₦airaland Forum

omas1:
what's wrong with all these people.
What do I need a woman who can't Cook for?
The woman is suppose to be the home maker.
Ever heard the word " pray without ceasing "?
A woman who cannot intercede on behalf of her family isn't worthy to be called a virtuous woman.

Well in these days, few and very few indeed will agree with you

Why will a lady who can't cook marry?

It's just like why won't a guy who got no job marry

The man was simply giving an advise, it's take it or leave it

pippimp:
You don't seem to understand. How can you fix leadership when the leader comes from the people. A people with a messed up mentality. Literacy or the lack of it is not the problem of Nigerians but exposure. And it is the lack of it that i am trying to tell you is wrong when you say not to marry a woman who cannot cook or pray for an hour.

There are many good leaders in this country, there are many right thinking people, the problem is that due to long bad military rule and some bad politians in the past, a system as been created and only favour the bad ones, many good guys will rather stay clear. If they choose to go, they either submit to the system or become lone voices, and the bad guys keep making the system worse.

Talking leadership, I grew up as a Christian and I learnt a lot of good leadership skill from the church, it didn't make me think worse, it made me better and I can say that for so many people, that's not to say that every church teaches the right things, some don't. The problem I see is that people who don't like Christians wants to seize opportunity to attack Christians, men of God, etc. They're not the cause of anybody's problem, if the people are following them, they earned it, if you want people to stop following them, you have to earn it. By the way, I don't support idolization of any man, because even man of God is a man, people go into extremes because of illetracy or the transfer of African culture of idolizing something into Christianity _ A true christian leader will caution his people at those extremes.

sapiosexual1:
Nigerians and our idolation of "men of God " is sickening. We can't seem to think independently once a "man of God " is involved.
Little wonder we're the most religious nation (yes more religious than the Vatican and Saudi combined) yet the most backward,sinful and corrupt nation.
The Lord knows those who are His.

Does independent thinking include abusing or insulting anyone even if you don't subscribe to their opinion?

This woman must b high on sum cheap drugs.........I pity her condition, d thunder dat will fire her is still doing press up!!!

Do not touch my anointed and do my prophet no harm. A word is enough to the wise. Ms Kemi Olulonyo you need to be wise.

U r standing corpse Kemi.. Its ur funeral woman!!! lol

GlorifiedTunde:


The problem with Kemi is she can never recover.

She has terribly defamed the.man of God so much that God has visited her with an insanity she will never be aware of.

So if you're hoping she'll change for.the better, you're wasting your time.

She's gone, God has wasted her already. She's just a walking dead.

And as for many others who make it a point of duty to speak against men of God, just observe Kemi Olunloyo to see what will become of you, that's if God decides to leave you alive.

God bless you.

kennygee:
There's a reason we don't hear a thing about Kemi's husband.

No man wants to die untimely.

GBAM

The man just told us what our parents have been telling us for years dont be deceived by anyone, It is for a reason that our people say "Olobe lo l'oko" (The one who owns the delicious soup owns the husband).
But the most surprising is that majority of people that are against the man are Xtian while almost all the Muslims I knw agreed with him FUNNY!
As for Aunty Kemi we all knw she has bin hit by night arrow for years so no comment on her..

adeboye is an Antichrist discrimination the followers of Christ. its a shame

wirinet:
Gosh, are you sure you are literate or you allow hero worship to erode your reasoning faculty? So you do not know the difference between senility and lunacy.
Let me give you the definition of senile;


Senility is a condition of old age, while lunacy is a mental disease. My great aunt became senile before she died last year at the age of 89, she could not even remember the names and faces of her own children. Saying someone is going senile due to old age is not an insult, especially if the person is speaking senselessly or incoherently.

If we do not understand the message of the speech, why not illuminate us by explaining it to logically to us.

“Don’t marry a girl who is lazy! Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook, she needs to know how to do chores and cook because you cannot afford to be eating out all the time."

The message above is clear enough for anyone with a reasonable comprehension ability to understand; don't marry a lazy girl/lady.
Is your reasoning ability too poor to comprehend that?

Many men often complain of having to eat outside all the time simply because the lazy women the married cannot cook and are even unwilling to learn.

Is that the part that is too hard for you to grasp? Yuck!!

How is that useful advice senseless or incoherent?
Or how will a senile man give such useful piece of advice?

Do you want him to advise men to marry lazy women who cannot cook?

Or perhaps, you think everyone you don't agree with is senile like your aunt?
I really think you're the senile one here.

Iam not much concerned about that Kemi as I do about his father who was once a governor of a state. It is really sad when a daughter incessantly decides to tread the part of infamy by dragging her parents' personality in the mud. What an embarrassment ! I read somewhere where his father once apologised on her behalf and pointed out that she is a lunnie. The father should not stop at that. He should still liaise with the Aro Mental Hospital or "Yaba Left." There may still be hope for her recovery.- my one dime advice.

