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Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by crackhaus: 9:57pm On Feb 17, 2016
bebe2:
Bro calm down, no be fight.

We won't watch a child bleed, but we will watch a child slowly die of neglect and hunger on the road side.

We won't watch a child die, some Nigerian kidnap pregnant women, reap the child from their wombs and pound it as charms??

Terrible things are happening, the moment we start to accept that there are terrible pple among us, dats wen we can start to ask how do we get rid of them.
We? Or do you mean, you? tongue gringrin
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by bebe2(f): 10:13pm On Feb 17, 2016
crackhaus:
We? Or do you mean, you? tongue gringrin
I beg leave me oo,

My children Don break hotel bed. Dat na another kpese.

Who like make e migrate to jericho embarassed
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by cococandy(f): 10:13pm On Feb 17, 2016
An0nimus:
It's alright Cococandy, I was only answering a question. Not stopping anyone from airing their opinionssmiley
No wahala dear.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by crackhaus: 10:19pm On Feb 17, 2016
EfemenaXY:
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But the lady in question is a foreigner, isn't she?

Where were all the so-called "kind hearted" Nigerians within that child's vicinity for the 8 months he was left to his own devices roaming the streets, whilst the life slowly drained out of his little body?

Or was the child in the middle of the dessert on his own? It laughable you say you admire the lady who came to his rescue. A lady, who under normal circumstances would be viewed as "irresponsible" with all her visible tattoos, doing the decent, human thing. Why did it have to be a foreigner showing Nigerians the right thing to do?

What she demonstrated was basic human empathy. A basic emotion, (judging from how long that child was ignored) which apparently isn't that basic amongst your average Nigerian.[/s]
But sincerely though, I'm sure you must realize that you're the way you are on NL probably because you feel really bad with yourself...either that, or its surely mid-life crisis affecting your ability to judge a situation objectively.

So you mean to tell us that no body in the entire blessed Nigerian nation ever did something in equal and even greater measure than what that foreigner did for that kid?
Like in the entire country?
Heck fvck that...in that same city? Really? gringrin

Is this a reflection on how you view Nigeria, or a reflection on your own self and abilities?
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by nasha1(f): 10:19pm On Feb 17, 2016
Schwartz:
There has never been a terrorist attack in Germany. Nobody sleeps under the bridge here. Asylum seekers live in good homes provided free by the government. I have one of such homes very close to my house. Beautiful duplex for about 4 or 5 of them. I can close work by 2,3am midnight and walk the streets of Germany at that time without a single fear in the world. No pickpockets, no robbers, no ritualists. Trains and other means of transportation working effectively even at odd hours.
So u mean there is no crime,homelessness in germany? grin grin
read this http://www.dw.com/en/homeless-in-germany-given-the-boot/a-17729421
http://www.thelocal.de/20140604/germanys-most-dangerous-and-safest-cities-crime-rates
**rolls eyes**




Split society
One might think that a rich country like Germany would not have many homeless people. According to the DIW economic institute, in 2012, private households in Europe's largest economy had a combined wealth of 6.3 trillion euros - 83,000 euros per adult.
Obdachlosigkeit in Bonn
Germany has the largest wealth gap in the eurozone
But the institute stresses that in no other country in the eurozone were the total financial assets distributed so unevenly. Roughly a fifth of the population has no assets to speak of, around seven percent have a higher level of debt than assets.
Germany's umbrella organization for housing assistance (BAGW) says the number of people without a domicile in Germany has gone up dramatically over the last few years. In 2012, 284,000 people had nowhere to live - a rise of 15 percent compared to 2010. And BAGW expects that figure to rise again by a further 30 percent to 380,000 by 2016.
For Torsten Meiners, things have got even tougher over the years. A few years ago, he was sleeping rough under a bridge in the Hamburg district of St. Pauli. The local council then put up a fence to keep the homeless away. "There were public protests against it though, as many said 'we don't want that kind of exclusion," Meiners says.
So, the fence was taken down again, but after a fire in 2013, scaffolding is blocking the area near the famous red-light district, the Reeperbahn. Meiners says no one is doing any work there though.
At Hamburg's main station, homeless people are also being chased away by security staff on a regular basis.
Christoph Butterwegge, poverty researcher at the University of Cologne, blames what he calls the increased commercialization of big railway stations that "increasingly lead to stations being turned into temples of consumerism that are connected to railway tracks."
Often, private companies are in charge, who focus on having a "clean" station that leaves no room for the homeless and the poor, Butterwegge says.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by nasha1(f): 10:22pm On Feb 17, 2016
Timbuktou:
Don't mind these people. I just found the comments preceding mine ridiculous. The first set of group of commenters live in this country and obviously want to run off to well-managed countries so they can bend their necks and "talk about how messed up Nigeria is," MMA2 that they bail from is literally in Nigeria. How much did the ones who have left do before becoming saints in whatever paradise they currently reside in, after all, they are products of this Nigeria. They are, or were, literally average Nigerians; or is now a case of becoming a new creature soon as you become a resident of a foreign address? It's all just meh..

