if you are sure dt God revealed to you then go back to Him and tell Him d difficulty you are passing thru. He shd also reveal it to d lady in question. Becos i wonder why He wud reveal ur wife to be to others and hasnt cared to do same to d people concern. Secondly dont act to desperate wen wooing her. See it as fun, dnt act as if ur life depend on her. Let her knw dt she is nt indispensible and dt u will always be fine with or without her. Lastly keep praying and serving God remember Matt 6:33, as u are serving God, He will add all this tings including wife.

truthsayer007:


Sista, don't worry...More than 6 Prophets have also prayed about her she's the Chosen One !

Pipu and their mumu sef ehn..no be here oh !

You're the mumu one here. Since you can't comprehend issues and respond to same with decorum and wisdom. I pity your ignorance

Amelian:



Lol... Abeg no vex oo
The Chosen one indeed... Lol
Make I no talk too much

You've made me laugh this morning..

But nice one.. Keep trying mumu

Best of luck...cheers

Can't you see you're devoid of meaningful and wise contributions to the issue at hand? Must you comment and thereby display your lack of morals and intelligence? Instead of you to learn as a child that you are, you're busy calling people names. What a pity!

kayzat:
Oga Man of God,


how are you so sure she's not in another relationship already ? no matter how much she maybe playing hard to get the moment you told her you are sick is the period she suppose to show relax herself and show some care. its not about coming to check on you personally but at least she should've asked for the nature of your sickness , what you have done already and what needs to be done then the next day she should've called .


I personally don't believe in all this prophecy and revelation of a thing because I have seen lots of prophecy gone wrong and someone close to is still suffering in a conman house because of some false prophecy and revelation.



My advice to you is to slow down , have some very deep thinking about this issue without applying any sentiment and let your senses guide your next move.

She's not in any relationship. She told me that categorically and I found out about that too myself. She has called me twice after I told her I am sick and she was mad at me I didn't tell her much earlier as she would have called me often, she asked what's the cause of the sickness, what I've used and who's taking care of me. Unfortunately I can't ignore my gifts, which are seeing visions, dreams and their interpretations and hearing of God's voice. It is because of my spiritual assignment on earth that I can't afford to marry anyhow lady out of flesh and sentiments. Who I marry is very crucial to whether I fulfil my God given purpose in life. Hence my going all spiritual about this.

yetseyi:
Why is everybody thinking she is not interested?

Loveprotocol just be patient, shes probably thinking about the proposal and trying to be careful, that's all.


If she is not she won't have called you up, in fact she wouldn't have tuned to your program not to talk of noticing you were absent. She may actually be doing serious checks on you now at least she too would have to pray about it since shes a spiritual person or do you expect her to go ahead based on your own confirmation? A lot of ladies do not just say yes to proposals of people they have not known well.

Just be patient joor, its not a big issue and please this one you say you guys don't have time for dates its not a good thing too. Even if its someone's wedding invite her. You can also go observe her in her church on a sunday You know more about people when you see them interacting with others.


I have heard stranger/more difficult stories and they are married happily.This one is small now.

Don't rush her, just let it flow she will come around.

May God grant you your heart desire bro.

God bless you my sister, I appreciate you. I have actually surprisingly showed up at her church one Sunday morning and I make bold to say that was one of the turning point in our 'relationship' so far. She was surprised to see me and because she was the Head of the Hospitality unit, she was the one that attended to first timers. She just smiled and asked me who invited me in a sarcastic manner and I said she's the one. That was the day I broke the ice cos she became more free with me, tried to give me her IV to enter a state function later in the evening when we met there (cos my IV was with someone coming late) and she surrendered her BlackBerry PIN to me that evening. As for dates, she is begging me to be patient with her on that. Maybe she's scared of what might happen when people must have seen us a couple of times on a date and then we are no longer an item. Just my thought.
I am no longer rushing her, in fact I've stopped calling and texting, she is the one doing that now even if it's not everyday.

jabojafa:
if you are sure dt God revealed to you then go back to Him and tell Him d difficulty you are passing thru. He shd also reveal it to d lady in question. Becos i wonder why He wud reveal ur wife to be to others and hasnt cared to do same to d people concern. Secondly dont act to desperate wen wooing her. See it as fun, dnt act as if ur life depend on her. Let her knw dt she is nt indispensible and dt u will always be fine with or without her. Lastly keep praying and serving God remember Matt 6:33, as u are serving God, He will add all this tings including wife.

