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donKonji:
Thanks for the feedback. Like I said I have secretly conducted 2 tests without her knowledge. And it all came back +ve. What else can I do bro?

skarlett:
Whatever rocks your boat dear

[color=#1980BC]Of course it sure as hell rocks my boat than yours which is already capsizing a 100 times over. [/color]

Sorry good girls, I didn't intend to rubbish y'all. Better sir?

[color=#1980BC]Usual way of shying away from points you can't counter. [/color]

That's every girls choice now, isn't it?

that's for him to say dear

I won't mister, when she's of the legal age she'll be free to do whatever she wants with her life whether she's under my roof or not because you do have a point, I cannot force my ideals down her throat

[color=#1980BC]Actually this is the part I really wanted to see what you would say.

I don't think there is any parent on earth who would be happy to see the child she birthed and cared for grow up to be a shameless prostitute. Most especially a mother. It doesn't matter whether she was poor or not, if she didn't do it while she was young despite her poor upbringing and was able to still cater for her daughter why should her daughter tow that part.

Miss skarlett, do not allow your cause for displaying how liberal you are to lead you to construct crooked opinions. Fact is if your daughter becomes an aristo tomorrow you won't be happy about it and you won't be applying that snake slogan you want other people to apply. It's people's lives but then again the way they live it will most certainly affect the people around them that's why we condemn it.[/color]

I'm not justifying the act nor condemning it either, is it so hard for you to accept that

I don't recall quoting a bible verse either but now were on it...from the small sunday school wey I dey attend that year, dem talk say make we no judge because na the same measurement of judgement wey we give, nahim dem go judge us by I don forget the bible verse sef but brother naijaboiy if you get better xtian for there, tell the person make e show you

[color=#1980BC]Yes! The same old same old. And she still diverted to the religious side again.

Madam, everybody is told not to judge because we all commit one or two things which are bad too. Every human does bad things but some do worse things than others which makes those ones comfortable to condemn them. You don't expect every one to keep a straight face and mind their business when they see a bad simply because they also sin.

I wonder how the world would be right now if bad things and people who do such things are not condemned. Even the bible you keep trying to bring still condemns that act of prostitution you're indirectly supporting it. So there, you've goofed again. Badly, this time. [/color]

If you know another term for prostitution that's different from fornication from the bible abeg tell me. We learn everyday

[color=#1980BC]Bible! Bible! Bible!

You don't need the bible. Check the same dictionary you asked me to check for the meaning of epistles and you'll find your troubling answers there.

I don't want to believe you don't know one can prostitute without fornicating. What would you say about a married woman who is prostituting? Is she fornicating too? LOL! Please do not make a mockery of yourself any further miss.

Please! [/color]

Like I've been pointing out, I'm not condemning anyone. That I'm not an olosho doesn't mean I'm not other things, we all sin differently. Tomorrow someone can come up with a thread condemning people who smoke weed and I'd say the same thing...its their life and their business

[color=#1980BC]We all sin differently but some sins are greater than others.

Capiscè? [/color]

skarlett:
Your response is there dearie

[color=#1980BC]And you've got yours back. [/color]

skarlett:
I have no reasons to dear, I just stated my opinion as you've stated yours

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Of course it sure as hell rocks my boat than yours which is already capsizing a 100 times over. Usual way of shying away from points you can't counter. [/color]
[color=#1980BC]Same thing here.[/color]


[color=#1980BC]I sure as hell know he would be shocked at your opinion.[/color]

[color=#1980BC]Actually this is the part I really wanted to see what you would say.

I don't think there is any parent on earth who would be happy to see the child she birthed and cared for grow up to be a shameless prostitute. Most especially a mother. It doesn't matter whether she was poor or not, if she didn't do it while she was young despite her poor upbringing and was able to still cater for her daughter why should her daughter tow that part.

Miss skarl ett, do not allow your cause for displaying how liberal you are to lead you to construct crooked opinions. Fact is if your daughter becomes an aristo tomorrow you won't be happy about it and you won't be applying that snake slogan you want other people to apply. It's people's lives but then again the way they live it will most certainly affect the people around them that's why we condemn it.[/color]

[color=#1980BC]It is very hard to accept. One cannot choose to be on the fence on an issue and still dole out opinions for people to come to terms with. It's either you're in it or not and not on the fence.