Anyway, don't mind the attempt by St. Mindfulness to mock your past. That's the way they do it in saner environments, hypocritical bìtch moves. They're the masters of passive aggression.
I know their ways,it wont affect me.i don't craze tey no be today.i won't even answer dat one.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by crackhaus: 10:29pm On Feb 17, 2016
Onegai:
People on NL fought to raise funds for a little girl in a SW state so she could get heart surgery in India, total strangers met her mum at the airport to send her off with goodwill and prayers. Her mother has never met any of the hundreds who helped save her little girl. They were average Nigerians.

You that you know better because you live in a sane climate, what have you done for your community in Nigeria? Have you sent some money to that lady's foundation? I'm not fighting anyone, but to all whom are screaming "Nigeria is evil", what have you all done to mitigate or even change society? If you've done nothing, how are you all better than those who live here and do nothing?
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Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by crackhaus: 10:38pm On Feb 17, 2016
Onegai:
Well then, let's change it. Let us generate intelligent content. The content of FrontPage is to attract the most views and celebrity news sells. Those daft threads exist to power sensible threads. Everyone in media is suffering from that banality: if you've gotta put a pic of a Kardashian on your news outlet so you get clicks to read about serious stuff, so be it. Sad but welcome to the 21st century.

We are a selfish people. Nigerians (diaspora and local) have the same mindset (I can count the number of Nigerians I met volunteering abroad, they only showed up if it was church-related). Be the change you want to see. It starts with you.
Lol, I once said something along this line one or two times before on this same board.

The Nigerian mentality is one that is hard to undo as long as one must have spent a big part of their upbringing within our country's borders.

Monkeys remain monkeys, whether in the harsh jungle or in a well maintained posh reserve.

Not calling anyone a monkey oo, before some people with touchy feelings begin to hyperventilate on that account. gringrin
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by crackhaus: 10:45pm On Feb 17, 2016
Mindfulness:
Someone opened this thread and asked what to expect from relocating to Nigeria and people shared their views and experience. I see nothing wrong with it. So again, do I first need to lay open what I have already done for the country before I express myself?

And how is silencing people a solution?
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Or wait a minute, are you like one of those anonymous donors to UNICEF that don't want any news outlet to know about their efforts to help a big country like Nigeria? shockedshocked

Or are you Bill Gates, the billionaire founder of Microsoft hiding under the anonymous Mindfulness? shocked
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by crackhaus: 11:03pm On Feb 17, 2016
Timbuktou:
Look at this foool. What have you, in your stewpidity done to enthrone a responsive, responsible government? Talk about it? Grumble about it? Your brain is incapable of grasping basic principles. Monkey, show me where i have praised Nigerians or the Nigerian government. How many posts have you made in the politics, education, business sections of nairaland to spur real activity? How much do you know about the local government you come from? How much are you planning to contribute politically? You're sending money but you dont even know how the money is being utilised. Are you sending this money for communitybdevelopment or are you sending it to your family and friends to have something to eat and maybe build you a house?

How do your remittances to your parents and siblings improve the state of healthcare or the standard of education? When they say diasporans send money home you think the money goes to Nigeria's accounts. It helps the economy mainly by increasing purchasing power and stimulating local trade mumu.

