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Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Segadem(m): 4:00pm On Apr 15, 2016
saintkel:
My dear islam is a religion of peace. Wont say much
[size=14pt]haha, hey!
u no dhey shame?
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Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Nobody: 4:01pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
google Stockholm Syndrome. It'll clear your doubts
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by saintkel(m): 4:02pm On Apr 15, 2016
nellyelitz:
I know you meant to say PIECES
u eh
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by blazetitov: 4:03pm On Apr 15, 2016
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by santori: 4:08pm On Apr 15, 2016
tatucci:
At the risk of sounding callous, but that child dying might be the best thing to happen. I can only imagine the trauma she is going through even though she was taken captive and forced to marry. How much more will a direct offspring go through? The pikin for dey under steady abuse.

On the other hand, our Nigerian gov't sabi act like say dem no get sense.. all the Oby wey dey shout bring back our girls, the ones wey dem don bring back how dey treat dem.. wetin d campaign dey do to avoid such trauma by reintegrating dem into society... mtcwwww.....
what stops you from taking that aspect up. oby don do her own part, you are also a creation of the almighty just as Obi is one. what stops you from being your brothers keeper like Obi too. stop being a wailer be a player. just a bus from lagos will take you to maiduguri. okay
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by kraftykc(m): 4:14pm On Apr 15, 2016
“People should understand that these children didn’t create this, but if we continue to stigmatise people with such trauma we might create something much, much bigger than Boko Haram in the future,” her uncle says.
“You are creating a more dangerous thing than Boko Haram if you grow up not welcomed by society and with nobody wanting to help you."


This is the crux of all debates: do not repay hate with hate.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Sylvester70(m): 4:15pm On Apr 15, 2016
wey de snake make i congratulate am.oh hope a nairalander wont kill it ooh
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by nevilbot: 4:15pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
That is what is called Stockholm syndrome. Its a medical condition where the captive becomes emotionally attached to his/her captors over time when there is no alternative to escape.you can do more Google research on it. The problem this now presents is that bcus of the illiteracy and stigma from neighbours and Nigerians at large, we might be creating more dangerous problems than boko haram in the future wen these gals feel totally rejected and strike back at society for rejecting them.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by sinkhole: 4:20pm On Apr 15, 2016
jossi994:
google Stockholm Syndrome. It'll clear your doubts
OK, is that what happened to Ese Oruru too, because before she was wisked away to Kano, she was a strong member of SU in her school to the extent that she and her group formed a splinter SU when they felt the seniors had bastardised the original SU in their school, only for her to chicken out of christianity within 8months?
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by akigbemaru: 4:21pm On Apr 15, 2016
Boko snake killed son.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by guysmat(m): 4:27pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
It's called "Stockholm Syndrome". undecided undecided

It is a psychological phenomenon in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors, sometimes to the point of defending and identifying with the captors. undecided undecided cry cry
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by tatucci: 4:28pm On Apr 15, 2016
santori:
what stops you from taking that aspect up. oby don do her own part, you are also a creation of the almighty just as Obi is one. what stops you from being your brothers keeper like Obi too. stop being a wailer be a player. just a bus from lagos will take you to maiduguri. okay
u know, i never reasoned it that way. u have raised some valid points. maybe i was waiting to hammer first.#FoodForThought
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Nobody: 4:29pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
OK, is that what happened to Ese Oruru too, because before she was wisked away to Kano, she was a strong member of SU in her school to the extent that she and her group formed a splinter SU when they felt the seniors had bastardised the original SU in their school, only for her to chicken out of christianity within 8months?
i have no idea,i'm jes tryna give you another perspective to this girl's story
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by OPCYOUTH: 4:30pm On Apr 15, 2016
tatucci:
it might have to do with the whole brainwashing thing. the mind is a powerful tool...
Are u mr Umunna from PH?
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by dfrost: 4:37pm On Apr 15, 2016
Quakertellicus1:
Well....a side effect of rape is that sometimes the victim may feel affection for her victimizer.

Strange....but possibly a coping mechanism.

