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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by zeb04(f): 5:01pm On Nov 20, 2016
seriously at this stage of your life. all you need is certainty not some immature guy controlled by fleeting emotioons. not trying to be insultive. but i think you have pass that age.

i had to end my relationship because he was damn to immature and really,no time for that.

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 5:09pm On Nov 20, 2016
DarkRebel101:


Then why bring the issue on social media? For validation?

I am old enough to choose where I want to live and yet would like people's different perspectives on the choice that I will finally make.

I don't have a quarrel with women dating older men or with men dating older women, my only problem is with them getting married. It beggars belief when a twenty-something-year-old girl marries a sixty-something-year-old man. That's just gross. But then again, who am I to pass judgement, it's a free world.

Recently a girl called your sexual inclinations gross and you responded by calling her priggish. wink
I find so many things gross and yet I know that my taste is not an objectifiable criterium for how others should best live their lives.


But those of the same age grade are more apt to think alike. Why do you think parents don't understand their kids sometimes? Or why do you think what a fifty-year-old might consider the fashion du jour, a teenager would regard as passé?

Sometimes they are, sometimes they aren't. Sometimes people of different generations think alike, sometimes they don't.


She is mature, her boyfriend is immature – those are two polar opposites so why isn't she finding it interesting? Let's be honest, no one wants to share the rest of their lives with an opposite. An intellectual descendant of Archimedes would never go for a dümb Bimbo who probably thinks Napoleon Bonaparte is the name of a river in Africa.

So the premise that opposites sometimes attract is only valid if a person feels attracted to every person with whom she is on the opposite end of the spectrum relatively to one character trait? grin

I must feel attracted to liars because I am the sincere, honest type of person?

Wait, wait, ....

And if I do not feel attracted to someone who is very much like me relative to many traits and attitudes, then the premise that birds of the same feather flock together is absolutely invalid too?

By the way,

a few days ago you told someone that he should not complain that his girl does not know Donald Trump because not everyone must be interested in politics. Now it is necessary to know Bonaparte. Everyone must know history.



We all love those who share similar values e.t.c., and who are like us in the things that matter the most. The rule of opposite poles attracting exist in the world of magnets.

This is why many people get married to people way older. grin


You are here screaming Melania and she doesn't even know a lick about you. Attagirl! Maybe if you keep this up she might ask that you join her in her next nüde photo shoot in the White House since that's all she does all day anyway. grin

Irrelevant to the discussion whether she knows me or not. wink It's a pleasure knowing her. grin

I just don't understand why fame is thrusted upon those who don't merit in the least. If there's one thing I've learnt about life, it is that it's got jokes.

According to whose criteria?

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by missjo(f): 5:34pm On Nov 20, 2016
LOL, crazy stuff cheesy

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by missjo(f): 5:40pm On Nov 20, 2016
anitank:
I don't know why this always happens to me. It's either I'm single with no one saying hi or I have to choose between two people who want me at the same time. It's never in-between.

I met this guy who's just a year older than me (he's 29). He's a nice person with a really good heart but I have a little problem with the fact he's a bit immature. He's always on social media posting very irrelevant stuff, plays mind games with me, not always sure about his decisions and sees nothing wrong with breaking promises. And each time I complain, he thinks I'm overreacting. And even when he apologizes, he goes back to the same thing after a few days. But even with his flaws he has his great sides too. I was really skeptical at first dating someone within my age range because I know the maturity level always differs but I decided to give it a chance and not just assume things, afterall no one is perfect, not even myself. I really do like him but his behaviors gives me concerns. The last time we had a heated argument and I tried breaking up with him, he got really sick and hypertensive and had to take days off work to see a doctor. I had to make up with him. He specifically said he doesn't know if he'd survive if I ever left him.

Now my big sister introduced me to her friend's brother who is way older than I am (he's 40). He's very mature and patient, goes straight to the point, doesn't play any games. He pretty much knows what he wants. We've only spoken a couple of weeks and talked about variety of topics concerning life, family, work, dreams and aspirations etc and trust me nothing beats having a partner you're intellectually in sync with. And although things are not defined yet, you could easily tell where this is going.

