@ Rejoice03, congratulations n happy bumping.pls keep stress off,God will see u through

Ugommazan:
hi everyone...I decided to post finally...Its been 7 cycles for my husband and I.. I'm 26 and he is 31. I 'm becoming very worried really...cried when AF showed up 2 days ago. Its not an easy road..dont want to go to the hospital yet.I'm concerned about my cycle however because its between 33 - 35 days and I think its long and AF lasts just 2 days how can I improve the flow...Help. ### I dont know how to use this app very well yet ###

Orente21:
Am new here. Dnt knw where 2start fr,am 26,dh is 30. We v b tryin for 10cycles nw bt no luck. I get my period evri month ranging fr cd27,28,29,30. I was gven clomid last cycle 100g by a nurse friend bt got my af 2day. Pls help me. Where do i start fr and wat can i do

hallo sisters.. Welcome. We wish u d shortest stay ever.
From ur posts u are both under 30hence still in d optimal child producing years. Doctors advise one year of frequent sexual intercourse before appearing in d clinic. In the mean time, work on ur diet. Cut carbonated drinks, reduce carbohydrates . Increase ur proteins, fruits, vegetables. If u are overweight try to lose weight thru exercise n dieting . keep stress away from u that includes thinking.. Above all be prayerful . Soon we shall hear ur testimonies . All d best

Congratulations @rejoice03, your joy shall be permanent.

I am feeling serious cramp, in my lower abdomen, i see it as my ovulation sign, in a very long time

Wenesday - starting from 24th Feb, 2016.
61. Babyadorable, 62. Peddylov, 63. Ayashow, 64.
Ayaakanoh, 65. Perculiar 66. Talltosyne, 67.
Wonyi, 68. enatasha, 69. 99billiondollar, 70.
Cathibok, 71. Adorablewifey, 72. Doromay, 73.
Jennygurl, 74. Immibabe, 75. Itissettled3, 76.
Mamakendra, 77. Mumigrace, 78. Mummyelena,
79. Fatme, 80. Iyabejilantinla, 81. Joyfulmama,
82. Jumayintwins, 83.Ayaayo, 84. Ayauche, 85.
Safe06, 86. Prettmum, 87. Blomi, 88.
Stephyberry, 89. Divinemandate, 90. Kwentjules,

Father these are your people, please have mercy and grant as many children as they desire. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.

Good morning all beautiful mamas I am just so touched and happy by the oneness and happiness in this e-family. I pray for every one here that we shall celebrate this year. We shall carry our babies and they shall suckle from our b.reast.
Sabi mamas I want to start being very proactive on this ttc issue.
I want to go for a scan first, is there a specific scan I ask off. Hubby and I are in our late 30s,so ours is a delicate situation.
I have decided to lose a bit of weight and also use vit E tablets. Cos I remember the last time I conceived I was on vit e tablets and just finished on clean 9 ( a detox and weight loss prog). This 2016 I must get my bfp and carry to term in Jesus name. Dh is not even worried and so sure we have nothing to worry about.

tsquaure:
hallo sisters.. Welcome. We wish u d shortest stay ever.
From ur posts u are both under 30hence still in d optimal child producing years. Doctors advise one year of frequent sexual intercourse before appearing in d clinic. In the mean time, work on ur diet. Cut carbonated drinks, reduce carbohydrates . Increase ur proteins, fruits, vegetables. If u are overweight try to lose weight thru exercise n dieting . keep stress away from u that includes thinking.. Above all be prayerful . Soon we shall hear ur testimonies . All d best

tnx ma. R u sayin we shud wait til a yr.

Precy22:
Wenesday - starting from 24th Feb, 2016.
61. Babyadorable, 62. Peddylov, 63. Ayashow, 64.
Ayaakanoh, 65. Perculiar 66. Talltosyne, 67.
Wonyi, 68. enatasha, 69. 99billiondollar, 70.
Cathibok, 71. Adorablewifey, 72. Doromay, 73.
Jennygurl, 74. Immibabe, 75. Itissettled3, 76.
Mamakendra, 77. Mumigrace, 78. Mummyelena,
79. Fatme, 80. Iyabejilantinla, 81. Joyfulmama,
82. Jumayintwins, 83.Ayaayo, 84. Ayauche, 85.
Safe06, 86. Prettmum, 87. Blomi, 88.
Stephyberry, 89. Divinemandate, 90. Kwentjules,

Father these are your people, please have mercy and grant as many children as they desire. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.

Heavenly father I call upon your name concerning this one's listed above. Let your might power reign over there lives. Grant them there heart desires concerning there children.as they were conceived so shall they concieve in Jesus name,amen.