Iam not much concerned about that Kemi as I do about her father who was once a governor of a state. It is really sad when a daughter incessantly decides to tread the part of infamy by dragging her parents' personality in the mud. What an embarrassment ! I read somewhere where her father once apologised on her behalf and pointed out that she is a loony. The father should not stop at that. He should still liaise with the Aro Mental Hospital or "Yaba Left." There may still be hope for her recovery.- my one dime advice.

GlorifiedTunde:


The problem with Kemi is she can never recover.

She has terribly defamed the.man of God so much that God has visited her with an insanity she will never be aware of.

So if you're hoping she'll change for.the better, you're wasting your time.

She's gone, God has wasted her already. She's just a walking dead.

And as for many others who make it a point of duty to speak against men of God, just observe Kemi Olunloyo to see what will become of you, that's if God decides to leave you alive.

Mr Man close that gutter you call mouth and cut off those Spaghetti sticks you call fingers that you used in typing these poo here, are you saying the guidance and guidelines (qualities) stated out in the Bible for one desiring to get married should be abhorred simply cos of what your so called man on God told you??
Indeed religion is doing we Africans (especially Nigerians) more harm than good, simply peruse through the trash you typed once more and ask God to give you a brain, cos all I can see that you have is Simply Akamu(ôgi) instead of brain..

I really feel like giving you a reset Slap for this jargons you spewed....

i think this is the last we shall be hearing of this aunty, the way baba adeboye talks now is indicative of a lot of things spiritually.

Na God go punish you, useless woman , mad woman, stupid woman....yu need to visit rehab for proper orientation...im very certain yu r sick....crazy fellow

Get well soon Kemi bc I know u r sick.

Daddy is very humble.. And him saying such a thing is inspiring we all should simply ensure we are God fearing and prayerful.. After all ladies seek for guys that'll love them whole heartedly.. God-fearing guys are the best peeps.. As for this lady God's mercy can still locate her after all we are in d Era of grace... I pray she rescinds her suicidal statement very soon..

Ant.kemi.beg for. Forgiveness.

Kemi Olunloyo u have problem with ur bad attitude because I could remember vividly that some weeks ago u promised Nigerians based on the case of Mr Jide Kosoko that u will not attack anybody verbally again now u turn to a respectable man of God open that ur smelling mouth calling a man of God Lunatic......watchout for ur distruction idiot

This time i fully support her. Brainwashed christians abound in naija. Mumus following any trash dat emanates frm the mouths of pastors, priest etc.

Nah wu dis girl parent offend

i pray she'll be useful for her parent,

because shes not doing anything close to it for herself.

Which stupid aunt kemi u guys are saying,kemi u are mad

Angry Letter To The Nigerian Youth (4): Please Marry A Lazy Woman By Bayo Adeyinka

Dear Nigerian Youth,

Twice this week, God spoke to you but you were deaf. You missed the message totally. Not only did you miss the message, you put up the twin messengers on the cross and you are dealing them with the worst kind of blows. In your follow-the-herd mentality that has afflicted your generation, you have only succeeded in demonstrating your crass ignorance and the reason why you may never be taken seriously. Coincidentally, both messengers are old men but you mock them. You may have new clothes even more than the aged but you can never have rags like them. Their ragged experience is by far better than your new age wisdom.

The first messenger brought a series of messages. He gave some pieces of advice to a generation that is wise in its own sight. A harmless advice has now been turned over its head. How come this generation always end up making simple things complex? How come this generation always major on minors and minor on majors? Don't marry a lazy woman, he said. Don't marry a woman who cannot pray for one hour. Most of you are products of prayer but you come online to mock because it feels right to do so. Instead of lending your ears, you say the mouth of an elder is smelling. Just how did you think the elderly got their sunken eyes? It's because of what they have seen and experienced. As for you, you're like a dog destined to be lost and you're deaf to the whistle of the hunter.

You know what? Go ahead with your schemes. Marry a lazy woman. It is within your rights. Go for a couch potato. We are in the modern world. As long as she can apply good make-up, wear designer shoes and sun-glasses and update her status on Facebook while twerking regularly, that's all the qualifications she needs to get Mr Right. Who cares if she can do the dishes when there's a dish-washer? Who cares if she can make her own bed when she can hire a domestic help? Who cares if she can cook when Domino Pizza is still selling their franchise all over the nation? As for you modern lady, young men care more about how good you look than how well you cook! They will rather discuss your Peruvian and Malaysian weave-on than Italian cuisine. If they are hungry, they can go to their mothers- or help themselves. Whoever said the way to a man's heart is through his stomach has never met the 21st Century man.

And as for prayers, marry a lady that will take your problems to Agony Aunt. Taking them to the Lord in prayers is so old-school we don't even sing the song in church again. Your knees are so delicate you shouldn't even kneel down before God. Marry a woman who will rush to update your situation on Instagram instead of updating God instantly. Don't be bothered that she can't pray for one hour- as long as she can watch the whole series of Lekki Wives in one fell swoop, you're good to go. Prayer is so outdated. Making long prayers is so so outdated. What will she do when challenges of life come? So easy- she will twerk at them. The devil hates twerking and can't stand it. A family that twerks together stays together. Marry a woman who has tweeter handles but handles nothing else. We are trying to save your chicken from impending death but it's still hell bent on going to the refuse dump for its meal. What an elder sees while sitting, a young man can never see even if he stands. Bae, you can spend one hour applying concealer, mascara and lipstick on your face that you can't carry for twenty four hours but you can't spend one hour praying for a home that you hope to sustain as long as you live. In the voice of Lagbaja, "mo sorry fun gbogbo yin o, mo sorry fun gbogbo yin lo kokan".

