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Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by K9blunt(f): 9:57pm On Jun 18, 2016
vizkiz:
lol...I am not one of those who run after white girls :d
grin right......if you say so wink
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by ewawumi(f): 10:40pm On Jun 18, 2016
Jerrymax01:
Gone are the days of perfume jelly cream and cocoa butter, now all you see where creams are been sold are tone this tone that. I hope we learn to appreciate ourselves, becos some whites even envy our skin. Teamblackrocks
dia days aren't gone o, dey jst decide 2 ignore dem
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by chigoizie7(m): 10:49pm On Jun 18, 2016
The funniest thing is when u tell her.

Me :- hey, chomy u are becoming a little bit fair, u don de chop up oh(just to psyche her).

Chomy:- noo, that has been my original colour oh, my skin was dark b4 because of suffer head, now I am using XYZ cream, and it is bringing out my real colour.

Me:- is this not the Chioma I know when she was barely 4yrs old? (in my mind).
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by diva90: 11:55pm On Jun 18, 2016
VaginaTerrorist:
I Love Light skin! But if she must be a Nigerian, meeeen she must show me her Birth ID card b4 Marriage or else just 4get me with my Afgan gals.
85% of Nigerian men love light skinned ladies. They are the reason why a lot of dark skinned women have lost their self esteem and bleach away their old identity. It's not news that if two girls walked into a room full of men and one was dark + the other was really fair. Most eyes would be on the fair lady...
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by AmAlbert(m): 11:55pm On Jun 18, 2016
And dem no dey Eva gree say dem dey bleach, some go say na only pears baby oil dem dey rub, odas go say na na dia soap and now dem Don get solution to heel, ankle, elbow and ol dos places wey no dey gree bleach before, as a sharp guy wey I be, I go just tell you make you pull your skirt/trouser make I check..
Una know say cream no dey reach middle of yarsh, so na dia I dey look to confirm if true true yhu dey bleach or not.....
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by Jerrymax01(m): 11:56pm On Jun 18, 2016
dia days aren't gone o, dey jst decide 2 ignore dem

I never knew they still exist or maybe it's just because they ain't trending anymore
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by nefertitiram: 12:13am On Jun 19, 2016
sisisioge:
grin grin grin

They are in high demands now o, the hussle is real. However, I think the OP's wife did the cheap bleaching. The IT thing now is the gentle removal of several layers with natural products like papaya, avocado etc. It doesn't make them smelly and gives even tone. As for me, I'm stuck with my dark skin, not because I don't like the fair ones but because it will be disastrous to change. Everyone should know her limits cool
Some skin sef are immune to bleaching. I tried and tried. Managed to reach chocolate. Got preg had my baby and I'm back to dudu.

I've given up already. I'm lucky if I remember to rub baby oil on my skin before heading out the door.

Mayb I was able to bleach the baby while in my womb, cos she came out white like this, and she's still oyinbo and looks japanese. If not for some uncanning resemblance, people will say I adopted her
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by nefertitiram: 12:24am On Jun 19, 2016
Loisemm:
Why do women bleach sef?! I even encounter some men that bleach their skin! Toning I can undastand but bleaching?!
The other sister of bleaching is putting on a far lighter foundation powder on one's face. The face will be 'white' while the arms and legs remain chocolately or normal... Smh.
That one is reserved for Tiwa savage
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by Jerrymax01(m): 12:24am On Jun 19, 2016
I guess you're the only one or one of the few that still use that. Have never seen a white person looking all around for cream to make them black not to talk of buying and keeping in fridge, Abi cream don turn stew ni?
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by predatorX: 12:59am On Jun 19, 2016
MzPecs:
I just wonder why and how they find pleasure doing that. undecided

Looks irritating especially their knuckles sad angry
You are there talking about knuckles. I dread looking at their feet, it reminds me of injuries of the Nigerian civil war..............shrapnel cuts, mortar injuries etc
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by predatorX: 1:01am On Jun 19, 2016
AmAlbert:
And dem no dey Eva gree say dem dey bleach, some go say na only pears baby oil dem dey rub, odas go say na na dia soap and now dem Don get solution to heel, ankle, elbow and ol dos places wey no dey gree bleach before, as a sharp guy wey I be, I go just tell you make you pull your skirt/trouser make I check..
Una know say cream no dey reach middle of yarsh, so na dia I dey look to confirm if true true yhu dey bleach or not.....
Boil go catch you for your eyes very soon....... Lol
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by olanshi: 5:42am On Jun 19, 2016
I hate bleachers with passion! They have very low self esteem.