The both men have absolutely nothing against me having a son (whose father died few months to our wedding four years ago). The younger guy particularly likes my boy a lot. Never goes a day without asking about him, bought him a game for his birthday and is currently asking what he wants for Christmas. The both men have also introduced me to their parents. I spoke with the younger guy's mum on the phone. The older one took me to his family home and I received a really warm welcome from them. None of us live in the same country but my job takes me around the world and I get to see them whenever I travel to the country they live.

Now this has nothing to do with money or even age but everything to do with me making the right decision and having peace of mind at the end of the day.

Bottom line is I like the younger guy and feel more attached to him and can tell he wants this to work out. He's always talking about having a road trip someday as a family with "our twins" and my son, but it's emotionally draining being with a "man-child" and don't know how long I can wait for him to realize that certain behaviors should be left for teenage boys. If I complain tomorrow, the usual tagline would be "did you not see all those behavior but you stayed thinking he'd change?". At a crossroad now and need a tough-love kinda advice but please don't roast me.

Thanks in advance

This entire post sublimely reveals you're clearly biased towards the older man. You tried very hard to mask it but I can still sense it. tongue

I have a feeling you prefer the 40yr old guy. cheesy
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by ipain: 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2016
anitank:

I don't grin

On a more serious note though, I know exactly what I want and it happens to be the younger guy. But my issue here is about his childish acts, poor decision making, always avoiding serious conversations. How do I cope with such? I don't want to change him or nag him into thinking I'm unbearable. But how long should I wait for him to grow?

1. Poor decision making like?

2. Serious conversations like?

Look, if you really need help. you have to give as much details as possible. At the moment, you are not doing that which isn't helping either you or those whom you seek advise from.
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2016
Mindfulness:

I am old enough to choose where I want to live and yet would like people's different perspectives on the choice that I will finally make

From what I could cold-read, she already has her mind set on the older man, all she wants is the reassuring feeling which the pats of validation brings upon an uncertain back.

...

The weight of choosing where to live is largely incommensurate with that of choosing a life partner. Apples and cucumbers, Mindy. Completely different. grin

Why is it that you never bring any of your relationship issue(s) to social media so you could get different perspectives?


Recently a girl called your sexual inclinations gross and you responded by calling her priggish wink

Except she was actually priggish. She was unnecessarily sanctimonious – a stock-in-trade of priggish people. There is a reason the word ‘priggish’ exists and its ‘cause we have people who are priggish. She was priggish! Who cringes at the word bidet for Chrissake? SMH. grin


I find so many things gross and yet I know that my taste is not an objectifiable criterium for how others should best live their lives.

Re-read my post(s), I never claimed my suggestion was absolute or a divine mandate—what I said was that I don't think the old man is the best option for her, then I stated my reasons as well.


Sometimes they are, sometimes they aren't. Sometimes people of different generations think alike, sometimes they don't.

Most times they aren't alike. You must have loved to play musical chairs as a kid – you keep eddying round and round the truth without admitting it, even when it's axiomatic.


So the premise that opposites sometimes attract is only valid if a person feels attracted to every person with whom she is on the opposite end of the spectrum relatively to one character trait? grin

I must feel attracted to liars because I am the sincere, honest type of person?

Not all character traits but the one(s) that stands out the most, which in her boyfriend's case is his immaturity.

Reductio ad absurdum is never the best way to argue.


Wait, wait, ....
And if I do not feel attracted to someone who is very much like me relative to many traits and attitudes, then the premise that birds of the same feather flock together is absolutely invalid too?

People don't go sussing out for someone who are the diametric opposite of themselves, especially when they want to settle down.
I know they say some good girls are attracted to bad guys, but that's all it ever is – girls, not women; teenagers, not adults.

This is a pointless argument—people always want to settle down with people who are like-minded. That it doesn't eventually happen doesn't mean they wouldn't change it if it were in their power.


By the way,

a few days ago you told someone that he should not complain that his girl does not know Donald Trump because not everyone must be interested in politics. Now it is necessary to know Bonaparte. Everyone must know history.

Descendant of Archimedes = metaphor for intelligent people.

Bimbo who thinks Bonaparte is the name of an African river = metaphor for unintelligent people.

I'm surprised you missed the figurative connotations.


This is why many people get married to people way older grin.

Not why.


Irrelevant to the discussion whether she knows me or not. wink It's a pleasure knowing her grin.

