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Please Nairalanders I need your opinion on this, two weeks ago my 3year old girl complained to her dad about pains in her private part so he called my attention after checking her I could not find any injury so I asked her if any person touched it at school she immediately mentioned the boy's name it was late so I asked her to go to bed and told my husband that we will ask her in the morning when she is fresh just to make sure she is sure. The next morning when my husband was preparing her for school he asked her again and she mentioned the boy's name, just to be sure asked where the incident took place she said in the toilet when they went to pee. Knowing fully well that they are kids and don't know what they are doing I asked if she also touched his own just to make sure that she was not the one who started it she said yes so I asked why she replied "because he touched my bumbum so I touched his own."
When her school bus arrived I narrated the incident to the assistant and asked her to tell her teacher to put an eye on them that they should not go to the loo unsupervised, the first thing the assistant said to my daughter was "you Deedee your eyes are not clear o are you sure you are not making it up"
When they returned I asked the assistant if she delivered my message from the way she replied it was obvious that they don't believe my daughter. She said they asked the boy and he denied it that although my daughter still maintained that he touched her but after questioning them for over 30mins my daughter finally agreed that he did not touch but a few mins later she said he did touch her. Two days later my daughter told me mummy I'm talk talk girl so I asked who called you that she said her teacher now calls her talk talk girl. Please what's your opinion on this was my daughter making it up if she is why is it that it was only that boys name she mentioned. Please I need answers.

What?
Your daughter told you such a mighty thing and you just narrate to the assistant?
And she even asked if she was making it up?

Maybe I am just being unnecessarily aggressive sha
Hian

You need to report to the authorities.Their teachers should keep their eyes on them and shouldn't let the boys get into the toilets with the girls.

you need to handle this with utmost sensitivity

in my own believe. almost all kids play this kind if play
u would need to caution them on this

fbtowner:
you need to handle this with utmost sensitivity


in my own believe. almost all kids play this kind if play

u would need to caution them on this

You mean almost all kids touch totoyo and put finger inside that thing?

This is the most ridiculous I have read


Even my 3 yr old son knows the very next thing to do to anyone that touches his thing is slap, kick, bite and beat very well
What nonsense


Today's kids are picky
And we have to be careful what we do or say to them

Sometimes i wonder why some peeps aren't adherent to sensitive issues.. This is an issues with outmost magnitude that shouldn't be swept under the carpet, but reverse is the case as i can sense from your input. This kids are prone to learning things around them very fast and after that, praticalizing it would be in their agenda. It's very true your ward was stating the obvious aboutt her experience with the young lad. But i think fear of the unknown and pressure has made her not to'v been confident and bold enough to acknowledge the truth when been confronted at intervals.
Ma'am go to her school and give strict appeal concerning this issue so that the schooi authorities wil find a way as to curb this act from occuring again. a supervisor should be with them when going out to ease themselves and also when they are alone in some cases. Please act fast, cos kids nowadays eer they are something else smh. But if after a while your child still complains of the same issue just withdraw her from the school........A stich in time saves nine.
#caLLmeBERG

Are you that busy that you couldn't follow her to the school? And that assistant that called her "talk talk " is obviously very silly.
Please you need to change her school asap

amokeme:
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Please you need to change her school asap

I concur
Signed
Sealed
Deliver

Yes some people will attack me for support of change of school
What if it happens in another
Bla bla bla
My opinion
Write yours and forget I wrote nothing

Thanks all I will do that when I go to pick up her results. Its really sad that the teachers did not believe my child cos the boy is. of the same age. Intact on Sunday she called me and said mummy see my bumbum Emma touched it so I told her if he tries it again she should slap and bite him and that she should never play with him again.

Please oo madam, change her school..
You should have reported to the authorities, not to any assistant..
Now they are even calling her names, soon the pupils will join..

You need to remove her from that school n if possible put her in a school that has separate toilets for boys and girls.

Secondly, I expected u to have gone with her to the school to have a talk with the proprietor and class teacher.

