Sweetlemon:
I'm so happy to hear this! Nigerian men are fast becoming too lazy for my liking, taking advantage of "I don't want a liability" to look for only ladies with regular source of income to marry because they are too lazy to make enough money on their own. The situation is seriously getting out of hand. The kinds of gists I hear these days about male gold diggers ehn....

Sweetlemon:
I'm so happy to hear this!Nigerian men are fast becoming too lazy for my liking, taking advantage of "I don't want a liability" to look for only ladies with regular source of income to marry because they are too lazy to make enough money on their own. The situation is seriously getting out of hand. The kinds of gists I hear these days about male gold diggers ehn....

Trina0936:
Yes oh! Its now time for the ladies to speak!
Any poor/jobless man should better look somewhere else because I ain't poor and I have a goodpaying job while still searching for a better one!
So men play your role or forget about marriage! Thank you Baba Adeboye!
You only said the truth and nothing but the truth

lielbree:

Good question. What vow did you take? For richer or poorer... through thick or thin..

Marriage is filled with ups and downs.
If a man losses him job , the wife must be supportive.

jezuzboi:


Can u pray for one hour nonstop?

micxwell:
And if he can build a house and you can't cook?

Trina0936:

Many parents cant and they are still good spouses!

Toks2008:


I smh for the ladies who will follow his advice.

Abeg where is the job sef? even those who have jobs are losing it?

Because he was fortunate to get a jobs in those days and he now lives on the tithes and offerings of members have made him lose touch of the reality.

At 26 I would have married your likes cos I was controlling millions from my IT business and just one crazy event sent me to square -10 and I had to work my way up again so abeg what will happen if I had married you before the negative turn around?

Pastor Adeboye goofed big time...if he said this in the 80s and maybe 90s I guess he will be making sense but saying this now where the jobs are not even there will be catastrophic to zombies who have no minds of their own.

These days guys are adviced to struggle their way to success but a regular paid job or regular income must never be used as criteria to marry a man.

Dangote did not have a steady income when he started but today he controls billions

My advice to reasonable ladies is to marry a guy who knows his onions and who is determined to make it in life.

Toks2008:


And my question what will happen if a lady marries a "jobfull" man and he becomes jobless after marriage?

By the way how many jobless youths Redeem church dey help on a regular basis asides the few they employed.

That moment when a supposed man of God flies in private jet, he tends to forget the reality around him.

Sweetlemon:
I'm so happy to hear this! Nigerian men are fast becoming too lazy for my liking, taking advantage of "I don't want a liability" to look for only ladies with regular source of income to marry because they are too lazy to make enough money on their own. The situation is seriously getting out of hand. The kinds of gists I hear these days about male gold diggers ehn....

jezuzboi:


So the wife must wait until her once "jobful" husband becomes jobless b4 being surpportive? Will Amadioha chop off her head if she starts being supportive from the start?

tunshe:


Console? How does that apply here?

I think you have comprehension problem.

ojuu4u:



Yes off course you ve comprehension problem because if you don't ve you wont misinterpret unambiguous advice baba gave. You want to be the head of the family and no financial resources to back it.' Agidi talaka' people like you are the one who usually bragging in midst of friends about their kids even though they don't spend a dime on them. God wil not make me a rubber stamp husband/father in Jesus name.

Deilluminator:
You are absolutely right. Education empowers one with the ability to make personal judgement on what one has learned. Is not all about implementing what one has learned.

tunshe:


I insist that you lack comprehension skills.

mrmatt:
This is in no way encouraging at all. I respect you a lot but I don't swallow church doctrine hook and line. Prayer is never a criteria for a good marriage... Never, we have cases of pastors divorcing, is it that their wives cannot pray? Though, its important women even men know how to cook but its not a yardstick for marriage. What matters is the happiness. He speaks as if he is not aware of the economic situation where getting a job is something else... 85% of Nigeria youths are willing and ready to work but where is the job?. I guess its old age or probably, because he is comfortable so he doesn't feel d pain jobless graduate feel.

smiliyB:
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Ayodeji2k14:
I am disappointed in pastor Adeboye by this statement "that women should not marry a jobless man" .
What of if the man gets married and loses his job after marriage? Must the wife divorce her husband?A man who is jobless today can get a job and be successful tomorrow.It is wrong for a man of God to talk like that
I am highly dissapointed by this statement from him

If he has nothing to say again? He should just keep silent.
He is not God to determine the future and conclude that a jobless man will be jobless forever.

Sweetlemon:


Let him get it first. Is marriage a do or die affair

lielbree:

Nope.
However the husband to be must have a job from start

Adam had the garden of Eden before eve came
That's how God make it!
A jobless man has no business looking for a woman!

GET A DAMN JOB FIRST!

ojuu4u:



Yes nobody is compelled to heed to the advise, but it is a very very useful advise. If you fail to heed. Uhmmmn, you will hate ursf. U want to dominate ur territory without having penny? Please don't turn yourself to laughing stock in ur environment

mpowa:


That prayer issue they give many girls headache. To me what's important for a Christian man is to see an attitude of prayer in the woman, don't worry when she marry and issues that coming up, she'll pray more than one hour sef. Nigerian women solve most problems by prayer, while men run up and down. It's important to have a praying wife, NA GOOD SPIRITUAL BACKUP