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Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by menxer: 11:44am On Jul 17, 2016
pweeryambre:
How come wretched people pray more and they are still poor...
The conditions are: watch and pray or pray and watch, meaning after praying watch out for opportunities that would come and take action, or if you see an opportunity, take action and pray accordingly.

Most poor people only do one and not the other.

Opportunity to make money or improve ones life sometimes aren't that obvious at face value.

At the same time prayer should not be from the stand point of fear or weakness, but confidence, joy, gratitude.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by Nobody: 11:46am On Jul 17, 2016
falconey:
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Lol. All is well bruv.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by pweeryambre: 11:49am On Jul 17, 2016
Smitsam:
Obviously every human creature has a God given talent.. to some he has given less to others he gave more.. you don't go to school to learn how to be successful my brother if not job creation will not be a very difficult problem for Nigerian government. I pray you find your God giving talent u will understand that we are poor because we chose to.
Thanks, but I don't need anyone to pray for my God given talent, I already have a job and I'm thankful for that.
Besides, talent is simply a desire, I hope you know, so there is nothing particularly special in "talent"
I'm just stating that if how we pray directly results to our prayer being answered then all the poor people would have been very happy today with the result of their prayers, because I have seen them pray with so much faith, hope, desire and full of expectations and yet nothing.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by waldigit: 11:52am On Jul 17, 2016
iliyande:
The most common prayer among Christians is the "Lord's Prayer", which according to the gospel accounts (e.g. Matthew 6:9-13) is how Jesus taught his disciples to pray. "The Lord's Prayer" is a model for prayers of adoration, confession and petition in Christianity.

Much of our prayer life can sometimes become about how much faith we have. We think that our prayers are answered when there is maximum faith and minimal doubt in our hearts. Otherwise it's best we try again.

But the power of prayer lies not on our faith, but on the finished work of Christ.

Faith is wonderful, and the Bible says that it is faith that pleases God. But is it also the determinant of whether our prayers get answered and how fast they get answered?

So much of the teachings on prayer nowadays focus on having more and more faith. These teachings say:

● "You should believe God more when you pray for the sick."

● "Stop doubting when you pray for financial provision and God will open the flood gates of heaven."

● "Your family isn't saved yet because when you pray, you don't pray with conviction."

Faith is important and vital to our everyday life. But do we really gain more faith in prayer by believing more and learning to doubt less? Isn't that in essence trying to get our prayers answered by our own strength?

When we think this way, then we fail to realise how faith really comes. Faith comes not by our own ability to believe or our own ability to remove doubts.

We need faith, but sadly many of us have misunderstood faith. We think it's about how much we read the Bible, how much we think about God's goodness, how much we shut out the fear when praying, or how much we cry and kneel when praying. When we think of faith this way, it now becomes faith relying on our attempts and no longer on God's power.

Hebrews 8:1-2 reminds us that it is through Jesus alone that we can now approach God in prayer. He is the high priest that mediates for us and stands on our behalf before the Father to come to His presence and offer worship, gratefulness and petition. That's why we end every prayer by saying "in Jesus' name."

Many believers pray today thinking it's their faithfulness that will get prayers answered. We watch for keywords, traditions and rudiments unawarely thinking that's what will get our prayers answered.

Even the simplest of prayers will be answered when we realise that it's God's faithfulness and not ours that answers prayers.

God's faithfulness to hear and answer our prayers does not depend on our rudiments, our works, or our ability to shut our doubts and fears. It's God that works out our faith and it is His perfect love that casts out our fears.
Lord
to fully understand faith. ask holy Spirit to reveal to you why faith is both gift and fruit of Spirit.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by cybercares(m): 11:54am On Jul 17, 2016
Op, I disagree with you... The no 1 prerequisite for prayer is Faith. If you have faith in God you can do all things and everything. FAITH is very important in the life of every Christian.

pweeryambre:
How come wretched people pray more and they are still poor...
Well, from my own understanding, some poor Christian don't think they are poor because they feel they are rich in the Lord and they are at peace with themselves. so they don't pray for riches like you and I, they will rather pray for more souls be saved they also believe riches can make you miss the kingdom of God.

You are rich does not mean you are loved by God and if one is poor does not mean his prayer has not been answered. Because some christains want worldly riches while others crave for heavenly riches.

I was a Muslim. I gave my life to Jesus less than 2 months ago and ever since then I have been at peace and my life has really transformed gracefully. Please like/share my post to welcome me. THANKS
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by falconey(m): 11:55am On Jul 17, 2016
pweeryambre:
so it is justifiable for rich bad people to have their prayers answered more than the poor people in the streets that desperately needs their prayers to be answered because they might forget to pray to God when they become rich.huh
I understand how you feel, being rich or being poor do you think it is God's doing ? don't forget God gave us power of free will and power to rule the earth and enjoy everything in it .

you don't REALLY NEED GOD to be rich , these are within human control . most Nigerians are poor because of her system of government which makes her citizens run to GOD and become prayerful . do you think in most developed countries citizens classify rich and poor ?,no! all citizen's rights are met ,social amenities are provided .