@orente. Don't be too apprehensive. Worrying can cause delay too. Are u having sex a least 3times a week. Are u off carbonated drink. Is ur bmi ok (24-30). are u n ur spouse on a high protein diet. How about fruits and vegetables. Those are the immediate questions u should ask your self. If u can answer yes to this questions, u are doing great already. If not it is time to readjust. I pray sincerely before u clock one yr u will have ur BFP

Kweenkong: It is well dear sis. The 1st scan I was asked to do was pelvic scan but oda sabi mamas will explain better.

Orente21: welcome dearie to our family. Yes doctors always advise u wait for a year b4 worrying but there's no harm if u can visit a gynae as its 10 cylcles already. Just my opinion.

61. Babyadorable, 62. Peddylov, 63. Ayashow, 64.Ayaakanoh, 65. Perculiar 66. Talltosyne, 67.Wonyi, 68. enatasha, 69. 99billiondollar, 70.
Cathibok, 71. Adorablewifey, 72. Doromay, 73.Jennygurl, 74. Immibabe, 75. Itissettled3, 76.Mamakendra, 77. Mumigrace, 78. Mummyelena,
79. Fatme, 80. Iyabejilantinla, 81. Joyfulmama,82. Jumayintwins, 83.Ayaayo, 84. Ayauche, 85.Safe06, 86. Prettmum, 87. Blomi, 88.
Stephyberry, 89. Divinemandate, 90. Kwentjules,

Father Almighty, i pray for the above listed names that you will give them their BFP this 2016
have mercy upon them and grant them their heart desire through Jesus Christ our Lord AMEN

please mamas i have been cramping since yesterday because i inserted tampon uterus.
Today is my cd8. I have used 3 clean point tampon for 3 cycles (nov, dec & Jan) which i did not experience
any cramping. I am also having back pains which has reduced a little bit.

Any mama here experienced this.

Amen to every prayers and well wishes.@ayashow Doc also tinks I don't ovulate regularly yet I see EWCM monthly no matter how small dats why he placed me on clomid.To d newbies pls do not stress urself and try to pray hard, follow ur Doc's instruction with d help of mamas on dis thread den we shall testify IJN. Am 2yrs in marriage last month plus am 33yrs and God still showed mercy. God's mercy will speak for us all IJN.

Ugommazan:
hi everyone...I decided to post finally...Its been 7 cycles for my husband and I.. I'm 26 and he is 31. I 'm becoming very worried really...cried when AF showed up 2 days ago. Its not an easy road..dont want to go to the hospital yet.I'm concerned about my cycle however because its between 33 - 35 days and I think its long and AF lasts just 2 days how can I improve the flow...Help. ### I dont know how to use this app very well yet ###

Welcome Sis, and may stay here be short and fruitful. Biko don't be very worried, just be worried enough to take the right steps/actions. Being very worried will only disrupt your system and can even affect you from conceiving. May this not be your portion IJN, Amen.

Just go to any lab and ask them to do Fertility tests for you and your husband, if they do and now discover any abnormality, then you can then take the result to a good gynae/hospital.If nothing is amiss, then you can just relax and pray that God's time for you comes sooner. That's how I started my ttc journey.

You've only tried for 7 cycles, note that according to medical literature it can take healthy couples up to 1year to conceive so please don't be very worried, carry out tests, try to get to know your body so that you know when you're Fertile and meet with your husband accordingly as that is the koko. At the last Fertility seminar I attended at my hospital, my Dr said that people with cycles as long as 40days can conceive. Long cycles are not a problem if it's normal for the woman in question. The key thing is knowing your fertile window and meeting with your hubby then. 33-35 is also not that long. Find out when you ovulate if you don't know currently, that will also help you know how long your luteal phase is (ie the number of days after ovulation before your next period). Luteal phase length is also important in conception and if short, as simple as taking Vit B6 or Vit B Complex can correct it. You need to know your body and your Fertility.

I don't know about your question on your flow but it was recently mentioned by another Mama and somebody gave her an advice which she tried and confirmed that it worked for her. Both Mamas involved or any other sabi Mama who knows once online will provide an answer for you. Take care and God bless

kweenkong:
Good morning all beautiful mamas I am just so touched and happy by the oneness and happiness in this e-family. I pray for every one here that we shall celebrate this year. We shall carry our babies and they shall suckle from our b.reast.
Sabi mamas I want to start being very proactive on this ttc issue.
I want to go for a scan first, is there a specific scan I ask off. Hubby and I are in our late 30s,so ours is a delicate situation.
I have decided to lose a bit of weight and also use vit E tablets. Cos I remember the last time I conceived I was on vit e tablets and just finished on clean 9 ( a detox and weight loss prog). This 2016 I must get my bfp and carry to term in Jesus name. Dh is not even worried and so sure we have nothing to worry about.

