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| Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by Halleydavid(op): 3:32pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
There have been stories going around about the ugly happenings in the home of former minister of Interior Viola Onwuliri and her son's Ugochukwu's marriage to the wife Christiana, how she used her influence to chase the son's wife away, sized her documents and took her kids away. below is the wife's version of what really transpired in their home, and how her mother-in-law destroyed her home and took her kids away. The Story you are about to read is as told by Christina but coming from the mouth of Ugochukwu....Christina called me yesterday and told me she wanted her kids back and needed help...Her voice was so baby like and i felt sorry for her because i understood the pain of being away from ones children for four weeks (according to her)..I felt her pain and decided to share this story debunking that she is a psychiatric case - HEREhttp://www.juicygossips.com.ng/2016/02/onwuliri-sons-marriage-saga-in-defence.html
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| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by Last2comment(m): 3:33pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Juicy story for later. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by Halleydavid(op): 3:34pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
As written by Ugochukwu Favour-Mayor. He can be reached through his twitter handle: @UgochukwuFM See more photos here: http://www.juicygossips.com.ng/2016/02/onwuliri-sons-marriage-saga-in-defence.html |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by sammysammy111(m): 3:49pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
NNE sorry o!!! na so person wey marry mummy's boy de suffer |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by LadyTruest: 9:01am On Mar 01, 2016*. Modified: 4:12pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Halleydavid:I Read through the story and I'm a bit concerned about the onesided nature of this writer. In marital issues, it is better to interview wife and husband to get both sides of the story. For balance. I don't know the families involved and I really don't care but as a counsellor, I find it strange the way this lady is posing with a journalist to declare she failed as a woman. Please let's be women like Mary, Ruth, Sarah etc and be prayerful and decent as there is no way, you can tell me a Wife who knows what she is doing will allow her home issues be discussed publicly. That detail alone makes me worried about the woman's mental state. If your husband has your children, then it's not an abduction. Tell the woman to call her husband instead of parading on the media. There is no celebrity to attain from a failure in marriage. These Instagram generation think everything is a social media affair. I sense an utter sense of entitlement and a quest for power. You married a former minister's son?? So what You don't know to whom much is given much is expected You are blaming the mother for your woes Woman Up. Go to your Pastor, Bishop or Imam. Get them to summon your husband and solve the problem. Any wife that picks a fight with her husband's mother is not ready for marriage. You are to blame as a woman if your family fails. It is not anybody's problem but yours. Fix your issues at home privately. Stop trying to become a celebrity by picking fights outside your home. Had to include these pictures I found. The wife looks innocent but when I saw this damage from the husband's story online. I became worried. This is unacceptable dear. This is too violent .... Looks can be deceptive. Woman, Mother, Lady... What type of woman destroys instead of Builds?? This Lady is Not Innocent!!! There's a problem of violence here except she is suggesting, she didn't destroy the property that was said she destroyed. That's why you can't go to your pastor? No pastor will admit this as acceptable behavior for a woman. Ask for forgiveness and go back to your husband. STOP PARADING YOURSELF ONLINE DEAR!!! GET the needed PSYCHIATRIC HELP AND SAY NO TO VIOLENCE
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| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by cooljude(m): 9:20am On Mar 01, 2016 |
one thing i have learnt in life is that their are two sides to a coin, it is left for you to either show the both sides or one side. I don't know the other side of the story but i could tell that the writer is too biased, its as if you have a personal Vandetta against the husband's family. All i know is that both sides would have committed errors to make it not work. Finally, the way the writer painted her was too cruel, i schooled in FUTO and she is not as bad as the writer would make us believe. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by Habbatmakolly: 9:56am On Mar 01, 2016 |
LadyTruest:It is the responsibility of the two parties(husband and wife) to ensure marriage works and one party should never think he or she is more important in the marriage. i think the whole issue was not handled well especially from the husband side. why are they in hurry to collect her children from her? what has been the efforts of the husband parents to reach out to the wife's parents in order to resolve issues amicably (if there is any serious thing to resolve). The husband parents should not feel they are all in all in the decision of family but should only count their advise as opinion which can be taken or ignored. at this juncture, the Onwuliris should reach out to wife's parents and resolve this issue if they are actually genuine about peace. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by chukel(m): 10:00am On Mar 01, 2016 |
This life. A very little slim fine girl when we were growing up. Sometimes though, her behaviour was weird. The mother is still back there in the US. I think she's had bad luck from the onset cos the step mum didn't treat her any better then. But has always had a loving father. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by Habbatmakolly: 10:01am On Mar 01, 2016 |
cooljude:when did you school at FUTO, the writer said emphatically if you read between lines that Mrs Onwuliri was a peaceful and calm person as she was not before the demise of her husband. things might have changed between the time you knew her and now or may be the sides the writer saw was different from the sides you saw. The politics might have affected her a bit too (opinion). If Mrs Onwuliri is actually interested in the peace between the couples, she should have done more than locking the woman in room to allow her take away the children. the wife documents should not have been ceased. (shikena) |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by Lionize: 10:14am On Mar 01, 2016 |
Is it Emeka that studied in UNN that was with Schlum sometime? Why didn't you post his picture too? |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by Lionize: 10:16am On Mar 01, 2016 |
See the husband's version. Fracas between Chukwuemeka Osmond Elihe Onwuliri, second son of the late Prof. Celestine Onwuliri and Christina Onwuliri, nee Amaefule, is taking a turn for the worse with the Chukwuemeka approaching an Abuja High Court asking that the almost five years marriage be dissolved. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by Habbatmakolly: 11:05am On Mar 01, 2016 |