Now that they have labelled your daughter a "talk talk" girl, I see that as a form of bullying.

Like someone said change her school what else do you need to know? Its obvious the assistant knows the boy personally and willing to cover his tracks no matter what

Run while you know there is a bomb than wait for it to explode(DISVIRGIN).

amokeme:
Are you that busy that you couldn't follow her to the school? And that assistant that called her "talk talk " is obviously very silly.
Please you need to change her school asap

Yes am busy but will go to her school before the week runs out and as for her school its the best I can find in that area to another school of that quality is very faraway from where I work and I don't want to leave her alone with anybody till a I return from work they drop her off at my place of work and she stays with me till I close.

Dyt:
You mean almost all kids touch totoyo and put finger inside that thing?

This is the most ridiculous I have read


Even my 3 yr old son knows the very next thing to do to anyone that touches his thing is slap, kick, bite and beat very well
What nonsense


Today's kids are picky
And we have to be careful what we do or say to them

well I'm not surprise that u are surprised. that it's ridiculous. doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

it has a lot to do with up bringing.

let me burst your bubble. the kind of clips our kids have access to this days explains it all so don't be surprise madam next time


and madam don't be surprise it might be happening to ur 3 year old son too

Octobertwentysix:
Yes am busy but will go to her school before the week runs out and as for her school its the best I can find in that area to another school of that quality is very faraway from where I work and I don't want to leave her alone with anybody till a I return from work they drop her off at my place of work and she stays with me till I close.

What if bully sets in
Its started with talk talk girl already

Not like I am not understanding your point but hey
Its actually your own and not mine
Be good

fbtowner:
well I'm not surprise that u are surprised. that it's ridiculous. doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

it has a lot to do with up bringing.

let me burst your bubble. the kind of clips our kids have access to this days explains it all so don't be surprise madam next time


and madam don't be surprise it might be happening to ur 3 year old son too

Even you as an adult can't see his totoyo not to even touching it
That's how much I have groomed my soldier
Thanks all the same

Dyt:
Even you as an adult can't see his totoyo not to even touching it That's how much I have groomed my soldier Thanks all the same

you are welcome. may God guide and be with us all

candycrushsoda:
You need to remove her from that school n if possible put her in a school that has separate toilets for boys and girls.

Secondly, I expected to to have gone with her to the school go have a talk with the proprietor and class teacher.

Now that have labelled your daughter a "talk talk" girl, I see that as a form of bullying.

Yes the mistake I made was to tell the assistant instead of the proprietress she is a nice woman and has a listening ear. The school is an A grade school and they have three nannies for each class in the kg and pr kg also the teacher said they no longer allow them to enter the toilet unsupervised again, and as for the name calling I will let the proprietress know.

Octobertwentysix:
Yes the mistake I made was to tell the assistant instead of the proprietress she is a nice woman and has a listening ear. The school is an A grade school and they have three nannies for each class in the kg and pr kg also the teacher said they no longer allow them to enter the toilet unsupervised again, and as for the name calling I will let the proprietress know.

That's good. Still keep a close watch though.

Dyt:
What if bully sets in
Its started with talk talk girl already

Not like I am not understanding your point but hey
Its actually your own and not mine
Be good

Thank you so much I will let proprietress know and also ask them to change her class she also told me on Friday that she no longer likes her class that she wants to be in teacher Happy's class.

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Octobertwentysix:
Yes the mistake I made was to tell the assistant instead of the proprietress she is a nice woman and has a listening ear. The school is an A grade school and they have three nannies for each class in the kg and pr kg also the teacher said they no longer allow them to enter the toilet unsupervised again, and as for the name calling I will let the proprietress know.

I don't think you should rush to change the school.Let the proprietress know about the incident and the name calling.
They should just ensure boys and girls do not use the toilets at the same time and keep an eye on them.

thorpido:
I don't think you should rush to change the school.Let the proprietress know about the incident and the name calling.
They should just ensure boys and girls do not use the toilets at the same time and keep an eye on them.

Thank you so much sir I will let them know I really feel so bad that I did not act fast .