Hello big sister and mum in the house, i have been facing some difficulties for some time which i cant stand any longer, i just got married 5 months ago,
what i observed during sex with my hubby was that when ever we had sex, sperm usually pumps out of my vagina in which am not sure maybe it's normal or not, i only had protected sex twice before i got married, please big sister in the house, i would appreciate your little advice. Thanks

his sperm is watery


might b difficult to concieve

linda12345:
Hello big sister and mum in the house, i have been facing some difficulties for some time which i cant stand any longer, i just got married 5 months ago,
what i observed during sex with my hubby was that when ever we had sex, sperm usually pumps out of my vagina in which am not sure maybe it's normal or not, i only had protected sex twice before i got married, please big sister in the house, i would appreciate your little advice. Thanks

Yoooba ppl call it EDA
Your body does not retain sperm
Not a big problem
Pls visit Hospital gynecologist

I think Yoruba people do call it EDA.That is when a lady's vagina cannot withhold a man's sperm.I think you need to see a doctor it is curable and you have to be prayerful too as it MIGHT be spiritual.I know of someone who gt cured of it recently and she now have her own child.#Peace#

I hope you don't think everything stays in when you do it. It is completely normal to have some leak out. His swimmers are microscopic and a good number that can make babies, have since swam up your cervix, right at the point when he shot up in you. There's a good chance you're just disturbing yourself.

In fact, you don't have any condition. Stop disturbing yourself and try more for your BFP.

I don't get this. Is this supposed to be a problem? Sperm must flow out, it's liquid my dear. If you're worried and ttc, then lie down with a pillow under your waist for a few mins after sex. It isn't spiritual or anything.

Following with keen interest

linda12345:
, i only had protected sex twice before i got married,

So we are suppose to believe this right? i wonder why you want to appear holy here. Na virgin you for (kuku) write.

u are experiencing what yoruba callex d eda your womb is excessively hot in temp

Sperm coming out after is sex is one of the commonest complain of a woman who is anxious to get pregnant. You are just 5 months into your marriage but some how over anxious. Most women have this experience without complaining because they are fertile. To alley your anxieties, your husband should sleep with you in missionary position and should not come out early after ejaculation
If the discharge is florid, you may need treatment for candidates. It's like you are taking too many antibiotics which could further flare up the candida
God will give you children in his own time. You should see a gynecologist

I meant Candidiasis not candidate

linda12345:
Hello big sister and mum in the house, i have been facing some difficulties for some time which i cant stand any longer, i just got married 5 months ago,
what i observed during sex with my hubby was that when ever we had sex, sperm usually pumps out of my vagina in which am not sure maybe it's normal or not, i only had protected sex twice before i got married, please big sister in the house, i would appreciate your little advice. Thanks

Just like rocktation has said, you don't have any problem. I had the same experience and tot something was wrong with me. I have 2 children and my marriage is less than 3 years.

My2cent

FreeSpirited:
So we are suppose to believe this right? i wonder why you want to appear holy here. Na virgin you for (kuku) write.

Why do you think she is lying? Girls don suffer for guys hand.

You have an infection that needs to be treated.

FreeSpirited:
So we are suppose to believe this right? i wonder why you want to appear holy here. Na virgin you for (kuku) write.

Clearly shows the state of your mind--dirty. Honestly, did you honestly think everyone is completely immoral?

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Well they said it is EDA & it is spiritual. Someone also, mentioned pillow above, good one. In my own case I noticed this around 6 months into our marriage. Apparently, she would stand up immediayely to go and shower. I prayed and also would put a pillow below to raise my wife up and I told her to remain there for like 30 minutes or so. Nothing come out oh! Everything must co-operate ni. That was before our first child.

We call this virgina sperm-leakage and Yoruba call it EDA...it is of two types...1. one occurs on d bed while 2. d second when u get up. Both have herbal remedies which u can do. If u can get Epo-agano + Iyere+okuta-ako...Grind them together. use it with cold pap half table spoon everyday for a week...if not cleared call 07034584332. it is well sister

rezzy:


Just like rocktation has said, you don't have any problem. I had the same experience and tot something was wrong with me. I have 2 children and my marriage is less than 3 years.

