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vickylala239:
I wnt to ask...does it mean that someone can't leave marriage again?

also I wnt to ask,who shuld feel d pain mre...the man that paid for ha head,feed ha etc n later left or a woman who depend solely of a man n feel pain Cuz she was lazy to wrk....

Cuz I bliv if Dat woman was busy,she will Nt Evn knw wen d man left him....

Who is wasting money man or woman.....

What is the essence of staying in marriage wen you Dnt Lov d man or woman anymre....

What if during the struggle or fight with the man u lose ur eyez, and ofcuz u knw Nigeria.. he will b release after some money to police.....

Okk let's assume u hurt d man...will Dat change Wat has happen?

are u suppose to fight him or get to hear from him...weda he is interested or not....

Who told you Dat 70% of men Dnt cheat.....alwys b Happy if ur lucky to catch ur man..n den see Hw u cn put tins right....

Wen a man does Nt wnt u any mre,b Happy u knw n Leav...rather than being Happy only for u to discover he Neva Lov u....

I seriously don't know what you are talking about.

Pay for head, pay for food bawo?

This man abandoned her without telling her he is no longer interested, that is the main issue here, not whether he is interested or not and no, I will not be happy if I catch my man cheating, what da feck are you even talking about? He better makes sure I don't know he's cheating(I'm waiting to see how he can be cheating without me finding out), believe me things will be better that way.

Hurting him will not change What has happened but it will leave my feelings validated.

And trust me, I will not loose any organ in this type of fight, you think say na to go there go drag him shirt? I can't even end up up with a useless man like this to start with.

During the days of our fathers, a man can marry as many wives as he can inasmuch as he can take good care of them. Dont know why thing got change. this new change brought high level infidelity in marriage today

Edybleketara:
Some women just like disgracing demselves. Why fight because of a man dats bleeping another woman??

This is her husband o, not bf. You expect her to just leave him after 1 son? Who will pay his school fees and other upkeeping bills?

baby124:
Why is she fighting? What difference is that going to make? Instead of her to go away dancing and singing. At least you know he is not dead and no one can accuse you of killing him. You also know you are free of such a useless idiot. He will keep running from woman to woman till he dies. See how some people refuse their blessing. God has removed this one from your life but you are there fighting. For what

When a road is blocked or closed, and you are told No. It is because that is not the place for you in life. Move on and stop fighting for things that are not yours. Otherwise you will see things you were not supposed to see. Nothing in this life is by force. All humans have free will to do what they want.

Have u ever thought that she could be fighting for the well being of her son? She came all the way from the village with her sister. That's to show how bad it has been for her and their son.

ireneony:
I see two ladies fighting the man

Naija men I hail thee

The other lady is her sister. They went there together.

EfemenaXY:
Na wa o! Some women have absolutely no self respect.

No man, I repeat, no man is worth chasing, much less fighting over.

Mtcheeew.

Aunty, dat one hard oo. A man lies to me gets me pregnant and abandons me for another woman.

He is begging my ghetto persona to come out to play. I must draw blood. Not kidding

freecocoa:
I seriously don't know what you are talking about.

Pay for head, pay for food bawo?

This man abandoned her without telling her he is no longer interested, that is the main issue here, not whether he is interested or not and no, I will not be happy if I catch my man cheating, what da feck are you even talking about? He better makes sure I don't know he's cheating(I'm waiting to see how he can be cheating without me finding out), believe me things will be better that way.

Hurting him will not change What has happened but it will leave my feelings validated.

And trust me, I will not loose any organ in this type of fight, you think say na to go there go drag him shirt? I can't even end up up with a useless man like this to start with.

No man is useless!!!! they are only useless wen caught by their wife..

No man is useless when he give cars,money etc to gf..... useless immediately when caught with another wife...

The truth is bitter....sometimes ladies are scared to dig deep of their husband secret mission.....Cuz they may discover a woman....

You talk of dragging shirt Hmmmm....till Date I Dnt knw d strength we ladies Hv compared to men...a woman can barely carry a lady of ha size from ground Bt a man can carry a woman mre of his size.. .

It is true Dat we ladies Hv mouth alot, Bt end up with tears, after being beaten by men....truth we are not Dat physically strong...

The only thing I can tell u is this.....in such situation u only need prayers not fighting.....Cuz I do Nt see Hw u cn survive d strength of a man....


She shuld Hv try talking to the man and see Hw it goes......u cn Neva force anyone to marry you...

