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| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Alphaoscar: 10:55pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Like seriously I can't survive a military kinda relationship o. I play a lot and it took my bae a while before she's able to adjust to my lifestyle I am always a very playful kind of guy and there is always a different nick for everyone in the family except Popsy courtesy of me and that's what everyone address each other. Even my In-law to be knows my kind of person . I joke and play with them as if they are my free parents. Its very fun and a healthy tonic for relationship. |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Pretty much sums it up. Gaborone: 2 Likes |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by KillerPriest: 11:17pm On Aug 26, 2016*. Modified: 11:39pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Relationships should be dotted with playful moments; and a little name-calling every now and then is not amiss, albeit should be done lightheartedly and must cease to occur if it causes either of the partners some form of discomfiture. A relationship without playfulness is like a plain, nondescript and boring Swiss village. Who doesn't name-call anyway? I name-call when I have sëx. I use words like slüt, höe, bîtch, but whoever I'm shāgging knows I do not really mean what I'm saying. Ladies love the dirty talk anyway - it spikes their libidö by a few notches. The word Ode seems to have even lost its insultive element as people use it nowadays either as a term of endearment or to establish camaraderie when fraternizing with one another. Really, it's no big deal for me. 4 Likes |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Beamborla(f): 8:03am On Aug 27, 2016 |
thorpido:For you, I understand. We are built differently. Like I stated, knowing where to draw the line is key |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Seahawk: 8:06am On Aug 27, 2016 |
Love playful relationships. Just know where to draw the line. 1 Like |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by montezz(f): 8:58am On Aug 27, 2016 |
YES! I am very playful and fun loving. I hardly take things serious. If I can be very free with friends to the point where they call me 'olodo' how much more my man? It strengthens the bond. Every moment you spend with each other is worth it. However, there should be a limit to what you call eachother,cos personally I will never let anyone call me 'were or ode'. 1 Like |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Nobody: 9:41am On Aug 27, 2016 |
cindybaby22:.. . . . You are so right pretty. |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by xendra: 9:52am On Aug 27, 2016 |
ode, fool, idiot  no I don't play like that. even with just friends and girlfriends. there are other ways to play and have fun abeg no vex. 1 Like |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by HCF(m): 11:17am On Aug 27, 2016 |
The word ' Ode', TO ME, is derogatory, just like the word ' Were' ( mad person). Ironically, people use it freely with their friends and loved ones but I find it extremely difficult to call even an enemy 'were' let alone a Friend/ loved one. Personally, I CAN NOT live with a lady who is not playful. In fact, that's one of the major attributes I look out for in ladies, but using words such as ' Ode' 'Were' is out of it....I still prefer 'Otondo'( used for corpers), Oniranu, Oniyeye...  |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Berbierklaus(f): 12:46pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
Ofcourse YES I am the playful type and my man is also,so we get along well with calling ourselves 'bighead' 'longdick' 'goat' etc  regardless that he is 6 years older than me  Relationships/marriage has too much seriousness in it for us not to relax with playfully calling ourselves names. Hell we even beat each other  like a knock on the head,a spank on the buttocks etc 3 Likes |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Abiagirl777(f): 1:57pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
Personally I dont like b eing called names and my husband took the cue as he'd go as far as calling ppl 'otele(bum bum),for the sake of the children we r raising who might see such as nothing and then go outside to call someone that. A 5 Yr old kept shouting condom at the playground,when questioned she said she heard from mummy.some call idiots,mumu,etc albeit innocently because thatsvwhat they've been hearing at home. Sweet names are beautiful and less problematic like my cousins who call their parents beloved,there pet names forbeach other.  |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Alphaoscar: 5:36pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
Berbierklaus:You be correct person jare . I can't stand any form of strict relationship. |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Berbierklaus(f): 7:28pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
Alphaoscar:Me too. when its not a boss/worker thing. I am the clown of the family and nobody can take that from me 2 Likes |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by sisisioge: 9:19pm On Aug 27, 2016 |