Amen to your prayers. You're on the right track, some women conceive after losing considerable weight as this balances out hormones and puts the body in a healthy state too making the body very optimal all round. As for Vit E, please stop taking after Ovulation. It's not good in a high dose for early pregnancy, can disturb implantation or cause early miscarriage. On your weight loss, you go gurl! you got this!. You must not even use Clean 9, you can start making healthy choices with portion control and light exercises like walking and you'll lose weight too. Detoxification also helps.

Usually the first test done is a Pelvic Scan followed by Hormonal Assay. For your hubby it's SFA (Seminal Fluid Analysis) which will check his swimmers all round.

All we have is you in heaven and earth
All we have is you
Jesus, all we have is you.

61. Babyadorable, 62. Peddylov, 63. Ayashow, 64.
Ayaakanoh, 65. Perculiar 66. Talltosyne, 67.
Wonyi, 68. enatasha, 69. 99billiondollar, 70.
Cathibok, 71. Adorablewifey, 72. Doromay, 73.
Jennygurl, 74. Immibabe, 75. Itissettled3, 76.
Mamakendra, 77. Mumigrace, 78. Mummyelena,
79. Fatme, 80. Iyabejilantinla, 81. Joyfulmama,
82. Jumayintwins, 83.Ayaayo, 84. Ayauche, 85.
Safe06, 86. Prettmum, 87. Blomi, 88.
Stephyberry, 89. Divinemandate, 90. Kwentjules,


Daddy, we have no one else but you and that is why we have come to lay our burden down at your feet. Please remember these mamas for good and make them mothers of beautiful children ijn.

Hmmmmmmmm! Please I need help o. I just discovered my bmi is 32 and I am not financially buoyant coupled with location. I need basic diet for someone struggling with pcos. I want to believe I am not alone in this. PLS HELP ME. God bless us all.

Congratulations @Rejoice03 on your bfp and other belleful mamas. I wish you God's protection. So happy for una.

tsquaure:
@orente. Don't be too apprehensive. Worrying can cause delay too. Are u having sex a least 3times a week. Are u off carbonated drink. Is ur bmi ok (24-30). are u n ur spouse on a high protein diet. How about fruits and vegetables. Those are the immediate questions u should ask your self. If u can answer yes to this questions, u are doing great already. If not it is time to readjust. I pray sincerely before u clock one yr u will have ur BFP

i take coke once a while. I guess i eat lot of carbohydrate food,i take fruits nd veg alot. Pls wat bmi? Yes to 3times bd

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Orente21:
tnx ma. R u sayin we shud wait til a yr.

No. She's saying u shud not worry as worry will complicate things for u and mess up wt ur hormones. I wish i heard dat advice in my early days of ttc. My sister u won't even hv to complete d one year b4 God shows up for u.

Orente21:
i take coke once a while. I guess i eat lot of carbohydrate food,i take fruits nd veg alot. Pls wat bmi? Yes to 3times bd

Oya begin now to reject every spirit of Coke and receive the spirit of taking lots of water and taking small portions of natural carbohydrate foods and more of proteinous food.
It's very good that you already take lots of fruits and vegetables and your bd is also on point. Also ensure you know your Fertility window and BD then. But if you're consistently BDing 3times a week, you'll definitely get it covered.

Bmi is Body Max Index, the ratio of your weight to your height. I can't remember the formula but there are lots of online and offline bmi calculators available. Your bmi is a guide to whether you're underweight, healthy weight, overweight, obese or morbidly obese. If you can provide your weight and height, I can help you check on the app on my phone or better still you can just Google bmi calculators and check for yourself.

Tx Fvine and Ayauche Infact I have drawn up a plan

Plans to overcome TTC
1) detoxify
2) drop some kilos
3)test to be done: scan,hormonal profiling,sfa for dh
4) supplements to be taken: vit E,omega 3
5) add acv to diet
6) use clean point tampoon
7) baby dance like no tomorrow
pray like no tomorrow

So sabi mamas best lest stressful method for detoxification. Any other suggestion is welcome

Orente21:
tnx ma. R u sayin we shud wait til a yr.