Obviously marriage is Nt by force....

That why we women need to wrk..incase of this kind of situation..... we ladies Leav everything to men.....and wen the run Lik this,u cnt Evn feed urself....

I wish the woman never did this.

vickylala239:
I wnt to ask...does it mean that someone can't leave marriage again?

also I wnt to ask,who shuld feel d pain mre...the man that paid for ha head,feed ha etc n later left or a woman who depend solely of a man n feel pain Cuz she was lazy to wrk....

Cuz I bliv if Dat woman was busy,she will Nt Evn knw wen d man left him....

Who is wasting money man or woman.....

What is the essence of staying in marriage wen you Dnt Lov d man or woman anymre....

What if during the struggle or fight with the man u lose ur eyez, and ofcuz u knw Nigeria.. he will b release after some money to police.....

Okk let's assume u hurt d man...will Dat change Wat has happen?

are u suppose to fight him or get to hear from him...weda he is interested or not....

Who told you Dat 70% of men Dnt cheat.....alwys b Happy if ur lucky to catch ur man..n den see Hw u cn put tins right....

Wen a man does Nt wnt u any mre,b Happy u knw n Leav...rather than being Happy only for u to discover he Neva Lov u....

I don't agree on bit with this your comment. Have you forgotten they have a 7yr old son? Did u stop to wonder if it's because the guy doesn't want to take responsibilities anymore? Guess you didn't think so.

vickylala239:
No man is useless!!!! they are only useless wen caught by their wife..

No man is useless when he give cars,money etc to gf..... useless immediately when caught with another wife...

The truth is bitter....sometimes ladies are scared to dig deep of their husband secret mission.....Cuz they may discover a woman....

You talk of dragging shirt Hmmmm....till Date I Dnt knw d strength we ladies Hv compared to men...a woman can barely carry a lady of ha size from ground Bt a man can carry a woman mre of his size.. .

It is true Dat we ladies Hv mouth alot, Bt end up with tears, after being beaten by men....truth we are not Dat physically strong...

The only thing I can tell u is this.....in such situation u only need prayers not fighting.....Cuz I do Nt see Hw u cn survive d strength of a man....


She shuld Hv try talking to the man and see Hw it goes......u cn Neva force anyone to marry you...

Obviously marriage is Nt by force....

That why we women need to wrk..incase of this kind of situation..... we ladies Leav everything to men.....and wen the run Lik this,u cnt Evn feed urself....

What are you even going on about? Are we even talking about the same things here?

My dear you are talking to the wrong person.

systemz:
Instead of to go help u were busy videoing.
Where's humanity!!!

Lol funny. You didn't hear of the man who lost his life trying to seperate a fight between husband and wife. Alakoba.

FlirtyKaren:
According to the Vizavi media who posted the story on YouTube, this happened in his compound in Lagos yesterday.

His neighbour married one of the women (the one in striped white top above) but abandoned her and their 7-year old son in Owerri to come hustle in Lagos. He cut off communication and all form of support from the beautiful wife who is just about 28 years old and simply married another woman and has been flexing.

The first wife traced and stormed his house yesterday afternoon only to discover that her husband has another wife and the beast of a man would rather humiliate the innocent woman out of his house.

Watch the video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1V2kycmGP1I&feature=youtu.be

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/05/woman-fights-with-husband-after-she.html

Sorry, who is the REAL wife here? Is it the one with white dress that suffered the beating? If so it is most painful

Destined2win:
Some men Sha. Disgracing themselves since 1555bc.

The lady sef still like am. She for use that stick knack am for head small

Am sure dat is d sister to d lady

stevedre:
Are you a legend of the seeker fan? MotherConfesor rings a loud bell

Oh! i might just bed real confessor... u never can tell

huntax:
I don't agree on bit with this your comment. Have you forgotten they have a 7yr old son? Did u stop to wonder if it's because the guy doesn't want to take responsibilities anymore? Guess you didn't think so.

Okk....responsibility::: Culd she Hv been bothered, if she was working?

7yrs or 20yrs,u cnt force anyone to stay in you knw.....Infact seeing him culd Hv help her clear the air....not fighting......

Men are very different set of Ppl,if u Lik Hv a new born baby today...Jst tiwa's case...

To me wen u see your husband,Dat is wen he is ur husband... he goes out to work or buy something ,then at that moment u Dnt Hv a husband,wen he is bck from wrk you have a husband....