No difference between Boli and their skin

Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by Akjr(m): 7:28am On Jun 19, 2016
ObiOmaMu:
It is no longer news that bleaching has become a trend among many Nigerians - both celebrities and regular people, these days.

They call it skin toning, brightening, lightening, whitening and what have you. It is a phenomenon that has been in the Nigerian society for decades and has turned a huge business for cosmetic industry. According to World Health Organisation (WHO), 77% of women in Nigeria use skin-lightening products.

Well, a married Nigerian man who is currently married to a 41 year old woman who bleaches has taken the pain to share his story, warning Nigerian men to NEVER WIFE A BLEACHER.

You'll find Kunle's story below. Kindly read and digest!

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/06/never-marry-bleacher-nigerian-man.html
not even this wll reduce d rate of bleaching 9ja babes. Dey suffer low self esteem mostly, so, if dey stop, in 5day time, if d real color appear, nah wit speed dem go use go purchase d cream. #naturalcolour grin
ObiOmaMu:
It is no longer news that bleaching has become a trend among many Nigerians - both celebrities and regular people, these days.

They call it skin toning, brightening, lightening, whitening and what have you. It is a phenomenon that has been in the Nigerian society for decades and has turned a huge business for cosmetic industry. According to World Health Organisation (WHO), 77% of women in Nigeria use skin-lightening products.

Well, a married Nigerian man who is currently married to a 41 year old woman who bleaches has taken the pain to share his story, warning Nigerian men to NEVER WIFE A BLEACHER.

You'll find Kunle's story below. Kindly read and digest!

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/06/never-marry-bleacher-nigerian-man.html
not even this wll reduce d rate of bleaching 9ja babes. Dey suffer low self esteem mostly, so, if dey stop, in 5day time, if d real color appear, nah wit speed dem go use go purchase d cream. #naturalcolour
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by Ezegozie(m):
udysweet:
Nawa o,see as una jus dey insult my beloved state,lol! I doubt that's true,was der dis year (uyo thoo and dat na d main place sef) I ddnt come accros bleached ladies. Mind you pple frm my side are naturally ffair too so don't mistaken a light skinned lady for a bleached one. I am for toning ur skin to make it even and all but not bleach away your epidermis abi na dermis dem dey call am. Saw one yday here in lagos,her feetgave her away. Like dey scrapped and scrapped but cldnt get past below the ankle so dat area and all around it was smtn else jus like the pic below
My sister abadie , I can't just come to nairaland and lie against your state.

I served in Ibesikpo Asutan LGA.

If you see somebody who is naturally fair, you will know.

Most of Akwaibom people (including their men)
bleach their skin.

God knows I am just saying what I saw.

Another thing I observed is that their girls are usually short and possess bulgy stomach (afo beer)

Though they are naturally good to strangers
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by udysweet(f): 7:44am On Jun 19, 2016
Hahahahahah@their girls are usually short and possess bulgy stomach (ago beer) ,God pass you jare! Anyways am an exception. We still have naturally light skinned beautiful and tall ladies,not all short and bulging tummies joo,lol!
Happy sunday all
Ezegozie:
My sister, I can't just come to nairaland and lie against your state.

I served in Ibesikpo Asutan LGA.

If you see somebody who is naturally fair, you will know.

Most of Akwaibom people (including their men) not bleach their skin.

God knows I am just saying what I saw.

Another thing I observed is that their girls are usually short and possess bulgy stomach (ago beer)
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by Ezegozie(m): 8:11am On Jun 19, 2016
udysweet:
Hahahahahah@their girls are usually short and possess bulgy stomach (ago beer) ,God pass you jare! Anyways am an exception. We still have naturally light skinned beautiful and tall ladies,not all short and bulging tummies joo,lol!
Happy sunday all
Yea, I totally agree with you.
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by victorjoe(m): 8:12am On Jun 19, 2016
kunlesufyan:
Serious something .....them dey put some inside fridge ....if you want to see girls bleach on a high level,come to akwa ibom
Stop that lie!
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by nortcentrallord(m): 8:16am On Jun 19, 2016
When a beautiful natural black girl takes of her clothes, I 1st say prayer before meal and thank God for the gift of a natural black beauty. Bleaching sucks. Cant stand it for "short or long term relationship"
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by sisisioge: 8:38am On Jun 19, 2016
nefertitiram:
Some skin sef are immune to bleaching. I tried and tried. Managed to reach chocolate. Got preg had my baby and I'm back to dudu.

I've given up already. I'm lucky if I remember to rub baby oil on my skin before heading out the door.

