CovenantBabies:
Wow, finally God has ported me to this thread
It feels so good to join you mamas over here!

I can only imagine the joy in your heart, joy flowing like a river. Infact I feel like dancing Shoki on your behalf. Congratulations and a very warm welcome to you. Easy 9 months and delivery to you. I hope you will keep warming up this thread the way you came with your warm entrance. No peeping ooo.

Baba GOD pick up their call, na beg I dey beg o, answer their call ooo(ttc sisters)

[quote author=enkaydewdrop post=45888684] Amen to ur prayers o nd gud mornin o

enkaydewdrop:

Are you kidding me?
Abeg, I no wan catch cold after I born oh... I like the "new me"... Lol...

If you try to do AC + fan+ cold water drink/bath after delivery, na there you go see the one wey pass Gordy lol. No try am ooo

sugarcanebaby:
Good morning able mamas in the house. A eg make una help me torchlight this my questions o.

Welcome and enjoy your big, bigger, biggest bump , I no no why e dey do like that, guess it's cos of food you eat at the given time. Hope your doc gave you a go ahead on kpe kus after the threatened miscarriage ? Tell Oga he can go slow and steady and una go still reach the permanent site, October still far well well, or you can still give him time to overcome his fears. He no wan hear story, I no blame am shaa

Happy wedding anniversary to you 2, GOD keep your marriage and may love never ever depart from your home. Mitchyy.

hello mama's in d house, una do oooo, pls Rukemi291 I seriously need ur help, how do I send u a PM? ND pls mama's in d house, kindly help me out if u hav her email address or any means of contact.

CovenantBabies:
Wow, finally God has ported me to this thread
Beaurifuuu morning senior mamas! This is covenantbabies porting live all the way from the ttc thread!
Please everyone should help me muster a word of thanks & appreciation to God Almighty who has made this possible!
He honoured my plans I made with Him.

Anytym I read of a ttc mother porting to dis place,I actually shed a tear of joy cos I can imagine d joy dey wud b feeling den,all 32 shinning wide n it continues to solidify my bliv dat God z stil God..dat same God wil do it 4 oda ttc women Lagbara Olohun.

Welcome soon to b mom,I bless God 4u dear,enjoy ur stay.

I just nid inverter,solar 1 or d one wey heat fit recharge,I mean Naija heat .

SAbi mama's in the house. Good morning o.
I'm sorry for derailing this thread. I used to peep in here once in a while wth my other moniker. Although I am not pregnant,I don hang Booth tey tey(my last born is 17years now).

Well, what is bothering me now is a very long story but let me go on to the recent one that is giving me concern. Its traces of infidelity from my Dh.
We've been on this issue since last year, I have called the family members over this issue and they talked to him(they couldn't do much,cos he is the eldest). I've had heart to heart talk with him,and he confessed and apologized late last year. I also asked him what does he want that I'm not doing of which he told me and I'm trying my possible best to improve in that aspect.
But each time we are getting over the current girl, I'll start seeing another one via his Whatsapp,sms and call log( I had to tell him to block off his fb account, cos what I saw is disheartening.)
The last girl was a girl who lives in the same street with us and the girl had the guts to tell me that she is not leaving my husband alone, and she even disrespected me during one of their chats I saw on bbm and my husband entertained her. It was only God who took control and removed her from the Picture and dh apologized to me and the kids(they are aware, my daughter was the one who found out).
Fast forward to now: we went for a program in akure and I was the one who catered for the crusade. It was a really large job and I needed more servers, so there is this girl who happens to be among the children our charity organization sponsors in akure whom dh discussed with to bring some of her friends to assist and I'll pay them.
Now this same girl is now the girl dh is having an affair with. She sends mssg to him requesting for money and recharge cards,calls him everyday, make plan to meet each other at hotels whenever he comes there.
I confronted him about this of which he denied and said I have a negative mind(I had to let it slide and allowed him embark on the journey in peace). He even told the girl to lie to me If I ever called her, but I didn't.
Now, initially he changed her name on his phone so I won't know but now he told her to be hiding her number whenever she wants to call him.
My question now is what can I do? Should I call the girl and confront her? Because I'm tired of all this, our marriage is 20yrs now and I've endured enough.
I feel like walking out of the marriage but for the kids.
Though he has never laid a finger on me,he still does his fatherly duties and try much to make me comfortable. But I am still hurting inside knowing fully well that my husband is having an affair outside.