Sorry, I didnt know these families hail from Mbaise, in Imo State. It is like they are troublesome and full of fight. i was in a car back home from work yesterday when A woman was exclaiming, and when she was asked what happened, she said she's been troubled by the thought of her Son leaving abroad who wants to marry an mbaise lady. she told us that she's been praying about it and the marriage will not come to pass. the woman is an igbo and even said the boy can marry from fulani, hausa or even yoruba but she will never allow him marry an mbaise girl whom he fairly know. I never here anything about mbaise woman until that yesterday and we just encouraged the woman to ask for the will of god to prevail but it was she made up her mind that the will of God can not be an mbaise woman. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by LadyTruest: 1:13pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
"""THE HUSBAND TOLD AUTHORITY on Sunday: “You won’t believe that this person that told you all these things (Christina) had drawn a knife at me; this is a woman that has thrown a heavy statue of Infant Jesus at me and it broke; this is a woman, I was driving on the highway at top speed, because she got angry about something, she got aggressive, struggled and swerved the steering on the highway in Canada, we almost all died; this is a woman that has held a knife on my daughters’ neck.""" I knew there was an issue. You are trying to kill the son of a woman and her grand children. And you still go on to pick a fight on the SOCIAL media This is VERY SCARY and STRANGE. Or pull a knife on her husband?? These are not normal behavior.The girl may be Bipolar or Sth.... She needs to get treatment and needs stop being in denial. Coming to the media would not cure an organic problem. Drugs will help but the lady and the husband must in the interest of love, take the challenge of seeking treatment for her condition .... #SCARY |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by CecyAdrian(f): 1:47pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Hmmmmm, Super story! |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by dealslip(f): 2:17pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
who we go con believe now! accusations and counter accusations. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by TheArchangel(f): 2:34pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
LadyTruest:Your comments too are one sided as if you were paid or have a case on the issue. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by Blackfriday: 3:17pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
cooljude:well I don't know when u schooled at futo but I got fed up in class once when prof viola woundnt not let us rest and have a normal lecture cos of the way she was gloriying dis her son "emeka" and from wot op said dis is typical of the woman who taught me in my second year at futo. She left me with the impression dat day she is the kind of woman who would control her children's perrsonal life and would defend them even when they are wrong. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by FreudScholar: 3:50pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Pls who is the target of this commentary?? There seems to be a drive by FUTO Owerri people to drag the Minister of Foreign Affairs into this story. But she is not married to the girl?? So why is the lady externalizing?? Looking at the arguments and counter arguments, it is a marital issue. Marital means between HUSBAND and WIFE. I think I find it strange that the wife thinks her mother in law is the problem. When I saw the headline, I wanted to read how? Why? When? Where? Who (witnesses)?? Battery is battery because we have witnesses. People who saw or heard the alleged acts going on. So now what we have is Her Word against His words. And a reporter is not trained to spot a liar, neither is a reporter an automatic saint. There's too many disgruntled people out there trying to blackmail one person or another. This write up ultimately tries to present the wife as innocent and the whole family of the man as guilty!! That for me is disgusting. Not because your marriage is going through a tough patch would you throw all caution to the wind and even put up your pictures online. Lol... Reporters are so wicked. They use you for the story you think you have and dump you once their blog is trending. Dump you for the next story but the damage you would have done to yourself and your family would be irreparable. As for your marriage, I can understand that you are no longer married from your narrative. That's unfortunate. you can keep this marital loss to yourselves. I do not applaud whoever put this up. If it is the man ... Shame on you!! If it is the woman... Shame on you. Don't wash your dirty laundry in public. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by LadyTruest: 4:02pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
TheArchangel:I wish I was paid Walahi.... I need the money badly!! All these Rich people and their problems. Na money the poster collect and I admire him. At least in don chop from the woes of others |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by cooljude(m): 4:43pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
[quote author=Habbatmakolly post= If Mrs Onwuliri is actually interested in the peace between the couples, she should have done more than locking the woman in room to allow her take away the children. the wife documents should not have been ceased. (shikena)[/quote]I am not defending anybody since i don't know the real story. What i am saying is that the story is one sided. |
| Re: Onwuliri Son's Marriage Saga - In Defence Of Former Minister's Daughter In Law C by FreudScholar: 7:56pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
So this is what I was stressing earlier on. Why should it be the Mother In Law's responsibility to make peace It is everybody's responsibility to make peace but most importantly that of the husband and wife!!! This idea of bringing in MINISTER of FOREIGN AFFAIRS (her mother in law) into your marital issue is just to earn cheap, APC -type, PROPAGANDA PUBLICITY. This wife is a disgrace. IF THE MOTHER IN LAW WERE A TAILOR IN Tejuoso, would you be on NAIRA LAND blaming her for your marital failings?? Plus she is not married to either. Husband and wife should make peace and if the wife instead comes on social media to WAIL then she underestimates the importance of keeping her home intact. The mother in law I'm sure still has her home. As a former minister, I can imagine she is at a level where her voice counts. The young girl however who Should make it work with her hubby is instead on a show of self on social media. When your ONLY ACHIEVEMENT IN LIFE IS THAT YPU MARRIED A MINISTER's SON?? The Woman you accuse is a Professor and minister Yet you a low life thinks you can rub off her publicity to make yourself popular Pls OGA author tell the fair madam to go to her husband's house and stop this show of shame. |
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