Nigerians just pray and call God for things they tort to themselves. looting ,mismanagement of resources and embezzlement. all these God has no alteration .

about the people you called "rich bad people " let me inform you ,sometimes the devil allows people to live without conundrum and predicament so they won't run to God. cc STFUareyouG0d
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by 4nobody4every1: 11:59am On Jul 17, 2016
sukkot:
amen ra

Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by seankay(m): 12:01pm On Jul 17, 2016
Without Prayers, what will be will be. It's just that we attribute positive results to Prayer and negative to enemies.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by winj3: 12:03pm On Jul 17, 2016
you should not be praying in the first place stup.id africans.
you have no evidence something is listening
and even if there is something listening why pray so many times, is the thing listening deaf?
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by falconey(m): 12:05pm On Jul 17, 2016
Ruq:
falconey

More of a philosopher
either of all , it is all about using scientific cannons to judge and report .

that's why you asked that question .
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jul 17, 2016
falconey:
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I might not be the holiest, I might not be His dearest. I might not be the most religious. I might not be the most dedicated. But God shouldn't ignore prayers


How could He watch evil prevail over good? How could he watch people with good heart suffer from bad people? Just because they are sinners? Or they don't worship Him properly?
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by vickyvwoke3(f): 12:08pm On Jul 17, 2016
like seriously!!
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by Demainman1: 12:09pm On Jul 17, 2016
Doubting is allowed in Christianity. Thomas, Jesus disciples was a doubter. He made heaven.

Faith is overrated. You don't need bucket load of faith. Small faith is OK. Just like a mustard seed.

You no get faith, you no get faith is just a 'get of jail statement' by gods of men. I mean pastors undecided
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by echodrum(m): 12:09pm On Jul 17, 2016
Op What you failed to mention is this "Faith without work is dead". James 2:14
Example:
1. If you are seriously sick and refused to take appropriate medications, no matter how much faith you have, how much you pray, and how much you believe you maybe heading to the wrong way. According to Apostle James, Even though you pray and believe that God is able to heal you, it is still your responsibilities to sick for medical help. If not your faith may be for in vein.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by 4nobody4every1: 12:10pm On Jul 17, 2016
Emeskhalifa:
All these prayer thing sef. Pesin go pray sotey saliva finish for mouth prayer neve get answerd.
grin grin grin grin

Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by affairsnaija: 12:16pm On Jul 17, 2016
Pray, have faith and take positive action for answers for manners dont fall from heaven
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by emerged01(m): 12:19pm On Jul 17, 2016
pweeryambre:
How come wretched people pray more and they are still poor...
The situation may seem unfair and tragic, it is not hopeless. Let their trust remain in Him.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by falconey(m):
STFUareyouG0d:
I might not be the holiest, I might not be


How could He watch evil prevail over good? How could he watch people with good heart suffer from bad people? Just because they are sinners? Or they don't worship Him properly?
you sound like an atheist , "evil" is the weapon atheists use against God , I know you 'd love him at some point in your life .

God allows evil to exist because of freewill (, he tolerate evil on a temporary basis so one day those who choose to love him freely will dwell with him in heaven .evil prevails because that is what humans embrace now. earth is not our home heaven is , earth is a journey but people make it a home and chooses to acquire all it riches neglecting their purpose here on earth which is to live and serve God. most people's prayer ,is it not to acquire the riches of the earth ? that is not the grand price .






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STFUareyouG0d:
I might not be the holiest, I might not be


How could He watch evil prevail over good? How could he watch people with good heart suffer from bad people? Just because they are sinners? Or they don't worship Him properly?
you sound like an atheist , "evil" is the weapon atheists use against God , I know you 'd love him at some point in your life .

God allows evil to exist because of freewill (, he tolerate evil on a temporary basis so one day those who choose to love him freely will dwell with him in heaven .evil prevails because that is what humans embrace now. earth is not our home heaven is , earth is a journey but people make it a home and chooses to acquire all it riches neglecting their purpose here on earth which is to live and serve God. most people's prayer ,is it not to acquire the riches of the earth ? that is not the grand price .






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STFUareyouG0d:
I might not be the holiest, I might not be


How could He watch evil prevail over good? How could he watch people with good heart suffer from bad people? Just because they are sinners? Or they don't worship Him properly?
you sound like an atheist , "evil" is the weapon atheists use against God , I know you 'd love him at some point in your life .

God allows evil to exist because of freewill ( the ability to act at one's own discretion). he tolerate evil on a temporary basis so one day those who chooses to love him freely will dwell with him in heaven .evil prevails because that is what humans embrace with evil . earth is not our home heaven is , earth is a journey but people make it a home and chooses to acquire all it riches neglecting their purpose here on earth which is to live and serve God. most people's prayer ,is it not to acquire the riches of the earth ? that is not the grand price .





Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by pweeryambre: 12:19pm On Jul 17, 2016
cybercares:
Op, I disagree with you... The no 1 prerequisite for prayer is Faith. If you have faith in God you can do all things and everything. FAITH is very important in the life of every Christian.



