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Marriage is too overrated, I believe that marriage is not for everybody. some marriage works but not all.

Abeg rephrase the ?

It should be. . . IS MARRIAGE POSSIBLE IN AFRICA?

Answer. . .YES! MARRIAGE OF CONVENIENCE!

Happy marriage ke? Lai-lai!
Na management we do o.
E beta pass SINGLE life sha!
Diarrris alway somebody to 'cuss' from morning till night!

Most married people are unhappy—with many a virtual study in misery. They have no idea what to do about it or where to turn for answers. Millions stumble along, bouncing off one marital problem into another, never knowing how to address them—let alone solve them!

I don pass all dis stage o!
Unhappy ke? For wetin na?
I don even remember what my husband's vu-vu-vu-VLOKOS looks like anymore o!
I woke me up this morning 'squeezing my breasssstz. . . I NOR EVEN FEEL anytin o!

He even kissed me on his way to work. . . I just continue snoring JEJELY! Shior!

Sadly, so many enter marriage with no understanding, no preparation, no training and no idea of how to achieve a lifetime of happiness with their chosen partner.

If you like. . . PREPARE, FORTIFY, UNDERSTAND AND RETRAIN. . . . NO ONE CAN GIVE YOU HAPPINESS THE WAY YOU WANT IT.
Just take it as you see it and find HAPPINESS IN YOURSELF!

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Happiness in marriage is both a choice and the result of hard work. More so, you need to be deliberately blind and deaf to some things.

Calculus25:
can you explain the bolded

Haba!
You for wait make I finish na!
Don't you know I have to edit and re-edit?

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Calculus25:
I was discussing with my brother's wife a few weeks ago. I think love is blind.
Do other animals fall in love ? NO. they just have kids and move on with their life .companionship is good ,but giving your trust to anyone is foolish. Most humans are prone to cheat if the opportunity presents itself . Also,would you continue loving a person who just got his or her face disfigured by acid ? Would you love your boyfriend or husband if his dick was amputated?

what qualities makes you love a person? Do you know that there are 100s of thousands of others who posses those same qualities? I believe in a need for companionship,but not really love .

What exactly is your point?
Is marriage by force?
People who have chosen to get married have made their choices.
So, if they are happy or not. . . should we cry or rejoice with them?
Na competition?

Yes

Married people are not happy.
Single people are miserable and lonely.

All according to you guys. Who then is happy?

Why not just concentrate on your own happiness and stop analyzing other people's lives and degree of happiness.

Excellent write up OP.

OP, point is, majority of humans are unhappy. It's not about being married or unmarried.

I dont know jorh.i am not married.

I believe a happy marriage is possible, If you don't go into it expecting your partner to be solely responsible for your happiness and you are lucky to find a partner who appreciates and puts enough effort into making a peaceful and happy home with you. But not when we have seen too many movies and we now have different ideas of what a happy marriage is, only to come in and realise its not going to be like the movies... Disappointment!!

All-in-All it depends what you think a "Happy marriage" Whether married or single being Happy is a choice that may not come without a price

Is this supposed to be a question? ...