Absolute YES! I'm too happy-go-lucky to be in a relationship that isn't playful. How would we manage it? Me way fit laugh for Africa, me wey be cat. In fact, the dude that isn't playful won't notice me in the first place. However, I don't do derogatory names calling...but can live with those that don't sting. |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by SSpeter(m): 1:09am On Aug 28, 2016 |
I tag those kind of joke/play "political jokes". Do you know why I dislike them? Oftentimes they get elected |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by freecocoa(f): 9:32am On Aug 28, 2016 |
People like us can't be in a relationship where we can't express ourselves by calling names playfully, just wouldn't work. Bf be like "where is that ugly girl" and I'll yell "I'm in the kitchen psycho, are you back" My former roomie calls and the first thing she says is "winch, you can't call me abi" I go " f00l, why should I call you" and it's laughter galore afterwards. fun fun all the way. 1 Like |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Seun(mod): 11:25am On Aug 28, 2016*. Modified: 4:36pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
If you like it, marry someone who likes it. If you're already married to that someone who doesn't like it, find a different way to be playful. TM 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by logoscope(m): 11:57am On Aug 28, 2016 |
Yes. |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by greetings(f): 12:03pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
As long as you respect each others limits...its fine. It makes bonding easier to me sha. |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Caveatemptor(m): 1:06pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
Ode-fool or imbec1le. Olodo-Dunce or idiot. Dodoyo-spit dripping fool. I don't think pet names like this are suitable in any way for a loved one. The problem is that young people today probably don't know the real meaning of these words. I am all for a playful relationship/marriage but the play can not include insults. By the way why would I want to insult a person I claim to love? 1 Like |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Funlordjnr: 1:31pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
Naturally I'm a fun guy and usually the life of the party so my girl has her funny bone screwed on tight! I do the you "sexy _bitch or nasty/filthy girl" thing when we shag but normally I don't go with the name calling too much! "Baby girl, baby mama, love, sweetheart and madam" are all par for the course though! She can call me whatever I don't mind! Now what I won't stand for is being called any of that crap I see in naija movies or hear on naija radio! Why the hell would I want to be called or even attempt to call my woman my "sweetie potato or sweetie banana, panya" or all that trashy area mush? We keep it classy all year round abeg! |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by joseph1832(m): 2:52pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
I honestly don't know when "playful relationship" translate to one dishing out insults. 'ode' is a derogatory word, one can be playful without using such words, especially if one is not the type of person who condone such. 3 Likes |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
KillerPriest:very true @ emboldened. Ode has really lost its insulting element. WHOEVER you're shagging? Naso you shag reach, broda KillerPrie*t? 2 Likes |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by KillerPriest: 4:01pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie:Trust me, you don't want to know. |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
The thing is like. I'm usually the one being fresh. I use a lot of punchlines so, I deserve whatever punishment I get. I tease a lot cause I like to make ppl blush and get flustered and stuff. There needs to be an undertone of respect tho, so that ppl don't get offended. #My Meandering Opinion |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Muvacci(m): 4:21pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
MrsPhyno:Chi!  |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
Muvacci:Igwe. Oluko. Babami |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Muvacci(m): 4:33pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Muvacci(m): 4:46pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
MrsPhyno:Long story..? I'm mad at you. Very mad at you..  But I'm comforted you're OK. Kee maka ulo akwukwo? |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
Muvacci:/feels face/ Yes I think I'm alive haha Thank you for worrying about me You've come again with your wickedness, stop making me run around looking for translators |
| Re: Playful Relationships : Yes Or No? by Muvacci(m): 4:56pm On Aug 28, 2016 |
MrsPhyno:Last I remember, you were gonna write exams for a month and then return but then POOF! You're gone for like forever LOL! So how do you hope to communicate with Mr.Phyno? |
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