P.s.: he is a pastor in the church and a well respected man. I'm in my mid forties and he is in his early fifties.
I really need mature responses on how to handle this matter.cos I'm contemplating on reporting him to the church..
Sorry for the long epistle.

I had to bring this here because of the sanity and love here.

Mommy Olubankemi,I actually tot of u today while bathing ds.. wonderful bs.

Hbd to u ginababy, n llnp

Hwa to u mitchyy n ur hubby... May u continue to hv peace,luv,gud health n plenty money in ur home,Amen.

Welcome to all new mommas.

Miamimama there's nothing more effective than the power of prayers! Don't confront the girl, its belittling of you. Don't ask him about it again! Act like it don't bother you. His conscience will eat him up. Stop going thru his phone for your sanity! A cheating man will always cheat no matter how attractive you make yourself, its God that will touch his heart to value the gems he has at home than those germs out there.

Pray
Pray
Pray.
And also always go for checks in case of an std.
May God intervene soon and settle your home.

@olubankemi, congrats on the birth of lo, really love ur BS
@ginababy, wishing u lots of joy nd hapiness.....many happy returns
@mitchyy, HWA in gud health, abundant blessings, happiness....u shall continue to celebrate forever

All mamas i hail o, i just dey straining and stressing my eyes to read this thread just because am so much in love with this thread.......i have boil in of my eye.....i have applied shea butter and dirt from my ear to it.... d boil is still there.....what can i use cos swelling up o

HWA Mitchyy, I wish you a forever filled with love, happiness and prosperity.....
As I dey look the picture, wetin come my mind be say....so na dis big bros smally Mitchyy dey send upandan... lol!


Covenantbabies...YIPPPEEEEE!
Congrats and welcome to the PreggyThread.
Have a healthy and fruitful pregnancy.
You shall carry to term and deliver healthy baby( ies) too. Amin.
Oya siddon ontop the golden chair



Chizeal, go to Rukemi's profile and send a pm to her.

Sugarcanebaby....baby oku! Firefire baby! Abeg take am easy o.
I'd advice you to take it easy tho, why not wait till 1st trimester is over?
Your belle is dt way cos of food.
Laugh me small, I have big tummy( not pregnant tho) buh when I wake up it is always small and I feel fly, wear shirt....tuck in, wear gown, look sekxy.....just till I eat...anything! and Poof! the tummy appears .....I am sometimes afraid to eat sef....



Hbd to my sweetest yummiest Ginababy!
I wish you a long life filled with happiness, good health and prosperity!

HappyBelatedBirthday, Peddylove,
I wish you a long life filled with happiness, good health and prosperity. I hope you had fun?

PresVA, abeg buy wooden. Or make. Correct one o.
I bought the wooden one for my first about 4 years ago, only the knobs are missing now.
I bought the imported plastic one ( 25k) for Atinuke 7 months ago and i just found out 3 out of 4 drawers are cracked and I am sure wont last a year before it tears ni . I am waiting for when I ship dem to their room before I make her another one.
I hatr my plastic wardrobe

Happy wedding anniversary mitchyy! May you and your DH have many more fruitful years ahead in love and harmony Jehova has signed it! Sealed it! And delivered it already.

Welcome convenantbabies have a healthy and smooth journey.

Happy birthday ginababy! Wishing you many more plenty happy returns in Jesus name Amen .

Olubankemi I bless God for you! Congrats once again.

In other news Ekene nwam started crawling this morning! ( he has been doing back and forth moves for a while now) I placed him on his play mat to go do somthing only for me to turn around and see him coming behind me! And ever since he's been touring the whole house! Holding onto anything holdable to stand Im tired of chasing him up and down already even though this milestone melts my heart cos I know soon he will call me mummy what can I do to make him stay put? Before I use rope tie him legs o .

