). They travelled out for their honeymoon and on their return at the airport, an argument started. The groom already assumed they were going to live in the mainland house gifted by his dad. The bride said no. that they should go live in the Island house. That she does not want to live in the mainland. Na so marriage scatter. Each left the airport in different cars to diff destinations! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by FOLLEY20(m): 2:42pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
edwife:. Actually, there is a force behind such things. |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by byvan03: 2:43pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Onegai: What ? These mamas boys need to know that their mother 's reign ends in her husband 's house . |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by macino1(m): 3:03pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
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Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by macino1(m): 3:12pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
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Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by ashjay001(m): 3:19pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Ishilove: D exception, not d rule and rare. And, hell, to some pple might be-changing their car tyres. |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Minemrys: 3:25pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
cococandy:guy i d0n watch dis film. Haba, na emeka ike be the husband na, patience ozokwor na im be the m0ther in law, chi0ma chukwuka be the bride and ngozi ezeonu be the aunty. Na olu jacobs be the gal papa. Na n0llyw0od film be dis. I d0n watch am. Na mike ezurounye later marry d gal na. 4 Likes |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Ginaz(f): 3:42pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Loisemm: Chaiiiii, see lie o.. Jesu! Con see iyalaya big lie 1 Like |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by aphildam(m): 3:51pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
FOLLEY20:yea somethings are only spiritually discerned, Obedience to God and the word of instruction can keep men from falling into trap. Christ is glorified 1 Like |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Ishilove: 3:53pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
KingEbukasBlog:Yes of course. Everything isn't love. Understanding plays a big role in the success of a marriage 1 Like |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Nobody: 3:53pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Ginaz: Its true, I was at the hairport that day. Their argument was a hit back to back till they entered the cars 1 Like |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Ishilove: 3:56pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
aluko360:A marriage based on lies and deceit. Didn't he pray well before marrying? 3 Likes |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Does it mean that people of those days were created from different species? My parent stayed married for 35years until we lost mom! Dad is even refusing to re-marry because he said he can never get anybody like my late mom. What's happening to New Generations? How come little things break homes? Does this mean that people hide their true self until after marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Abbey2sam(m): 4:50pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Loisemm: fabu |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by aluko360(m): 5:32pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Ishilove: I can't answer that. All I know is that they were both "brethren" in the same pentecostal church which they attend. Personally, the church is the last place to go shopping for a life partner. It's like travelling from Kan0 to Lagos to buy a used item without testing it at the point of purchase. 2 Likes |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Miami11: 5:36pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
I know a couple that had an elaborate wedding, A little after the wedding was finishing the groom went missing, little did people know he had disappeared with a girl that was at the wedding, So the bride and everyone is looking for him, apparently he had left with another girl that followed him to their wedding, that was the straw that broke the camels back, everyone parted way I know this couple to this day, each has moved on but men, bad arse man |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by justmenoni: 5:36pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Me too...op can u explain further the first case cos u made it sound as if they are lesbians quote author=lofty900 post=42036690]I don't understand your stories [/quote] |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Ishilove: 5:37pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
aluko360:Being church workers is no gurantee of compatibility. The only difference between them and the next sinner is the label 'church worker'. 3 Likes |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by godman01(m): 5:38pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
cococandy:If he was, he won't divorce the lady. |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by eyinjuege: 5:45pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
timpaker: If your story is true, both fathers-in-law ought to be committed into mental institutions. They are both obviously stark raving mad!!! |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by aluko360(m): 5:59pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Ishilove: I get your point. it's the pack of lies that made her lose her man. Being a virgin does not guarantee a good wife. Having a kid before marriage is not a crime if you let your partner know about it. You need 2 lies to cover 1. |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by plendil: 6:00pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
In my case, my dad wanted to sell some of the gifts they were given at their wedding, insisting there were too many of essentially the same things, you know - pots, plates, coolers, etc. However mum would have none of that and said they should keep all the gifts. You won't believe the disagreement over that seemingly trivial issue became so serious that MILs and FiLs had to be called in. This was in the 70's, so divorce cases werent as common as they are now, and thankfully, the budding union didn't end in one - or I wouldn't be here now! Good thing is, mum and dad went on to spend 41 years of blissful matrimony till dad was called home two years back. and the moral is. . .? 7 Likes |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by aluko360(m): 6:08pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
plendil: Marriage is about sacrifices. You need to let go of some things for the union to work 4 Likes |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Kay17: 6:18pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Lizabeth25: Because people want to marry excellent lovers instead of excellent partners. |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by plendil: 6:21pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
aluko360: Thank you!! 1 Like |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by Nobody: 6:35pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Excel gini? There is nothing excellent except a man/woman turns or make the thing excellent! I just feel that this world is filled up with people who pretends a lot else, we won't be hearing stories of breakups all the time. Kay17: |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by blackprowler: 7:07pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
blesoh: That's why they're mostly likely to be lies here. Nigerians seem to love lies. This makes ppl not believe you when you say things. It affects the few who tell the truth. OP might have started this thread so we hear true-life stories, but people will always hijack it to win the "award" for most shocking story. 1 Like |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by mako007(m): 7:20pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
fayluv1:choi , lol, hehehehe |
Re: Too Hard To Believe Marriage Break Up Stories by aluko360(m): 7:32pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
plendil: And you too |
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