Jobabori:
The tips are meant for GRA based " ajebuter" parents. A culture vast traditional parents brought up his/ her child to appreciate the "do' and " don't "of communal life which not only prohibit any form of sexual molestation but all form of abuses. You do not need to memorise tips about parenting, you imbibe it from your parents. The way you are brought up has a form of correlation with how you train your children. Do not sit on laps, do not call a kid your wife, do not visit neighbours are cosmetic child rearing tips. Parenting is natural, an innate skills, it is not learn through any formal approach as intend by the poster. If parenting is to be learn as a subject, then the kids of the educated ones could have been the best mortally but it is not so.

Blossom023:
Thank you. I used to think how I'll protect my children from molestation when I start having kids. My neighbor her children are 11,9,4,2.. She will just naked all of them and say she wants to baff them.. You will see the big boy and his senior sister.. Naked waiting to have their bath. What rubbish!

McBrooklyn:
Then I Guess This Should Really Be The Watchword Of The Children


*** Give Us Pen Not Pen*s ***


*** Ask For Our Books Not Our Boobs ***


*** Pay Our School Fee Not Our Bride Price ***


*** We Need Education Not Ejaculati*n ***


You Can Actually Thank Me Later!

sheedy407:
May God and Allah bless me more as i read this post.

I am a Christian and a proud Catholic but it doesnt change anything that we all came from one source which is ALLAH / GOD

kevinberry:
bias write up,I was once molested by a female family friend,so is millions of boys out there in the word,and you write this without saying anything against female sexual predators...it might be for the likes,but it not right

ikbnice:
[b]The news these days is filled with cases of child molestation by adults. Some of the incidence leading to this can be avoided if the children are equipped with adequate knowledge right from the early stage. No one will be able to capitalize on their ignorance.
HERE IS A LIST OF THINGS YOU NEED TO TEACH YOUR CHILD(REN) AT EARLY AGE :

1. Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including close relations.

2. Avoid getting dressed/UnCloth in front of your child, once he/she is 2 years old. Let them understand the value of privacy.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband', reprove it immediately.

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values regarding SEX. If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values and peer pressure will bend them negatively.

8. It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons and movies you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves. Many of these are laced with negative sex.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often to do so.

10. Teach your three-year-old how to wash his/her private part properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11. Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd. Being different from others is never a crime.

13. Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, you can't be too careful. [/b]

McBrooklyn:


Hmm . . . Not Only You But Myself Inclusive! But I actually wrote this cos the females counterpart are the ones mostly molested and I guess this thread is also about the female counterpart too

kevinberry:
the female counterparts are the ones mostly reported,the reason most boys don't report is the same reason me and you did not speak out,but when you keep on focusing on the female issues,it makes more boys to keep quiet

Bruh, how you gon say it?? You'll now keep a straight face and be saying a lady molested you?? Your guys gon laff you tire


The reason why most guys don't report is the fact that there is no harm there after all you didn't lose anything even if you tell it's gonna be funny though

Cherishing:

Hmm big boys and you always watch her do bathe them

sheedy407:
May God and Allah bless me more as i read this post.

I am a Christian and a proud Catholic but it doesnt change anything that we all came from one source which is ALLAH / GOD

taemilola:
Most Nigerian parents don't like to give their children sex education.

DExplorer1:
Your own don pass ordinary tips, this one na war

Overjoyed:
Very useful tips..thanks for sharing.

lilzcee:
exactly thats why i watch bluefilm alot to teach me myself sex education

taemilola:
Most Nigerian parents don't like to give their children sex education.

McBrooklyn:


Bruh, how you gon say it?? You'll now keep a straight face and be saying a lady molested you?? Your guys gon laff you tire


The reason why most guys don't report is the fact that there is no harm there after all you didn't lose anything even if you tell it's gonna be funny though

cococandy:

Who told you the guy didn't lose anything?

Oh! Oh!! Oh!!! Well in that case, our sweet cococandy here can tell us something we don't actually know



*** We're all ears or should I just say we're all ears *** . . . Oya come and tell us what the guy lose too

sheedy407:
May God and Allah bless me more as i read this post.

I am a Christian and a proud Catholic but it doesnt change anything that we all came from one source which is ALLAH / GOD

sheedy407:
May God and Allah bless me more as i read this post.

I am a Christian and a proud Catholic but it doesnt change anything that we all came from one source which is ALLAH / GOD

cococandy:
they would rather avoid the subject

taemilola:
you can also teach ur children with the blue film.