You were the one who brought the irrelevancy in the first place when you tried to use her(Melania's) happiness as benchmark to grade those of women married to older men -- as if you know what goes on behind the iron curtains of the Trump's home, or what goes on in Melania's mind.

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 6:23pm On Nov 20, 2016
missjo:

This entire post sublimely reveals you're clearly biased towards the older man. You tried very hard to mask it but I can still sense it. tongue

I have a feeling you prefer the 40yr old guy. cheesy

Aha! Just when I thought I was the only high-functioning mentalist on this forum.

Her partiality for the older man reeks like an unwashed foot even though she sought to make it as imperceptible as the susurration of blood.

Despite your foibles and quirks, you do have a keen eye... and some little sense too. grin
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by missjo(f): 6:28pm On Nov 20, 2016
DarkRebel101:


Aha! Just when I thought I was the only high-functioning mentalist on this forum.

Her partiality for the older man reeks like an unwashed foot even though she sought to make it as imperceptible as the susurration of blood.

Despite your foibles and quirks, you do have a keen eye... and some little sense too. grin

You just insulted me and someone I care about the other day, now you want to be friendly? tongue

You have little sense too, just that you try too hard. tongue

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by ipain: 6:36pm On Nov 20, 2016
InformedLola:
Thing is, the younger guy has shown you his negatives while Mr. Matured hasn't (is he doing a damn good job of hiding them?), so there's really no basis for comparison.

There's nothing like a perfect guy and I personally am always more worried about people whose flaws I don't know. I want to know your flaws and decide if I can live with them.

Before you make your choice, dig deeper into Matured Guy (you could even try doing things to provoke him to express his other side).

By the way, the fact he's never been married at his age (as he claims) is a major Alarm Bell. And the 'vague' reason he gave makes it worse. You really need to probe deep.
You are the only one that has spoken wisely among the ladies on here. I know for certain that those ish about the 29 dude will certainly wane off.

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2016
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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 6:43pm On Nov 20, 2016
DarkRebel101:


Re-read my post(s), I never claimed my suggestion was absolute or a divine mandate—what I said was that I don't think the old man is the best option for her, then I stated my reasons as well.


The only reason that you stated was his age and from there you deduced that he wasn't a good choice because 'she must find someone who thinks alike'.

I guess you missed the part where she said that:

He's very mature and patient, goes straight to the point, doesn't play any games. He pretty much knows what he wants. We've only spoken a couple of weeks and talked about variety of topics concerning life, family, work, dreams and aspirations etc and trust me nothing beats having a partner you're intellectually in sync with. And although things are not defined yet, you could easily tell where this is going.


So your 'find someone who thinks alike' advice has already been realized because they are 'intellectually in sync' to the point that she considers dropping the relationship with the hyperventilating boy. grin


You even labeled her desperate although you didn't even take your time to read her initial contribution properly hence you thought he was 25 years older and erroneously implied that they do not think alike when what she said is that they are 'intellectually in sync'.

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 6:46pm On Nov 20, 2016
missjo:

You just insulted me and someone I care about the other day, now you want to be friendly? tongue

So you're finally admitting that that someone you care about is why you were balls-out tailing me around like a bounty hunter? LOL. Like I didn't know the first minute I read your profile.

Making a post on that movie thread confirmed my suspicions because you had never commented on that thread before. To the average observer it's a coincidence, to the trained observer it's an aberration.

I'm sorry, girl, but that person you care about is/was an immature jerk. tongue He didn't even know how people communicated over long distance in ancient Oyo empire; he claimed they wrote their messages on sand—so you should understand why I called him a twenty-dollar charlatan with a big mouth.

I'm not trying to be friendly with you. grin I was only complimenting your deductive skills.


You have little sense too, just that you try too hard. tongue

I don't try too hard. It's natural and trust me, I try to descend several stations because many folks here can't keep up. Not to brag, but what you think is my peak is only my beginning.

You're just intimidated and maybe even influenced by the words of that fellow you say you care about—none of which am I the least bothered about. smiley
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by EfemenaXY: 8:38pm On Nov 20, 2016
@op, it all depends on what you want.

The way I see it, if you like living life on the fast lane, then the young man will take you round the world faster than the speed of sound.

If you want a down-to-earth, solid, reliable partner who in your words gets straight to the point with no mind games, then go for the older man.

