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How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Penaldo: 10:04am On Nov 16, 2016
So let’s start this out by establishing who I am, on a personality level. I am not a cheater at all. I can not stand people who cheat, they’re scum and should find the nearest cliff. When I was 15 my girlfriend at the time went to the fair and kissed my brother. My friend told me that night what had happened and I pointed to the ground and gave my GF a stern look and said “Come here.” when she came I told her to never contact me again and feel free to go kill herself. Yeah I am not like a lot of the beta male cucks on this site. I don’t try to fix a broke back b***h. Fast forward 7 years. I’ve gone to college for computer science and I’ve spent a ton of time learning coding and different information systems and make a killer living at it. I hook up with my future wife online discussing anime and we connect right off.

We date for a few years and are very happy with the few arguments here and there as one normally does. While we date I have a ton of potentials come at me, the aforementioned ex started texting and I rejected her, we had a party and while my ex slept 2 bi checks who were hot as hell were making out and inviting me over; no dice. I had a young Asian girl at my job begging for a backseat rumble but no. I hate cheaters and I refuse. Fast forward 9 years, nearly Xmas, nearly our 10th year anniversary. My wife and I are older but in our 30’s, we never wanted to get married but we did it for tax purposes since we’d been dating for years. We had no intention to have kids but we never used protection; only the pull out method, which worked for over a decade, but whoops.

My wife and I are ok but it’s boring, kid is a toddler and requires a lot of attention, and the sex life is non-existent. This, however, was a norm. What was not a norm was for my wife to not text me at night while I am at work, which was an alarm bell for me. Every time like with the ex, bi-checks, and Asian girl just to name a few I told her the next day so she was always worried about girls getting on me at night and would constantly text me. I started to get suspicious after the 2nd night her mother took the kid that she didn’t text me while at work. Being a computer genius and master tech expert in mobile technology I hooked up a few pin cams, ran a program I designed on her phone and computer to capture any text or pictures she took, and rigged a GPS to her car. Yes I know, a bit much, but I had every intention to remove everything if my hunch turned out to be wrong.

The night of shit-hitting-the-fan approaches and I monitor her while I am at work bouncing between spreadsheets and the program I am using to spy. I notice she is calling a number and I know the number as an ex, male, co-worker of hers. I watched her dirty ass texts flow constantly through facebook, saw the nudes be texted, and watched the GPS as her car took a trip at 3am to a little neighborhood. I was in a rage. I get off at 6am and I know that in my trunk is my 12 gauge I go hunting with and I know what I wanna hunt after work.

A friend of mine noticed my workload had stopped and that I looked like I was about to go postal. I told him exactly what was up and exactly what I wanted to do and thankfully, he stopped me. Even more thankfully is that my program saved everything and my friend informed me of a few facts I didn’t know about my state. In my state adultery is illegal and can impose up to a 5 year sentence for both parties, and both parties can be sued for quite the large sum. I went home, with a huge smile on my face, and woke my wife with a kick to the bed. I informed her of everything I knew and told her to get the hell out of my house. Told her to sign a divorce agreement immediately and she left instantly. While she was at her mom’s we argued and I basically told her we were going to have an agreement that the cars and house were mine, no alimony would be awarded, and no child support. If she tried I would file for police charges and have her and her bf drug through the system, would sue them both for every cent I could, and all the pictures and nasty messages I recorded would be paraded around for the world, her parents, and friends to see what a dirty b***h she was/is. This was my trump card and why I smiled the whole way home. I hadn’t mentioned to anyone why we were separated or why I kicked my wife and kid out of the house and all so I could carpet bomb her and keep everything we owned. She was always one who valued her perception in society above all else so, needless to say, she agreed.



If your wife cheats don’t be a beta male pu**y fa*. You waste your time and youth for someone you will never trust again. I am in my 2 story home, with my 3 sports cars, my full income unmolested, and I have a new smoking hot 27 year old Asian girlfriend… yes that one. Also just as a note of added detail I keep my divorce agreement in a frame next to my diploma to remind my new GF that I don’t tolerate that sh*t. I miss my kid but to be honest I am happier than I’ve been in almost 10 years. Divorce and cheating aren’t the end of the world but you will only recover when you eliminate the things from your life that are toxic.

