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My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by ROYH(m): 7:35pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
In Year 2012, I Wooed A Certain School Mate Of Mine And Yes, She Accepted (On Phone)... And Even Though She Did, The Tension Of Getting Caught About Dating Your School/Classmate Made Me Never For Once Confronted Her About OUR RELATIONSHIP Meanwhile, We Do Talk On General Discussions, School Life And All BUT Not On OUR RELATIONSHIP.. In 2013, A Friend Of Mine Told Me About His Crush/Feelings On This Same Lady, Told Him That I HAD ALREADY TOASTED HER AND SHE ACCEPTED, BUT YOU CAN TRY After About His Revealation (MY FRIEND) ,I Maintained A Distance Relatiöship With Her (THE GIRL) Hoping That She Might Have Feelings For Him Also And Because Of ME, She Might Not Accepted. Fastforwarded To 2016, Sep, We Met Each Other (Me And The GIRL) And We Got Talking, We Talked On Everything, Ranging From Our Schooling Days Then, Life, Future Ambition And Yes RELATIONSHIP.. She Shared Her Past Experience Relationship Matters With Me And That When When She Herself Told Me That My Friend (Her Crush) Only Proposed To Her On The Day We Graduated From School, Didn't Accepted Because She Told Him That "Didn't He Knew That Me And Her Was Dating Already" And All. Inshort, I Decided To Persuaded Her On His (OUR FRIEND) Behalf.. I Started As I Determined And She Told Me She Cant Date Him, That She Only Like Him As A Friend And The Likeness Didnt Go Beyond That. (He Has Been Friendzone). I Kept Trying You Know, May Be She May Rethink And Consider, But NONE Of My Persuadtion Yield Positive Result , It Was During That Time She Told Me That, What I'm Asking On Behalf Of My Friend Is Not Meant For Him Rather, Its For Me That [b]I Will Be The First Guy She Ever Love[b]. I Was Dumstrucked And After Several Talks On Our Own Issue, We Decided To Start Dating Again (Re-Union)... On Getting Home From That Town Me And Her Met Each Other, I Narrated Everything To My Friend (Her Crush) Because When I Was Still There, I Had Already Gave Him A Called That We Had To Talk Concerning THE GIRL. So, I Told Him Everything She Told Me Even The Likeness Meant For Him While Love For Me He Told Me That He Can Step Down For Me Since I Had Already Told Him That I Had Toasted Her And She Had Accepted Already When We Were In School BUT He Really Like The GIRL And Since She Will Be Coming Home In December, She And Him Will Come To My Place And I Will Help Him In Persuading Again (His Statement Made Me Swallowed My Real Intension Of Inviting Him) That Me And Her Have Started Dating. Now, What Should I Do Concerning Him, She And Me On The D Day In December 31st 2016?? Theblessedman, mrlemuel, tgold1, smartestpopqueen and other nairalander, come share UNA opinion O, Any Question Asked Will Be Truthfully Answer By Me *IN DILEMA* |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by makelove2m(m): 7:50pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
Children everywhere...................... talking about how you will use someone daughter as football |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by ROYH(m): 7:54pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
makelove2m:okay and you just Started As Adult Abi SMH 1 Like |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by BEENUEL(m): 10:26pm On Oct 12, 2016 |
sipping sobo I mean[size=16pt]soooboooooo[/size] Royh...are you high this night or something? |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by Nobody: 2:45pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
Bro, Dis One Na Real Dilemma O, I Was Once In Ur Shoes Though[40%] No Be Me Toast Her, Bt D Oda Way Around, And Coincidentally, A Buddy Of Mine Is Dating Her, Bt I Once Asked Him, Bt He Denied It. Anyway, Here Is/Are My Advice(s). 1. Tell Your Friend About It: Telling Him Abt It Is Gud, Bt With A Consequence; He Will Get Angry 4 A While,Bt Just 4 A While. Waiting For Him To Find Out Will Make Him Feel Betrayed, And U Knw, True Friends Are Hard To Find. 2. Tell Her U R In A Relationship: Most Girls Hate Sharing Their Guys Within Themselves, Telling Her,, She Will Either Stepdown, Or Fight Tooth And Nail Just To Keep U, Which Might Be Castratrophic(nt sure if dat english is korect o). 3. Ask An Elderly Person For Advice: An Elderly Man/Woman Might Hv Been In Such State B4, And Scaled Through, Asking Them To Share Their Experience With U Wouldn't Hurt, Many Are There Willing To Help, U Just Need To Ask. I Hope I Have Been Helpful Sha.. Theblessedman, Oya Come gv Us Ur Ogbonge Advice Ooo. |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by TheBlessedMAN: 3:08pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
