Miami11:
I know a couple that had an elaborate wedding,

A little after the wedding was finishing the groom went missing, little did people know he had disappeared with a girl that was at the wedding,

So the bride and everyone is looking for him, apparently he had left with another girl that followed him to their wedding, that was the straw that broke the camels back, everyone parted way

I know this couple to this day, each has moved on but men, bad arse man

These one pass ordinary eye......

That is why it is better to avoid it before jumping into it ooOoo

This link below was useful for me
http://seyiadesina.com/word/brothers-shine-your-eyes-it-could-be-makeup

blackprowler:


That's why they're mostly likely to be lies here. Nigerians seem to love lies. This makes ppl not believe you when you say things. It affects the few who tell the truth. OP might have started this thread so we hear true-life stories, but people will always hijack it to win the "award" for most shocking story.

lol,abi

aluko360:


Marriage is about sacrifices.

You need to let go of some things for the union to work

Exactly!

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Cheers.

Azil:
My mum told a story of how a marriage ended on the evening of the wedding. Reason, both the bride and groom had different plans for the 'spray' money they got. She wanted it for herself and he thought it could help cancel off some debts owed whilst planning the wedding.

what later happened to the money? Silly couple

aluko360:


I get your point.

it's the pack of lies that made her lose her man.

Being a virgin does guarantee a good wife.

Having a kid before marriage is not a crime if you let your partner know about it.

You need 2 lies to cover 1.

While virginity is a virtue, especially in this era of shameless immorality, it doesn't guarantee a successful marriage.

For God's sake why lie about your virginity or lack of? I think it smacks of hypocrisy and those who lie about it are worse than those who sleep around. At least the ones messing around are being honest. You, the liar are deceiving yourself.

Wait, did that come out right? You sha get the point

plendil:
In my case, my dad wanted to sell some of the gifts they were given at their wedding, insisting there were too many of essentially the same things, you know - pots, plates, coolers, etc. However mum would have none of that and said they should keep all the gifts.

You won't believe the disagreement over that seemingly trivial issue became so serious that MILs and FiLs had to be called in. This was in the 70's, so divorce cases werent as common as they are now, and thankfully, the budding union didn't end in one - or I wouldn't be here now!

Good thing is, mum and dad went on to spend 41 years of blissful matrimony till dad was called home two years back.

and the moral is. . .?

When something is faulty, you mend it, not throw it away?

Well this not the first time a man notice his wife is not a virgin but the solution is not first rushing for divorce because it might be true that she is actually a virgin. but a times ignorance can not make us understand things. There are so many ways a virgin can be disvirgin without her knowing it.it maybe as a result of an accident,it may also be as a re ultimate of so much stress like hawking and others which will cause the muscle at the clitoris to become lose instead of tight.so do not be quick to judge.

Ishilove:

When something is faulty, you mend it, not throw it away?

Yes! As mum would recount to us, you won't believe, funny and incredulous as it seems, that dad was contemplating busting the marriage over that issue! Thankfully, the elders especially dad's MIL talked sense into them, compromises were made, and they went on have a very fulfilled union.

ayusco85:


Lol. Suya keh. Na car o.

there is God oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

keishablack:
Lying abt her virginity for whole years ws too extreme. But wait a minute how did the guy know she wasn't a virgin since he claims he's one too. I mean I cud he tell? Cuz I think such knowledge shd come from experience

This is the most stupid question I have ever heard in this internet age.

EngrBright:

This is the most stupid question I have ever heard in this internet age.

Well not as stupid as u

ayusco85:


i dont believe in no sex till marriage.... be sure of what u are buying. quote me anywhere.

don't also look for a virgin bc if u decide not to buy after testing u can't fix her virginity back. and in that case nobody should be a virgin because you have to be tested by any interested guy. ye ye talk.

blisscentre:

don't also look for a virgin bc if u decide not to buy after testing u can't fix her virginity back. and in that case nobody should be a virgin because you have to be tested by any interested guy. ye ye talk.

Ok

Lizabeth25:
Does it mean that people of those days were created from different species?

My parent stayed married for 35years until we lost mom! Dad is even refusing to re-marry because he said he can never get anybody like my late mom.

What's happening to New Generations? How come little things break homes? Does this mean that people hide their true self until after marriage?

My sister that's something to ponder on.

Ishilove:

Being church workers is no gurantee of compatibility. The only difference between them and the next sinner is the label 'church worker'.

My brother you would be amazed how many people lack that insight and discernment.

The fact that two people happen to be single and are both workers in church doesn't mean that they are a good fit for each other.

I don't know when people would realize that not everyone is MEANT for dating. The fact that someone is single, attractive and is supposedly a 'good' Christian does not mean that person is the right fit for you.

keishablack:
Well not as stupid as u

It is obvious you the lunatic cos a silly person will produce silly questions.

EngrBright:

It is obvious you the lunatic cos a silly person will produce silly questions.

Just cuz u don't know the answer to a question doesn't make it stupid. As a matter of fact, some ladies also asked the same question when they heard the story. If the said guy was truly a virgin and if he'd been dating the same girl for 3yrs (dts enuf time for her to have acquired a "2ndry virginity" state ), then chances are dt he may not be able to tell. But again, am not a man so I wudnt know. U called me a lunatic bt i'll let dt slide cuz u don't know any better.

keishablack:

Just cuz u don't know the answer to a question doesn't make it stupid. As a matter of fact, some ladies also asked the same question when they heard the story. If the said guy was truly a virgin and if he'd been dating the same girl for 3yrs (dts enuf time for her to have acquired a "2ndry virginity" state ), then chances are dt he may not be able to tell. But again, am not a man so I wudnt know. U called me a lunatic bt i'll let dt slide cuz u don't know any better.

Is this not a more polite response than raining insults on a gentle man. Your question baffled me and it shows that there is more you do not know. I have helped lots of girls like you overcome their ignorance. I can allow you tap from my wealth of experience.

Apparently a lot of people here making comments don't know 'jack' about marriage. Marriage is much more than relationship.
Love is NOT enough.
It takes COMPROMISE and TOLERANCE.
Shitty things do happen, it takes enormous maturity to resolve lots of issues.
I've been married for 13 years and we still have one issue or the other almost on a daily basis.
My wife will always want to use my toothbrush; she will always want to eat meat (whenever we're eating together) my training and orientation makes me eat meat after food, etc. She's brutally blunt and says things AS IS, I am tactical and diplomatic.
Guys (and ladies), issues go always arise, na God's grace, maturity(lots of it), ability to ignore and overlook trivial issues dey make marriage work.
The moment you want to live like oyinbo for Naija, wahala go dey! I don talk my own!

fayluv1:
. in wafi wen men don vex anything can happen, make u dey there think say na lie

it's a big lie

EngrBright:

Is this not a more polite response than raining insults on a gentle man. Your question baffled me and it shows that there is more you do not know. I have helped lots of girls like you overcome their ignorance. I can allow you tap from my wealth of experience.

Wealth of experience indeed. Some men will pretend they know it all even when they can't tell the difference btw the vajayjay and urethral orifice. U started the insults in the first place, I only gave u wt u deserved.