Source: Palmchat User

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Onyenna(m): 10:53am On Nov 16, 2016
O bughi kwa obere akuko bu ihe a oooh!! Nke a toro ezigbo ogologo(mana aguchakwara m ya shaa).........

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Nobody: 11:31am On Nov 16, 2016
yesoooo
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Mimzyy(f): 12:22pm On Nov 16, 2016
Smh
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Berbierklaus(f): 12:35pm On Nov 16, 2016
You let your kid go probably even suffer because your wife cheated on you,probably because you neglected her shocked

Now I understand the meaning of the phrase [size=25pt]SPERM DONOR[/size]

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by TonyeBarcanista(m): 2:05pm On Nov 16, 2016
Forgiveness is a sin!


That's my guy
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by 5minsmadness: 2:59pm On Nov 16, 2016
What a crock of self-centered hateful shi.t!

But well, its what women do to men nowadays. No forgivenessfor cheating. She should go and suffer. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.


But for the time wasted in reading this crock of shi.t...
Mods, take this thread down angry

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by MystiqueReine(f): 4:02pm On Nov 16, 2016
undecided If you were my husband I would have shot you in the balls.I cant stand self-centered people msteeew

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Nobody: 4:22pm On Nov 16, 2016
5minsmadness:
What a crock of self-centered hateful shi.t!

But well, its what women do to men nowadays. No forgivenessfor cheating. She should go and suffer. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.


But for the time wasted in reading this crock of shi.t...
Mods, take this thread down angry

How is it doing you today? lipsrsealed
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by inemani: 4:54pm On Nov 16, 2016
What an article reeking of complete BS!

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by dangotesmummy: 5:17pm On Nov 16, 2016
Is this a thread? undecided

Somebody play me the hymn amazing grace how sweet the sound undecided
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by 5minsmadness: 5:46pm On Nov 16, 2016
PaperLace:


How is it doing you today? lipsrsealed

Its been two weeks embarassed
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Nobody: 7:11pm On Nov 16, 2016
5minsmadness:


Its been two weeks embarassed
May the Lord heal you. Hope you've taken drugs...lols.
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by ChessEnthusiast: 8:13pm On Nov 16, 2016
That's my nigga. That's how we roll..
Move, biatch..

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by sisisioge: 8:25pm On Nov 16, 2016
Omg! Oyinbos are the real sheetface! They slay without mercy when crossed! Chai! Poor woman. I hope she doesn't end up putting a bullet to his head...what a Capone he is to forrk with! Whew! Of course, no be say the woman did well...
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by megareal: 8:51pm On Nov 16, 2016
Guy is a peacock. Preening and congratulating himself. You stay in a dead marriage with non existent sex and expect your wife to remain a Virgin Mary?
I would have supported him if he wasn't too pompous ,egoistic and self centred.

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Penaldo: 9:38pm On Nov 16, 2016
[s]
MystiqueReine:
undecided If you were my husband I would have shot you in the balls.I cant stand self-centered people msteeew
megareal:
Guy is a peacock. Preening and congratulating himself. You stay in a dead marriage with non existent sex and expect your wife to remain a Virgin Mary?
I would have supported him if he wasn't too pompous ,egoistic and self centred.
[/s]Niggas don't put up with sh'ts. Only weaklings do.

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by 5minsmadness: 9:43pm On Nov 16, 2016
PaperLace:

May the Lord heal you. Hope you've taken drugs...lols.
This wan no be drug mata embarassed
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Fkforyou(m): 10:41pm On Nov 16, 2016
Ma Niggar... grin...Fvck whatever names all those hypocrite might call you. They might probably do worse than you if they were in your shoes. cool

The only interesting part about the article was that he didn't get to pay a dime to her. Asides that, I don't really think there was any need for the bitterness and I also think he still has to be in his child's life,making sure that the kid lacks nothing, because the child is completely innocent.

