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| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by Kristok(m): 4:11pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Tell him to get another job before he quit(very important)...am currently a marketer but i won't quit until i get a better job |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by buddylawson: 4:14pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
He should quit n work for himself while searching for a better job, by so doing he would have garnered a lot of experience working for himself in the so much desired field he wants. That will make him more marketable |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by Iamhumble(op): 4:15pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
iRoyalty:LOL. Yes, hunger don wire am, many times sef! Would you blame him when even the stipend is most times delayed? Wow! thanks mods for frontpaging this...with this it is hoped my friend will finally decide. Thanks all for your priceless contributions. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by teebabykay: 4:15pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
guy my advice is we don't leave a job when we don't have another,endure and if u can't cope anymore don't stay home go and register for a training that you can afford u can start up your own small business from there. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by taurus21: 4:24pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Tell your friend to look himself in the mirror and ask himself if he is truly happy. If he can't say yes right away, then it's time for change. Don't allow yourself to be stuck in a situation you no longer want to be in, do what you have to do in order to be happy. Instead of always trying to fix things, realize you deserve better. Stop waiting for a change and make a change. It’s tough out there, and finding a job might take longer than he would hope for.But he should keep at it, and I know he'll find the right opportunity. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by Chiccly(f): 4:33pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Quit your job if you wanna Stop seeking for advice if you have made up your mind. ![]() |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by viktor01(m): 4:41pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
"4. he feels his talents and ambitions are looking unreal each day as he is not getting younger even though his dream was to marry early" My dear, the hustling and hardship is real o, It's a majeure in the system. so much beyond our control Life is a risk, let him take it afer all, there are people who are unemployed but are still living. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by ewosk: 4:48pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Am in a similar situation.... Justing hanging in for a month more to see if change will occur |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by wellmax(m): 4:59pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Iamhumble:Guy I had a similar experience, and you know what. i quit. Your happiness is more important than he job. Yes you may suffer for some time, but trust me its worth it. Life is all about risks. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by G12(m): 5:17pm On Feb 02, 2016*. Modified: 5:57pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
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| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by Nobody: 5:26pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Man wasn't created for jobs, Jobs were created for man. I have learnt this, never do any job that won't create value for you first and for others second. If your friend knows his value, he won't settle for less. if he can't get a better offer from his present company, he should move on, sometimes we need to lose that thing we think we have and we think it's only option to get what we deserve and what is best for us. He should just take a leap of faith. Cheers mate! |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by ghost08(m): 5:53pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
daniska3yaro:I have no idea what u just said |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by freeman191(m): 6:01pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
@OP Please OP, the problem with us in this part of Nigeria is always the fear of the unknown, thats why we blacks were enslaved for so long, because we got used to our masters, same thing with a job. Any job that is not fulfilling you inside should not be managed or tolerated, please tell your friend to quit after a full month's pay, to either get creative and try something new, or look for a job that will fulfill him, it may take time, even some great tough times, but he will get there. Short story i had a friend who is a chartered accountant, got a 40k job, got fed up, left after some months, stayed back 4months, got another job, for 50k left after 2months, same reason, stayed 6months, got another job paying 70k, salary was not paid after 2months, due to company issue, left there, got another one after 2months for 70k, while went for an interview, where he rejected a boring job with good pay, but after 4 months in this job, he got a great offer over 150k with car, now he is currently there enjoying himself, and expanding his career. Moral of the story, he was not afraid to take risk now, to enjoy in the future, life is too short to be afraid, dont wake up when you are 50yrs with nothing but bills with no employable skill, you will regret not taking action when you were younger. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by seggzz(m): 6:04pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Iamhumble:Before I say anything relating to advice, kindly answer these questions ; 1.What do you major in? I mean what did you study in uni? 2. What is the type of job are you doing now that is not adding value to you? Are you packing shit(faeces)? 3. Are you thinking of the money or the values? 4. Do you have other means of survival if you quit this job? I'm sure your mate do travel abroad to wash old women b**m. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by tr3y(m): 6:13pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
If he has some cash that will last him the next 3 months he should quit and follow his dream. I was recently told to go on a compulsory leave at my present place of work, along the line I got another job but with half of what I am receiving and even more workload and workdays(Saturday) when I did plus and minus my already halved take home will be halved once more. I just decided to walk away after few days as the work is not even in my line of interest plus na all this Oga dey come office atmosphere. Bottomline, he should quit if he has some change to manage while he will be looking for job else he should just continue this one and also be on the lookout as well. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by chxe: 6:21pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Stay put until u get something else |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by Nobody: 6:34pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Please...if u need my job, comman have it! |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by Eteriayaoba(f): 7:35pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Let your friend work on his self esteem and not limit himself! He is feeling low because he expected he should not where he is now, but he better be sure of what will get him occupied when he leaves otherwise, he will hate himself afterwards. personally, I will advise he looks beyond his present situation, keep the desired status alive, be HAPPY and GRATEFUL for what he has for no condition is permanent. my cent! |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by yommysure(m): 7:41pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
G12:I have a pc and modem,can you give me an idea on how to make cash on the net. Thanks |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by Nobody: 7:55pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
You guys are forgetting something...... How can you say a guy @ 30 should forget about girlfriend?? If that happens is it by 40 he'll should start thinking of settling down?? The point is if he is not satisfied let him leave or is he compelled to stay there?? And how on earth will I be working and I have no joy working and no value added to me.... That is absurd but considering our economy I'll just say he should stay and be on the look out.. God will make a way |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by Engineermbugame(m): 9:04pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Na cause of d unemployment i go learn hand skils (plumber)before i enter school i knew hw much i got d last time i got a contract 30k for 3days. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by otikpoko(m): 11:10pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Iamhumble:Pm me his Number. I will Offer him a better Job in My Company. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by yemi15(m): 12:42am On Feb 03, 2016 |
doubleTT:These network marketing idiots are here again smh, they are just looking for people to scam lol, nairaland mods should ban such people. My 2 cents. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by jashar(f): 9:02am On Feb 03, 2016 |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by bathowsai1(m): 9:44am On Feb 03, 2016 |
In this world, your NOs are as important as your YESes. Saying no more to the job, may just be the most important decision he'll make this year. I wish him all the best. |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by Eve62(f): 10:22am On Feb 03, 2016 |
jashar:and wot happens after dat? wot er u reasoning wit sef? |
| Re: HELP!!! He Wants To Quit His Job by jashar(f): 12:22pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
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