2 Types Of People Who Wouldn't Like Daddy Adeboye's Words Recently


The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God recently made some comments on marriage that didn't really go well with some people and here are two(2) major people who didn't find it funny

1. Girls/Ladies who cannot cook: Who would agree with me that almost all girls who cannot even boil egg didn't find daddy's message funny. Because of that, they abuse, accuse and misunderstood him. Believe me, no man loves to eat out when he can possibly use that money for his wife to prepare something that would last than spend it just on one plate of food that won't go anywhere at Mr Biggs

2. Jobless Men: Pastor adviced ladies not to marry a jobless man and almost all jobless men didn't go well with it. An angry man even called him a bastard because it didn't go well with him. Ladies be wise. Such guys can kill. Listen to daddy and take note. Marry a man with vision.even if he is yet to land a job, soon he would.
You can add yours if you know of any.

depends on d type of food he is referring to else this indomie generation ladis no sabi cook @ all....... all na to fry egg n indomie why them no go vex for this old man where don flex egusi with ogbono combine wt goat meat come ganish am wt amala! naim wer no use thunder fire ladies wer no sabi cook cos am



but wait oooo! how is it possible to marry a woman who cannot cook food sef? it's imposicant

Who are you to advice... Are you God? Cos he's jobless today does not mean he ill be jobless forever. ladies can also learn how to cook please.

Adeboye is a counsellor and a father. A man who is married for over 40years. Yo can't know more than he knows

cosby02:
Who are you to advice... Are you God? Cos he's jobless today does nit mean he ill be jobless forever

Tkayhandsome:
Adeboye is a counsellor and a father. A man who is married for over 40years. Yo can't know more than he knows

Thats to those who accept him as that.

Na you get your mouth. Tell me that when you reach 40 years of marriage

cosby02:

Thats to those who accept him as that.

I think I should perch here for a bit.

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This one concern me?

True

hmm

dis matta never do

HI

And ladies who cannot pray for 1hr non-stop

Hmmmmm

Pls add a third : The Berean Christians: A category which I humbly yet proudly belong to.
Yes having heard his words, I went back to search the Scriptures, and lo! None of it was biblical. Not the #beardgang thang, or the marrying from redeem thang or the jobless or cooking or matchmaking thang. None is biblical.

So yes, I am not happy that a person who many describe as a "man of God" could say such. Just the way another popular minister threatened to open the gates of hell last year. We Thankgod for his mercies sha.

true!..but who has he helped secure job?

Where you belong OP??

Akin Alabi na jobless man ba?

I Neva know wetin I go chop diz night like this..

But what he said is heard every now and then in marriage counseling classes.
I don't see why these advise is having a rippling effect on social media.
Can we discuss something else? Because whoever will get married will surely get married

cosby02:
Who are you to advice... Are you God? Cos he's jobless today does not mean he ill be jobless forever. ladies can also learn how to cook please.

but why would a jobless man think of marriage na stone him wan take feed him wife n children

Hmmmmm, it all boils down to morals n financial freedom. Even without this advice, most babes won't marry a jobless guy(no money no honey) and also most guys won't marry a babe who lacks morals. So there shouldn't be any fuss about it

Nothing freak unbeliever but let's be honest, only a fool will be jobless and seeking for marriage except a wealthy ones, even the job ones still considering the size of their income. I can never be jobless and be looking for wife.

The devil is attacking marriages now more than ever. If you check the statistics, 7 out of 10 women are the bread winners of their homes. Maybe due to the economy, women are working now or doing businesses to support their family.

Is this a bad thing? No its not. But I think the duties of a man is what makes him the Head of the family. How can a woman totally submit to a man whose bills she is paying? Isn't it better she bought herself a d!ldo or became a single parent?

If the woman isn't submitting, is the marriage being worth called one? If you check the reasons behind some marital issue, money is not far from it.

Men need to wake up to their duties and responsibilities because we have more women these days becoming men since men are neglecting their duties.

May God help us.

sometimes, I wonder if there is any lady that cannot cook

I agree with you op. I have nothing to add.

The problem with today's society is that we have forgotten what the real meaning of marriage or matrimony is.

Matrimony is defined as "the sacrament by which a baptized man and a baptized woman bind themselves for life in a lawful marriage and receive the grace to discharge their duties."

God chose to make man and woman, and to give him the power, in partnership with himself, to produce new human life. By the act of intimate union which we call sexual intercourse, man and woman would fashion a physical image of themselves; and into this new body so wondrously begun God would infuse a spiritual and immortal soul.

No matter how well matched a man and woman may appear to be, it is not easy for any two people to live together day in and day out, year after year, with their inescapable faults and personality defects.

So at the end of the day whether the man has a job or not and the woman knows how to cook or not, it is not what will make them stay married. If you read through your Bible, it never gave any criteria for marriage like having a job or knowing how to cook. It only says husband love your wife and wife respect your husband, only then will they last in marriage

I see nothing wrong with what Pastor Adeboye said

Guys with no job : Why is your d8ck hard with empty pocket? Convert that strength and effort into prayers and job application. Children need to eat, bills need to be paid. If as a woman you feel you are okay with paying all the bills and taking care of a man that will come and mount you every night after you have worked all day, then disregard this advice.

Women who can't cook: If not for your own sake or your husband, what will your children eat? Indomie is not food and a lot of outside food have unhealthy ingredients. Cooking healthy and yummy meals for your family will not make you less of a woman - or man. If as a man you feel you are okay with cooking then disregard this advice.

What's there to complain about?

Just like when Apostle Paul broached the issue of marriage and celibacy, he clearly gave a disclaimer : He was speaking for himself.
The least I expect from baba is to have done likewise, such statements credited to him could be very misleading and could lead more people to hell.
Let's ask ourselves : Would Jesus have made these statements? All through the books of the gospel, did Jesus ever say something similar? I don't know about you buh Jesus is my role model.

Cherishing:

but why would a jobless man think of marriage na stone him wan take feed him wife n children

I wonder