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by LastProphet: 11:11pm On Nov 16, 2016
the op is a small boy and inexperienced youth, so what is the big deal if a woman u been bonking for a decade begins to feel bored and goes out for a fling not done in ur face? and what is even all these fuss about cheating bla bla bla? what a stupiid post

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by cococandy(f): 6:35am On Nov 17, 2016
She only cheated on you with dead cold soul attitude? You're lucky. You deserve worse.

one wonders what she was even doing with you in the first place (minus the tax reasons). You don't even like your child much less love him/her.

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by 5minsmadness: 7:10am On Nov 17, 2016
cococandy:
She only cheated on you with dead cold soul attitude? You're lucky. You deserve worse.

one wonders what she was even doing with you in the first place (minus the tax reasons). You don't even like your child much less love him/her.

Surely you're not supporting the woman in this shocked

She cheated on him! Doesnt she deserve a fate worse than death? Isnt that what you preach ALL the time for cheating husbands even those that cheat only once?

Don't be hypocritical now.

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by cococandy(f): 7:13am On Nov 17, 2016
When did being hypocritical go out of fashion?

Is that not the normal thing to do?

5minsmadness:


Surely you're not supporting the woman in this shocked

She cheated on him! Doesnt she deserve a fate worse than death? Isnt that what you preach ALL the time for cheating husbands even those that cheat only once?

Don't be hypocritical now.

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by 5minsmadness: 7:44am On Nov 17, 2016
cococandy:
When did being hypocritical go out of fashion?

Is that not the normal thing to do?


Haaaaaaahahahahahaha!

Cococandy a confirmed hypocrite!
This is pure gold cheesy

So now you get to see the other side of the coin,
Not a pretty picture is it?
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by cococandy(f): 7:49am On Nov 17, 2016
Better to fully admit when you're playing the hypocrite than pretend you don't understand that is what you're doing. Even with multiple evidence in your face.
5minsmadness:


Haaaaaaahahahahahaha!

Cococandy a confirmed hypocrite!
This is pure gold cheesy

So now you get to see the other side of the coin,
Not a pretty picture is it?

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by 5minsmadness: 7:58am On Nov 17, 2016
cococandy:
Better to fully admit when you're playing the hypocrite than pretend you don't understand that is what you're doing. Even with multiple evidence in your face.

Well, what do you know. Good for you, ma'm. I'm so proud cry grin
Oya lemme leave u this morning. Busy day ahead smiley
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by cococandy(f): 8:01am On Nov 17, 2016
5minsmadness:


Well, what do you know. Good for you, ma'm. I'm so proud cry grin
Oya lemme leave u this morning. Busy day ahead smiley
Let's hope one day you will make me proud too. Ciao

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by KevinDein: 8:05am On Nov 17, 2016
This should fuccccking be a blue print for how real men should act in these situations. Let's fuccccking join the women in destroying the family system fast enough so we can all start all over again.

Dude in the story is a hero

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by aljharem(m): 8:28am On Nov 17, 2016
Good !!!
Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by Viking007(m): 8:53am On Nov 17, 2016
Penaldo:
[s][/s]Niggas don't put up with sh'ts. Only weaklings do.
You deserve a medal.

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Re: How To Win With Cheating: My Wife Cheated On Me by LoveDecay(m): 6:56am On Nov 19, 2016
Berbierklaus:
You let your kid go probably even suffer because your wife cheated on you,probably because you neglected her shocked

Now I understand the meaning of the phrase [size=25pt]SPERM DONOR[/size]

Why do cheating wives and women always claim they where neglected.

Look women cheat because they wanna f.ck not for some emotional reason. When men marry promiscuous young ladies - once they dont get it at home its easy for them to get it outside because ... they are comfortable with multiple partners.

Never heard of a faithful dedicated and committed wife and mother cheat.

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