Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” - Celebrities (4)

Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” - Celebrities (4) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum › Entertainment › Celebrities › Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” (32023 Views)

1 2 3 4 Reply (Go Down)

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by Amberon11: 1:56pm On Mar 27, 2016

if I was bill gates, I would send you $10m for this beautiful comment.

Tolatutu:
Abeg all our mothers and grandmas with good character nko that their husbands had babies left, right and centre The only difference is women are less prepared to take the crap they took . Do those men cheat with women with good character? character ko character ni, a cheat is a cheat

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by Nobody: 2:00pm On Mar 27, 2016

Amberon11:
may you live long

Amen. you too

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by Chanchit: 2:04pm On Mar 27, 2016

BuddhaPalm:
500 wetin?

Bros abeg no vex, I don minus 490.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by christinie(f): 2:07pm On Mar 27, 2016

Some dudes here need some home training.

Hernyolar:
Don't mind them...talk of double standard. Smh.

What peeps here don't understand is that marriage is more or less like a contract...an agreement. ..and any breech in contract in which one or both partners don't find favourable. .they can both sit down to adjust the 'terms and conditions' or decide to dissolve it.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by Kay17: 2:18pm On Mar 27, 2016

HungerBAD:
Go back,kneel down and hopefully he accepts you navk.

Then ,please change your partying ways and have time for your home.
You cannot make your home work,when you are alway absent there.
Side chicks not smiling.

This proves how faulty traditional values are. Loyalty like morality is universal, it has to apply at all times to be valid. Presuming that the failure to satisfy the husband in bed or family way does excuse disloyalty.

Divorce at times can be redeeming. It gives a fresh start. Human relationships don't always work out, people steal and cheat.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by Kay17: 2:20pm On Mar 27, 2016

adewarley099:
Get into it or get the f out u were given a chance to build a family with a guy who has other offers outside bf he decided to choose u only for u to abandon him like spoilt tomatoes, all u cared about is how u will keep cruising parties,and the nigga gat no time for all your bs so he jumped into the next available ship, Moral of my story is choose family over showbiz......

Building a family to you means being a housewife? OR giving a dominant role to the man?

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by Bollinger(m): 2:35pm On Mar 27, 2016*

Fine no be everything. Has anyone really heard this woman talk? Everything feels fake and forced. I had been hearing of Toke Makinwa for ages and i decided to youtube her. God, i was so disappointed. The things that were coming out of her mouth were amazing. Who would want to wake up to that?

2 Likes

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by Kyllahmc(m): 3:49pm On Mar 27, 2016

jezoz! Why would any sane man cheat on such beauty? im i the only person who thinks that the few minutes enjoyment we get from sex is worthless to betray anyone's trust for?

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by chrispratt: 3:59pm On Mar 27, 2016

TPAND:
Sister let me carefully give you a counsel from a guys standpoint.

Marriage without dedication and attention is as good as friends with benefits. A man would make his woman cheat on him, if he doesn't give her the necessary love and attention. If all he does his to party, club and hang out with friends. It's VICE-VERSA
Never say there's no reason for recklessness in marriage. It makes sense in context but in reality nobody can beat the groans of being in a marriage where the other partner doesn't care and show much attention to your feelings and needs.
Marriage is an institution that needs to be fueled and carefully nurtured with love and attention. I am so sure you are not married that's why your comment is like lines of the romantic novels.

Happily married 5 years, two gorgeous kids wink

However, we have mutual respect for each other. My point is, if you're not satisfied in your marriage, cheating is not the answer. How does it help? Not even a one time mistake but an ongoing affair leading to pregnancy? No one can be blamed except the cheating partner. Never blame a woman for her husband's infidelity and vice versa. I'd rather the husband divorce and go be with his lover than to be cheated on and lied to. Cheating doesn't solve anything and only leads to trust issues for the remainder of the so-called marriage.

1 Like

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by JuanDeDios: 4:06pm On Mar 27, 2016

bodyloveghetto:
I'm seein thingz....

