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| Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
A friend need my honest answer but i need your honest answer too to be able to give him my final advise: " I have never slept with a woman (have sexual intercourse). But i know, i had lusted and mastubated, kissed and cuddle with a lady. Am i still a virgin? " Backing with references from the Bible will be appreciated. Thanks. |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Lol. Sexually you're a virgin but your mind is not a virgin. So yes you are. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Uyi168: 1:55pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
3 things that are over-rated in this part of the world:
virginity,
sex,
and having kids. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
RadicallyBlunt:Thanks for the respond |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
NehemiahM:No you are not a virgin. You imagined having sex with a woman and you physically performed the sexual act so how are you still a virgin? But if it will make you feel better, yes you are a virgin  |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by jonbellion(m): 6:14pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Pidgin2:yes he is As long as he didn't have sex |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
jonbellion:Really? But he was masturbating, what was he thinking of while doing it? People have sex with all kinds of things, he chose to have sex with an image in his mind so how does that make him a virgin? If he had sex with a goat would he still be a virgin? |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by jonbellion(m): 6:21pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Pidgin2:lol with the goat obviously not. But the point is he didn't actually have sex Unless you want to tell me he can get his hand pregnant Or his hand is a separate being |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by EyeHateGod: 6:23pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
A man is a Virgin till the Day he dies it doesn't matter if he has slept with 100 women he still remains a virgin And by the way how do we confirm virginity for males? |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by jonbellion(m): 6:26pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
EyeHateGod:  |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by jonbellion(m): 6:27pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
EyeHateGod:lol if the dude confirms it himself Na I guess If he's tasted a woman Or a mans butthole Or any living thing that catches his fancy sexually 1 Like |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by EyeHateGod: 6:34pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
jonbellion:That's the point.. |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
jonbellion:Lol, he cannot impregnate a goat either. Yes, actually he is having sex with the image in his mind. |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by hopefulLandlord: 6:40pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
there's no virginity test for men, I might be wrong |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by jonbellion(m): 6:45pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Pidgin2:lol it's not sex oooooo He had sex with a goat He had sex with his hand Which one is actually sex? |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
jonbellion:Both. Yes, sadly, people do have sex with their hands. |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by jonbellion(m): 6:51pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Pidgin2:*groaaaaaaaaan* *frustrated sigh* |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
jonbellion:  hehe |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Pidgin2:Pls just say the truth, dont appease me. He never penetrated a woman (that's sexual intercourse). Yes, mastubation and lust are kinds of sex, but since he never penetrated a lady, he should be considerd a virgin! *let the discussion continues |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
EyeHateGod:Sorry dude, if that's the case, what then is virginity? Dont know yet how to confirm virginity in males. |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Ezzyk94(m): 8:27pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
[quote author=NehemiahM post=51399833 but since he never penetrated a lady, he should be considerd a virgin! Guy na lie..... As long as he has spilled his seed whether with woman or not he's no more a virgin, he already knows how it feels when having an orgasm compare to someone who does not have a clue about it. |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
This may help, when i searched the following words in google, see the results: #1. "What is the meaning of virgin? " Ans. virgin - /ˈvəːdʒɪn/ noun 1. a person who has never had sexual intercourse. 2. a person who is naive, innocent, or inexperienced in a particular context. #2. "What is the meaning of sexual intercourse? " Ans. sexual intercourse noun 1. sexual contact between individuals involving penetration, especially the insertion of a man's erect penis into a woman's vagina, typically culminating in orgasm and the ejaculation of semen. #3. "What is the meaning of sex? " Ans. sex - /sɛks/ noun 1. (chiefly with reference to people) sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse. NB: sexual activity #4. "What is the meaning of sexual activity"? Ans. Noun, 1. sexual activity - activities associated with sexual intercourse; "they had sex in the back seat". sex, sex activity ... From the above results, to be a virgin is NOT having sexual intercourse (physical penetration of penis into vigina). But give my own conclusion, i categories virgins into two: 1. Physical virgin 2. Spiritual virgin Physical virgins are those never had SEXUAL INTERCOURSE ( check the meaning above). While Spiritual Virgins are those who never involve in sex(check the meaning above) and sexual activity (check the meaning above). SUMMARY: For this question, he is physically a virgin but spiritually not a virgin. Advice and encourage him to continue without involving into sexual intercourse and ask God to have mercy on him for involving in mastubation, lust and thoughts that leads to sex. God bless you! |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Nawa o |
| Re: Am I A Virgin? by hopefulLandlord: 9:24pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Ezzyk94:does wet dream also apply? since he'll "spill seeds" too |
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