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Well Nairalanders..I was just thinking..why do marriages fail?
Is it mainly bkos of the foundation or what?
Nowadays divorce cases are regularly being filed in courts then you wonder why? Yet when these couples were in their early years of marriage..they did things together but suddenly things broke appart..is that suppose to be so? That means they never loved themselves..obviously both were attracted to one another maybe facially or bkos of voice or physique etc.
Then isnt it stupidity when you commit to a partner you know you"ll cheat on?
I'm a christian and The Bible repeatedly emphasized on husbands loving wives and vice versa.. Surprisingly..marriages conducted in churches break up after 2 or 3 years..abi is divorce an endtime occurrence?
So Nairalanders..what's the cause?
Pls advise the singles like me?!

Cc:lalasticlala

One thing for sure is that. Any carreer hubbies who love their job and any socialite who love their lifestyle more than anyother their marriage are bound for the crash

When you have a full working class man or woman who all what he thinks is making money and being sucessfull therby neglecting the little affairs of the home ,at a point excuses will creeping to pave way for infedelity and co
Things must be balanced

Many marriages that broke down is being pushed to infidelity either from the man or from the woman ,but I classified it as too much of being busy deceiving yourself that its all about making money for the sucess of the family therby staying away from the home for a long period of time or days making your hubby to feel cheated

My advice is that to upcoming and already married couple
For the men
Don't stay too long away from you home, time management, don't do too much socialilizing like after work you must be with friends to take one or to shots ,don't be tempted just drive home
When you are married you are married ,don't keep bad friends who love to rock life
Let your abscent from home be regularized with time frame

For the women
No matter how busy you are always cook his meals or be the instructor of the cooking if you are tired, always do the domestic affairs, or you be the instructor but don't lazy around ,men hate lazy ladies at home
Always look neat and smart not too much and not too low ,you have to balance it
Time management is the key
Talk him to church activities or what ever you guys worship talk him into it

To be continue

Marriages fail because one or both parties want it to fail.

akudinaobi:
One thing for sure is that. Any carreer hubbies who love their job and any socialite who love their lifestyle more than anyother their marriage are bound for the crash

When you have a full working class man or woman who all what he thinks is making money and being sucessfull therby neglecting the little affairs of the home ,at a point excuses will creeping to pave way for infedelity and co
Things must be balanced

Many marriages that broke down is being pushed to infidelity either from the man or from the woman ,but I classified it as too much of being busy deceiving yourself that its all about making money for the sucess of the family therby staying away from the home for a long period of time or days making your hubby to feel cheated

My advice is that to upcoming and already married couple
For the men
Don't stay too long away from you home, time management, don't do too much socialilizing like after work you must be with friends to take one or to shots ,don't be tempted just drive home
When you are married you are married ,don't keep bad friends who love to rock life
Let your abscent from home be regularized with time frame

For the women
No matter how busy you are always cook his meals or be the instructor of the cooking if you are tired, always do the domestic affairs, or you be the instructor but don't lazy around ,men hate lazy ladies at home
Always look neat and smart not too much and not too low ,you have to balance it
Time management is the key
Talk him to church activities or what ever you guys worship talk him into it

To be continue

Cool.