The people who are allowed to counter Op's claims are those who are either in the business or just in support of it for whatever reasons known to them. You cannot be neutral to the matter and still condemn a particular school of thought, so your criticizing of the Op's opinion clearly means you are in support of it. If you don't want to be caught in the web then it's better to stay out of the argument totally.[/color]

[color=#1980BC]Yes! The same old same old. And she still diverted to the religious side again.

Madam, everybody is told not to judge because we all commit one or two things which are bad too. Every human does bad things but some do worse things than others which makes those ones comfortable to condemn them. You don't expect every one to keep a straight face and mind their business when they see a bad simply because they also sin.

I wonder how the world would be right now if bad things and people who do such things are not condemned. Even the bible you keep trying to bring still condemns that act of prostitution you're indirectly supporting it. So there, you've goofed again. Badly, this time. [/color]

[color=#1980BC]Bible! Bible! Bible!

You don't need the bible. Check the same dictionary you asked me to check for the meaning of epistles and you'll find your troubling answers there.

Point of correction, I NEED THE BIBLE and I rate it higher than I would any dictionary

I don't want to believe you don't know one can prostitute without fornicating. What would you say about a married woman who is prostituting? Is she fornicating too? LOL! Please do not make a mockery of yourself any further miss.

That's called ADULTERY. Thank me later mister

[/color]

[color=#1980BC]We all sin differently but some sins are greater than others.

says who? You?

Capiscè? [/color]

DanielGb:
Nice comment. but a very boring life for me.
Its too dull. it will be hard for people to believe you considering how beautiful you are.

akalamoyo:
if you guys were thrown in a ring, you would probably fight. Hian! It's okay now. All points noted.

donKonji:
Thanks for the feedback. Like I said I have secretly conducted 2 tests without her knowledge. And it all came back +ve. What else can I do bro?

skarlett:
You are not in their shoes, so you can't be so sure, that is whether you're speaking from personal "experience" or not

I don't support campus runs but I'm not against it either cos I believe in the dictum, 'live and let live'. You can never give satisfactory reasons why ladies go into campus runs without sounding spiteful, petty and judgemental so it all boils down to my latter statement, your write-up is skewed


Ps: If you can't take constructive criticism without sounding supercilious, then you've got a lot to work on, on yourself without throwing shades at campus runs girls. Aloha!

Ginaz:
when I was in school, I didn't attended any birthday or party, I never stepped out of my room after 8p.m, only time I did it's getting food for dinner or hanging around my Lodge mates rooms just for general laughter and humor.

only party I attended was my graduation party. I visited just five (5) people throughout my stay in school and only three (3) people I allowed visited. when I tell people this is what I did in school, they never believe and I don't blame them.

no girl is lose or good, everything boils down to self control. if you don't wanna live a wayward life in school then you got to get a firm hold on yourself. every bad character doesn't start in a day, before you know it, it is embedded in your personality.

I'm happy with myself how I handled everything during my schooling days. all I wanna tell some girls is that, don't throw caution to the wind, have self control in every thing you do. I'm not a good girl, but I'm trying.

skarlett:
Your response is there dearie

smexy:
m'starting to like you already

Missmossy:
The comments though,can't laugh

skarlett:
Your response is there dearie

skarlett:
You are not in their shoes, so you can't be so sure, that is whether you're speaking from personal "experience" or not

I don't support campus runs but I'm not against it either cos I believe in the dictum, 'live and let live'. You can never give satisfactory reasons why ladies go into campus runs without sounding spiteful, petty and judgemental so it all boils down to my latter statement, your write-up is skewed


Ps: If you can't take constructive criticism without sounding supercilious, then you've got a lot to work on, on yourself without throwing shades at campus runs girls. Aloha!

abouzaid:
did you
conduct it in different hospitals? if she has bribed someone on the staff, they would continue to doctor the report.

sevantex:
Mr donKonji
u shuld enjoy ur marriage and stop all the worries. she already told u her past and obviously doesnt do such anymore, u have done 2 DNA tests to proove that ur son is urs, wat more do u want to do? kill urself over notin? pls enjoy ur marriage and dont stigmatise ur wife cos of past events.
Adios!