The rash has started clearing too.

Ma'am chinwendym..
Hmmmn.. If there is anything after prayer I have done that, I've been to several moutains ,fasted, gone to several marriage counselor (he is also a marriage counselor)
Sometimes I wonder what he teaches young couple who comes to him for counselling.
Some even come to me and tell me how dh restored their marriages and I just go in to cry that why is ours crumbling.
I was almost getting cream to make me fair (all those girls are always fair). It is that bad!
Now he is delving into politics and I know more is yet to come.
I'm just tired.

Thank you to everyone.

As May mothers port to baby thread I pray God will port ttcers to this place in Jesus name.

We bless God. My recovery was so fast too. My tommy is flat again! No pressing, no much hot water. Just that am becoming lepa, I thought I will turn orobo when I put to bed.

Pls what can I be eating to turn orobo? Need to add weight.

Pls help.


And to say vigilante is real Is an understatement. Haaa, I respect mothers.

Congrats Mitchy

Pls madam, u need calm down ur nerves....since u have used several methods to stop his adultery act.......still nothing has changed....this means it is in his blood and it is only himself and God that can make the change....

if i were u, i will stop bothering myself in checking his phones and social media....but even wen i do i zero my mind off whatever i c.....

Continue to pray for him may be he can stop this act one day....meanwhile dont report him to church elders cos it will only bring more shame to the family.

To say the real fact, a lot of men are guilty of this offence...it just d way the way they handle it that is different....But whichever way we will always find out.

U dont need to be contacting any of his girlfriends cos am sure they will end up disrespecting u.

U still to talk to him cos he is a man of God that everybody is looking up to....to avoid bringing shame to d family

Dont be too emotionally affected cos he doesnt put u into consideration at all....so dont allow this to get u....

I am sure other mamas will contribute, it is well.....

miamimama:
SAbi mama's in the house. Good morning o.
I'm sorry for derailing this thread. I used to peep in here once in a while wth my other moniker. Although I am not pregnant,I don hang Booth tey tey(my last born is 17years now).

@Miamimama, it is well.

Nothing prayer cannot do. Don't compromise by bleaching or toning. Maintain your self and try to glow in your complexion.

Pray until you see result but trust in The Lord more for a faithful husband.

tyconcepts how are you now? Pls visit govt hospital if the pain persist. By His stripe, you're healed in Jesus name

covenantbabies Welcome to the club. Take the routine drugs, register for antenatal. Wish you h n h 9months

olubankemi Congrats once again. Thank God you made the right decision. Kisses to the twins

mitchyy Happy anniversary. Bless God for a fruitful marriage.

ginababy Birthday mama age with grace

zaynie:
HWA Mitchyy, I wish you a forever filled with love, happiness and prosperity.....
As I dey look the picture, wetin come my mind be say....so na dis big bros smally Mitchyy dey send upandan... lol!


Covenantbabies...YIPPPEEEEE!
Congrats and welcome to the PreggyThread.
Have a healthy and fruitful pregnancy.
You shall carry to term and deliver healthy baby( ies) too. Amin.
Oya siddon ontop the golden chair



Chizeal, go to Rukemi's profile and send a pm to her.

Sugarcanebaby....baby oku! Firefire baby! Abeg take am easy o.
I'd advice you to take it easy tho, why not wait till 1st trimester is over?
Your belle is dt way cos of food.
Laugh me small, I have big tummy( not pregnant tho) buh when I wake up it is always small and I feel fly, wear shirt....tuck in, wear gown, look sekxy.....just till I eat...anything! and Poof! the tummy appears .....I am sometimes afraid to eat sef....



Hbd to my sweetest yummiest Ginababy!
I wish you a long life filled with happiness, good health and prosperity!

HappyBelatedBirthday, Peddylove,
I wish you a long life filled with happiness, good health and prosperity. I hope you had fun?

