gidjah:
Is it onyinda o oyinyechi?(maried?)

honeygirl17:

why u ask?

blesoh:
Oh yes, I ll do it over and over again. Our marriage is 5yrs now, he loves me to a fault and I love him too. He understands me care so much about us.

gidjah:
Of the truth?,my love for her is about 30% o!if i have my way, would love to reverse the whole scenario and fly some where else,honestly i am just not too good with it, but i am trynig to flow along with the tide.(almost a decade now). IF U LIKE JUDGE UR DESTINY, I AM ONLY BEEN SINCERE UNLIKE SOME OF..........

socrateez:
After 28 years its still sweet as ever. If I could revert the hands of the clock to 1988, I would still go with this wonderful woman by my side.

ebyjoyken:
He is not a bad person. But i dont wish to marry him in my next life.

ebyjoyken:
He is not a bad person. But i dont wish to marry him in my next life.

tunde82seidat:
.in response to your question sir,i am that kind of person o, but this geneation of ours no more practice that,so you observe lots of homes with beautifull couples, but wife no manners,.....lots of horrible tales about her like she cant cope with inlaws, she dosent want ur familly/friends to always come around e t c, And thats why we have lots of divorce cases and incomaptibility in unions this days, love dey,but no character,and the strenght to use love cover up the bad character no even dey sef.so ....

hmmm does it mean you never really loved her or u probably think the love would grow in marriage?is it advisable to go into marriage base on the good qualities you have seen in the other person but with the hope that the love will grow??pls i want to learn from you

tunde82seidat:


impressive! so what were those qualities you looked out for before you got married

tunde82seidat:


why?? would you like to share with us? are they things you overlooked in courtship,,,pls wana learn from youuu

gidjah:
Jumped in to it after a fustrating long term relationship( with lots of investments lost into it) got crashed by a 'supposed' lady i tot loved me as much i as i do to her,was so so confused and lost that i flew in to this amazing one !,some of this ladies will rot on earth even b4 hell experience, but as i earlier said, i am moving on slowly and quietly too.you can even imagine that the same lady who dumped you for a nicer dude,(as she claimed then)still parades d whole city as old and single!a very sad tale and STORIES that TOUCH the SOUL !

blesoh:

Love was the ultimate, then God fearing,understanding, tolerance (cos I was very stubborn). That was all I needed. No perfect man /woman any where in the world.

tunde82seidat:


awww!Hope shes forgiven.Thanks n God bless

gidjah:
Hmmmm....may God forgive her,me ..she really hurt so so bad.Do you know i got her the job she was into then?i trained her in sch, paid bills, and even had to dress like a lady to go write her WAEC /NECO exams for her!,so u need to know what i went tru in d hands of karishika of her kind!

gidjah:
Hmmmm....may God forgive her,me ..she really hurt so so bad.Do you know i got her the job she was into then?i trained her in sch, paid bills, and even had to dress like a lady to go write her WAEC /NECO exams for her!,so u need to know what i went tru in d hands of karishika of her kind!

Oyind17:
lover boy

corisande:

AngelicM:
In my next life that's if there is I will never marry him o! We have been together for 4 years now! Guys marriage is difficult if u marry d wrong person.

byvan03:
Why not? I married the only person I could stay married to, we are alike in a lot of ways. Though we must have to switch gender .

bukatyne:


Lols especially @ the switch gender part Why na?

I so agree with the bold

On a second thought, maybe because we were very young and grew together. I can't imagine learning bout a new guy at 25 with all the scary things that matter to people.

kITATITA:
After nearly twelve years; we haven't had any loud argument, and we haven't reported ourselves to in-laws or neighbors or priest. There is peace in the home. No bragging but sincerely I haven't seen any marriage better than mine.

byvan03:




I will make a fine man , I love the freedom that comes with manhood too. I can't bear to struggle with womanhood /motherhood in my next life jare. He said he must marry me in his next life,i made it clear that it can only be possible If he is coming as a woman or a gay man ..

byvan03:
As for the part in bold , he is a lot like me and there is connection on several levels. I don't believe I can stay married for 2 months if I married someone else.

bukatyne:


Lols! @ will make a fine man

Men also claim to have it tough




Nothing like the similarities and connection my sister... life's good.

Opposites attract is very bad business for marriage.

byvan03:



That opposites attract thing nah serious bad business, I wonder how it works when the person is talking A and you B. They think they have it tough but ask them if they will rather be a woman and watch them plead the blood of Jesus. Women cover all frontiers mehn...

byvan03:



That opposites attract thing nah serious bad business, I wonder how it works when the person is talking A and you B. They think they have it tough but ask them if they will rather be a woman and watch them plead the blood of Jesus. Women cover all frontiers mehn...

tunde82seidat:


Like seriously I used to think that couples cant b alike in all ways and being pposite should add spice to d relationship

byvan03:

Hmmm, thanks

Not at all dear, the more alike they are, the easier it is to walk together in a line. Love and their sense of responsibility will fine tune the similarities and create a balance. It is easier for couples that reason alike to maintain a very low conflict marriage because they can anticipate each other's reaction and evade impending conflicts. It's like being able to read your spouse's mind to a reasonable extent because you understand their thought process , this understanding was possible because you mirror that spouse through your own thought.