He wanted to marry me and he attends another church.He has all the qualities I need in a man.My parents accepted but the proble now is that my church will excommunicate my family if I marry him because he doesn't attend the same church with me.

SHOUILD I GO AHEAD AND MARRY HIM OR SHOULD I FORGET HIM BECAUSE OF MY CHURCH AND THEIR TRAIT TOWARDS MY FAMILY?

Break up with him only when you are sure your pastor will marry you. Or better still wait until your pastor pays your bride price, that way you will know he is serious.

Oh, the church determines your happiness now? Let me guess....are you Catholic?

If they excommunicate your parents from church
Did they excommunicate them from God??
I won't Judge!!!! Just go and marry the man God has given to you

lines of denomination are not recognised by God. to God the church is one body under Christ. Abeg wetin be the name of your family church? be like say dem believe say na them righteous pass.

Will your church live with you in your husband's house? Is it a sin to marry someone from another church? And u two are from d same faith o. If he should now come from another religion nko? I wonder what they will do then. Y not do what's best for you and will bring you happiness instead of allowing religious fanatics to ruin your life. A word is enough for a wise.

Tell your pastor to go to hell!

layla129:
Oh, the church determines your happiness now? Let me guess....are you Catholic?

Catholics do not practice such....

people are now becoming BRAINWASHED SHEEP that cant even use their brains any longer... what a damn shame!

He is a Christian and cos he attends a different church is now an issue?

MARRY HIM< MARRY HIM....
Pls marry him
another marry him

That kind of church is where people should not attend

Skyken99:
He wanted to marry me and he attends another church.He has all the qualities I need in a man.My parents accepted but the proble now is that my church will excommunicate my family if I marry him because he doesn't attend the same church with me.

SHOUILD I GO AHEAD AND MARRY HIM OR SHOULD I FORGET HIM BECAUSE OF MY CHURCH AND THEIR TRAIT TOWARDS MY FAMILY?

people go to war for love
gladly run away from home for love
go to prison for love
get beaten by bad belle guys for love
get killed for love
some even travel for many days and weeks for love

but u r here talking about fear and how you are considering FORGETTING HIM because one fake CHURCH will banish your family. banish dem from the body of christ or what ?

sorry dear, you don't love him. there is no where u mentioned such in this your story.
You only want him because HE HAS ALL THE QUALITIES YOU NEED in a man.

please leave him and save him from the stress of having a church puppet as a wife.

layla129:
Oh, the church determines your happiness now? Let me guess....are you Catholic?

please don't guess. bet your money on it, u can't lose.

I wonder what church under God would say such rubbish just because the other person is not a member of their selfish and destiny controlling church.

frozenSun:



people go to war for love
gladly run away from home for love
go to prison for love
get beaten by bad belle guys for love
get killed for love
some even travel for many days and weeks for love

but u r here talking about fear and how you are considering FORGETTING HIM because one fake CHURCH will banish your family. banish dem from the body of christ or what ?

sorry dear, you don't love him. there is no where u mentioned such in this your story.
You only want him because HE HAS ALL THE QUALITIES YOU NEED in a man.

please leave him and save him from the stress of having a church puppet as a wife.

check the subject "I DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM"
am saying that I love him,thats why i don't want to lose him.

Skyken99:


check the subject "I DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM"
am saying that I love him,thats why i don't want to lose him.

your subject ? where is the love in your subject.?

there is nothing in your whole story that says u love him.

you DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM because HE HAS ALL YOU WANT IN A MAN. Just the same way another girl don't want to lose her man cos he gives her all she asks for. it doesn't mean that love is involved.

you wouldn't be here asking strangers who you don't know from anywhere if you should FORGET someone u love over such a stup!d mundane and selfish church member issue. you would FORGET HIM if your reverend father says they will banish your family from their kingdom of God church. your love is powerful.

U love him ? who is fooling who ?

Please forget him. or do you want your holy church to banish you and your family ? Please forget him

donbenedict:
Tell your pastor to go to hell!

That was totally out of line.

Church shouldn't put anyone in bondage, please marry the man and family should find another church to join. The bible says where the Spirit of God is there's liberty, some church are mere social gathering without the spirit of God.

layla129:
Oh, the church determines your happiness now? Let me guess....are you Catholic?

. Have you ever heard that the Catholic Church excommunicated someone for marrying outside the Catholic Church? You people should stop your hatred for the Catholic Church, it doesn't help you in anyway.

Skyken99:
He wanted to marry me and he attends another church.He has all the qualities I need in a man.My parents accepted but the proble now is that my church will excommunicate my family if I marry him because he doesn't attend the same church with me.

SHOUILD I GO AHEAD AND MARRY HIM OR SHOULD I FORGET HIM BECAUSE OF MY CHURCH AND THEIR TRAIT TOWARDS MY FAMILY?

Marry the church and free the poor guy.

Or o. P I guess u are a jehovahs witness from my knowledge I think dey are d ones dat mostly carry out such.... If dats d case I think u should follow ur heart and mind u sharing d same faith too is Important.. So put all Into consideration.

Op ,ur guy na deeperLife or jehovah witness?

ivyT:
Op ,ur guy na deeperLife or jehovah witness?

My cousin is the daughter of a deeper life pastor,
got pregnant before marriage to a non-member so she did the court thingy
Then they suspended the Dad from being a pastor But the parents are still attending the church

layla129:
Oh, the church determines your happiness now? Let me guess....are you Catholic?

U suppose know say na deeperlife things. Catholics no get wahala. Na deeper people dey practice wahala with their christianity.

donbenedict:
Tell your pastor to go to hell!

Hell is even an understatement. Hell of hell is where he shd go. Na rubbish

Religion blindfolds nigerians too much.