PresVA, abeg buy wooden. Or make. Correct one o.
I bought the wooden one for my first about 4 years ago, only the knobs are missing now.
I bought the imported plastic one ( 25k) for Atinuke 7 months ago and i just found out 3 out of 4 drawers are cracked and I am sure wont last a year before it tears ni . I am waiting for when I ship dem to their room before I make her another one.
I hatr my plastic wardrobe

Mummy zaynie nor mind me jare! I'm 20weeks+4days today. E just be like say I never see my husband before as the thing dey hungry be but I'll slow down like other mamas have advised

Miamimama...modas av said it all..u nid to stop monitoring him infct i av an elder sis wt same issue jst slightly different..it was wen she stopped all dose monitorin tins dat she started enjoyin hersef..as advised mak sure u test for stds nd oda stuff nd insist on usin cd weneva u wants to do d nidful..for dat alone he wil feel embarrasses...frm ur post i picked sumtin nd its d fact dat u r still soooo much in luv wt ur dh...its ok bt u av to av peace too infct ryt now at dis stage wat matas ar ur luvly kids nd dia future..focus on dem nd dnt let dem hate dia pops for dat..let dem realise its jst bein human..invest ur time in their lives..God has made u d head now..pls tak d mantle nd i pray God ll gv u d wisdom to fight d gud fight of faith
..i pray God will change him nd not by force bcuz if God changes sumone by fire or force..it cn b deadly o coupled wt d fact dat he s a pastor..dia s nottin lik self love ma..LUV URSEF ND AV PEACE..bleaching ke!..e ma try e o..all d best mam.

mama ekene ahhahah..i laffff ooooo...u aint seen nottin yet ..i laff again oooo...tie ke!!..hop u don cova d tv,d switches,pack all d remote controls ..move d centre table to a corner.......i lafff again oooo...let our boy explore oo..jst baby proof necessary corners ...anytym i see his pics..his skin jst dey shine ..frosh boy..ma Chinwendym...welcum to d nxt phase nd congrats

@ Rukemi291 I'm short of words. May your soul be healed.
@Lawvlypearl,Boomz and all other mama that gave birth ;Congrats dearies.

Still trying to catch up
@Maureensylvia So sorry for your loss

@Mitchyy Happy anniversary. You be hot babe ooo. Ur DH is sooo cute. Una fit wella

@ Covenantbabies;Welcome ma,may you carry and deliver IJN

@ Ginababy Happy birthday

@ olubankemi Thanks for sharing. Enjoy your babies

ahnie:
zino z a success ma'am.how z your lil missy dooyin

Bless God.Mon littu tata is bubbling

ginababy:


Hahahaha, Oya begin arrange for 2nd missionary journey so dat my dis tym nxt year I go send beta one 2 u.

No o, I no want, na partial boot hanging I dey so o, by then sef minimum wage go don increase to to buy am sef. I wan do small sisi now.

cutienik:
mama ekene ahhahah..i laffff ooooo...u aint seen nottin yet ..i laff again oooo...tie ke!!..hop u don cova d tv,d switches,pack all d remote controls ..move d centre table to a corner.......i lafff again oooo...let our boy explore oo..jst baby proof necessary corners ...anytym i see his pics..his skin jst dey shine ..frosh boy..ma Chinwendym...welcum to d nxt phase nd congrats

thank you! Na wa o when will it start getting easy?

Chinwendym:
Before I use rope tie him legs o .
The rash has started clearing too.

Abeg enjoy d phase while it lasts.I can't wait 2 start chasing my honey bunnie too.d tots alone aww! So sweet and pls don't tie his legs oo as e dey hot make he sharparly hold tinx,stand firm n take his first steps @ 7 mnths
Pls wat did u use for d rashes?my dd's are worse.TIA

Chinwendym:
thank you! Na wa o when will it start getting easy?

motherhood na foreva tins o..afta dem marry sef..we go still dey dash out advice nd settle scores..may we all reap d fruit in gud health ma.