I'd personally choose stability and peace of mind every day over uncertainty and potential heartbreak.

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by missjo(f): 1:20pm On Nov 21, 2016
DarkRebel101:


So you're finally admitting that that someone you care about is why you were balls-out tailing me around like a bounty hunter? LOL. Like I didn't know the first minute I read your profile.

Making a post on that movie thread confirmed my suspicions because you had never commented on that thread before. To the average observer it's a coincidence, to the trained observer it's an aberration.

I'm sorry, girl, but that person you care about is/was an immature jerk. tongue He didn't even know how people communicated over long distance in ancient Oyo empire; he claimed they wrote their messages on sand—so you should understand why I called him a twenty-dollar charlatan with a big mouth.

I'm not trying to be friendly with you. grin I was only complimenting your deductive skills.



I don't try too hard. It's natural and trust me, I try to descend several stations because many folks here can't keep up. Not to brag, but what you think is my peak is only my beginning.

You're just intimidated and maybe even influenced by the words of that fellow you say you care about—none of which am I the least bothered about. smiley
One question:
What are you trying to prove to yourself? grin

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 1:33pm On Nov 21, 2016
missjo:

One question:
What are you trying to prove to yourself? grin

MissMOJO, how are you today? grin

I'm not trying to prove anything.
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by missjo(f): 1:40pm On Nov 21, 2016
DarkRebel101:


MissMOJO, how are you today? grin

I'm not trying to prove anything.
Well everyone tries to prove something to themselves. Don't get defensive. grin
That they can be a better person,nicer person, meaner person, emotionless person, strong person, richer person etc. The list is endless.

What's yours on Nairaland? tongue

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by drnoel: 1:43pm On Nov 21, 2016
harbibi:
Go for the older guy.

Guy reading in between lines could save u lots of headache. The story is incomplete ans hence advice would be improper. There are many unanswered questions. Still any advice given u would probably go down the drain cos from ur post u have already chosen but want us to confirm it for u.
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 1:46pm On Nov 21, 2016
missjo:

Well everyone tries to prove something to themselves. Don't get defensive. grin

It's a good thing I'm not everyone.


That they can be a better person,nicer person, meaner person, emotionless person, strong person, richer person etc. The list is endless.

What's yours on Nairaland? tongue

None for me.

...

Tell the girl on your profile to close her legs...AIDS is real! grin
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by missjo(f): 1:49pm On Nov 21, 2016
DarkRebel101:


It's a good thing I'm not everyone.



None for me.

...

Tell the girl on your profile to close her legs...AIDS is real! grin
LOL.
AIDS is what they use to scare young people from having sex in underdeveloped countries, not for me. cool

You sure you're not trying to prove nothing? cheesy
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 1:54pm On Nov 21, 2016
missjo:

LOL.
AIDS is what they use to scare young people from having sex in underdeveloped countries, not for me. cool

Spoken like a true sex-addict. grin


You sure you're not trying to prove nothing? cheesy

You are the mentalist here, you were able to figure out that the OP was biased towards the forty-year-old man by reading in between the obscure lines, so you tell me, what do you think I'm trying to prove? I'm all ears. cool
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by missjo(f): 5:36pm On Nov 21, 2016
DarkRebel101:


Spoken like a true sex-addict. grin
I'm soo NOT a sex addict. cheesy


You are the mentalist here, you were able to figure out that the OP was biased towards the forty-year-old man by reading in between the obscure lines, so you tell me, what do you think I'm trying to prove? I'm all ears. cool
I think I'll just use my mentalism in another (much more interesting) way.

Answer this:
If you had to sleep nakēd in the middle of a beautiful woman and an attractive gay guy, who would you turn your back to?
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by harbibi: 6:41pm On Nov 21, 2016
drnoel:


Guy reading in between lines could save u lots of headache. The story is incomplete ans hence advice would be improper. There are many unanswered questions. Still any advice given u would probably go down the drain cos from ur post u have already chosen but want us to confirm it for u.
abeg wetin you dey talk about? abi you quote the wrong person? recheck your post please.
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 9:51pm On Nov 21, 2016
missjo:

I'm soo NOT a sex addict. cheesy

I guess we'll just have to find out.


I think I'll just use my mentalism in another (much more interesting) way.

