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I'm going to make this story short and brief simply because its a really long one..Okay here we go..

Laura is my wife to be and we have been dating for over 3years now,I met her at a chess tutorial class at Ikeja Lagos State..

We planned to get married already,though I'm not ready because I'm not even happy with this economy situation of my beloved country at all because I pay my ACCA exam fees in pounds and i pay the fees myself.

I'm just an orphan hustling for a life,the economy isn't smiling at all,I can't afford to pay for an exam at 455N per pound and get married and still cater for her wellbeing when shes pregnant and all those things,but she's just so ready to get married and move in with me and I really can't cope I swear,though we are both fresh graduates but my work place isn't a good one for me and I'm on the verge of getting a new job.

My current job is a place where the CEO travelled to Germany last week and asked the HR to close down the office on Friday at 12pm and we all went home,and on Sunday he asked us to resume again,I wonder how people even do things in this world,like they have no feelings at all or something...Almost everyone is even planning to leave the place because they just sack and have a re-think,Its a place where they treat graduates as slaves or people that doesn't have a direction for their lives.

Laura met someone on the palmchat dating app that he claims to be a relationship adviser to people and can you imagine he told her to leave me just because I'm not ready to marry her and shes already trying to do so but I have been holding her back since the day she took that step because I can't afford to lose her,she's like a mother to me already.

Few weeks later I requested for my laptop that she borrowed from me,and I saw screenshots of her chat with the guy whos advicing my own girl to leave me and he was already asking her out and the way I'm seeing things she will SUCCUMB because he's already giving her money,giving her things she want,love care and everything..

I got to know about all these because she was sending the screenshot to her bestie on WhatsApp with the WhatsApp web she logged into on the system,she was asking her bestie for advice and showing her the pictures of their chat..

Please oh my fellow Nairalanders,Let me use this medium to ask for advice too from you guys..

HOW CAN I GET MY BAE BACK??
Everyone is concerned.. Please help me

Pele. Love is wicked, take heart. But being in a 'pity relationship' never works.

The woman couldn't keep the wedding vowels anyway.....(in sickness and in health)

Dump her and find a woman that's not in love with your money (or lack of it)

How is Buhari connected to this. Young man please wake up from your slumber and get real.

Op u better receive sense because you just confirmed ur mumuness.

Firstly, what has buhari got to do with the fact that u r a brokeass niccuh? The persn tryna snatch ur gal, is he nt nigerian under buhari.

Secondly what is this shi doing in politics sectiom?

Thirdly, GERRARAHERE MEHN

Op, if you so love her and don't want to lose her, then a simple court wedding should suffice pending when things changes for the best then you can throw a lavish wedding..but it seems your woman is the type that follows a man depending on the size of his pocket. I might be wrong but it's my just my thought.

These whores ain't loyal!!! Fvck that shit, bachelor 4 ever!!

beg bubu the dullard to make u one of his adviser, I swear the girl go come together with her parents cone beg u.

Why are you calling Alahaji buhari into your private matter? Have you ever paid tax on that babe?

Begging a woman to stay

What re some guyz turning to

For fork sake, why beg a biatch axx to stay with u, do u intend begging her in the future if things ain't sailing fine

OP, better hustle tight nd stop blaming that ewu awusa called buhari..

Nothing makes a woman more confused than being in relationship with a broke man who is extremely good in bed.

As a lady..I would advise you to chill oh


Patience us virtue

Mynd44 what do you think?

What has Buhari got to do with your problems. Did Buhari encourage overpopulation iwhich leads to economic uncertainties in Nigeria. Maybe your girl is pissed off at your lopsided perspective on things as well.On a final note your girl is not worth keeping

d kind thunder were go fire that guy that want to drag your bae away from you stil d do press up! thunder fire brokeness, but how he tk consine d travelling PMB na

Wetin come concern me and buhari

Its better for u to quit d relationship than for her quittin d relationship

With the way Nigeria is now i find it hard to believe a woman is a hustler's problem.

Bro you just have to move on if she decides to end the relationship. There are lotta girls out there that won't think twice to say yes to your request

amunkita:
Begging a woman to stay

What re some guyz turning to

For fork sake, why beg a biatch axx to stay with u, do u intend begging her in the future if things ain't sailing fine

OP, better hustle tight nd stop blaming that ewu awusa called buhari..

The guy is managing, do you think he's got babes lined up? He's a boy to lose his only source of possy.

My guy the guy is going to foock your babe wether she gives you another chance or not. Women like money. Move on

Don't know what to write sef..

A lady threaten fire and brimstone is making my guy shake like jelly fish.

Iranu Abasha

My dear such is life, if she yours, then she is yours, but if she is not yours, she is not yours, so stopping killing your head if she will stay or not and don't ever BEG her to stay rather CONVINCE her. Good luck.

If she wants to leave you for a POT OF PORRIDGE, allow her.

3 years is not 3 days.

don't waste your time looking for sympathy. rest think through, you have the Brian start something. capital is not always the problem, you need a well calculated idea that can attract people to join you. best ideas are ideas that allow people to make it through you.

Babalegba:
What has Buhari got to do with your problems. Did Buhari encourage overpopulation iwhich leads to economic uncertainties in Nigeria. Maybe your girl is pissed off at your lopsided perspective on things as well.On a final note your girl is not worth keeping

you can't comprehend a simple post,why??
ACCA pay in pounds and one exam is around 230pounds that's a professional exam ×455 pounds, how do you expect someone that's hustling for himself cope with a wife??the economy isn't accommodating such na...eh lalasticlala see me see Trouble oh...

jumas:
don't waste your time looking for sympathy. rest think through, you have the Brian start something. capital is not always the problem, you need a well calculated idea that can attract people to join you. best ideas are ideas that allow people to make it through you.

I'm on it,Thank you