Hey girl, marry a man that is jobless. Marry a man who can take off his shirt but can't take out the thrash. A perfectly toned man is better than a perfectly toned wallet. A man with six packs is better than a man with six figures. Romance is better than finance. Marry a man who has no ambition and has no clue about where he is going in life. Marry a man who lives on you and feeds off you. Marry a man whose only property is what is within his trousers. As you lay your bed, so you will lie on it. Silly working girl, hear me: love is blind but marriage is an eye-opener. Your eyes 'will soon clear'. No one tells a blind man that the market is over. If he cannot see, at least he is not deaf. Marriage is hard work, if you don't know. Too much of Kim Kardashian has robbed you of reality. Marriage is not Indian film.

You think the guy loves you when all he loves is your wallet. In the words of the elder who should know, "Even if he says he's a contractor, ask him to show you evidence of the contracts he has done because you may just be the contract". When you cry eventually, no one will be there to comfort you. I trust your fellow ladies: they will even laugh at your misfortune. You know women are the enemies of women. You will think you are trending but all they do is to help you trend your misfortune on social media. Is it any wonder your parents could hold a marriage together for 50 years but you can't even hold yourself together? The values they hold so dear have been devalued by you. Now, you're of no value.

By the way, what's your own issue with the dressing instruction a man gives to his employees? If I tell my staff I don't want tattoos, how come that is now your headache? He said his employees should not wear beards- how has that become your concern? Your joblessness is a major cause of worry.

And then there's the second 83-year old elder who was sent as a message of sorts to you. In my side of the country there is something called 'aroko'. Aroko is a form of communication which is usually non-verbal. The 83-year old man that you derided so much for being made the Chairman of a parastatal was a message sent to you. Instead of burying your heads in shame and covering yourselves in sack clothes and ashes, you are demonstrating the only thing you excel at doing- internet hooliganism. You should be worried that very few people in your generation have been found worthy of holding such a position on trust. The few times you have been given this kind of opportunity, you have proven to be worse than the geriatrics you complained about. Your generation inspires no confidence and engenders no trust. The stealing appetite of a man supposedly at the departure lounge is restrained while your own is uncontrolled. Generations before you stole in millions but you steal in billions. Generations before you kept stolen money in Swiss accounts but you keep yours in Panama. Your generation only knows how to wear t-shirts and carry placards. Your generation only knows how to hurl insults on Facebook. Your generation has no fresh ideas. The best of your generation is one Dino who may soon become your President. You laugh? While you're wasting your time using your scarce resources to buy internet data to fight over him, he's making himself relevant. Hardly does a day go by without a discussion about him. While you remain anonymous, he is always in the limelight.

Sit down and think. Stop in your tracks for a while and have a time of deep reflection. Consider these two messengers and their messages. Life does not discriminate. You need to face it fair and square. You have a lot of growing up to do. You are way behind in the scheme of things. Life has left you behind. There is a lot of catching up to do.

I'm afraid for you.

kemi kemi kemi...dis ur guts ehn,na from d village o..dem sha wan do u finish..publicly calling a reputable man of God a lunatic,nt even saying it in d corners of ur house, so we cud @ least pity u wen nemesis catches up...u go fear fear

Abeg who be this woman, she be celeb abi wetin?

Kemi needs spiritual attention.

GlorifiedTunde:


The problem with Kemi is she can never recover.

She has terribly defamed the.man of God so much that God has visited her with an insanity she will never be aware of.

So if you're hoping she'll change for.the better, you're wasting your time.

She's gone, God has wasted her already. She's just a walking dead.

And as for many others who make it a point of duty to speak against men of God, just observe Kemi Olunloyo to see what will become of you, that's if God decides to leave you alive.

Having a difference of opinion against 'a man of God ' is not a sin on two conditions:

1.If what he said is not grounded in the scripture.
2. If he has gone beyond the scripture by stating as a rule or law what should be a personal decision.

In this case the pastor should merely have provided general general advice and let people make up their mind

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You're damned if the person you're cursing keeps quiet.. Ask the devil, No reply from God...smh @ koo

jozz:
Having a difference of opinion against 'a man of God ' is not a sin on two conditions:

1.If what he said is not grounded in the scripture.
2. If he has gone beyond the scripture by stating as a rule or law what should be a personal decision.

In this case the pastor should merely have provided general general advice and let people make up their mind

Kemi is not particularly having a difference in opinion. She looks for every opportunity to insult this man. Even if not for being a man of God, what about his age? What about his personality? Is he a criminal?

Honestly why are you guys empathizing her actions?