Answer this:
If you had to sleep nakēd in the middle of a beautiful woman and an attractive gay guy, who would you turn your back to?

LOL. SMH. Really, this is what you can ask? grin

I would face the beautiful woman trusting that my black äss is unattractive to the gay guy. What will you have me do? grin
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by missjo(f): 10:21pm On Nov 21, 2016
DarkRebel101:


I guess we'll just have to find out.
You'll just have to take my word for it, there's nothing for WE to find out. cheesy


LOL. SMH. Really, this is what you can ask? grin

I would face the beautiful woman trusting that my black äss is unattractive to the gay guy. What will you have me do? grin
That you're willing to gamble your backside away on the gay guy's level of restraint which you can't be sure of is just hilarious and revealing tongue
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 12:20am On Nov 22, 2016
missjo:

You'll just have to take my word for it, there's nothing for WE to find out. cheesy

Don't be so certain, girl, -- many frienemies usually end up torquing beneath the bed sheets. It's the hottest thing ever!

"And from the ashes of antagonism shall a Phoenix of oneness and love arise”Darkrebel tongue


That you're willing to gamble your backside away on the gay guy's level of restraint which you can't be sure of is just hilarious and revealing tongue

The gay man would most likely not make a move with the woman there, and I'm not a heavy-sleeper so my mind's ear would still be very much alert to the happenings around me.

If the gay fellow tries anything funny he would be getting karate-chopped before he even gets a chance to blink.

Yours is a catch-22 question – there is no right or wrong answer.

Can I ask my own trick question?
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 10:30am On Nov 22, 2016
BoboYekini:
My candid advice? Look to snag a higher status man. Neither of these two men will cut it. You're already scarred and way too picky and calculative/manipulative. Not entirely your fault, but it is what it is.
This is why in the old days, women were married off before they became too old (in years and in experience). Then they become like the dry wood - wizened and inflexible.

So true cheesy
Now wondering the kind of wood I am now
Mahogany, sandalwood, oak, orange, bamboo? I would hate to be gmelina (I don't even know if there's anything like this, I always doubted my teachers on the name and spelling of this tree...in my mind...as a child...but I mean one tree with green to brown, inedible fruits that smelled so bad angry...okay I am gonna check if there is a tree like this...I always felt my primary school teachers had to come up with a suitable name for such an unlikeable fruit/tree lipsrsealed...Gggmelina (aarrgh).
Major digress (I am sorry!). Okay, then there is bitter kola tongue....dogonyaro, other trees. I would want to be orange wood shaa...that is me, Mz Orange, lol. I will stop now

Back to your submission?.. I really think it is positively liberating....I got the feel that your "wizened and inflexible" was a reprimand/laced with disapproval, no?
There is really such a thing as one loving their solitude and single state, it always is nice when one sees couples or other peoples' kids...you go like "aawww" and admire their courage, sense of responsibility and being grown-ups and all ...then the sheer relief when one enters their room...to flop on their bed, and eat cake and coffee ...and read all day....alone bliss
(Forgive my mad-ness, I dunno why @ all the rambling cheesy)


Modified- there IS gmelina, and apparently it is medicinally-edible, and has "more appealing", other names, I still hate it...that smell...Jeez
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by TV01(m): 11:48am On Nov 22, 2016
...by all means muse away. In a sense, that's what we all do up in here. BoboYekini chose red grin

The emphasis I believe is not on the genus of wood, but on the dryness. Men desire succulent fruit, not timber. And it wasn't a reprimand, or disapproval as such, but a cold, hard, naked (unemotional), piece of advice, based on male female, dynamics and the specifics the OP mentioned.

Muse, digress, ramble and modify all you like. It sure beats the mostly "canned" stuff that seems to prevail here.


TV
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 1:30pm On Nov 22, 2016
merahki:

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A kindred soul smiley. I hated the smell too.
@TV01, correct on all counts sire.

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Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 1:43pm On Nov 22, 2016
TV01:
...by all means muse away. In a sense, that's what we all do up in here. BoboYekini chose red grin

The emphasis I believe is not on the genus of wood, but on the dryness. Men desire succulent fruit, not timber. And it wasn't a reprimand, or disapproval as such, but a cold, hard, naked (unemotional), piece of advice, based on male female, dynamics and the specifics the OP mentioned.