Thanks bro, that's what I'm doing now. I've stopped chasing, calling and texting. I have handed everything over to God cos I hold on to the promise of God and His word which says the heart of the King is in the hands of God and he turneth and twisteth it as He pleases. So if she is the one, she will not rest until she comes around and accept me as her man even if I am not what she envisaged her husband to be. Trust me, no woman can marry me and regret it, even though I am not perfect

Loveprotocol:

God bless you my sister, I appreciate you. I have actually surprisingly showed up at her church one Sunday morning and I make bold to say that was one of the turning point in our 'relationship' so far. She was surprised to see me and because she was the Head of the Hospitality unit, she was the one that attended to first timers. She just smiled and asked me who invited me in a sarcastic manner and I said she's the one. That was the day I broke the ice cos she became more free with me, tried to give me her IV to enter a state function later in the evening when we met there (cos my IV was with someone coming late) and she surrendered her BlackBerry PIN to me that evening. As for dates, she is begging me to be patient with her on that. Maybe she's scared of what might happen when people must have seen us a couple of times on a date and then we are no longer an item. Just my thought.
I am no longer rushing her, in fact I've stopped calling and texting, she is the one doing that now even if it's not everyday.

If she's saying you should be patient be patient , I do think you should call her too. But not bombardment with calls oo.

I do understand the people seeing together and then if it doesn't work toungues will wag part especially church people

She knows your intention, you know your intention , You have done your part (the chasing/ expression of intention) just wait it out. Besides you can always talk to God about it since he's the one that led you.


Invite us to the wedding oo

Loveprotocol:


Can't you see you're devoid of meaningful and wise contributions to the issue at hand? Must you comment and thereby display your lack of morals and intelligence? Instead of you to learn as a child that you are, you're busy calling people names. What a pity!

You are the one who Lack morals and intelligence. And you claim to be a Pastor in the making. I laugh in Chinese..
U threw the first shot of calling. Me names, so I followed suit.. Why are you crying now... Better portray yourself as a good model than deceiving your self thinking u are called by God..

Prophet my foot.. Smhhh.

Amelian:




You are the one who Lack morals and intelligence. And you claim to be a Pastor in the making. I laugh in Chinese..
U threw the first shot of calling. Me names, so I followed suit.. Why are you crying now... Better portray yourself as a good model than deceiving your self thinking u are called by God..

Prophet my foot.. Smhhh.

Op please forget this lady that looks possessed by a marine spirit and focus on your life. Learn to ignore some nincompoops here on Nairaland. Be patient and see her reaction towards you over time. What will be will be. Cheers

doveweed:

Op please forget this lady that looks possessed by a marine spirit and focus on your life. Learn to ignore some nincompoops here on Nairaland. Be patient and see her reaction towards you over time. What will be will be. Cheers

Who Call your name?
U see your life, bloody nincompoop.. When people like u and your op starts with insults and u get it back in full cups.. Body go dey pepper una.

If u people want to be respected, respect yourselves first.
Wizards.

Loveprotocol:


Can't you see you're devoid of meaningful and wise contributions to the issue at hand? Must you comment and thereby display your lack of morals and intelligence? Instead of you to learn as a child that you are, you're busy calling people names. What a pity!

Just ignore, it's not every post that merits a reply and you should know why

Loveprotocol:
Please I need urgent, but wise and matured advice from men and women whether married or not.
I am a 31 year old, handsome, intelligent, hardworking highly connected and popular man, due to my profession.
I am also a good Christian who has a strong personal relationship with God, in fact a Prophet of God in the making. I am due for marriage, not only am I convinced it's time for that but even people have been disturbing me it's time to get off the bachelors list and settle down to raise a God fearing and happy family. So after praying seriously about this next major step, God answered my prayers and I met a beautiful 28 year old hard working lady in the line of duty. I got her contacts (she was reluctant to give me at first but I was very persuasive, I learnt from her colleagues that she never gives her digits to men), text and call her every single day. At first She never replied my texts and she rarely picks my calls until much later after we met. I met her early May and I told her about my genuine intentions on her birthday, which was 2 weeks after we met, I gave her a modest birthday gift too. She listened to all I had to say, smiling and laughing when I said I want her to be my wife and I was led by God to her.
It took more than 2 months for her to have a long conversation with me on phone as she always turns down any eat outs or dates. I understand the nature of her job though but she is an extremely private and cautious lady.
I had a major breakthrough in knowing her house in September (I had to tail her official car dropping her off at a junction close to her street so I parked beside her to pick her up and she took some convincing before agreeing). Since then I've been to her house just 3 times and each time I go with fruits and gifts. She offers me water or drinks and then we basically just talk about me cos she never shares anything about herself, all she does is to ask me about my age, religious background, past, plans and all that. The last time I went there she didn't want me to come but I went anyway, she was not at home but I sent a text that I'm waiting for her, she came later that night and I took time to explain once again my intentions and plans for marriage and raising a family. She listened attentively and said she has heard all I have said then told me not to buy her gifts every time I come but instead once in a while.
So I sent her a very deep text on October 18 about how much I love her and would want to have her as my wife and since then I stopped calling or texts or pinging. A week after she called me to say its been a while she heard from me and I told her I'm not feeling fine, she just said "okay we will talk later then" and she cut the call.
Now to the crux, i'm convinced this woman is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with but I don't even know much about her, I love her so much, but my female friends who are now married and a Pastor told me to leave her and stop communicating with her for a while, which I have started already, their argument is that, if she wants me and has been pretending since, she will come around and show me she is ready too. Mind you this is not the first time I would stop communicating with her for like 2 or 3 weeks, I've done this thrice, and whenever I do so, she will call at least once. Should I wait for her to come around? It's been 5 months of chasing her. Should I continue to keep my distance while praying for both of us? Please I need urgent but matured advice.