obinna2nv:
There are some things in life you, can choose to shrug and say "hey, that's his/her choice!". Like say, being a vegetarian, a teetotaler, celibacy or even not getting married because hell there is absolutely no consequence of your action on both your person as an individual, your immediate environment and the larger society. But hell naa, a prostituting young lady ain't one of them! Its so unsettling that you would sacrifice your daughter on the alter of liberalism or to score an argumentative point, but hell her actions will definitely affect someone else. If you don't want to feel for your daughter, have you considered the man doing the deed with her? I know you would say its his choice, but think about the poor wife he's cheating on, the children he's starving of attention and resources, or even the dangers he's exposed to like STDs and taking it home to infect the poor wife. Now imaging if you're that poor wife infected with HIV because your philandering husband got it from a runs girl? My dear, please, jump down from that fence and take a stand, nobody will say you're being judgemental because you aren't, you're simply against a vice that could be seriously detrimental to your wellbeing directly or indirectly now or in the future who knows? They say evil thrive because the good ones keep silent.

Kaycee625:
skarlet you sound like an intelligent runs gal, cos it seems thats the reason you are defending them well. Anyway i like your diction.

skarlett:
You will definitely be shocked, I guarantee you

The last time I checked its my life and my daughter too, I can do and think what I bladdy wanna

[color=#1980BC]

Of course she must evade the million dollar question. No need though as we all know the answer so chickening out of it won't change the fact! [/color]

Well, I choose to sit on the fence, sue me.

All the pun intended

[color=#1980BC]Then your opinion remains as irrelevant as the "k" in knife. [/color]

Just because i said the op's points are skewed cos he didn't take cognizance of important factors doesn't mean I support runs. Its amusing that you know what the bible condones and refutes (only when it suits you of course). Well since I know only the bible lemme say another religious thing, they are sinning against their creator so I cannot stand on a soapbox and judge them cos I'm not their creator and neither are you nor anyone else

Point of correction, I NEED THE BIBLE and I rate it higher than I would any dictionary

That's called ADULTERY. Thank me later mister

[color=#1980BC]It's called adultery but the act of it is prostitution because they collect money for it. You still don't get the point. Maybe you should thank me instead. [/color]

says who? You?

[color=#1980BC]It's a known fact that even you cannot refute. You can only live in denial about it. [/color]

[color=#1980BC]Note that I'm not even trying to force the popular opinion on you because no matter where you go you can't argue strongly on this point.

There is no where in the world where prostitution is a respected profession even in the few countries that have it legalized. So in this kind of case it's a lose lose for you, that's why people who are in your category will quickly pick up the 'neutral' card so they can comfortably state their points when we all know where you truly stand. [/color]

hyperflex:
You can trust girls to dispute this kind of points anytime. If u say this thing in a group the girls there will chew you like shish kebab. The writer of this point is right. Girls want you to say oh they go into runs because they need money or underprivileged. But we know that not all girls r underprivileged. A girl can Bleep a week and use all that money to buy iphone6 then continue the runs. I wild think a girl with purpose wld do more important stuff with that. But what do I know. I am a guy. Any girl that says she doesn't enjoy a joystick between her thighs na liar from hells pit. I mean why do u go back. The money yes. U enjoy it both ways. Its easier to open ur legs than learn a craft or trade. U want the fast life quick. U want to GOTO Dubai. Live like that babe that's oppressing you n acting like she owns the world. We get it. But what I won't take is girls acting like there is a righteous reason they Bleep for money. Its all cuz its fun n easy way to make doe. File bee!!!

[color=#1980BC]Exactly!

There can never be a righteous reason to open your legs for money. No matter how anybody twists it. If we have poor people who didn't engage in such activities and they are successful today who are those runs girls to open their mouths to talk and look for unnecessary sympathy.

You just burst my head now now! [/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]

Of course she must evade the million dollar question. No need though as we all know the answer so chickening out of it won't change the fact! [/color]



[color=#1980BC]Then your opinion remains s irrelevant as the "k" in knife. [/color]

I'm not going to use the bible to state my points cos I don't need it. It's not rocket science to know that selling your body for money is bad. You keep trying to bring religion into the argument and I keep evading it because it's not necessary to me.[/color]

It's called adultery but the act of it is prostitution because they collect money for it. You still don't get the point. Maybe you should thank me instead. [/color]

It's a known fact that even you cannot refute. You can only live in denial about it. [/color]

[color=#1980BC]

Note that I'm not even trying to force the popular opinion on you because no matter where you go you can't argue strongly on this point.

