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Ishilove:
A woman who doesn't like MouthAction will have to submit herself, shey?

Why are you men so insensitive? A man who cheats on his wife during her vulnerable period is not a man but an animal on two legs

Have you watched a woman birth a child?? If no, I suggest you do.

Ishilove:
Joseph, God keep us alive and well, I will ask you about your sexual status when your wife is in her 3rd trimester.

A man should disturb a woman who feels like she's carrying a truck in her tummy, enduring back aches and hot flashes for sex? Joe, you ehn

When you get there I will love to know how you handle it. Pray make you na marry person like me. I wee finish you

postmann:
Hey, I appreciate you took the time to clarify your stand without being rude.

Next time Mr joe mentions your handle I'll try to ignore him if I think he did it without a good reason. There are lots of similarities in both threads cos they bordered on women's insensitivity or self-centredness in their sexual responsibilities in matrimony.

Personally, I wonder if polygamy is the answer to women's sexual unavailability during some stages of pregnancy and postnatal.

Did I call anyone in particular foolish for speaking his mind? Even though one can actually be foolish for speaking one's mind.

You didn't bother me.

Ishilove:
It is rather ironic that the men who say a pregnant woman is inconsiderate because she doesn't feel up to sex are the ones who are single to stupor.

It will be interesting to know how they will handle their own situations when they get to that stage

Lumpyy:
I understand perfectly how some women take advantage of situations to gain whatever.....but its wrong to think EVERYONE does.u might end up making a COSTLY mistake by not taking her serious when she says she doesnt feel well just cos you have decided that ALL women lie.
Taking polygamy as the way out simply means your marriage is all about sex.....but then,whatever rocks your boat!

postmann:
Definitely, not every woman deprives her husband of sex with a lie or with a flimsy excuse. But for as many that do, they are unwise.

I'm not an advocate of polygamy but I'll never pretend to underestimate the role of sex in marriage. When a woman frequently denies her husband sex, she's asking for trouble and if that trouble comes in the form of polygamy, so be it.

Lumpyy:
Exactly sir......no pregnant woman knowing how important sex is would intentionally keep giving excuses except the ones'looking for trouble'. .but i tell you that MOST of us endure it in pregnancy not enjoy.how would you feel giving mouth-action when your mouth already feels like youv not brushed for months?its best to be sure of your love for your partner before getting married sir......cos if the feeling is strong,it will stand the test of time!

postmann:
I have read that pregnancy increases the sex drive of some women. I'm careful not to say all.

You sound married and like someone who has experienced pregnancy. Have you?

Lumpyy:
Ah bros....its the cause of the argument that spilled to this thread.VERY few of us feel what you read oo
Iv been pregnant 3xs :1st till 24wiks,2nd till 38 and d last till 40weeks and theres was no single day i craved IT.hubby does not even ask cos he sees how it is so i end up being the one begging cos i know say body no be wood .same with all my friends and gist from antenatal classes.
its y i told the fighter from that thread to stop generalising and telling the Op his wife is pretending.he said all the women around him are hot while pregnant and im saying i RARELY hear it so does all the ladies that came on the thread!

Lumpyy:
Ah bros....its the cause of the argument that spilled to this thread.VERY few of us feel what you read oo
Iv been pregnant 3xs :1st till 24wiks,2nd till 38 and d last till 40weeks and theres was no single day i craved IT.hubby does not even ask cos he sees how it is so i end up being the one begging cos i know say body no be wood .same with all my friends and gist from antenatal classes.
its y i told the fighter from that thread to stop generalising and telling the Op his wife is pretending.he said all the women around him are hot while pregnant and im saying i RARELY hear it so does all the ladies that came on the thread!

joseph1832:
This is among the reason why I always advice couples to be free minded, and also to be proud of their sexuality.

OP. I'll advice you to sit down and speak with her, open up and tell her your mind, not in a disrespectful way, but in a gentle way. Let her know your feelings, and yearning. If you guys are the type who engage in MouthAction, then by all means, if she doesn't want penetrative sex, then may be MouthAction would be okay. And if the answer is still no, then my friend, I believe the onus falls on you. I'll advice you to _masturbate (no offense intended) its way better than even thinking of cheating on her, than cheating on her.

Don't let societal norm and religious doctrine and dogma delude you. Its your marriage, and you have it in your hands.

This is my humble advice.

joseph1832:
Ah... So much like you to mix what I said, when you quoted me half of the thread and started spewing what you don't know about.