Availability: Yes

No be only you. I don dey eye the girl tay tay.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by ghostwritter(m): 4:25pm On Mar 27, 2016

Thread for feminist.
I've learnt to select my future wife carefully. Never to be deceived by her make-up, beauty, social status, flamboyant life style, riches, physical or oral attributes.
As a man, all I would need is a wife who will give me peace of mind (by God's grace).
So many feminist are now coming up under d disguise of 'gender equality'....but i do not blame them, rather I blame men (their fathers) who are too weak to take up their roles in providing for their families and supporting their wives in difficulties.
Shame on men who cheat on their wives!
Shame on women who have got no time for their men!!
Shame on women who wants to be in every way equal to men.
I fear for the future of men yet unborn.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by ghostwritter(m): 4:28pm On Mar 27, 2016

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by khadijah12(f): 4:40pm On Mar 27, 2016

HungerBAD:
Go back,kneel down and hopefully he accepts you navk.

Then ,please change your partying ways and have time for your home.

You cannot make your home work,when you are alway absent there.

Side chicks not smiling.

I saw a lot of comments like this. Telling her to go and beg her husband and stop "partying". He met her exactly he way she is. So why is he complaining? He married her and got his ex pregnant right under her roof. Why blame her if she doesn't want to go back into a marriage that has no trust. She can't possibly ever trust him again. Do u know if she has healed? Stop judging people on their decisions! You are not the one living in the house with her. She will be the one married to him and living with him so for the love of God! Don't be too quick to judge

1 Like

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by jojothaiv(m): 4:42pm On Mar 27, 2016

Quietly get my jotting materials.... Momma know that this is the only course I'm yet to pass.... Mummy and Daddy G.O in relationship matters abeg make una help a brother!

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by khadijah12(f): 4:44pm On Mar 27, 2016

sage50:
seems she didnt want to hv kids. and d man did d needful

Did maje tell you that?

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by bikefab(m): 4:44pm On Mar 27, 2016

Sorry hun, better luck next time.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by jojothaiv(m): 4:45pm On Mar 27, 2016

ndcide:
She's still a Virgin?

Wicked Weekend!

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by jojothaiv(m): 4:47pm On Mar 27, 2016

shamecurls:
I bought garri with Okro Soup ingredients

I also bought mine with plantain...

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by khadijah12(f): 4:47pm On Mar 27, 2016

seangy4konji:
No sensible ma would stay that long with a lady like this toke.

Just after marriage?please tell me a party that you would not see this lady. But te sensible parties,agbero parties and conductor parties. JUSt every day back to back.

I thank God for the guys life say hin eyes a open sharp sharp.

I feel sorry for whoever you'll get married to.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by Nobody: 4:49pm On Mar 27, 2016

@toke, i wonder why you feel ashamed in the first place. Was it your fault the man cheated? If he is ettin enouh of you like some people here claimed, isn't he man enough to make you know his concern? You are going to blame yourself for that too.

And why should the fact tht your marriage failed be a reason to mean you are not the best person to give relationship advice? People who tell you this to make you, are either some conservatives and traditionalists who want the world to always demonise divorce and encourage people to continue to stay on even in an abusive relationship.

My dear, the fact that you got divorced, is the more reason why i think you are a better relationship councilor than most people. This means you've seen it all! It means, you know what the so called 'married' people do not know! You know what if feels like bein single, a girlfriend, fiance, married woman, and divorcee. You have all the credentials.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by khadijah12(f): 4:51pm On Mar 27, 2016

[quote author=afroxyz post=44148275]I am sure if the scandal had not broken out on social media, Toke would still have remained with her husband.

Hmm you are sure? You must be in third party in their relationship

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by wagazala: 5:58pm On Mar 27, 2016

daretodiffer:
Are you alright?

Very alright.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by Nobody: 7:32pm On Mar 27, 2016

I can understand the shame,when you have been the one advising other women, having the mindset that.you have dot the I and crossed the T on how to keep you man focused on you,and he ends up committing the most reckless act any married man can ever do,it will seem like you failed yourself, it's all gud,time heals,I feel for her,and even some accusations from some fans too

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by sadediji2(m): 12:36am On Mar 28, 2016

Tallesty1:
Her own cup or rice.

I just bought mine, with beans.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by macherie1: 4:45am On Mar 28, 2016

HungerBAD:
Go back,kneel down and hopefully he accepts you back .