Part of something called Stockholm's syndrome.
On point. I made sure I didn't have to repeat what someone else had already commented. It's a weird concept though.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Nobody: 4:38pm On Apr 15, 2016
End time snake
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by correctyourself(m): 4:47pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
I'm surprise at some of the questions you have asked here! Could it be you are not from Nigeria or don't have village in Nigeria?

Let me enlighten you! Boko sees us the christians as sinners, hence, they feel converting christian man/woman is to take him/her away from sin, they go further while converting someone use some fetish/brainwash and diabolic means to make the person believe what they believe/idea. This is what they do, including some persons who are not boko but are involved in convertion of people's religious faith.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by carboblanko(m): 4:53pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
This kind of situation is referred to in psychology as the Stockholm Syndrome and occurs when a hostage begins to sympathize with the hostage taker. Check Google for more info.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Pangea: 4:53pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
Stockholm syndrome
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Nobody: 5:07pm On Apr 15, 2016
Imagine a Muslim terrorist forcing a teen to be his wife and still coerced her to change her religion. Where is the peace in Islam?? Because I still believe Islam is a disease.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by faruz: 5:17pm On Apr 15, 2016
grin
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Nobody: 5:18pm On Apr 15, 2016
she just misses his diick
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Iykon1313(m): 5:30pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
The BH guy dun use Margani qurantashi bleep her finish, she come fall in love. Nonsense
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by sinkhole: 6:01pm On Apr 15, 2016
correctyourself:
I'm surprise at some of the questions you have asked here! Could it be you are not from Nigeria or don't have village in Nigeria?

Let me enlighten you! Boko sees us the christians as sinners, hence, they feel converting christian man/woman is to take him/her away from sin, they go further while converting someone use some fetish/brainwash and diabolic means to make the person believe what they believe/idea. This is what they do, including some persons who are not boko but are involved in convertion of people's religious faith.
Hmmm, I just do not know what you meant by "fetish", "diabolical", but I know drugs could be used and I also know that the hatred meted out to these BH returness will seriously affect their psychology and may make them wish they are back in BH den where at least somebody will love them "for their pussy".
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by deelobe: 6:53pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
It is called Stockholm syndrome; a psychological condition that makes you love and the sametime like your captor. These girls were unexposed to you and were captured at an impressionable age.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Arabs999: 7:00pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
..OP, since she returned from Sambisa forest, no more konji from anybody. Besides, all these Boko Haram people are professional Konji masters. All they do everyday, beside abductions, is Konji; Konji; Konji, and Konji till they Konji sense out oy the girl's brain..
...But with time, her mentality will be healed as well as the Konji junction that has been bastardised, vandalised, cannibalised, and of course rapturised...
....
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Mbediogu(m): 7:06pm On Apr 15, 2016
dicefrost:
Stockholm syndrome, or capture-bonding, is a psychological phenomenon described in 1973 in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors, sometimes to the point of defending and identifying with the captors.

This isn't strange, and i think it should be expected in this case where the victims are minors who can easily be brainwashed. You see the boko haram commander for who he is, a terrorist. But she sees him as a loving husband. She is only 17! Besides an average 17yr old girl child in that part of the country may not have the same exposure and intellect as her counterpart down south. When you consider these factors, you may understand her situation better.
My suggestion is to reintegrate them as soon as they return. Occupy them by putting them to school or trade apprenticeship preferably in a new community. Those who want to remarry can be encouraged to do so. Those returning with babies should be relieved of that burden and reminder by orphanages. All these measures are to be backed up with frequent and professional counselling.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by FlySly05: 7:29pm On Apr 15, 2016
sinkhole:
I am still very confused about this BH thing, it seems we are not being told the whole story! I just cant understand how a christian girl, forcefully adopted, forced to change religion, forced to get married and start being a mother, could say with her own mouth that she is in love with those who molested her! Well, I can understand she is a child, and I can understand the level of hatred coming from her own people, but still I do not think that she should be in love with her molester.
Its called "Stockholm syndrome"
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by kuljayms1(m): 9:06pm On Apr 15, 2016
saintkel:
My dear islam is a religion of peace. Wont say much
Abegi.... We no b small pikin, we knw d real deal. Wont say much
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Nobody: 9:13pm On Apr 15, 2016
[size=14pt]People should understand that these children didn’t create this, but if we continue to stigmatise people with such trauma we might create something much, much bigger than Boko Haram in the future,”