Why do I even bother? Abeg, stick to mother-in-law / daughter-in-law sensationalist threads. You might have something sensible to say there.
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Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by crackhaus: 11:05pm On Feb 17, 2016
bebe2:
I beg leave me oo,

My children Don break hotel bed. Dat na another kpese.

Who like make e migrate to jericho embarassed
gringringringrin

Issokay!
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Nobody: 11:20pm On Feb 17, 2016
crackhaus:
[size=40pt]Yes[/size]


Or wait a minute, are you like one of those anonymous donors to UNICEF that don't want any news outlet to know about their efforts to help a big country like Nigeria? shockedshocked

Or are you Bill Gates, the billionaire founder of Microsoft hiding under the anonymous Mindfulness? shocked

Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by crackhaus: 11:30pm On Feb 17, 2016
Timbuktou:
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Mindfulness must come and name the whole community or communities she feeds...I want to know the name of the villages or towns that are lucky to be the recipient of her grand gesture.

Such large-hearted generosity can not be hidden and tucked away under the guise of modesty. Mbanu!

America must know, CNN must hear of it...and I will make it happen gringrin
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Nobody: 11:37pm On Feb 17, 2016
crackhaus:
Mindfulness must come and name the whole community or communities she feeds...I want to know the name of the villages or towns that are lucky to be the recipient of her grand gesture.

Such large-hearted generosity can not be hidden and tucked away under the guise of modesty. Mbanu!

America must know, CNN must hear of it...and I will make it happen gringrin
Don't waste your strength. Mindfulness has the resources to conceal her identity however long she wants. You won't find her unless and until she wants to be found. Remember, you heard it here first.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by EfemenaXY: 11:40pm On Feb 17, 2016
PresVA:
Now I see the aim of your argument; to demonise Nigeria. . I thought you cared but I was wrong, it's still same same blame, bla bla bla...
If we're going to have an objective debate, you'd best keep sentiments out of it. I don't do emotional rants either.

Now to your claim, why on earth would I want to "demonise" Nigeria? What would I stand to gain by doing so?

The fact is, Nigeria has got serious issues and these need to be addressed, but to address them, surely you agree they've got to be voiced out loud and clear to start with?

Or would you rather have everyone pretend all's good and dandy when it clearly isn't? How will that help anyone in the long run? So yes, PresVA we all care about Nigeria getting better - if we didn't, we won't be on here voicing our concerns. But what needs to be said must be said, irrespective of whether you like it or not.

PresVA:
Yes Nigeria needs help, You know that..how have you tried to help in your little way? That young lady in the write up saw the help needed by Nigeria and she's helping out in her own way... She didn't try to state the obvious that Nigeria is this that and that, rather she's making things right with her actions. .
Oh, but I have helped in "my own little way". Countless times. Even on here in Nairaland, to people I don't know, never spoken to, and know absolutely nothing about. I don't have to reel off examples or pull up threads on here to justify myself to you. What would that achieve apart from blowing my trumpet?

And yes, the very obvious was stated. Made known publicly so that the request(s) could be verified and once done, a lot of aid was tendered. The problem with a lot of Nigerians is pride. The mentality is rife among adults wanting something for nothing and expecting the givers not to ask questions. Like seriously?


PresVA:
However, all you guys do here is talk talk talk, blame, bla bla bla .. no action at all which is useless. . You folks that are enlightened, why don't you be change you want to see?
Excuse me, why are you taking it out on "us enlightened folks"? When you've got a problem, you treat the root cause and not the symptoms.

The major root cause of your society's ills lay with your politicians. The people Nigerians in Nigeria voted for and this has got absolutely nothing to do with those in diaspora. You had the power to choose whom you wanted to lead your country. If you chose to vote for clueless, selfish, greedy, and unbelievably corrupt politicians to lead you, why cry foul and blame others for it? Or don't you believe in taking responsibility for your actions? Why pass the buck on those who had no say in your decision making process?

So I guess the real question is, for those of you feeling the heat, the consequences of your actions, what are you doing about it??


PresVA:
Since you ain't here to offer solution, I will say stop crying more than the bereaved.. You have a good life abroad, don't you? Enjoy it and leave us to 'toil' here in Nigeria na... why all the rants since you ain't affected? undecided
Here we go again. Us versus them coupled with a good dose of inferiority complex.

