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I've be passing through this ordeal for the past two months, i need your candid advice.
I recently got a job at portharcourt, i had no accomodation so i drifted to live with my nephew who got married 3 years ago, who's already with his first issue. Before my nephew got married to her, i've known her as a caring person who wouldn't hurt anyones feeling until i decided to shield my head under my nephew's roof. All of a sudden, she developed this annoying attitude of antagonizing nagging. Her continous nagging pisses me off and since then, my nephew who's under her spell joined her nagging team to do the same. Since then i've been under pressure. I swept my danger colour under the carpet to show some respect but it's too much right now. What can you advise me to do?

viki84:
I've be passing through this ordeal for the past two months, i need your candid advice.
I recently got a job at portharcourt, i had no accomodation so i drifted to live with my nephew who got married 3 years ago, who's already with his first issue. Before my nephew got married to her, i've known her as a caring person who wouldn't hurt anyones feeling until i decided to shield my head under my nephew's roof. All of a sudden, she developed this annoying attitude of antagonizing nagging. Her continous nagging pisses me off and since then, my nephew who's under her spell joined her nagging team to do the same. Since then i've been under pressure. I swept my danger colour under the carpet to show some respect but it's too much right now. What can you advise me to do?

Move out when you get your salary!

Yea ... get outta the kitchen ... the heat seems much. Get yourself into a low cost apartment like some cheap face me i face you. There will surely be discomfort for you, but in the long run you'd square up. There is nothing you can do without causing some rift for them and you aside moving on. I once was in your shoe in same PHC, didnt waste time to ship out. Funny thing is, i am so bigger today, that my "antagonists" now find it so humbling getting accross to me. Might be hard initially but the reward is that everyone remains happy at the end. Get out now!

Ginaz:
Move out when your get your salary!

Wise one

Just saying...

Look for accommodation asap. Nomatter how shanty the place would be. I no how costly accomodations could be in PH but you have to brace up and be your own man. If not just manage the nagging and never cause a scene. If not you would be termed an ingrate.

You have overstayed your welcome. It's time to get your own place. Even if self contain. Move!!!

IRserveMyComent:
Look for accommodation asap. Nomatter how shanty the place would be. I no how costly accomodations could be in PH but you have to brace up and be your own man. If not just manage the nagging and never cause a scene. If not you would be termed an ingrate.

Exactly

My guy, find one small one room rent and avoid all this embarrassment,









Trust me, you don't want to see what next your nephew wife is cooking.

Trunaijian:
You have overstayed your welcome. It's time to get your own place. Even if self contain. Move!!!

Even if na face-me-i-face-you for a clean fresh start

Can you afford a cheap accommodation?If you can't for now then stay away from them for as long as you can during the day.Move out early and find somewhere to hang out till late so you just come back to sleep.

Why some wives dislike their husbands relations is what I don't know.