“You are creating a more dangerous thing than Boko Haram if you grow up not welcomed by society and with nobody wanting to help you.
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Nigeria....take warning.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by ProfGday(m): 9:47pm On Apr 15, 2016
From what I see today in Nigeria I am very certain that Muslims would not need to use a violent jihad to islamize Nigeria. CHRISTIANS themselves will be used by Muslims to islamize Nigeria. Afterwards the Muslims will turn against the Christians that helped them. These are the type Muslims call the useful idiots.
Just ask yourself how Muslim nations became Islamic nations? Is there any record of them doing evangelical work? Did they tell people about how wonderful their prophet Mohammed is? How he raped women? How he beheaded nine hundred Jews in one day? How he had sex with a nine year old girl? How he was demon possessed for one year? How he could not perform a miracle? How he is a prophet without a prophecy? How he sold slaves for weapons of war?
If MUSLIMS did not do evangelism how come there are 58 nations of the world Who say they are ISLAMIC countries? Including countries that used to be Christian countries.
They used greedy pastors and stupid Christians. The ones they call the USEFUL IDIOTS. The Bible says, when men slept.....
These same CHRISTIANS were the ones that told us the elections had nothing to do with religion.
***News flash! Buhari just registered Nigeria in the Islamic coalition against terrorism led by Saudi Arabia. The very same Saudi Arabia that is the chief sponsor of Islamic terrorism.
***Newsflash! The first major conference buhari would bring to Nigeria is the INTERNATIONAL ISLAMIC CONFERENCE . A conference that pastor vice president cannot attend. While 'clueless' GEJ was convening INTERNATIONAL ECONOMIC CONFERENCE at a time of plenty Buhari is convening ISLAMIC CONFERENCE at a time of economic crisis. Now you see where his priority lies.
***Newsflash! Muslims are now using El Rufai Kaduna as a test case to see how they can stop CHRISTIANS from preaching the gospel not even for you to listen to a gospel message in your car. Who knows they may even ban gospel music.
***Newsflash! Other northern states are copying Mr El Rufai's law.
***Newsflash! Fulani herdsmen are sacking Christian villages in the north.
***Newsflash! Ambode sealed over twenty churches in Lagos for noise pollution. Not one Allah Akbar morning yelling mosque was sealed. Ambode is supposed to be a Christian remember? What do Muslims call them again?? Something like useful....
***Newsflash! The chapel at Aso Rock has been shut down and guess who had to explain to CHRISTIANS? Yeah our very own Pastor vice president. Again another I have fact the major very useful..... Who they used to get the Christian votes.
***Newsflash! The only minister to have died under Buhari happens to be a Christian Apologist. I mean a strong defender of the gospel of Jesus. Somehow all the safety features in the car suddenly stopped working. Not one airbag deployed. Remember this is a federal minister riding in a very expensive car fitted with the best safety features. Did I also mention that the driver did not die? He was strong enough to pull out the body of the minister. Issokay.
I hear many Christians say it is impossible to islamize Nigeria. Question is, If they try it today will you pick up arms? What are you doing to make sure it does not happen?
Make No Mistake (copied). We can pray. So let us pray.
Re: Snake Kills Baby Of A Boko Haram Commander by Solozzo(m): 10:10pm On Apr 15, 2016
dicefrost:
Stockholm syndrome, or capture-bonding, is a psychological phenomenon described in 1973 in which hostages express empathy and sympathy and have positive feelings toward their captors, sometimes to the point of defending and identifying with the captors.

This isn't strange, and i think it should be expected in this case where the victims are minors who can easily be brainwashed. You see the boko haram commander for who he is, a terrorist. But she sees him as a loving husband. She is only 17! Besides an average 17yr old girl child in that part of the country may not have the same exposure and intellect as her counterpart down south. When you consider these factors, you may understand her situation better.
In addition, she became married to the BH commander who treated her nicer than her own family. Being a wife of a commander may have given her prestige and protection in the BH camp. This is strictly not the case of Stockholm syndrome. But a wife who genuinely misses her husband due to the stigma by neighbors and her family. Sad!
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