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Izen:
I don't like to look because like everyone else I have my likes and dislikes. If that makes me lazy, then so be it. Just realize that some people would rather clean, wash than cook and vice versa. Women were not born with genes to love cooking. We are societally conditioned to love it but some of us just never get there. So cut us some slack and try to be empathetic. If you don't love to do something but you're forced to do it, you would see it as a big deal and that is okay.

Baby, try learn how to cook.. ..it's an art and you have so much to gain

DarkRebel101:
Happy cooking...

Bro, I'm with you all the way. The worst part for me is when you hear a guy saying "I cant do groceries". Not only because males generally hate shopping, but because he wouldn't know what to buy.

This would be a person who says thank you when given a plate, picks up a spoon to feed, tastes the food and even has a favourite dish.

Until we reported our big brother for bullying us . Rest his naughty self

Naijaboiy1:
[color=#1980BC]Your dad should be the first pig brained male.

Cretin! [/color]

El tortuga. E pain am

What is the point of being a woman if you cant do what other women do. Should men share your responsibility to conceive as well. You either know how to do it or not. If you marry a man who does and is willing to help fine.

kaboninc:
Baby, try learn how to cook.. ..it's an art and you have so much to gain

Please read my comment again. It's so exhausting when people can't differentiate "I don't like to cook" from "I don't know how to cook". Cooking is a basic life skill everyone should learn. So yes, I know how to cook. I just don't like to cook.

Timbuktuo:
Is there any man you know anywhere who was born with genes to provide?

Let's not pretend like you guys do the providing alone lol. That's the biggest lie you can tell yourself.

Izen:
Let's not pretend like you guys do the providing alone lol. That's the biggest lie you can tell yourself.

Should we now pretend that you women do the cooking alone, then? Or do you want to now lie that men do not cook?

Timbuktuo:
Should we now pretend that you women do the cooking alone, then? Or do you want to now lie that men do not cook?

At least we agree on something. So why do you guys like to argue that you cannot enter kitchen? *yimu*

Izen:
At least we agree on something. So why do you guys like to argue that you cannot enter kitchen? *yimu*

Guys saying they cannot enter the kitchen or cooking isn't their primary responsibility? *gemu

This is such a truism and a fact I often bring to the fore when given the opportunity.
I remember attending a program and we were asked to introduce ourselves and also state our hobbies. I stated my hobbies and was about to continue when a man asked me why cooking was not stated as part of my hobbies. His wife had earlier introduced herself and included cooking as one of her hobbies. I categorically told him that I cook for my family but it is not a hobby. He looked disappointed (I don't know in who or what...lol).My husband was not around to state his own position and even state that cooking/baking is his hobby. He could just buy ingredients and decide to bake fruit bread or even bake with dates. The kitchen is like a lab to him.
There are many instances he takes it on himself to cook. When in the hospital after delivering my first child, the nutritionist suggested that I should take vegetables to enable me lactate. Even though his mum was available to assist, he went home to prepare the vegetable himself. How sweet and caring. I felt loved indeed.