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Pls no insult or bashing. I just need your opinion on this question.

Is having a relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend) devoid of sex i. e platonic relationship a sin? since they said we are to wait till we are ripe for marriage.

Go Google am my friend or ask your pastor

porchster:
Pls no insult or bashing. I just need your opinion on this question.

Is having a relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend) devoid of sex i. e platonic relationship a sin? since they said we are to wait till we are ripe for marriage.

Do you understand this is a silly question?

if you know you can give reasonable answer why commenting. that makes u more...

Your caveat is a relationship devoid of sex and platonic in itself.
Yes, God does not condemn a relationship between the opposite sex but what is the essence of this relationship you intend to go into. If it is to have a female as a best friend for now then you should be willing to subject your conscience to what God desires from you. If it is with the intention to get married to her in future, your age and her age should be put into consideration. The period or time you are going to spend before marriage matters but just ensure you are not creating an outlet for temptation or sin.

Akposb:
Your caveat is a relationship devoid of sex and platonic in itself.
Yes, God does not condemn a relationship between the opposite sex but what is the essence of this relationship you intend to go into. If it is to have a female as a best friend for now then you should be willing to subject your conscience to what God desires from you. If it is with the intention to get married to her in future, your age and her age should be put into consideration. The period or time you are going to spend before marriage matters but just ensure you are not creating an outlet for temptation or sin.

Thanks you am getting it clearer now

Lemme rephrase ur question, then answer yourself(that's if your are intelligent)

Can cat and fish becomes friend without any wahala


Why do u think jesus choose 12 niggas and no babe?

porchster:
Pls no insult or bashing. I just need your opinion on this question.

Is having a relationship (boyfriend/girlfriend) devoid of sex i. e platonic relationship a sin? since they said we are to wait till we are ripe for marriage.

if relationship is a sin, how do you expect to get married? abi you wan do blind marriage? people are doing blind dates so I won't judge if you want to be reallly adventurous and do blind marriage

CrazyQuinn:
if relationship is a sin, how do you expect to get married? abi you wan do blind marriage? people are doing blind dates so I won't judge if you want to be reallly adventurous and do blind marriage

Pls dont mistake me my meaning of relationship is diff from courtship.

porchster:
Pls dont mistake me my meaning of relationship is diff from courtship.

how are you going to be in a courtship without being in a relationship?

CrazyQuinn:
how are you going to be in a courtship without being in a relationship?

lol this is not a matter of English auntie. the relationship i mean is that as a teenager is it a sin to be in a relationship?