EfemenaXY:
Na wa o! Some women have absolutely no self respect.

No man, I repeat, no man is worth chasing, much less fighting over.

Mtcheeew.

Nice points!

But to an extent u got it all wrong!
The Man in question who abandoned her n their 2 kids in d village with no communication talk more of remuneration/stipend to take care of their kids, is her hubby!

Some men r not worth living in dis world.

[quote author=baby124 post=45242799]Why is she fighting? What difference is that going to make? Instead of her to go away dancing and singing. At least you know he is not dead and no one can accuse you of killing him. You also know you are free of such a useless idiot. He will keep running from woman to woman till he dies. See how some people refuse their blessing. God has removed this one from your life but you are there fighting. For what

When a road is blocked or closed, and you are told No. It is because that is not the place for you in life. Move on and stop fighting for things that are not yours. Otherwise you will see things you were not supposed to see. Nothing in this life is by force. All humans have free will to do what they want.Woman just move on pls I know its painful don't worry anoda better loving n richer man will come to wipe ur tears n u will see a new world I bet u

Edybleketara:
Some women just like disgracing demselves. Why fight because of a man dats bleeping another woman??

Who will take care of her ?

elderken:
The Man is simply a Buffon

you mean Gianluigi Buffon?

Edybleketara:
Some women just like disgracing demselves. Why fight because of a man dats bleeping another woman??

God forbid it, bt dats d last thing I would ever do, she's been surviving without him for a while now, so y fighting him knowing quite well dat pretty soon he would com begging and blaming the devil. Then she would show him her skills.

Women are gradually killing this world, the man wey dey fight, no be because of black borehole make am dey show muscle? Everything don pafuka!

EfemenaXY:
Na wa o! Some women have absolutely no self respect.

No man, I repeat, no man is worth chasing, much less fighting over.

Mtcheeew.

So women are worth chasing abi ?


If i wooze you ehn ?

My Question is- Why would many men be infidels?


U married a lovely woman and u were given a wonderful gift of a child who is 7yrs and u still hv the mind to leave ur wife and child to marry another woman?

He has no excuses to give on why he left that lady.


Marriages collapsing nowadays, when ppl fails to uphold The Holy Book Standards in their marital life, what do we expect.


I feel for that lady though I don't support her actions which is not justifiable but she did that out of anger and frustration.


Men try to Cherish and love your wives, remember God abhors Infidelity and infact if a man is not faithful to his wife, he should bear in mind that whenevr he calls God to help in on certain matters, God will be far from him.

Always cherish the wife of ur youth.

Funny thing is the woman won't still be allowed to opt out of the marriage if she so desires. She'll be urged to be patient,pray and fast. God might just touch the man's heart to return. So she keeps waiting. She's neither married nor divorced. And labelled a whòre if she's seen with another man. It's a lose-lose situation for her.

baby124:
Why is she fighting? What difference is that going to make? Instead of her to go away dancing and singing. At least you know he is not dead and no one can accuse you of killing him. You also know you are free of such a useless idiot. He will keep running from woman to woman till he dies. See how some people refuse their blessing. God has removed this one from your life but you are there fighting. For what

When a road is blocked or closed, and you are told No. It is because that is not the place for you in life. Move on and stop fighting for things that are not yours. Otherwise you will see things you were not supposed to see. Nothing in this life is by force. All humans have free will to do what they want.

Beautiful!

huntax:
Have u ever thought that she could be fighting for the well being of her son? She came all the way from the village with her sister. That's to show how bad it has been for her and their son.

Fighting for which son? The one the husband does not give a damn about? What is the fighting going to change? At the end of the day, they will be chased out. And they have already lost half their hair under that weave. Isn't it better she take him to social services to get her rights from him than this. Thankfully he is in Lagos State where social services works.

cold:
Funny thing is the woman won't still be allowed to opt out of the marriage if she so desires. She'll be urged to be patient,pray and fast. God might just touch the man's heart to return. So she keeps waiting. She's neither married nor divorced. And labelled a whòre if she's seen with another man. It's a lose-lose situation for her.

Sad!

Reminds me of a friend, her dad abandoned her mum and her siblings, remarried and moved to another town.

Mum struggled to raise 5 kids alone, she did not remarry though the husband left when she was 27/28.

I still wonder how that woman who enjoyed sex legally and often before the separation managed to survive.

The loniliness, struggles, fears, etc...while the man simply moved on, never looking back.

Sad!