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hungryboy:
Oga grossintel bro, abeg if i talk say i feel your pain na lie i dey talk because na only you know wetin you dey feel ,
But no matter what, no commit suicide abeg cos na your family go feel am pass,
But in case you no wan take my advice abeg follow write my name put for your will,
I no dey joke for dis talk were i wan talk so oh, in case you meet doctor were tell you say him fit do prick transplant,
Come to me, i'll be your donor,

But no forget to come with 5million oh

dharay99:

sorry, ionne read long
posts, summary plz

Tshaphilo:
sorry my dear for predicament. bt I know there's nothing God can nt do. watch Emmanuel TV. channel 390.

grossintel:
thanks but is it a supplement? As in do I need to take it indefinitely to keep my testosterone level normal or does it cure what ever isn't producing the required amount my body needs. Thanks again for your opinion.

Khez:
How was the sperm test done? Thought they needed sample for it? How were you able to get it out bro? Without an erection?just curious tho*BTW nothing is big or bad enough to take your life.... trust in the name of the lord
He will do what men said it's impossible

grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

Gerrard59:
Apart from Decker's comment, the rest are off-point. It's like religion has over-clouded our sense of reasoning that we cannot think and proffer a solution or words of encouragement. Everyone is saying God this, God that;was it not God that created him? He is omnipresent, isn't he? He must have known all these before now. People should learn to give rational answers to queries and not spewing religion and church up and down; which upon all the going to churches the country is one of the most corrupt and worst place to give birth on earth(according to the EIU). Someone even said he should go to Dunamis, i ask, is Dunamis a fertility center? Why should a pastor words superceed that of a qualified urologist?

OP, it's very unfortunate about what has happened to you. As earlier stated, you may have to think less about sex for quite a long time. Getting a child shouldn't be a problem; IVF, adoption, surrogacy are available. The onus is on you. Hopefully you find/see the right lady who is WILLING to settle with you, however, it may not be a Nigerian with the comments I'm seeing here.

grossintel:
masturbation in the lab. I manage to get a Lil erection in the process.

creamylicious:
Can you marry me already I am older than you though

missyadorable:
This is what fits some of you guys

If your pen.is and hormones were working properly,by now you would be on nairaland bragging about your sexual exploits with hoes and bitch.es

Or be a baby daddy,impregnate girls and deny

Honestly,i dont pity you.

Godcandoit:
I know exactly how you feel. I have been there. We are going to fix this issue together. Having similar problem exposed me to so much knowledge about male sexual functions.

First, we would ascertain the cause of your hypogonadism, wether Primary or Secondary. Did you have any case of undescended testicle at birth?

Are your pubic hairs in a female pattern (triangle-like) or male pattern (going up all the way to the navel and above it)

I don't have large testicles myself, though my left testicle was undescended at birth, so I had an orchiopexy.

I want to know if you had your T tests at a reliable laboratory? I would recommend using Pathcare laboratory. Run these hormones test?

Serum Testosterone.
T3 (Free Testosterone).
T4 (Total Testosterone).
Prolactin.
LH (Lutenizing Hormone).
FSH (Fossile Stimulating Hormone)

To get the most accurate measurements of these hormones, the tests are best done before 8:30 AM.

I believe you are on your way to a testimony.

I am not a medical doctor, I am just a patient with similar issues.

Sometime last year, I was doing an activity that would seem foolish to any right thinking person. But that activity brought a revelation.

Every day at 10 PM (I set a reminder on my phone), I would close my eyes and imagine an Angel descending unto my bed and giving me a Testosterone injection.

First few days of this exercise seemed funny, but I continue with faith.

After a while, God revealed a solution to me.

I had to be sure of my sexual health before starting with this solution, so I traveled to Edo State to consult a doctor. I went for a semen culture there. The result said I have MRSA (Methicilin Resistant Staph Aureus). The doctor prescribed Ciprofloxacin for 14 days.

Since you don't have any sexual infection, I want you to run the above tests and let's proceed from there.

I know how it feels. But start coming up with names for your first son and daughter.


God is not dead.

PM me your phone number.

I admire your courage to speak out.

Abbeyunique2:
Hmmmm tosyne, sha kontinue to do style-style advertisement

Baba I dey serious ooooo

Ginaz:
So sorry dear,cant imagine how you will be feeling. Please don't get depressed. I which I was there to hold you, must have been shocking for you.

Don't forget I care, o.p please don't be depressed. When there is will, there is life.

"Hugs him"

diamond88:
I want to ask. Is having sex for like 30min before one can ejaculate normal? A girl I dated said I take long to ejaculate as in 30min digging before I release. But the 3rd time we did it again. It took me 3 minutes of digging to ejaculate. My average time is 25min. I want to know if all this are normal. Coz I thought one need 15mins to ejaculate.

missyadorable:
This is what fits some of you guys

If your pen.is and hormones were working properly,by now you would be on nairaland bragging about your sexual exploits with hoes and bitch.es

Or be a baby daddy,impregnate girls and deny

Honestly,i dont pity you.

Tonycart:
Bro out problems comes with different packages. Just few months to my eighteen yrs i hard a terrible accident that left me paralysed from waist down and by nest week it will be my fifteen yrs living as a paraplegia, why dis story is just to tell you to hang on cos greater things will happen. For now i can't stand not to talk of erection

grossintel:
masturbation in the lab. I manage to get a Lil erection in the process.

missyadorable:
NOBODY...am a Mrs and a mother to be soon

missyadorable:
NOBODY...am a Mrs and a mother to be soon

grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

UEDIBO:
i need a baby mama

missyadorable:
This is what fits some of you guys

If your pen.is and hormones were working properly,by now you would be on nairaland bragging about your sexual exploits with hoes and bitch.es

Or be a baby daddy,impregnate girls and deny

Honestly,i dont pity you.

MrCork:
...bro forget all those juju doctor givin u medical addvise there in nigeria & come to london to get propa NHS advise!!(REAL TALK)

BiafranNigerian:
That sounds silly, talking about money, OP is just 24, how much can he possibly have, to entice me, I am not interested in money from someone who is in dire straits ? Fortunately for me, I am comfortable. What he needs to do is ask, in humility, beg for solution instead of suicide. Until he begs for it, he will not get the solution from me. People need to learn humility one way or the other. He can as well commit suicide if that is easier than begging.