Mayb I was able to bleach the baby while in my womb, cos she came out white like this, and she's still oyinbo and looks japanese. If not for some uncanning resemblance, people will say I adopted her
grin grin grin
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by Kowor(f): 8:47am On Jun 19, 2016
Shebi na una dey sing ''omo pupa le mi fe'' y d complaint? But that lady in d pisure is not the lady na op.
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by kcowen(m): 9:49am On Jun 19, 2016
If your boyfriend ever dumped you for a dark-skinned girl is the worst thing or feeling
ever; because anytime you get home and see charcoal, you become emotional
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by MarieSucre(f): 11:17am On Jun 19, 2016
utenwuson:
d worst part is she will end up giving birth to black kids "vewi annoying "
Are you a racist? What is wrong with black children?
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by MarieSucre(f): 11:17am On Jun 19, 2016
Topestbilly:
Don't really get it.. is it dat demand for fair people are greater Dan dark ones or what?

Team fair ladies kiss no bleaching bit*h should come close to me cos I hate how their skins looks *vomiting tongue *
"Team fair ladies"

^
i
!

This is why you're definitely gonna date and marry a girl who bleaches. You attract what you desire.
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by MarieSucre(f):
EVILFOREST:
OK,
Thank you, sir.
U have said it all.
Most ladies of nowadays are objects of mere satisfaction.
I have always told my peers that u can compromise many things but not MARRIAGE criteria, .

Some LADIES are exclusively prepared for MARRIAGE
Some LADIES are exclusively prepared for Clubs
Some LADIES are exclusively prepared for Shopping
Some LADIES are exclusively prepared as SIDE-CHICKS.
Some LADIES are exclusively prepared as sign posts.

Always, go for number 1, when ready for marriage.
By the time you're playing with the other four. The ones who are interested in marriage will be getting married. By the time you will be ready for marriage, they will all have been married and its the other four that will be left.

So in other words young man, keep wasting time thinking you're playing girls. in the end you will see that you played yourself.
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by MarieSucre(f): 11:23am On Jun 19, 2016
Stancity:
It is the protective coloration of the Chameleon that protects it from the hand of an enemy....

Until i hear from the woman.... Something must have pushed her into bleaching...
You're right. The man probably pursued her initially because she was fair. When there were a lot of chocolate skinned girls around him looking for his love. He gets what he lusted after.
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by MarieSucre(f):
wonderkid619:
I seriously wander why stress oneself to spend hundreds of thousands, valuable and precious time in painting and bleaching a body that will still end up in the morgue... it's just a pity our girls are not learning, see a beautiful black girl abroad and try to find out how many whites are wasting money to change their skin to her color...
bleachers, receive common sense!!!
Death is sure. They know that it is gonna happen but they don't know when.

But what they know for sure is that growing up fair has always been synonymous with beauty. The girls who were given nicknames like yellow pepper and tomato were all also sought after by men. While they were by the side.

Now the internet has brought African American men with their reigning slang "team light skin girls".

So they know that for now, if they must get a man, their skin must be brighter than the sun.
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by Topestbilly(m): 11:51am On Jun 19, 2016
MarieSucre:
"Team fair ladies"

^
i
!

This is why you're definitely gonna date and marry a girl who bleaches. You attract what you desire.
Don't get.... ar u saying al fair ladies are bleaching??

C'mon! U need to see my ex no single black spot yet she's not using Al dis processed body cream...

The bleachers are known by their black and brown ankles, kneels etc...

Ar u a dark complexion person??
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by utenwuson: 3:28pm On Jun 19, 2016
MarieSucre:
Are you a racist? What is wrong with black children?
nah! when a fair lady n fair dude keep giving birth to blacks kids? who s talking about racist here
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by MarieSucre(f): 7:34pm On Jun 19, 2016
Topestbilly:
Don't get.... ar u saying al fair ladies are bleaching??

C'mon! U need to see my ex no single black spot yet she's not using Al dis processed body cream...

The bleachers are known by their black and brown ankles, kneels etc...

Ar u a dark complexion person??
Yes I am.

My point is when you're definition of beauty is a woman who is fair, you'll definitely get women who want to be that just to be with men like you.
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by Topestbilly(m): 8:26pm On Jun 19, 2016
MarieSucre:
Yes I am.

My point is when you're definition of beauty is a woman who is fair, you'll definitely get women who want to be that just to be with men like you.
I never defined being fair as a tools for defining beauty. I'm dark complexion person too n I'm not ruling out marring a dark person just dat I love fair ladies more and can't b so blind to date/marry a bleacher.

Whether fair or dark IQ is what matters most in marriage.
Re: "Never Marry A Bleacher" - Nigerian Man Currently Married To One Cries Out by MuyiRano(m): 9:11pm On Jun 20, 2016
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