If that's the case what's the essence of quoting me. From what I remember, you found your way to my mentions first. You want to give me a sense of morality is that it? Well spare me, I still stand by what I said. The op's write-up is skewed, distorted, biased etc

There is no where in the world where prostitution is a respected profession even in the few countries that have it legalized. So in this kind of case it's a lose lose for you, that's why people who are in your category will quickly pick up the 'neutral' card when we all know where you truly stand. [/color]

skarlett:
If it was, you wouldn't have quoted me in the first place
Well, the religion argument is all know, I thought that has already been established

Lol and because its called prostitution, its different from adultery?

Puh-lease


I'm hardly living in denial, for one I have my opinion and I'm standing by it. You had to bring in the daughter and boyfriend angle to prove your point which from what I remember is a fallacy in argument called 'Argumentum ad hominem'. You of all people should know better seeing like your siggy says 'sentimentality is the bane of intelligent homo sapiens'

If that's the case what's the essence of quoting me. From what I remember, you found your way to my mentions first. You want to give me a sense of morality is that it? Well spare me, I still stand by what I said. The op's write-up is skewed, distorted, biased etc



Lol and who is determining how I'm winning? likes and shares?

if my post wasn't relevant in any way you and the others wouldn't have quoted me or paid me any mind, afterall I was just addressing the op. I don't even recall you stating your own opinion before attacking mine. Nobody made you nairaland's police or enforcer, I have a right to stay neutral if I wanna, so like I said, sue me if you can

[b][color=#1980BC]What in the seven hells is my business with likes and shares? Is that the one giving you headache?

for your information I didn't even take note of that when I was telling you that you can't win this argument anywhere and I meant in the real world. Nairaland must really be a safe haven for you these days to think it's all about likes and shares and even if it comes to that, the people who liked and shared my post are simply saying they agree with my opinion and there's nothing more to it. Stop trying to be unnecessarily ridiculous!

Even if you bring the religion argument what's your point?

Did the bible say people who are poor should go into prostitution? Is that what your bible says? Does your bible not frown at prostitution?

You have forgotten you were also acting like Nairaland's police officer when you jumped on the Op and now you are crying foul. Because the Op ruled out poverty you said his write-up is skewed, bias and bla bla bla.

So every girl who comes from a poor home should go into prostitution. That's like a good reason for her to sell her body for money?



Wonderful!

It's never by force to change an opinion but a wrong opinion is still a wrong opinion no matter how you twist it.

That's why there are different kinds of people in the world. It's a sad fact that we also have ignorant people amongst us and the painful part of it all is that we have to live with them. [/color][/b]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Even if you bring the religion argument what's your point?

Did the bible say people who are poor should go into prostitution? Is that what your bible says?

I stated what my bible says clearly, if you want a recap, go through your mentions

You have forgotten you were also acting like Nairaland's police officer when you jumped on the Op and now you are crying foul. Because the Op ruled out poverty you said his write-up is skewed, bias and bla bla bla.

From what I remember, I only said my bit without quoting the op, he replied my comment and I did his too. You took up the matter and you're still carrying it on your head like gala, for God knows what reason. And I'm still saying it because like your siggy once said, [b]'sentimentality is the bane of intelligent homo sapiens'. His write-up wasn't objective enough and I pointed out its flaws

So every girl who comes from a poor home should go into prostitution. That's like a good reason for her to sell her body for money.

Like someone rightly said, it all boils down to choice, if she decides to, then who am I to dictate to her what to do

Wonderful!

It's never by force to change an opinion but a wrong opinion is still a wrong opinion no matter how you twist it.