Postmann, ishilove, the above was my first post on that thread, lumppy and her elk didn't see it, but decided to jump in the discourse my self and the OP were having.

As at then, I was with my friend and his wife, I showed his wife the thread and she told me its a lie, from what she herself experience, cos she was always Hot. I made that known in the thread, but hey, lumppy still decided to go on, and on.

What you and your friends feel is different from what others feel, I've asked women who were pregnant before, not just married ladies, but baby mamas as well. Some say they're Hot, some say they aren't, but most said they were. That's why I told the op, if he isn't getting sex, he should masturbate, simply. Only for lumppy to come gun blazing.

Madam lumpyy, don't call me names, after that episode, I don't remember calling you names. I'm not in the mood to start calling you names. A word is enough for the wise!!!.

joseph1832:
Ah... So much like you to mix what I said, when you quoted me half of the thread and started spewing what you don't know about.

Postmann, ishilove, the above was my first post on that thread, lumppy and her elk didn't see it, but decided to jump in the discourse my self and the OP were having.

As at then, I was with my friend and his wife, I showed his wife the thread and she told me its a lie, from what she herself experience, cos she was always Hot. I made that known in the thread, but hey, lumppy still decided to go on, and on.

What you and your friends feel is different from what others feel, I've asked women who were pregnant before, not just married ladies, but baby mamas as well. Some say they're Hot, some say they aren't, but most said they were. That's why I told the op, if he isn't getting sex, he should masturbate, simply. Only for lumppy to come gun blazing.

Madam lumpyy, don't call me names, after that episode, I don't remember calling you names. I'm not in the mood to start calling you names. A word is enough for the wise!!!.

Lumpyy:
Gun blazing ke?see the beautiful post you wrote first?then go back to the thread if u have time and see how you were coming on to all the ladies that supported what you wrote yourself.
name calling?your posts assured me im a patient person,go check all d insultive words and assumptions you made. seeing what you just post to this Op makes it seem you were just in a bad mood earlier .

postmann:
You just confirmed what I know. I feel most ladies that have problems being sexually aroused during pregnancy might be those with menstrual issues and low sexual drive before pregnancy.

I've seen many women who carry their pregnancy with grace and are sexually active.

joseph1832:
Aye!. But these women always want people to sympathize with them. They always like playing the victim.

Did you see that thread in front page? Where the OP said hiss sister was battered by her husband cos she refused him sex?

The question I asked the OP was, "is his sister pregnant?". Then I even wonder why a woman would refuse her husband sex in the first place. Funny how the OP omitted sensitive details just to gain sympathy from the unsuspecting, foolish nigerians who never ask, not just question, but the right question.

I'm not in anyway saying the husband was right for beating his wife, no!!! To me, only cowards beat their wives.

postmann:
Sincerity is a very difficult road to thread for most women. Overwhelmingly most!

Never hit a woman!!! You'd make it easy for her. There are several ways to deal with her.

It's not possible to give a thousand likes to your post asking that question to that OP who posted a thread with pics of her sister being battered by her husband.

pucelle:
Even you?
What justifies a human being not a dog o,beating up his better half?

God bless the man that will flex muscles around my siblings or me, he is so dead

postmann:

That's a bit too harsh. I don't condemn pregnant women. I'm simply not in support of wives denying their husband sex using pregnancy as an excuse. Except if there is complication.

pucelle:
And if she is not in the mood for sexual intercourse...

But they can always compromise with other sexual practices,and it is mandatory for the man to be understanding and respect her wish,if she insists on no sex

joseph1832:
True that! Later, emotional beings like BellaElla and Lumpyy will start saying "he's very inconsiderate, can he not imagine how she's feeling at the moment? In this time of husband scarcity, you expect a woman not to chat with her friends about her wedding ceremony? Something that only happens once in ones life". Lol.

joseph1832:
Excuse me lady, who started spewing the insults? Me or you and your friend BellaElla? I urge you to go back to page one and see for yourself, you started it, and I merely put you where you belong. Simple.

Your comments spurred my own comments so please stop trying to claim being the victim.

The emboldened shows you're one don't pay attention to what is being said, but jump head on and rant. Its all in the thread, I even posted the first comment I made just so you can see, but you choose to ignore.

Madam, saying I'm in a bad mood is you being sarcastic, I've been warming you, and you're edging me on. Please, don't push your luck. I won't repeat thiss again.