Chinwendym:



In other news Ekene nwam started crawling this morning! ( he has been doing back and forth moves for a while now) I placed him on his play mat to go do something only for me to turn around and see him coming behind me! And ever since he's been touring the whole house! Holding onto anything holdable to stand Im tired of chasing him up and down already even though this milestone melts my heart cos I know soon he will call me mummy what can I do to make him stay put? Before I use rope tie him legs o .

The rash has started clearing too.

Chai you mean this is how I'm gonna be chasing one individual upandan soon?

Just when I was settling into not being bothered* about people bumping into things or getting hurt *sighs *

Reminds me of one day I fell asleep out of sheer exhaustion. opened my eyes and saw my toddlers on my two step ladder-(they dragged it from the kitchen to the room) emptying their dad's wardrobe. As in they were just dropping ironed and folded clothes on the floor. I closed my eyes right back cant kee mysef


And now I'm back on that path I tire for mysef lol

tatacherie:

Abeg enjoy d phase while it lasts.I can't wait 2 start chasing my honey bunnie too.d tots alone aww! So sweet and pls don't tie his legs oo as e dey hot make he sharparly hold tinx,stand firm n take his first steps @ 7 mnths
Pls wat did u use for d rashes?my dd's are worse.TIA

Na cosmetics things o! Was adviced to seek medical help! But since our vitamin A schedule is on Wednesday i didn't want to make the trip twice and stated cleaning the skin with diluted savlon thrice daily and applying coconut oil to it. I will still have him checked up on Wednesday.

Babythug you be gangstar mama aswear

Chinwendym:
Na cosmetics things o! Was adviced to seek medical help! But since our vitamin A schedule is on Wednesday i didn't want to make the trip twice and stated cleaning the skin with diluted savlon thrice daily and applying coconut oil to it. I will still have him checked up on Wednesday.D

Really? And ours is wasting here.tnx a lot.will try out asap.but is it safe for babies to bath with detol?it seems its making d rashes worse

miamimama:
Ma'am chinwendym..
Hmmmn.. If there is anything after prayer I have done that, I've been to several moutains ,fasted, gone to several marriage counselor (he is also a marriage counselor)
Sometimes I wonder what he teaches young couple who comes to him for counselling.
Some even come to me and tell me how dh restored their marriages and I just go in to cry that why is ours crumbling.
I was almost getting cream to make me fair (all those girls are always fair). It is that bad!
Now he is delving into politics and I know more is yet to come.
I'm just tired.

Ma, I watched a Yoruba film similar to this ur case, the man in question is a pastor and help people to restore their marriage but his home is under fire. Wat d woman was tat she woke d man up in d middle of d night and first praised him then told him they need to discuss. She told d referred d man to many instances that has happened to people and in which God has used him to restored peace to people home, told him how he is leading people to heaven and him going into hell. She told him that his preaching is do as I say and don't do as I do, she talked some senses into him but with regards and respect. To cap it all, she asked him what he will tell God on Judgement day. She told a story which I can't remember sha but those talk really hurt d man and eventually thank d wife and he changed for better. though its a film but I learnt from it. Now ma, I will implore u to pray for God's direction to let him know that he is hurting himself and not u, ask him how he will give account on judgement day, ask him how he help others construct their family while his is on d verge of collapsing above all always pray for his ministry to have impact in his own life. peace.

Amen! to the prayer.

@covernantbabies, yippie! M so happy for u dear. I pray for a healthy preggy ride and easy birthing in Jesus name.

@sweetlady4real, Evacroft and harmless1, greetings to u mama's. Wishing us all a stressfree 3rd trimester.

@cutienik, I had d same feeling, that covenentbabies wud be with a mamaejima.


@mitchy, HWA, wishing u many more years of bliss.

HBD ginababy, wishing u many more years.

@sugarcanebaby, welcome. Wishing u a smooth ride.

@olubankemi, lovely BS. May ur baby grls recovery be speedy in Jesus name.


God has been so faithful to me. #3rd trimester tinzz. #August Mama