Mr Naijaboiy don't start me on the issue of right or wrong because we both know those terms are relative

That's why there are different kind of people in the world. It's a sad fact that we also have ignorant people amongst us and the painful part of it all is that we have to live with them. [/color][/b]

Ginaz:
when I was in school, I didn't attended any birthday or party, I never stepped out of my room after 8p.m, only time I did it's getting food for dinner or hanging around my Lodge mates rooms just for general laughter and humor.

only party I attended was my graduation party. I visited just five (5) people throughout my stay in school and only three (3) people I allowed visited. when I tell people this is what I did in school, they never believe and I don't blame them.

no girl is lose or good, everything boils down to self control. if you don't wanna live a wayward life in school then you got to get a firm hold on yourself. every bad character doesn't start in a day, before you know it, it is embedded in your personality.

I'm happy with myself how I handled everything during my schooling days. all I wanna tell some girls is that, don't throw caution to the wind, have self control in every thing you do. I'm not a good girl, but I'm trying.

skarlett:
I stated what my bible says clearly, if you want a recap, go through your mentions



From what I remember, I only said my bit without quoting the op, he replied my comment and I did his too. You took up the matter and you're still carrying it on your head like gala, for God knows what reason. And I'm still saying it because like your siggy once said, 'sentimentality is the bane of intelligent homo sapiens'. His write-up wasn't objective enough and I pointed out its flaws



Like someone rightly said, it all boils down to choice, if she decides to, then who am I to dictate to her what to do



Mr Naijaboiy don't start me on the issue of right or wrong because we both know those terms are relative



Yea

But the consolation is, jellyfish has lived without brains for milions of years

Besides, we can't force everyone to like us and our opinions...oooops, I'm touting another one of your siggys again

[b][color=#1980BC]There is no flaw in the Op's write up. He said its from his personal experience but you were expecting him to input the poverty tag. Even at that, the rest of us who noticed what you were trying to say clamped on you to still let you know that even that poverty tag you expected the Op to input is not a good excuse to go into prostitution.

This is very similar to when you women shout "No justification to hit a woman" or "No justification to cheat on your partner". Men have brought up so many reasons but everything still remains the same that no matter what a man should not hit a woman. So in the same vein, poverty is not a good excuse to go into prostitution. I'll keep hammering on that point cos I know I'm very right in all ramifications.

Talking about sentimentality, I know I still remember clearly what the meaning of being sentimental is so I'm still confused there.

I don't know if condemning prostitution is now an act of sentimentalism. Maybe you should explain better.

Going back to my siggy which is a good thing you always take note of them , I will like to draw you back to the siggy you are referring to and it goes thus. "It's not compulsory you agree with me, I mean I can't force you to be right".

Going by all standards I'm the one who is right here and in my earlier post I've told you I can't force you to join the train. So you are allowed to remain ignorant of the fact that prostitution is bad.

It's no crime at all!

What again were you saying about jelly fishes? [/color][/b]

copjtels:
SO tell me any where in the world where ashawo is a minister or Governors wife bank manager or manager of any multinational company. Because they will never be able to defend their certificates. No one eats his or her cake's and have it back that is why our ladies cannot do anything after school other than look for husband even if na 6th wife or sir sir jobs because they followed runs refused to study so nothing is in the skull so be wise my people

naijaboiy:
[b][color=#1980BC]There is no flaw in the Op's write up. He said its from his personal experience but you were expecting him to input the poverty tag. Even at that, the rest of us who noticed what you were trying to say clamped on you to still let you know that even that poverty tag you expected the Op to input is not a good excuse to go into prostitution.

This is very similar to when you women shout "No justification to hit a woman" or "No justification to cheat on your partner". Men have brought up so many reasons but everything still remains the same that no matter what a man should not hit a woman. So in the same vein, poverty is not a good excuse to go into prostitution. I'll keep hammering on that point cos I know I'm very right in all ramifications.

Talking about sentimentality, I know I still remember clearly what the meaning of being sentimental is so I'm still confused there.

I don't know if condemning prostitution is now an act of sentimentalism. Maybe you should explain better.

Going back to my siggy which is a good thing you always take note of them , I will like to draw you back to the siggy you are referring to and it goes thus. "It's not compulsory you agree with me, I mean I can't force you to be right".

Going by all standards I'm the one who is right here and in my earlier post I've told you I can't force you to join the train. So you are allowed to remain ignorant of the fact that prostitution is bad.

It's no crime at all!

What again were you saying about jelly fishes? [/color][/b]