I doubt if that's what she means, what she's trying to say is that you shouldn't get too bothered since its normal to one year. According to medical literature, it can take healthy couples up to 1year to conceive and as a rule of thumb especially in western countries Drs dont treat young couples except they clock one year ttc or older couples (I think btwn 30 -35yrs upwards) when they clock 6months ttc. But that one no be for 9ja. Even if you've ttc for just 3 cycles, a gynae will still see you and check you out but will admonish you for being too hasty. To be proactive in Nigeria here, what people (including me, that's what I did) usually do is to go to a lab and get pelvic scan and Fertility tests done on their own and if any abnormality is spotted, they then look for and visit a gynae.

To be proactive is not bad, just don't stress as stress affects the body and conception.

Orente21:
Am new here. Dnt knw where 2start fr,am 26,dh is 30. We v b tryin for 10cycles nw bt no luck. I get my period evri month ranging fr cd27,28,29,30. I was gven clomid last cycle 100g by a nurse friend bt got my af 2day. Pls help me. Where do i start fr and wat can i do

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[quote author=Ugommazan post=43204071]hi everyone...I decided to post finally...Its been 7 cycles for my husband and I.. I'm 26 and he is 31. I 'm becoming very worried really...cried when AF showed up 2 days ago. Its not an easy road..dont want to go to the hospital yet.I'm concerned about my cycle however because its between 33 - 35 days and I think its long and AF lasts just 2 days how can I improve the flow...Help. ### I dont know how to use this app very well yet ###[/quote
We come both of u to this thread and also we u both short stay here.
Both of u are 26yr and I will say it's alright to worried if u' ve been trying for 7/10 months and nothing happens. But u need to understand one thing that is bad to do if u are ttc n that thing is stress, it's is a very bad thing that cannot bring good thing but rather it can spoil everything. So dear sisters I will advise u not to stress useful at all.
As tsquare said watch what u eat and cut out junks food, improve u protein intake and try as much as possible to drink water alone and if possible u can go to any fertility hospital u know. The earlier the better, I won't advice u to use self medication, if u've bin to hospital now and doctor diagnose something then u can use experience of mamas that av went that stage before which I believe that is not self- medication . It is well with us

@Fvine.Thank u sis. U have done justice to Orente"s question .

Orente, BMI is your weight (in kilograms) over your height squared (in centimeters). . if u aretrying to concieve best bmi rangeis 24- 30.
I was worried when i read u were using clomid without doctor's monitoring . abeg o . if u are on clomid ensure a doctor is supervising.

kweenkong:
Tx Fvine Infact I have drawn up a plan

Plans to overcome TTC
1) detoxify
2) drop some kilos
3)test to be done: scan,hormonal profiling,sfa for dh
4) supplements to be taken: vit E,omega 3
5) add acv to diet
6) use clean point tampoon
7) baby dance like no tomorrow
pray like no tomorrow

So sabi mamas best lest stressful method for detoxification. Any other suggestion is welcome

You forgot to add, be happy and de-stress. Remember to be careful with the Vit E. You can get the combination combo capsule of Omega 3,6 & 9 like Mumihaja posted sometime. My Dr intact prescribed it for me as its safe to take all through the cycle. Also BD like no tomorrow especially at the right time (Fertile window). If you're unsure, BD every 2-3days.

You're on point, take 5, nothing do you, carry go joor! Na you biko.

Fvine:

I doubt if that's what she means, what she's trying to say is that you shouldn't get too bothered since its normal to one year. According to medical literature, it can take healthy couples up to 1year to conceive and as a rule of thumb especially in western countries Drs dont treat young couples except they clock one year ttc or older couples (I think btwn 30 -35yrs upwards) when they clock 6months ttc. But that one no be for 9ja. Even if you've ttc for just 3 cycles, a gynae will still see you and check you out but will admonish you for being too hasty. To be proactive in Nigeria here, what people (including me, that's what I did) usually do is to go to a lab and get pelvic scan and Fertility tests done on their own and if any abnormality is spotted, they then look for and visit a gynae.

To be proactive is not bad, just don't stress as stress affects the body and conception.

tnx ma. Appreciate it.am nt stressin myself,thnkn of quittin my job cos it far 2my house. Can i do d pelvic scan wen stil on af,am on cd2 nw. Anoda, is dere specific fertilty test 2do and wat cd can it be done. Or is it all tests i l do

you do mighty thing , u do glorious things , u are a faithful God , Awesome is ur name . There is no one like u Jesus, in all the earth. ,