you have prayed and God have shown you,other men of God have also confirmed and you are still worried
smh and you call yourself a xtian

haggai247:

you have prayed and God have shown you,other men of God have also confirmed and you are still worried
smh and you call yourself a xtian

There's nothing wrong in seeking others opinions or what do you think? I have handed everything over to God anyway, I know He is a God that does everything perfect in His own time. Thanks all the same

Loveprotocol:

God bless you my sister, I appreciate you. I have actually surprisingly showed up at her church one Sunday morning and I make bold to say that was one of the turning point in our 'relationship' so far. She was surprised to see me and because she was the Head of the Hospitality unit, she was the one that attended to first timers. She just smiled and asked me who invited me in a sarcastic manner and I said she's the one. That was the day I broke the ice cos she became more free with me, tried to give me her IV to enter a state function later in the evening when we met there (cos my IV was with someone coming late) and she surrendered her BlackBerry PIN to me that evening. As for dates, she is begging me to be patient with her on that. Maybe she's scared of what might happen when people must have seen us a couple of times on a date and then we are no longer an item. Just my thought.
I am no longer rushing her, in fact I've stopped calling and texting, she is the one doing that now even if it's not everyday.

eh eh eh, see ds man o, tinz are falling in place now,wen everything becomes rossy, he won't remember his nairalanders again o....anyway I foresee a sweet union between both of you.....shalom

She already likes you and is just playing along with the IGG (Initial Gra Gra) principle. I hope you are not too fast to have quickly mentioned marriage to her, because you are supposed to consider a lot of things before you say the mega magic word to her.

All the same, keep her on your trail, go see her and get words out if her mouth because you have to know her, very important.

All the best

Oga Loveprotocol,

Sometimes this is not the best place to get counsel. I have read comments and I am really disturbed.

As far as I am concerned, you have seen your wife. I assure you she loves you more than you love her, her friend already confirmed that to you. She is only taking her time because of her past hurt. Please stay with her and assure her with whatever means you can, that she is yours.

Please do not be disheartened by some replies you got here, she is your wife, don't brood over some bad belle comments here, I beg you. Stay with her.

Sometimes, this is not the best place to get sound counsel, I tell you.

Please, I say it again, stay with her. She wants you to prove yourself beyond every reasonable doubt.

munezo:
Oga Loveprotocol,

Sometimes this is not the best place to get counsel. I have read comments and I am really disturbed.

As far as I am concerned, you have seen your wife. I assure you she loves you more than you love her, her friend already confirmed that to you. She is only taking her time because of her past hurt. Please stay with her and assure her with whatever means you can, that she is yours.

Please do not be disheartened by some replies you got here, she is your wife, don't brood over some bad belle comments here, I beg you. Stay with her.

Sometimes, this is not the best place to get sound counsel, I tell you.

Please, I say it again, stay with her. She wants you to prove yourself beyond every reasonable doubt.

Op listen to this advice. It's spot on.

confun:
eh eh eh, see ds man o, tinz are falling in place now,wen everything becomes rossy, he won't remember his nairalanders again o....anyway I foresee a sweet union between both of you.....shalom

You're funny bro. Thanks for your advice

Loveprotocol:


You're funny bro. Thanks for your advice

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