Am I supposed to address this emotional rant? If so, how? undecided


PresVA:
What you people don't know is that Nigeria is still a developing country with so many ignorant peeps who do things thinking they're right... Comparing it with a developed country is useless. . Hopefully, Nigeria will be better. ..
Ignorance is no excuse for gross incompetency.

There are schools in Nigeria aren't there? And higher institutions of learning. What do they teach? How can you claim ignorance after passing through the walls of a tertiary institution?
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by crackhaus: 11:44pm On Feb 17, 2016
Timbuktou:
Don't waste your strength. Mindfulness has the resources to conceal her identity however long she wants. You won't find her unless and until she wants to be found. Remember, you heard it here first.
Issokay... grin
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Nobody: 11:51pm On Feb 17, 2016
crackhaus:
Issokay... grin
Hehehe. Just offering a brother good advice.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by EfemenaXY: 11:57pm On Feb 17, 2016
Onegai:
People on NL fought to raise funds for a little girl in a SW state so she could get heart surgery in India, total strangers met her mum at the airport to send her off with goodwill and prayers. Her mother has never met any of the hundreds who helped save her little girl. They were average Nigerians.
Remind me again what promises your politicians made to the masses, prior to them being voted in power. Was free or rather, subsidized health care touched upon?

You're commending the efforts of those who took it upon themselves to do what your government ought to be doing in the first place (commendable), but have any of these people been held accountable? Was this little girl's case used as a starting point to hold those in power accountable for their gross failures and let down health services? I guess not.

Onegai:
You that you know better because you live in a sane climate, what have you done for your community in Nigeria? Have you sent some money to that lady's foundation? I'm not fighting anyone, but to all whom are screaming "Nigeria is evil", what have you all done to mitigate or even change society? If you've done nothing, how are you all better than those who live here and do nothing?
A recap of what I posted to PresVA, yes, I have done my fair share to help (and I still am) but it's not for you to question who, what, where, when, why, or how I've done / doing. What you should be focusing on is ensuring the leaders you voted in power are held accountable for their non-actions.

I can't tell you from here how to run your country. I can give suggestions, but the buck is on you to make it happen. And you start by encouraging freedom of expression / speech, and not by trying to smother opinions that don't sit well with you.

If I see or hear something I don't like, I speak up. I write to my MP. I even attend the bi-weekly surgery sessions my local MP runs to voice my grievances. You should do the same at your end to make your environment more live-able.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by EfemenaXY: 12:02am On Feb 18, 2016
An0nimus:
My response was tailored to your question. I played the scene in my head and couldn't come to terms with the picture I was seeing. Not with the Nigerians I know.

The picture you provided strays from the specific nature of your question. Even at that, I may not know whoever was behind what's in the image provided, I can however bet that all around the world there are bad eggs who have done similar.
What's the difference between the question I asked and the picture I produced?

Isn't the end result the same? Death?

Or does bleeding to death by the roadside ramp up more sympathy over slowing and painfully starving to death?
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Ewuro4: 4:02am On Feb 18, 2016
Thank you Onegai, But you didn't touch up on OP's main question/inquiry. Expectations and steps in regards to big move like this.

After all , people still thrive in same 'messy' Nigeria no? Abi no be same Naija una dey live? Abi no be same Naija una dey take music lessons and still have time for yourselves? I'm talking REAL day to day LIFE please.

Nigeria is not liveable huh, same Nigeria folks (an average citizen) build houses from ground up with raw cash?

Go to Haiti and smell the real coffee. Koburu God dey.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Onegai(f):
EfemenaXY:
Remind me again what promises your politicians made to the masses, prior to them being voted in power. Was free or rather, subsidized health care touched upon?

You're commending the efforts of those who took it upon themselves to do what your government ought to be doing in the first place (commendable), but have any of these people been held accountable? Was this little girl's case used as a starting point to hold those in power accountable for their gross failures and let down health services? I guess not.



A recap of what I posted to PresVA, yes, I have done my fair share to help (and I still am) but it's not for you to question who, what, where, when, why, or how I've done / doing. What you should be focusing on is ensuring the leaders you voted in power are held accountable for their non-actions.

