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Haven't you read enough stories about men raping; some will say because he is poor yet we heard about an employee of exxon mobil, others might say because he has no power and yet again we have heard about pastors and religious leaders.

Haven't you ever wondered how Rapist think, what motivates them to do such acts?
Haven't you ever concluded that maybe its his wife fault, for not serving herself to him on a dialy?
Or maybe its the parents fault for not being skeptical about the people their children move with especially the adults.

Lets solve this issue or atleast come up with possible solutions because your Husband or son or brother inlaw, even your father might be the next rapist we read about on nairaland or lindas blog or bella naija or even worse your child might be the next one raped. (I bet everyone is forming Godforbid just like many pastors wives did)

Well a private study was concluded on this issue to find a solution, here is a list of what was learnt so far.
Click here to read more: http://innovativecritic..com.ng/

Click here to read more: http://innovativecritic..com.ng/

To prevent sexual abuse and sexual violence against children, understanding the minds of the sex offenders is of utmost importance.
Understanding the behavior was not excusing it. But, if you can understand “the why”, then maybe you can start to find a solution.

“If you show empathy for a rapist, it is not the same as showing empathy for their act,” the men that participated in this private study were all “severely damaged human beings”, and it’s for this reason that they did what they did. They feel no empathy or remorse because they don’t know how but were pleased that we finally listened to them without criticizing nor judging them for their acts.

It was also learnt that rape is not about sex, rape was about power, and that all the men she interviewed had experienced high levels of anger before committing the rapes. “Rape is between the ears, not between the legs – they will find a way to manifest their anger,” remember the Exxon Mobil worker who his tenant failed on several occasions to make his rent? , he must have been filled with rage and he took that rage and focused it on his tenants daughter.



A common feature they shared with most sex offenders is a history of violence - small acts that, over a period of time, escalated into deviant behaviour.

Hmm..ok

well this is new

No reason is justifiable

Read the full article at : http://innovativecritic..com.ng/
I never said its justifiable

Flexherbal:
No reason is justifiable