ROYH:[b] hmmmmmmmmm............ Dis one NA real palaver ooooooo......... NA dis kind issue dey cos trouble for National Assembly......... My guy........ Rohy...... U really need to up ur game here oooooo...... If u no fine be4..... Make sure u start using expensive bleaching creams.......... If ur head NA bald one b4..... U need to do plastic hair surgery...... Infact... If u no get money b4... U need to get money by fire by force..... Either by robbing or by ritual...... So dat..... Come December........ U go get upper hand to make her urs..... Dats option one...... Second option is........ If ur frnd is matured enough..... Its a tin u can call him down..... Get him his favourite drink.... After he has relaxed..... Try and find out frm him... Is he after d lady for lust or love... If its d latter, make him realize dat.... U also hav d same feelings for her... And dat u are ready to do anytin to woo d girl to ur side... Tell him dat u want u and him to settle dis amicably.... Without havin to burn filling stations... Just because u both want d same girl.... If after telling him all dis and he,s still proving to b d Nigerian pharaoh... Den dat brings u back to Option one above.... SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST.. But if unfortunately for him and fortunately for u... He says he's after her for lustful purposes?. Den no one will blame u if u use ur all ur dads pension money to buy a gun and u decided to kill him.... Be rest assured...... TEAM HERO WILL BE WILLING TO HELP U ON DIS ONE.... So wic Eva way d conversation turns out to be....... It all depends on how maturely u handle d situation..... ROHY....... I want to be among ur men in suit come next year after I believe u wud av successfully won d girl....... And if none of u IDIOTS is capable of marrying her.... Den u can send me her phone number..... Make I toast her for u...... Be well brother...... [/b] 1 Like |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by TheBlessedMAN: 3:15pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
makelove2m:and see d adult dats suppose to av retired frm playing football, wey still dey claim under 17 for street football...... Abeg park well oooo |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by Tgold1(m): 4:59pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
ROYH: My Broda, My Broda...... You Need to Talk to the girl and be sure If she truly loves you for who you are........ And if she truly does..... And you also love her truly, baba Fire on with her........ . . And back to your paddy, it depends on you guys relationship....... If He is someone you can talk to, talk to him and let him see reasons with you that you love her too..... (Your Happiness Matters Than Anyones Own) Don't leave the girl for the guy if you truly love her, so it won't be like 9ice and rugged man matter, coz if you do and you are now seeing them together....... It might cause you heart stunt(heart attack)....... Talk to your guy, Mostly and you guys should tryna understand one anotheR... Never break your friendship foR a Lady, . . . . #MyOwnOpinion......... Never Trips for A Pvssey That's Not Yours..... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by makelove2m(m): 5:05pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
TheBlessedMAN: .............Some children were breast feeds with cow milk and they grew up to behave like one |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by Tgold1(m): 5:10pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
makelove2m: Hey Your Moniker Says ALl About You..... TheBlessedMAn, Don't Argue with this Man, just chillax for you Lane |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by makelove2m(m): 5:13pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
ROYH: the change we desire must come within.................... you will understand later in life.................. |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by TheBlessedMAN: 5:17pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
makelove2m:I will rather use my hard earned mb to download fat peoples porn Dan waste it while replying an adultic idiot like u......... U need to even show me ur certificate in foolishness b4 I can even contemplate on calling u one......... 1 Like |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by Nobody: 5:21pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
TheBlessedMAN:Nna Mehn! See How U Just Finish D Guy Pata Pata... Na So Them Go Dey Talk.. Maybe He Was Actually Breast-feeded With Pig's Milk... Hence The Gbegborunish Attitude. |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by TheBlessedMAN: 5:27pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
Mrlemuel:naso Jare my broda........ That's how dia jumong go go dey show face for Nija movie..... Who call am here self....... Mumuic mumu |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by ROYH(m): 9:29pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
Tgold1:thanks Bro, highly Appreciated |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by ROYH(m): 9:32pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
TheBlessedMAN:thanks Bro, I Got Your Scarcasim Brother |
Re: My Complicated Love Life (opinion Needed) by ROYH(m): 9:40pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
BEENUEL:no Be So, Na Just Matters Arising Show Packaging |
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