I can't tell you from here how to run your country. I can give suggestions, but the buck is on you to make it happen. And you start by encouraging freedom of expression / speech, and not by trying to smother opinions that don't sit well with you.

If I see or hear something I don't like, I speak up. I write to my MP. I even attend the bi-weekly surgery sessions my local MP runs to voice my grievances. You should do the same at your end to make your environment more live-able.
But in your original posts, you were referring to all Nigerians, not the political class or elites. That everyone living in Nigeria was mad and would drive past children in a car accident or snap pictures or beat up toddlers and leave them to starve to death as witches. Which is why I called you out on it.

No-one is stopping anyone from speaking. I could say some things that are totally true and will hit hard, about this issue, but honestly I think we've all debated enough on it. Whoever wants to move should make their choice now.

I lived in the U. S., my husband lived in the U.K., we relocated like several people and have not died yet. People in my circle are now thinking of moving out back to the west, but only because the economy in Nigeria is down. Only because the economy is down. Not because they are scared for their lives, or hate everyone around them. Only because their
money is hurting. The same reason why most of them left the U.S. and U.K. to Nigeria in the first place: the economy there had a recession.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Nobody: 8:58am On Feb 18, 2016
Onegai good morning smiley

I'm just curious are these people going back going straight into ready made jobs?

Most of the people I know who first relocated to Nigeria and then came back struggled to get back to the point at which they left off.
The same way with people who relocate abroad and the people they left behind in Nigeria are moving on too and not just twiddling their thumbs. Some of my classmates are big men/women in Nigeria now too.

My advise to anyone relocating, is to test the waters first for a few months. Also keep lines of retreat open. Rent out your property over here but dont sell the property and then go and use the proceeds to start a business in Nigeria.
You are better off using savings and/or taking out a loan instead to finance whatever it is you want to do so you have a house to go back to at least if things don't work.

May God direct everyone jare and put as all in the right place at the right time
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Onegai(f): 9:25am On Feb 18, 2016
tearoses:
Onegai good morning smiley

I'm just curious are these people going back going straight into ready made jobs?

Most of the people I know who first relocated to Nigeria and then came back struggled to get back to the point at which they left off.
The same way with people who relocate abroad and the people they left behind in Nigeria are moving on too and not just twiddling their thumbs. Some of my classmates are big men/women in Nigeria now too.
Good morning.

Ready-made jobs ke? My BiL came from his posh U.K. home to start a fish farm as he jobhunted and he did well. Sometime last year, some young fellow on NL had a thread on leaving the U.S. and coming home to start a Cucumber farm. The profit margins are high in Nigeria but the cost of living is high. However, you can have a good life if you're willing to look outside the box and sacrifice some things. Like decide to live close to your work, rather than spend 3 hours getting to work daily and reduce her high blood pressure (you're not saving any money and building that mcMansion won't help, your kids will still grow up one day and leave). Go to market instead of supermarket, buy local instead of imported (if it's available), make do when you can't afford it, don't flaunt your wealth (I've never owned a phone that cost over N40, 000 in my life out of choice and no-one is going to slap me and steal my handset with its broken screen), make good friends, have a good relationship with your doctor (I've been in the U.S. without health insurance and I sorta laugh when I see some comments, because that period I'd have given anything to be in Nigeria where I'd have had doctors everywhere). As for having fun, there are soooo many activities one can do (affordably) that truly it is lack of knowledge keeping people away. I'm signing up for NHIS, I heard about it on NL and people will still come here and scram about how they took their loved one to a hospital and presented a bill and they couldn't pay and something happened. Govt did free Measles vaccine for children and babies till February this year, how many took advantage of it?

Now that Nigerians are being forced to pay taxes because we're broke, everyone is querying politicians because they have now realised it is our collective duty to so cheesy
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Onegai(f): 9:33am On Feb 18, 2016
Oya efferbodi let's laugh! It's 2016, no fight!

Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by cococandy(f): 9:46am On Feb 18, 2016
Onegai:
Oya efferbodi let's laugh! It's 2016, no fight!
Who did that thing to that Coke bottle? grin
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Nobody: 1:51pm On Feb 19, 2016
nasha1:
Thanks efemenaxy for your explanation.
@timbuktou this is a young lady who actually TALK THE TALK AND WALK THE WALK,not all these one claiming sending 100 euro to their family members thinking they are doing something. grin



SOMEONE CLOSE TO HER DIED AND SHE DID SOMETHING!SOMETHING!
MOUTH MOUTH NO ACTIONS!
I attended a workshop/launching/demonstration of the flying doctors in Abuja where they announced their intention to work hand in hand with the FRSC so that the road safety men can call them when an accident victim needs to be air lifted; right there, in the presence of everyone (including the press) the flying Doctors told the road safety Boss that they should only be called upon when the road safety men determine that the victim can afford the service.
That's when I walked out and that's why I can't come and sing the praises of the so called 30 under 30 founder. its just business, she still has not done anything to better the lives of the poor in the country, methinks that the one who sent 100 euros is better here
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by damiso(f): 2:43pm On Feb 19, 2016
Chai every thread about 'abroad' one way or the other degenerates to 'us vs them' cheesy NL I hail you and I don miss you small cheesy

Its dicey relocating anywhere and I still told someone this morning who has a relatively good job in Nigeria but wants to relocate to Canada to think about it very well and not just up and leave a career he has been building for 15 plus years ( 2 masters and professional certifications after) for the unknown. He says things are really hard at the moment and did I know that the dollar was almost N400. I still think that's besides the point though. Things can get hard anywhere and I personally feel especially when children are involved, due diligence has to be done to research the move.

Visit and not visit like a tourist but visit and have a feel for how things really work. There is a program called 'Wanted Down Under' where brits who want to relocate to Australia visit and have a feel of Oz for a couple before making the final decision.

I also like the idea which some people have already mentioned of not totally closing the chapter of where you are coming from and leaving some lines of retreat open. Things like selling off ALL your property( I have never understood people selling property in Nigeria to relocate abroad if the property was in Syria or sudan but Nigeria huh) should be done when you have fully found yourself in your new abode.

Good luck OP.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by marbee(f): 7:26pm On Feb 19, 2016
Ewuro4:
Thank you Onegai, But you didn't touch up on OP's main question/inquiry. Expectations and steps in regards to big move like this.

After all , people still thrive in same 'messy' Nigeria no? Abi no be same Naija una dey live? Abi no be same Naija una dey take music lessons and still have time for yourselves? I'm talking REAL day to day LIFE please.

Nigeria is not liveable huh, same Nigeria folks (an average citizen) build houses from ground up with raw cash?

Go to Haiti and smell the real coffee. Koburu God dey.
Nice post, Nigeria is very liveable.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by Amhappy(f): 7:54pm On Feb 19, 2016
Nigeria is developing but at very slow pace At the moment the country is stagnant. No plans for today or tomorrow. And Nigeria President does not live in Nigeria but is junketeering the world. The truth remains that I will leave this country if i get a good opportunity in a developed country. I contribute my own quota but I don't see the effect of my quota in Nigeria and I know there are many good Nigerians who are trying their best but are frustrated by the system. Thus you learn to keep quiet and mind our own business as long as you are not directly affected. US visa is a prayer point,miracle and testimony in most Nigeria churches. However for someone like the OP who desires to relocate ,I think she should be encouraged. Let them come home and invest now that Nigerian economy is in a mess. This is a good time for people who work and earn well abroad to leverage on the dollar scarcity. Maybe she and her family will have positive contribution to the society eg set up a business that will employ others. A doc from Anambra set up a world class medical facility in Adazi and we celebrated that last week. That said OP should be safety and security conscious and study the environment first before relocating. In Nigeria every state has its peculiarity.
Re: Advice For Relocating To Nigeria by KINGOFJAPAN(m): 4:43pm On Feb 26, 2016
Miami11:
Poster you just have to go through posts that hit front page especially on kidnappings, terrorist attacks, ritual killings, cult, uneccesary road accidents, fraud, scam etc to make a determination.

Safety should be one of your biggest worry because the system does not work.

Healthcare, you have to be in perfect health to live in this countries, paramedics, ambulance and police will not knock your door in five minutes of calling them. You get a heart attack, only God will help you.
Nigeria is not the reason things are on a downward slide in ur life.... Take a chill pill, dedicate more time to your family and not Nigeria....
Nigeria bad thank u and foh
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