Well, from my own understanding, some poor Christian don't think they are poor because they feel they are rich in the Lord and they are at peace with themselves. so they don't pray for riches like you and I, they will rather pray for more souls be saved they also believe riches can make you miss the kingdom of God.

You are rich does not mean you are loved by God and if one is poor does not mean his prayer has not been answered. Because some christains want worldly riches while others crave for heavenly riches.

I was a Muslim. I gave my life to Jesus less than 2 months ago and ever since then I have been at peace and my life has really transformed gracefully. Please like/share my post to welcome me. THANKS
Yes even poor Christians that pray for heavenly riches, I don't believe their prayers get all that answered. because with time they become fanatics, and think everyone is their enemy and that every bad thing that happened to them must have spiritual meanings, their line of reasoning are out of this world and they become hard to live with... like they are always unhappy.
If truly their prayers are answered then like you, they should be at peace with themselves of which most times they are not.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by jojosweet(f): 12:35pm On Jul 17, 2016
sukkot:
well dayumm
what is dayummm I keep seeing it.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jul 17, 2016
falconey:
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Im not an atheist. Have never being. I go to church when I can, I say my prayers. Read my bible. Love my neighbors as myself. I can say I'm a believer of God

But then, I sometimes feel God is too lenient with the evil doers. Why do God let the evil doers prevail over good people? Does it pay more to do evil? And when you call on Him to fight your battle, He ignores and watch. Why?
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by OgundeleT(m): 12:45pm On Jul 17, 2016
when ur omni omni god didn't have good plan you have to tell him to change his mind by praying.. religion can make people fool while they will think they are wise
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by jojosweet(f): 12:47pm On Jul 17, 2016
Flexherbal:
Can prayers be answered without faith?
That bible recorded that it was the faith of the woman with the issue of blood that made healed her.
Think of how to please God and be good to those around you.
it is by faith we even pray in the first place. Nice comment.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by Mediapace: 12:47pm On Jul 17, 2016
The bible says GOD LOVE SINNERS BUT HATE THEIR SINS

These are the reasons :
*God want to use the life of evil doers to preach the gospel to others if they later change,an example is a born again armed robber,they will have a story to tell that will move many to christ
*GOD USEs evil-doers to make his followers pray more and have time for him,let's assume there is no bad government in this country and every one is fairing well. MANY WILL HAVE NO TIME FOR GOD talkless of going to church
STFUareyouG0d:
Im not an atheist. Have never being. I go to church when I can, I say my prayers. Read my bible. Love my neighbors as myself. I can say I'm a believer of God

But then, I sometimes feel God is too lenient with the evil doers. Why do God let the evil doers prevail over good people? Does it pay more to do evil? And when you call on Him to fight your battle, He ignores and watch. Why?
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by falconey(m): 12:48pm On Jul 17, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Im not an atheist. Have never being. I go to church when I can, I say my prayers. Read my bible. Love my neighbors as myself. I can say I'm a believer of God

But then, I sometimes feel God is too lenient with the evil doers. Why do God let the evil doers prevail over good people? Does it pay more to do evil? And when you call on Him to fight your battle, He ignores and watch. Why?
He doesn't ignore , you being alive is a battle he won . evil has been in the world before the creation of man , we are to snub and disregard it in our path of righteousness.

evil doers enjoy now and will suffer in hell for eternity while the good doers will join God in heaven . as I said earlier earth is not home heaven is , that is the way God designed it . dont be carried away by the temporary enjoyment on earth and discredit God's work .
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by tunnyl(m): 12:48pm On Jul 17, 2016
well you have to combine faith with believe in God for your prayer to get answere. ask yourself does God answer the prayer of an unbeliever?
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by demzey(m): 12:55pm On Jul 17, 2016
rattlesnake:
Why do Catholic pray to Mary sef
Dah bobo, d way catholic pray sef is a question for anoda day. Day intercede try Mary, kneel in front of a graven image(maybe its scrapped), what's d rosary for? And day actually sing prayers, like seriously!!!. Ders a difference BTW praying n singing.
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jul 17, 2016
falconey:
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what has happened to this promise?

There hath no temptation taken hold of you but such as is common to man. But God is faithful; He will not suffer you to be tempted beyond that which ye are able to bear, but with the temptation will also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. - 1 Corinthians 10:13
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jul 17, 2016
Mediapace:
The bible says GOD LOVE SINNERS BUT HATE THEIR SINS

These are the reasons :
*God want to use the life of evil doers to preach the gospel to others if they later change,an example is a born again armed robber,they will have a story to tell that will move many to christ
*GOD USEs evil-doers to make his followers pray more and have time for him,let's assume there is no bad government in this country and every one is fairing well. MANY WILL HAVE NO TIME FOR GOD talkless of going to church
you mean he'll do all these things after the evil doer has prevailed and killed the person?
Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jul 17, 2016
olimX1556736r:
cool
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Re: How We've Been Praying The Wrong Way All This Time by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jul 17, 2016
jojosweet:
what is dayummm I keep seeing it.
Another way of saying, Damn.
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