My2cent

2 kids in 3years? You and ur hubby should calm down plz

Its normal, not all the semen will enter you, besides the sperms would have gone up into your womb. What you see pouring out is semen not sperm but if you are so bothered you can elevate your legs immediately after sex for 15 mins. Hope this helps.

johnchukky:
2 kids in 3years? You and ur hubby should calm down plz

Who are you to tell married folks to calm down on reproducing? Did they tell you they're not capable of taking care of their kids?

Face your front.

johnchukky:
2 kids in 3years? You and ur hubby should calm down plz

And it is very funny that you would say this. 2 kids in less than 3years is completely healthy. D'you even know whether she just birthed the second, supposing she's talking about less than 3years back from now? You just have no idea.

johnchukky:
2 kids in 3years? You and ur hubby should calm down plz

Thank you

omogidi234:
Well they said is EDA & it is spiritual. Someone also, mentioned pillow above, good one. In my own case I noticed this around 6 months into our marriage. Apparently, she would stand up immediayely to go and shower. I prayed and also would put below to raise my wife up and I told her to remain there for like 30 minutes or so. Nothing come out oh! Everything must co-operate ni. That was before our first child.

Standing up too early, is the major culprit for delay in conception, given that every other thing is fine. Staying put and the age-old wonder of suspending the bum on a pillow, a lil over 10 minutes after each relation with a spouse, can make a whole lot of difference.

Rocktation:


Standing up too early, is the major culprit for delay in conception, given that every other thing is fine. Staying put and the age-old wonder of suspending the bum on a pillow, a lil over 10 minutes after each relation with a spouse, can make a whole lot of difference.

I agree with you 100%. I wish I had seen this kind of post before then. It was a serious issue oh! I recommend that most newly wed should read this thread, it would save them the hassle and anxiety of this.

After coi.tus, simply lie on your back and draw your legs up for 20-30 mins.
what goes up will always come down....nothing wrong with you.

linda12345:
Hello big sister and mum in the house, i have been facing some difficulties for some time which i cant stand any longer, i just got married 5 months ago,
what i observed during sex with my hubby was that when ever we had sex, sperm usually pumps out of my vagina in which am not sure maybe it's normal or not, i only had protected sex twice before i got married, please big sister in the house, i would appreciate your little advice. Thanks

Normally, not all the fluid from a man stay inside a woman. Some will come out. Especially, if your man cums in a position that will permit that.
You are not supposed to get up immediately after sex, rushing to the bathroom. After your man has cum, stay in that position for a while, so that the sperm that will fertilize the egg ,must have reached its destination. It does not take time for that to happen. It is almost immediately . Even when others come out later, it will not be a problem.
Try other sex positions when he is ready to climax. Your man should penetrate deep when he wants to cum.
Although, you still need to see a doctor , to be sure.
Do not allow it turn to anxiety.

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Gravity is no respecter of persons, madam.
Once you stand up immediately after having sex, some of the ejaculate will surely flow down. It's not rocket science.
Like someone said, lie on the bed like 20mins with a pillow underneath your bum after doing the do.
Don't stress yourself out thinking you should get pregnant immediately you get married.
If you're less than 35 years with no prior significant gyne history, your doctor will give you a year of regular sex with your hubby before they start getting worried. If you're 35 yrs and above, they'll give you 6months of regular doing the do, to try and get pregnant before thinking of intervening.

In Falzs voice- just be "enjoining" yourselves now while you can before the kids start coming.

My big thanks to Nairalander, my Baby is 3 month plus now....

JustHere2Observ:
Its normal, not all the semen will enter you, besides the sperms would have gone up into your womb. What you see pouring out is semen not sperm but if you are so bothered you can elevate your legs immediately after sex for 15 mins. Hope this helps.