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Mrs Betty Irabor commended single mother's recently on their zeal and hardwork in raising children single-handedly! Citing her own mother as an example. Read the speech below:

I would really love to raise a toast to all single mums out there. I was raised by a single mum and believe me, I know what it is for a woman to be both mum and dad to a child.... Mum raised 4 of us by being resourceful; in the day time,she worked at Nigeria Tobacco company and nighttime at NITEL(don't know what it was called then) and in between she was a seamstress. And when a prospective affluent husband/step dad came along she refused his marriage proposal and a chance to have a life because the package he offered her didn't include us; her children! He wanted her exclusive of us...perhaps he wanted her to drop us off at an orphanage or something like that. Of course it was no deal for mum!!! Who would accept such an offer any way?
It's not a walk in the park for single mothers and I think every man who deliberately makes a single mother of a woman because he cannot stand up to his responsibilities deserves a special day of reckoning before God.
Here's toasting to every woman doubling up as mom and dad to their kids because of a man who isn't man enough to to be a real dad.
Thumbs up to all single mothers out there! You rock!

Baby mamas excluded

Yea she's right! it's not easy to raise a child up single-handedly especially the males. Kudos!

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amokeme:
Baby mamas excluded

I would have ignored this but since I opened the thread,I gotta close it mehn! Firstly,wetin concern you with babymamas? Abi dey ask you for money? Isn't it better to be a babymama than an abortionist pretending as if you have never gotten pregnant before?Abeg next time think before you speak! You are not God so don't judge babymamas!

Kath5kouture:
I would have ignored this but since I opened the thread,I gotta close it mehn! Firstly,wetin concern you with babymamas? Abi dey ask you for money? Isn't it better to be a babymama than an abortionist pretending as if you have never gotten pregnant before?Abeg next time think before you speak! You are not God so don't judge babymamas!

I just feel it's an insult to classify someone who became a single mother by circumstances beyond their control (death of the husband, abandoned by the husband, driven away on account of witch craft by the husband's family) and through it all raised her child(ren) from hard work, struggling and still came out strong. To someone who sees getting pregnant and having a rich(maybe comfortable) man's baby as an occupation! Nah. I'm sorry, I can't accord the same respect to such people because to them, the child is just a meal ticket. But then, I won't blame you if you advocate babymamanism, it's your opinion and it is obviously working for you and as for the bold, i think you need the advise more

amokeme:
I just feel it's an insult to classify someone who became a single mother by circumstances beyond their control (death of the husband, abandoned by the husband, driven away on account of witch craft by the husband's family) and through it all raised her child(ren) from hard work, struggling and still came out strong. To someone who sees getting pregnant and having a rich(maybe comfortable) man's baby as an occupation! Nah. I'm sorry, I can't accord the same respect to such people because to them, the child is just a meal ticket. But then, I won't blame you if you advocate babymamanism, it's your opinion and it is obviously working for you and as for the bold, i think you need the advise more

Lol I am very sure you have aborted more babies than you can count or probably ruined your womb. So why hating on others who would rather bear the shame of babymamaism than kill an innocent soul? Btw who said its only rich people that have babymamas? It can happen to anyone,most ladies just cant bear the shame hence they opt for abortion. You must be very stupid for quoting me! Who send you come my thread? Must you comment? Attention-seeking troll! Claiming fake miss independent! Na ur type dey find maga to catch! Piss off! Even heaven rejects haters like you! Rubbish Quote me again and bear the consequences!

Kath5kouture:
Lol I am very sure you have aborted more babies than you can count or probably ruined your womb. So why hating on others who would rather bear the shame of babymamaism than kill an innocent soul? Btw who said its only rich people that have babymamas? It can happen to anyone,most ladies just cant bear the shame hence they opt for abortion. You must be very stupid for quoting me! Who send you come my thread? Must you comment? Attention-seeking troll! Claiming fake miss independent! Na ur type dey find maga to catch! Piss off! Even heaven rejects haters like you! Rubbish Quote me again and bear the consequences!

from the bold it's obvious you are missing my point. Anyways, wouldn't blame you for that.

And please, Wear some CLASS

amokeme:
from the bold it's obvious you are missing my point. Anyways, wouldn't blame you for that.

And please, Wear some CLASS

CLASSLESS like you abi? Mtchew!