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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Apr 10, 2016
put ur face in god
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by smileysmiley(f): 9:37pm On Apr 10, 2016
BiafranNigerian:
That sounds silly, talking about money, OP is just 24, how much can he possibly have, to entice me, I am not interested in money from someone who is in dire straits ? Fortunately for me, I am comfortable. What he needs to do is ask, in humility, beg for solution instead of suicide. Until he begs for it, he will not get the solution from me. People need to learn humility one way or the other. He can as well commit suicide if that is easier than begging.
three words for you... GO TO HELL

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Apr 10, 2016
Fedric:
man how can you be so uncaring? is this the best way to encourage a depressed soul?
The so called depressed soul has not found solution yet, and he has not apologized and beg for the solution. I am ready to drop it all here for everyone who might be interested in solving life's perennial problems including cure for most health issues. But will I ever show it to ungrateful and egotistic pricks ? NEVER! One must be humble enough to beg for it. He is just 24, and egotistic. I learnt humility the hard way, I had to suffer to learn humility. He will have to learn it whether he likes it or not.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Rhea(f): 9:39pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.


When you wake up in the morning, are you hard down there? If you are, then you have psychological impotence. If you are not, then you may have physiological impotence. If you have been diagnosed with oligospermia, you can manage that with testosterone supplements. You sound like a well-educated guy with a good job, so I can assume that you are already dealing with a licensed physician. If you can afford a trip overseas, then do so and schedule an appointment with an endocrinologist. There are dime and dozens of them in the US. They will guide you in managing your predicament. Many have worse issues than you do. So you should not lose any sleep over this. Take care of this and your social relationships will fall in line accordingly. You may also watch out for that girl who is close to you now despite your predicament. Remember her when you sort yourself out.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by wintersnow(m): 9:40pm On Apr 10, 2016
Op all will be well! Just trust in God
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by indoorlove(m): 9:40pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.
if you live in abj pm me, i ll connet you to someone maybe he could help
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Apr 10, 2016
bunmiano10:


you can send me mail outta here bunmiano@gmail.com
thanks pls check your mail sir.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Bussam(f): 9:41pm On Apr 10, 2016
I pray that God will intervein into ur matter and find total solution to it.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Apr 10, 2016
smileysmiley:
three words for you... GO TO HELL
There is no hell or heaven, except the ones we create sub-consciously. I dont remember creating hell, so there is none for me to go to.

Be nice.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by cherriex(f): 9:43pm On Apr 10, 2016
Am so sorry dear,wish am not older than you,would have made u forget ur sorrow bt iam nd can't date a minor,there are so many worthy cause in this life other than sex though I knw how important it is for you as a man but trust me hold unto God and trust in Him,He will turn ur story around,don't give up just yet.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by aolumaxi(m): 9:45pm On Apr 10, 2016
tosyne2much:
Eeeeyah I feel for you bro...I just hope you will find a lasting solution to ur problem


Even we wey get functioning joystick gan no even see babe wey we go use am on. May God help you bro


#nobody should quote me#
tosin oooo.... iffa hear say u neva see.... u wey be minister of women affairs for romanceland
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by IYADARA(f): 9:47pm On Apr 10, 2016
BiafranNigerian:
The so called depressed soul has not found solution yet, and he has not apologized and beg for the solution. I am ready to drop it all here for everyone who might be interested in solving life's perennial problems including cure for most health issues. But will I ever show it to ungrateful and egotistic pricks ? NEVER! One must be humble enough to beg for it. He is just 24, and egotistic. I learnt humility the hard way, I had to suffer to learn humility. He will have to learn it whether he likes it or not.



You know what? I hate u so much even without knowing u.......I magine the manner u are using the word beg as isbu be God.......
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by zbone(m): 9:48pm On Apr 10, 2016
BiafranNigerian:
Not sharing information because the requestor isnt humble enough to ask isnt pride, it is a cosmic law to provide solutions only when asked in humility, its called the Law of Non-Interference. Who knows he might be paying back some Karma and his stubborn ego doesnt give way. The lesson here might be humility for him and he has inadvertently refused to learn.