Then ,please change your partying ways and have time for your home.

You cannot make your home work,when you are alway absent there.

Side chicks not smiling.

Did you actually think before making this comment? So she should beg a philandeering husband to take her back for being a successful and hardworking woman?

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by wagazala: 6:57am On Mar 28, 2016

adeaks:
If it was another man that impregnated Toke while married to Maje, would you advice the husband to also get over it and keep his lady.

The way we apply double standards to ladies is appalling.

Not double standards, but she's going to eventually settle down with a man right? What's the guarantee that he won't also cheat on her? None. These things happen is what I am saying, learn to forgive. If it were the other way round too, why not, if they can forgive each other, let them stay together. The grass isn't always greener on the other side.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by seangy4konji: 12:44pm On Mar 28, 2016

I feel sorry for your parents. And am sure you are a kid because quoting me out of nowhere without respecting me or my opinions means they tried to train you but ou refused.

Shame on you.

Ps. Age does not mean maturity now because on a normal day now it's the owls in the early 20s doing well with their life while the older ones r sexing around.

Which normal sensible married woman parties for 28 days out of 30??

khadijah12:
I feel sorry for whoever you'll get married to.

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by khadijah12(f): 3:48pm On Mar 28, 2016

seangy4konji:
I feel sorry for your parents. And am sure you are a kid because quoting me out of nowhere without respecting me or my opinions means they tried to train you but ou refused.

Shame on you.

Ps. Age does not mean maturity now because on a normal day now it's the owls in the early 20s doing well with their life while the older ones r sexing around.

Which normal sensible married woman parties for 28 days out of 30??

I still sorry for whoever would get married to you? What normal person parties at the age of 30? It's her life! Did you forget that? He met her "a party girl" so why all he fuss after the marriage?
It's sad that you had to drag my parents into this, it just goes to show your level of maturity and if this is your definition of maturity then I feel sorry for you again. You're yhere speaking about me not being trained for quoting you coz of your opinion, but that's not why I quoted you. I quoted to because you were spitting trash. Really. And I felt genuinely sorry for your wife/husband... Dunno what your sexuality is. Anyways I know after reading this you still won't get it but it's allowed. I know people like you

Re: Toke Makinwa On Her Failed Marriage – “am No Longer Ashamed” by seangy4konji: 7:38am On Mar 29, 2016

That is why you are mad and crazy....your father self is sad about you....wetin concern you if i spill thrash...dont quote me about my opinion and insult me

it no go better for you if you insult me again...dem go pay you for my opinion huh

?

wetin concern u if i mature or not
huh

?

you think its cool to quote and insult when no one insults you huh

a rethink with your dumb thick skull..its my pc and my opinion..feel free to drop your opinion...

Are you Toke huh

?

you are the one full of thrashh and a scummmbag

PS..I do not know you from any where till you quoted me..i am sorry but you were rude first to me about what i said and i will repeat...it no got better for you if you insult me about my free opinion about a matter...drop yours and leave...forget about me.....

u deh craze...

khadijah12:
I still sorry for whoever would get married to you? What normal person parties at the age of 30? It's her life! Did you forget that? He met her "a party girl" so why all he fuss after the marriage?
It's sad that you had to drag my parents into this, it just goes to show your level of maturity and if this is your definition of maturity then I feel sorry for you again. You're yhere speaking about me not being trained for quoting you coz of your opinion, but that's not why I quoted you. I quoted to because you were spitting trash. Really. And I felt genuinely sorry for your wife/husband... Dunno what your sexuality is. Anyways I know after reading this you still won't get it but it's allowed. I know people like you

1 2 3 4 Reply

Toke Makinwa Speaks On Her Failed Marriage With Maje In An Interview • 21 Things I Learnt From Toke Makinwa's 'on Becoming' Book • Read Toke Makinwa's 'On Becoming' Book: Why Maje Didn't Get Her Pregnant & More • 2 • 3 • 4

The Chef Chi, Chioma Celebrates Her 24th Birthday • Ebube Nwagbo's Look To The 2016 NEA Awards (photos) • Shina Peters Performs At Omotola's 40th Birthday: Omosexy, Dele Momodu Dance