Muse, digress, ramble and modify all you like. It sure beats the mostly "canned" stuff that seems to prevail here.


TV


Hello
You have to tell me what Bobo choosing red means...I can be really slow
I know @ men and succulence and genus(es)? and timber and etc.... even so, I was/am looking for a tree that is dry AND fragrant to capture the essense of me cheesy tongue.....I am mostly stubborn (is that inflexible? lipsrsealed) but I like to think it is charming, even endearing to the right people...a woman can have her delusions after all (shrugs)
Now, I suddenly have an unknown perfume fragrance in my head....based on the above
Next time I get to duty-free, I am camping there till I get the right scent lipsrsealed

It would be hard to believe I am not mad eh? I amaze myself sometimes too....Merahki Rambles, at your service
I need to log out, drink coffee, go out, or all. Now shocked
Cheers (and thank you)


Modify- you mean redwood? Told you I was slow....if not that, please lemme know
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by chriskosherbal(m): 2:45pm On Nov 22, 2016
Ishilove:
The heart wants what it wants...don't ever go into marriage thinking you can change a person.

Your heart wants the younger guy and I think his age is playing a role in his immaturity (although I know many men of his age who are way more mature in behaviour and outlook), but are you willing to stay and wait for him to grow up? His blood is still hot so you'll have to wait for it to cool down.

The older man is calmer and the way he will handle issues and you will be vastly different from your chewing gum bae. Mr Older is like a steady rock who has seen things and is wiser in the ways of life, but if you can't be with a much older man then stop showing him the green light so he can focus his affections elsewhere.

Our preferences differ, but personally I prefer the older man, buts it's your life, your decision.

Above all, pray for divine wisdom to make the right choice to the glory of God.
agree
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by missjo(f): 5:50pm On Nov 22, 2016
DarkRebel101:


Don't be so certain, girl, -- many frienemies usually end up torquing beneath the bed sheets. It's the hottest thing ever!

"And from the ashes of antagonism shall a Phoenix of oneness and love arise”Darkrebel tongue
LOL. You don't give up! Beneath the sheets? shocked cheesy cheesy
We haven't even got to that point where I would consider you a 'friend'. Remember my god (as you called him)? grin
It's obvious you don't like him and I know he doesn't care if you live or die,lol. So why are you even hitting on me considering the conflict of interests? cheesy

I know exactly what you're doing and I hope you know that I can see through it. tongue

The gay man would most likely not make a move with the woman there, and I'm not a heavy-sleeper so my mind's ear would still be very much alert to the happenings around me.

If the gay fellow tries anything funny he would be getting karate-chopped before he even gets a chance to blink.

Yours is a catch-22 question – there is no right or wrong answer.

Can I ask my own trick question?
Shoot! smiley
Re: Between An Immature Young Guy And An Older Man by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 22, 2016
missjo:

LOL. You don't give up! Beneath the sheets? shocked cheesy cheesy

I'm a mechanical bull armed with the mental toughness of an assassin trained by the League Of Shadows.

I consider one of my sterling qualities to be doggedness...and willpower.

So babe, gird up ‘cause you're in for a long and bumpy ride of awesomeness. cheesy


We haven't even got to that point where I would consider you a 'friend'.

Do I have to buy you a candy? A tiara? Take you out for a nice dinner? Give you a chaste kiss until your cheeks are smitten with weights of a smarting dimple? Or do I need to go for broke by giving you a Donald-Trumpalingus? grin

What must I do for the pinpricks of both our past misdemeanors to evaporate into the cold, anonymous embrace of nothingness?


Remember my god (as you called him)? grin
It's obvious you don't like him and I know he doesn't care if you live or die,lol.

Yup, I don't like him one bit.

And you're wrong, he does care whether I live or die -- if I give him one mention, he would give me twenty even though I snob them all. That or he lacks self-control.


So why are you even hitting on me considering the conflict of interests? cheesy

There is no conflict of interests here, unless you two are screwing offline? grin — which I highly doubt. cheesy


I know exactly what you're doing and I hope you know that I can see through it. tongue

Of course, you've got X-ray vision. grin


Shoot! smiley

Well, it's not a trick question, just some interesting pun I saw written on a guy's shirt some months ago.

How do you like your eggs? Poached? Fried? Or fertilized? tongue

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