He is 24, may be at 25 he will be humble, may be in the next lifetime. So far, I havent seen him ask humbly for that solution from me, he will walk the surface of the earth searching for solution that is just in front of him, because he was too stubborn to beg for it. And I mean beg for it. He prefers suicide to begging. Who cares ? He will always come back, existence is eternal, so is experience.


Na Devil go punish that mouth wey you dey use spew thrash
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nairadays: 9:50pm On Apr 10, 2016
Please PM me also for us to exchange contact.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 9:51pm On Apr 10, 2016
IYADARA:




You know what? I hate u so much even without knowing u.......I magine the manner u are using the word beg as isbu be God.......


Hatred is love, but in the opposite direction, I love to hate too, but its channeling the cosmic energy wrongly. When you say, "you imagine the manner I am using word as if I be God", does it occur to you that I could be God ? It doesnt move my muscle, I know what I know, and what I know knows me.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by musicwriter(m): 9:53pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

Sorry my brother.

In instances like this, there's nothing meaningful doctors or science can do, unfortunately. But, it's not right to blame God for your condition because you can heal yourself. Yes, God made provision for that!. But, you have to believe it to apply to you. God provided for healing of all sicknesses by yourself. In fact, there's no room for sickness in my life. Since I was born I've never slept on a hospital bed. Have only fall sick sick once- and it was my fault. I do not believe I'll get sick!.

Please go and read these books earnestly and get healed naturally.

1. Psychic Healers - by St. Clair
2. Healers and the Healing Process - by Meeks
3. Healing Yourself - by Rossman
4. The Holographic Universe - by Talbot
5. Hands of Light - by Barbara Brennan
6. An Ascension Handbook - by Tony Stubbs

After reading these books you'll never fell sick again. Please do not allow anybody to put chemicals into your body. There's no place for sickness in your life!.

Don't believe what the doctor said. Refuse to believe you cannot get married, if you want.

A philosopher (Jesus) said ''it will be done to you as you believe''.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Apr 10, 2016
zbone:



Na Devil go punish that mouth wey you dey use spew thrash
Devil ? Sounds like the other side of the same coin. I have solution to his problem right here, but I am not sharing until he begs for it. I need his permission, its a natural law.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by DipoDee: 9:58pm On Apr 10, 2016
BiafranNigerian:


Hatred is love, but in the opposite direction, I love to hate too, but its channeling the cosmic energy wrongly. When you say, "you imagine the manner I am using word as if I be God", does it occur to you that I could be God ? It doesnt move my muscle, I know what I know, and what I know knows me.

See, the DEMON possessing you is also the one causing fuel scarcity in Nigeria...
Die, die, die, die by fire! cheesygrin

Btw, grossintel will find solutions to his issues soon, but who will cure you of this your sickness, those around you must be going through hell...

#spits

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Jaygrl(f): 9:58pm On Apr 10, 2016
missyadorable:



NOBODY...am a Mrs and a mother to be soon
You are a mother to be and you wrote what you wrote above,kai! May God have mercy on you. He was born by a woman like you,it wasn't by choice so be careful of what you say in a faceless forum.Don't allow somebody to use the heaviness in his heart to curse you. You don't know what the child you are carrying in your womb will be......O yes!!! I took the matter personal.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by tosyne2much(m): 9:59pm On Apr 10, 2016
Who talk say Nigerian babes no like sex ? Where are those ladies on nairaland always pretending and claiming they are not after sex ? Smh


Where dem dey nah?
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by fikky2013(f): 9:59pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
pls post here to help others thank you.

The story seems pathetic and I have the urge to help. Its not something I can post here. Just suggest a way to contact me personally and I can assure you that you will come back to the forum very soon to give testimony.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by onnodim(f): 9:59pm On Apr 10, 2016
If u wanna help, help. God is no respecter of persons and he allows the rain fall on saints and sinners. Stop acting this way please. The op needs help. If u can, help. What if u owned the air we all breathed? Haba!
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Coolgent(m): 10:01pm On Apr 10, 2016
Bros dont ever make a mistake of killing yourself because of small thing wey almighty God can easily heal u within a matter of less than a second, i have passed through something when i was about 12years old that only very few people can survive it but i survived it am 30years now with wife a kid.
Dont let dont doctors convince u that your condition cant heal,
Just trust in God and be prayful nothing is impossible.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by weebee(f): 10:01pm On Apr 10, 2016
Get close to a beautiful girl of your choice. Be friends and later tell her what your predicament is. She will fall in love with you and decides to marry you for who you are. Bros trust me few years to the marriage you will get her pregnant. You will have 2 boys and a girl. You are not impotent! How God will do it I don't know but it will happen.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by creamylicious(f): 10:02pm On Apr 10, 2016
woodcook:

I will marry you my dear.
move to the girl na
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Apr 10, 2016
Wow. I can't believe that I went through all the responses from page 0 to here. If I were the OP, I'll be over-overwhelmed already.

From the OP's account, I'm seeing both psychological & physiological challenges. I recommend going to a good Teaching Hospital for comprehensive check-up.
Add some prayer to the mix.

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Apr 10, 2016
creamylicious:
move to the girl na
Did you upload your profile picture for the OP?
Might do wonders for him.

April 10: 10.04 PM
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Apr 10, 2016
DipoDee:


See, the DEMON possessing you is also the one causing fuel scarcity in Nigeria...
Die, die, die, die by fire! cheesygrin

Btw, grossintel will find solutions to his issues soon, but who will cure you of this your sickness, those around you must be going through hell...

#spits
Hahahahahahaaha, fuel scarcity is caused by Buharinomics oh.
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by mrmislim: 10:05pm On Apr 10, 2016
BiafranNigerian:
Ofcourse, it is better to commit suicide than apologize and beg for solution. It will take more than a lifetime for some people to learn humility. It truly underscores the reason most of you suffer perennial hardships on 3D existence.

just shut it man and keep the solution for your child that won't need to beg for it because his father has it in abundance. As if the beg will add to your bank account yinmu

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by kowalsky: 10:05pm On Apr 10, 2016
grossintel:
thanks A've been checked for infections and am free of that. The obvious reason the doctor said was my body wasn't producing the required testosterone I need to erect or produce active sperm cells. This alone is a broad topic because alot of factors can affect testosterone production including genetics( inherited from birth) supplements could help but won't fix the real problem, and might have to be taken indefinitely. Thanks for your suggestion I will ask the doctor tomorrow.

but you developed secondary sexual xteristics as I grew older.. you experienced puberty?
Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Apr 10, 2016
See OP, there is a choice. A serious one.

Before I continue, I hope and pray that you find a medical solution soon.

The choice I mean is this. You can decide to give your life a new meaning.

It's true that people with similar or even lesser problems have contemplated death, but it's also true that some with even greater issues have enjoyed the life they have. I even have with me here a video of a man born deaf. Then at the age of 29 he became blind! You can imagine how low he must feel atimes- to not be able to hear and see his world.

Yet he copes - happily! What helps him? He found hope. Not only that, he found meaning for his life now. You too can. How?
He started studying the Bible (with Jehovah's witnesses www.jw.org ).

He found that God's promises for the NEAR future is very real.. Promises like this one found in bible book of Isaiah:
"Say to those who are anxious at heart: 'Be strong. Do not be afraid. Look! Your own God will... come and save you.' At that time the eyes of the blind will be opened, and the ears of the deaf will be unstopped. At that time the lame will leap like the deer, and the tongue of the speechless will shout for joy... Unending joy will crown their heads. Exultation and rejoicing will be theirs, and grief and sighing will flee away." ~ Isaiah 35: 4-6, 10.

So try to learn God's purpose for the earth and your life today and you will soon see yourself in a world where "no resident will say: 'I am sick.'" ~ Isaiah 33:24

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Re: I Am Only 24 And I Am Diagnosed Of Impotency, Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Apr 10, 2016
mrmislim:


just shut it man and keep the solution for your child that won't need to beg for it because his father has it in abundance. As if the beg will add to your bank account yinmu
Actually, the begging is a principle that he must fulfill, its not for me, I dont want to take over someone's karma by helping him without his plea. Dont think most of you understand that certain people are going through certain karmic experiences and assisting without their permission transfers the problems to you. Sorry.

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