I am acknowledging you for who u are, and what u done dansanki baba

Lord God our maker , u knew us before we were formed . ur thoughts towards us are of good not of evil to bring us to that expected end. pls rewrite every evil that man or the devil has written or confessed regarding our homes and marriages. ur word says u blot out handwriting of ordinances that are against us, which was contrary to us and took it out of the way, nailing it to your cross. therefore we know we have victory over childlessness. God hearken to your daughters as we make our supplications known to u . bless our marriages, and let there be fruitfulness . Through your blood, the blood of Jesus locate us with ur mercy . let those of us pregnant carry to full term n deliver safely , let those of us still tarrying, carry our own pregnancy . let therebe no no barren amongt us , let no one cast their young, remove delay and denial from our midst. we receiveby faith beautiful boys and girls , twins and triplets. Let every fruitless effort become fruitful and let the glory go back to you . for we have asked in Jesus name Amen

you do mighty thing , u do glorious things , u are a faithful God , Awesome is ur name . There is no one like u Jesus, in all the earth. ,

I am acknowledging you for who u are, and what u done dansanki baba

Lord God our maker , u knew us before we were formed . ur thoughts towards us are of good not of evil to bring us to that expected end. pls rewrite every evil that man or the devil has written or confessed regarding our homes and marriages. ur word says u blot out handwriting of ordinances that are against us, which was contrary to us and took it out of the way, nailing it to your cross. therefore we know we have victory over childlessness. God hearken to your daughters as we make our supplications known to u . bless our marriages, and let there be fruitfulness . Through your blood, the blood of Jesus locate us with ur mercy . let those of us pregnant carry to full term n deliver safely , let those of us still tarrying, carry our own pregnancy . let there be no barren amongt us , let no one cast their young, remove delay and denial from our midst. we receive by faith beautiful boys and girls , twins and triplets. Let every fruitless effort become fruitful and let the glory go back to you . for we have asked in Jesus name Amen

tsquaure:
@Fvine.Thank u sis. U have done justice to Orente"s question .

Orente, BMI is your weight (in kilograms) over your height squared (in centimeters). . if u aretrying to concieve best bmi rangeis 24- 30.
I was worried when i read u were using clomid without doctor's monitoring . abeg o . if u are on clomid ensure a doctor is supervising.

tnx ma. Dnt mind my nurse friend. Baby dust 2us all.

Fvine:


Yes you can. Fish Oil is just oil extracted from deep sea fishes which is rich in nutrients like Omega 3. It will just be like eating fish so I believe it won't interact negatively with clomid. Am praying you return with a bfp since it seems that Ovulation issue is the only issue you have. Clomid has several days you can start depending on the result needed. So yes clomid can be started on day 2,3,5 and taken normally for 5days but some Drs do extended clomid cycle and patients take it for more than 5days. Follow your Drs instruction and stick to the most popular 5days if that's what he advised. I think one of the days increases chances of multiple eggs while one of the days will provide one egg that will be very good and solid. Take care.

Thank you

ayashow:
Mamas in the house,i hail o! You guys are doing such wonderful jobs.

So,i had a terribe sharp pain by my lower left side yesterday dat I had to be rushed to clinic by dh.i was quickly given injection to subside d pain.then we ran a pt test which was negative and a pelvic scan test which showed a normal uterus and ovary,then a full count test which showed I had malaria and it was very high.i had no symptoms o.

I was very dissatisfied with d pelvic test,my mum kept questioning the operator and den he said we cld confirm why not had so much unbearable pain thru tvs and he did it for free for us.

To cut d long story short...he said I had too many eggs that don't reach maturation.that I don't ovulate.that a woman is suppose to have one or two eggs in the ovary during ovulation.he said my own eggs are fyting for space so becos of that they don't get big enof to burst.infact I didn't understand his terms.he conclude that I had pcos.i was shocked to my marrows.ive never had pcos symptoms.
I've always had plenty egg white cervical mucus every cycle and it occurs same time every evry cycle.im bothered.

I don't ovulate yet I hav very thick drawy mucus that last 5 days evry cycle which was only a mirage deceiving me dt I ovulate every month.

Oya my sisters,my families come to my aid.only me pcos,hormonal imbalance and lactating boobs.
Help me o I wan carry belle.

My sister no be only u the difference is my own no day pain and e no big reach your own. Don't worry God is iin control. Am using bromergon, fish oil and clomid this month. I pray it happens.

Fvine:
Please where does shared posts go? I keep seeing share on some posts, I decided to click share on one of my post to see what will happen but nothing. It only wrote 1 Share on the post so I just clicked "unshare" and the "1 share" disappeared. TIA.

Lol ... You share an interesting post you want your followers to see ... When you share a post, your followers get to see the post...
Then, you'll also see posts shared by people you follow. ..
People normally use the share button when they come across an interesting post which they would want others (their followers) to see....

You'll be notified on your profile when someone shares a post of yours or when you have posts shared by your followers. ..

Baby dust to y'all... You're always in my prayers
Cheers. ..